A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: My girlfriend and i have been together for almost 10 months! We are in a long distance relationship and it was going rather well. We where having the best relationship possible, we were so happy and in love. She has just got back from a weeks holiday in the Canary Islands, there she met a guy. She said he was a nice guy and they were good mates. They text each other in a friendly manner but he has now connfessed that he likes her! I do not know if she feels the same, i have questioned her about it and she says she dose not feel the same. she has now decided we need a break, should i be suspicious?Please help me, I Love Her!
View related questions:
a break, long distance, on holiday, text Reply to this Question Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2007): I'm sorry but you are right to be suspicious. There is no way you should have a break in a situation like that. Tell her that and also explain why. Just make her choose. If she is worth of you than she wil choose you. If she doesn't get yourself a girlfriend that will love you in a wy you deserve. And try not to have long distance relationship ;)
A
female
reader, hlskitten +, writes (1 August 2007):
Without beating yourself up about it, i would be suspicious yes.
A break sometimes is just a gentler way of saying its over.
Long distance relationships are difficult to maintain at the best of times.
Put it all down to experience & try n meet someone more local. You will be surprised how much better that will be.
Good luck though
C xxxxx
...............................
|