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18 December 2007: You never know what you say or what you do can impact someones life in one way or another. In my 32 yrs i've never got joyful feed back on the stuff ive wrote on this web site.So many time we dont even know some where in this world we have impacted...
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21 September 2007: Ther are so many life lessons ive learned threw the years like what it does carrying you drunk dad threw the streets trying to get him home. Feeling embarresed what people were gonna say about your dad. Getting drunk saying i hate you all at the age ...
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Why do I feel like I'm in the wrong group of friends?
Q. HEYY!!!! again lotmoney13!!!!!anyways i dunno why but this question is a lot diffrent from my usual romance questions. So lately i dunno why but, i've been doubting some of my friendships and i need advice. So some of my friends and i like doing...
A. 16 January 2009: Let me start off by saying you are who you are by you changing to them to fit in makes you fake.Ive had manny friends growing upthey did stuff i didnt feel right doing and always got bagged on. But threw all those years i never changed who i was ... (read in full...)
He wants me to stay single, but he's taken?
Q. He got mad at me when I got a boyfriend. I gave him opportunities, but he said that he can't.He must don't like me. But when I try to hug him, he says, "Can' get too close to youcause that vibe I got for you." He hugs a lot of girls, but not me. ...
A. 16 January 2009: Seems like he wants to run your life not good he can have a girlfriend and gets mad cause you got one.Its funny we all want what we cant have thats why you feel how you feel.Hes player the i dont like to get hurt card sheeesh who does if didnt like ... (read in full...)
Old flames meeting up again wanting fun but nothing serious... any harm in that?
Q. thro' the wonder/monster that is social network websites, I have just got back in contact with an old ex. He is an old flame only, a steamy college romance that petered out and it was never a serious relationship or anything but the chemistry was ...
A. 16 January 2009: Its only harmful if you let it of course your gonna think back to when you guys where together DUH im pretty sure you loved each other and where intamite you cant deny the compation and love you guys had and still might have you cant turn it on and ... (read in full...)
Shy and afraid...
Q. hi, I am male 19 years old and never been in a relationship and this represents a huge problem for me and in my self confedence. I am shy with girls and got nervous when dealing with them, I am afraid and don't have the courage to talk to a girl, ...
A. 16 January 2009: Dont feel bad i was like that growing up i was shy and afraid of girls not because i didnt like them but just really afraid of rejection.Just be yourself nobody want a pake person to many people try to get girls by acting like some one there not you ... (read in full...)
My pregnant wife is making me not want to be with her!
Q. well im 21 years old,and my wife is 19.we became parents at an early age.i was 18 and she was 16.ive been married for a year but dating for about 5 years.we have a 2 year old and we have a baby on the way.we really dont have sex and were constantly ...
A. 5 November 2008: Ive been there i bet it was all good in the begining it always is sex like rabbits nice to each other age has alot to do with it you guys are young and you guys got two kids together and you guys love each other look at it this way the only reason ... (read in full...)
I am never in the mood although initially the sex was great! What to do to improve the situation?
Q. I have been in a relationship for 4 years with my fiance john, I love him very much and I am still attracted to him. When we first started dating we had a great sex life but now I just dont feel like it (I hardly ever feel sexually aroused anymore). ...
A. 28 February 2008: WOW I'm going through the same thing with my wife I feel like I bore her and she does it for me and I do hurt her some times during sex, we used to have mad crazy sex when we first dated by now I feel like she's bored with me. I've been her only ... (read in full...)
I'm 12 and upset that there are so many in my grade that are already having sex. I'm worried about everyone and I didn't think I would have this drama till high school. What should I do?
Q. I'll try to make this short. Ok, i'm worried and kinda just upset. i'm 12 in 7th grade and I already know about 8 people in my grade who have had sex and gotten drunk. One of them used to be a good friend of mine who actually lost their virginity ...
A. 28 December 2007: Dont rush your still young be different be a leader not a follower the people you know doing this have no respect for themselves you should at your age that should be the least of youe worrys focus on school and your education not what the people ... (read in full...)
16, My parents aren't speaking to eachother because of me. Can I get a place of my own?
Q. dear cupid im currently having problems with my parents as they are not speaking to each other because of me. this started today when they made me go college and i didnt want to, so i ended up shouting and screaming at them and saying stuff i d...
A. 21 December 2007: Your parents want the best for you.You think it will all go away if you move out and everything will be better NOT it wont.Take advantage of the oppertunitys you got as a young teenager because when your out on your own your gonna wish your were ... (read in full...)
Help! I'm 14 and my girlfriend is pregnant!
Q. Hi ,i am 14 years old and i am concerned that my girlfriendis pregnant. she was a virgin as i had sex before. We dident use protection and now she is 3 months pregnant. Web dont know how to tell our parents as they will both go mad with us. She has ...
A. 21 December 2007: Wow dude its time to grow up fast welcome to adult life.Let me give you some advice dont be like all the dead beat dads you made your bed now you gotta sleep in it.As a up coming dad be responsiable and take care of what you made any body can make a ... (read in full...)
Life is getting me down, how do I change things?
Q. This may sound ridiculous but it's quite a big issue for me at the minute. The thing is i'm 17 years old and live at home with my father and sister. This year I have been under immense stress it's just been a really tough time. Now I know I coul...
A. 20 December 2007: Yeah this is around the age and time thing see out of control to many times life passes us by rite i bet you dont even know where it went but first of all you need to appreciate your life becuase life is short if we dont slow down we dont appreciate ... (read in full...)
I'm a bored married man, with a wife obsessed with the kids, how do I kick start our marriage again?
Q. Hi not sure why i'm here but i am so i guess i should say something right? ok i am married but i feel so lonely my wife is so busy with our children which are not children anymore the oldest is 29 and the youngest is 24 so i can't understand why we ...
A. 19 December 2007: First of all she needs to comprimise with you on the issue you have i mean as men we have feelings and need attention from them we are not emotionless to many times in a marriage we get comfortable over time and the marriage starts to go cold she ... (read in full...)
28, and still gets nervous when it comes to meeting women! Any advice?
Q. Dear, I am 28 years old and still i get nervous if i meet woman and if anybody insults me. This causes lots of trouble to me. I raised in a familly where my parents did not have very good relation. I lived in the middle of anarchy. Then one of ...
A. 18 December 2007: The first thing learn from your past and change just because your parents life was all messed up doesnt mean yours has to.Dont be like your parents be better.You need to be you.Girls dont want some push over be confident show that your not ... (read in full...)
Life is like a jigsaw....thank you Dear Cupid for helping me fit the pieces together.
Q. Arguments are the outcome of deepset emotions, And the louder we speak the harder it is to hear, Its not always easy but the quieter we speak the closer one has to listen and only love can shine through..Life is like a jigsaw first the outer eges ...
A. 17 December 2007: Very inspireing artical and very true to many time we just wanna bale out of a tough situation and not willing to work out the situation we are in love is a very powerfull word to may times we use it to loosely love is so much more then a word it ... (read in full...)
I think I have low self-esteem. Is there something wrong with me?
Q. i simply asked my freinds if you could what would you change about your self (looks wise) i said i would change a lot of things. my freinds say i was saying that to get compliments on my looks which i honestly wasnt i was asking that to see how they...
A. 12 December 2007: You got to be happy with your self people will see your not confident about your self you dont need any one to tell you how good you look how good you smell if you belive your special and unique then belive it cause you are dont live for the world ... (read in full...)
I feel like the 'Piggy in the middle' and I'm losing friends because of her. Who's to blame?
Q. I've been married for three years now and I'm 24, my wife 26. before we got married we knew each other a year, things were slightly rocky with some of my friends right before i met her, i guess i just have been very loyal to people when they still ...
A. 12 December 2007: You know what dude ive been there my wife would always get mad at me because i used to let people degrade her talk bad about her and i never did nothing but agree with them till one day it dawned on me man as a HUSBAND it my duty to defend her at ... (read in full...)
He doesn't want me anymore. How can I respond properly to his comments about me?
Q. Sorry for this silly question, but trying to decide how to respond to my future x, he informs me after 5 years of being together, that he can't totally commit to me because he needs a different body type to keep him turned on, and I lack certain p...
A. 12 December 2007: You go girl life is short live it to the fullest no one gonna make you happy but you.Until your happy no one else will be happy with you.So be happy.... (read in full...)
My wife says I'm oversexed and I say she is undersexed, what would you say?
Q. Hi I need sex at least once a day. My wife of 12 years is quite happy if we have sex once a month. When we do its great. She suffers from a low sex drive. It seems like its heriditry. Could her being on the pill cause this ? She says all h...
A. 12 December 2007: I go threw the same thing every other day im a machine shes not shes told me if it was up to her she would do it once a year crazy huh but i can relate to you the biggest thing is shes my best friend and were both willing to comprimise and maybe ... (read in full...)
Do people say 'I love you' and not mean it??
Q. Is it possible for someone to really not be in love and just use the word? I've had many relationships and last year, well 3 months ago i was in love. We had an 8 month relationship he ended it abruptly and im still in love with him. I see him ...
A. 4 December 2007: Dont blame your self thats my biggest problem people use i love you to loosely dont say it you dont mean it its a real powerful word when used.Dont settle for less why should you your young and emotions get involved it hurts you know what love is ... (read in full...)
She wants a break but I cant help thinking she wants to be with the guy from work.
Q. Hi My girlfriend and i have been going out for 7 months before i met her she had another boyfriend who treated her badly so when she argued with him she would go and get really drunk and cheat on him she would also self harm. So when she ended i...
A. 4 December 2007: Dude your rushed this relation ship seems like you were the rebound no offense.Girls that are in a relationship like that seems thats what they want even if they say they want a good man deep down theydo but they dont feel complete with out the put ... (read in full...)
I can''t be around him because he doesn't respect me....should I just ignore him or tell him??
Q. Last night I talked to my ex that I was in the process of reuniting with and dating again and I had said that I looked at his myspace and was pretty offended that he had all these pretty new girls as his top friends when I knew he barely knew ...
A. 4 December 2007: First of all respect is a big factor in a relationship if its not mutual then theres no teaching some to respect some one i mean come on hes not a dog you cant teach him to respect you.If you mean that much to him he should realize what hurts you ... (read in full...)
Unlovable???
Q. I don't think I will ever have a boyfriend or anyone who will even "like" me. I don't know why... I'm not really pretty, but I think I've got good "brains" and am an intresting person but every time I fall for some guy they'll NEVER feel the same...
A. 4 December 2007: Heyn thats your first mistake saying that your ugly and no one wants you your secound mistake is you belive it there is some one for every one people see that when we dont love are selfes how are we gonna love some one else you need to belive in ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend strips and I'm ok with it but the 'private room' bothers me...any advice??
Q. My girlfriend strips. She is doing it to make her way through school. She is pre med , full time credits, and doesnt have much time to do things outside of school. The club gives her an oppurtunity to make decent money choosing her own hours. i...
A. 4 December 2007: To each is own i guess i know i would have a problem with it i mean say your at a store shopping and shes noticed by a guy whos seen her at the strip club and he approches her how you gonna feel.Private room says it all im a delivery guy to strip ... (read in full...)
Do people usually stay with their first loves??
Q. Hi, Im 15 and have no confidence I do around my friends but not when I meet new people. I always feel like people are commenting on the way I look or that people think im ugly =/. I was wondering if anyone has any ideas on how I can improve my ...
A. 4 December 2007: yeah my wife was myt first love and i love her like the first day i met her.She had some thing that other girls didnt and that was confidence in her self and respect in in her felf to.You got to be confident in your self people can see that in ... (read in full...)
She said no but I cant stop thinking about her.
Q. I am 13 and I asked out a girl i have known for 3 years and when I asked her she said no but that day i felt so bad i went to the office 3 times and i felt like i wanted to die but now I cant stop thinking abbout her what should i do?...
A. 1 December 2007: Its just how we as humans are we want what we cant have and it kills us to be at arms reach and not able to have it. But hey your young look and check the field for the emotions you will have instead of putting them all on one person and feeling ... (read in full...)
Do you think he's just after Sex from me?
Q. ive known this guy for nearly 2 weeks and i really like him the thing is i dont think he belives me as i told him it again yesterday and he said ive not proved it to him, do you think hes just after sex,ive stayed over night at his place 5 times and ...
A. 1 December 2007: From a guys point of view wait 4 months and that will tell you if hes in to you for you or sex if a guys willing to wait then its true some guys think with there penis and and to us if you have sex with us that means you like us.Thats bull shit to ... (read in full...)
Why don't I seem to truly like myself, although am aware of my qualities?
Q. Everything about me seems to link to a high level of insecurities and a low level of self esteem. I am unassertive, try overly hard to please others, constantly look for reassurance from males, and i let people walk all over me. However desp...
A. 21 September 2007: A lot has to do with your past growing up with no affection and love with mess with your mind most of my child hood i was with my da then shipped to my mom then shipped to my aunts then back to dads then back to moms etc never had a stable home to ... (read in full...)
How love always finds a way
Q. At thirteen i was the only girl in my high school year to be having a relationship with with an eighteen year old bloke, much to alot of girls jealousy. Like everyones first relationship it started off magical, he was sweet kind, caring and made...
A. 21 September 2007: Wow im in awe ive never read a LIFE story that really amazed me what you been threw and survived and wrote to tell about it.This seams like a best seller from oprahs book club.Im so glad love found you when it did.Lots of life lessons you learned ... (read in full...)
My wife is always putting me down. Sometimes I hate her, But I love her, if that makes sense. What can I do?
Q. ok here you go: I am married with children. Love my kids to death. I love my wife, but not as a wife. That may sound confusing, but let me explain. She is not a nice person at all, she constantly downs me and talks to me like I'm meaningless...
A. 21 September 2007: For one you are who you are dont let know one tell you different maybe she puts you down because shes not happy with her self. People will take there unhappieness out on the person closest to them.People dont like to see others living life happy ... (read in full...)
My life
Q. hello ladies and gentlemen i met this wonderful guy named Will Baety from Utah over a month and a half ago on Inklink we are going to meet this Christmas since he coming down to visit me and have a New Year with me we are in love. But he says he is ...
A. 21 September 2007: Honestly your rushing this too fast the first mistake is do you know this guy really good Whats his favorite food favorite color his hobbies. You need to be friends before lovers. Its all good over the phone. What about marriage thats a big step ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend and I are crazy for each other! So why do I always think I'm going to lose her?
Q. hi, i have the most amazing girlfriend i could ever ask for...in my eyes shes perfect in almost every way. i love her more than i have ever loved anyone else. and shes always saying she feels the same way. so why do i always think im gona lose her...
A. 21 September 2007: I know what you mean it just it seems to perfect and your just waiting for something to go wrong just go with the flow and let things be what they are fearing to much on losing each other takes away what you two have for each other just live the ... (read in full...)
I've just come out of the hospital and found out I've failed uni, my relationship is strained and my friends are moving on! How can I cope?
Q. hey ppl im so low at the moment.within the past week my whole life seems to have fallen apart. this time 2 weeks ago i had the world at my feet. i had the most perfect boyfriend in the world with an amazing relationship, great health, a place at a ...
A. 19 September 2007: Youe future depends on you- friends and boyfriends will come and go in life first you need to focus on you and only you till you get back on track dont limit you choices in life true friends will be there for you but once you figure out were your at ... (read in full...)
My husband and I are too shy to kiss each other! This shouldn't be an issue - we're married!!
Q. This is kind of embarassing to ask. My husband and I (married last weekend) are too shy to kiss! We kissed when the minister said kiss the bride, but before then it had been like a year since we kissed last..He is not the initiating type at all, and ...
A. 19 September 2007: Dont feel bad my wife some times get shy to kiss me in front of people but its ok ive been married 12 yrs and still shes shy to do anything public the biggest thing i comend you is that you were friends first before marrying big mistake people make ... (read in full...)
He doesn't want me anymore. How can I respond properly to his comments about me?
Q. Sorry for this silly question, but trying to decide how to respond to my future x, he informs me after 5 years of being together, that he can't totally commit to me because he needs a different body type to keep him turned on, and I lack certain p...
A. 19 September 2007: Dont feel down im pretty sure i the 5 yrs you have been with him hes changed my biggest thing is that we as humans make are spouse are IDOL we need to be strong with or with out them if hes not willing to deal with the changes in life then c ya not ... (read in full...)
My self esteem is so low and I really can't afford the counslor that I've booked. Any help please?
Q. I think i'm cracking up. I've always felt like i dont fit in any where, my self esteem has taken a battering over the years. I was bullied in the past at work and school and pretty much dont know where my life is going. I broke up with another ...
A. 19 September 2007: So many people have low self esteem man i went threw it all my life it wasnt till i realized that this is a fashion show world every one is always looking at who we are what we wear what we got who were dating were we live the biggest thing you need ... (read in full...)
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