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When did I concieve?
Q. I'm 33wks pregnant today, if I ovulated on the 25th june does that mean I concieved on the 25th june?? ...
A. 28 January 2010: Your ovulation week is normally 7 days after the last day of your period. The middle of that week is when you reach your peak. Calculate that and when you had sex. There are lots of websites too with ovulation calculator so you can try and work ... (read in full...)
Family feud over wedding. Please help
Q. Hi there, I have a problem (again) I became engaged to my boyfriend of 2 years in october just gone and have been on cloud 9 up to christmas. When I was 9 I was adopted and my mum has a brother who has two children a boy and girl (tha...
A. 15 January 2010: Hi thankyou very much for your post. I am 24 (nearly 25) and she is 26 (nearly 27) x... (read in full...)
I need guy help - it seems like our relationship is starting to be based on sex!
Q. me and my boyfriend have been going out for eight months now and things have been a little shaky. i told him that i was keeping my virginity until marriage before we even went out and all this time i've kept it. the thing is every time i come over ...
A. 17 December 2009: My brother waited 3 years before they had sex because she had the same values as you and my boyfriend said he would wait until my wedding night if thats what I wanted. DO NOT let anyone take it off you until YOU are ready, you 100% trust, love and ... (read in full...)
15, pregnant and don't know what to do. Can someone shed some light on my situation?
Q. I found out I was pregnant about a week and a half ago. I told my parents the next day I found out. My mother has become supportive to non supportive to some-what supportive within this past week and some. My parents boyfriend are also aware, ...
A. 6 August 2009: I would keep the baby and take responsibility for your actions - your boyfriend will have to take responsibility too!! It sounds like his parents might help and you can always get your mum to 'adopt' the baby and still have it at home and continue ... (read in full...)
Is it always left for the guy to call or text?
Q. Your advice PLEASE! Is it always left for the guy to call or text? Basically make the first move.. That's when you're getting to know someone and planning a first date. ...
A. 7 January 2009: Hi Not necessarily its just whether u feel confident enough to make the first move as the girl or not. I tried it with one guy i really fancied and he said he had a girlfriend, i was gutted but glad i asked anyway. I suppose if u are traditiona... (read in full...)
I asked him to be gentle but he focused on himself during sex and wouldn't mind my objections. Should I believe him that it won't happen again?
Q. Hi, So I need some serious advice again. Ive been with my boyfriend a little over 4 months and for our anniversary, i booked a hotel to make our 'first time' special. I had told him I wanted to take it slow with lots of foreplay and candle...
A. 2 October 2008: Hiya I just want to say thankyou for all your help. All your answers really helped me and i decided to take a break to think about my life ect and enjoy time with my mum xxx... (read in full...)
It seems like he might like me, but inexperienced as I am, I'm not sure. What do you say?
Q. Hey. Alright, so I really like this guy in my grade, and I want to know if he likes me back. We're pretty good friends; we talk and joke around all the time. Recently he's started walking me to some of my classes, and whenever we're talking he looks ...
A. 16 September 2008: Hiya Chick,
It sounds like he likes you quite abit as guys tend to keep eye contact when they like someone. The touching and poking you could be the reason to bnrush your skin (my boyfriend gently puts his hand on my back) just for an excuse t... (read in full...)
Did I do the right thing for breaking up with him?
Q. Hi, Yesterday i broke up with my first boyfriend because he didnt like my friends and i liked another boy. He asked me out on msn so i thought i'd break up with him on msn so when i started saying how im breaking up with him he started ...
A. 2 September 2008: Hi Hun, Im in exactly the same situation(altho we havent broke up and im older than you) but all i can say is what my mum told me - follow your heart. Maybe just be friends for a while and learn to bond deeper with each other you might then find ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure whether I had sex or not
Q. hey everyone i really need some help... im not sure whether i actually had sex or not... i know that this seems weird but im really not sure, ive been with my partner for a year and a half now yet i always vowed that i was gonna stay a virgin till ...
A. 22 August 2008: Hiya In answer to your question, if it went in all the way you would know about it - seriously if its the first time your hymen gets broken which is a piece of skin in the opening of your vagina. Are you bleeding? Did it hurt? Email me if you w... (read in full...)
My ex says he will marry me now but only if I let him have anal sex!
Q. my ex bf wants me back now that I have a new bf, he is a good guy and while we lived together I had everything, except marriage and kids, he wants to give that now, but wants me to have anal sex with him, he says if I do not do it he won`t be able ...
A. 10 June 2008: This is what you call emotional blackmail. Im kinda seeing a guy at the moment who wanted anal sex and i told him straight no way because that passage is for one thing and one thing only not for men to go shoving their manhood in when they feel ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my boyfriend I went back to another guy's house after a night out?
Q. This is kind of the situation i am in. I have been with my boyfriend for 15 months and do love him loads. Never have broken up or had a break before. But recently i found myself going out and flirting more and kind of wishing i was single. Me and my ...
A. 25 February 2008: Hi it sounds like there might be some issues with you and your boyfriend and this is what caused you to do other stuff with this guy. Its up to you weather you want to tell him its weather you could carry on lying to him if you get back together. ... (read in full...)
How can I tell who's my baby's father?
Q. I had sex in May, and again on June 7 and I am pregnant and due to have the baby on February 25, I am trying to figure out who the father would be?...
A. 8 February 2008: Honey, how many weeks pregnant are you? Because it would depend on that, im not an expert but if you had your last period in may then it would be the june person. and if you can go and get an exact prediction of how many weeks you are then that ... (read in full...)
He's displays affection, but is not as passionate as when we first started going out. Sometimes I feel he is not happy?
Q. Hi everyone Just need your advice really as Im confused. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 and a bit months now and we have slept together an all but I am confused as to how he feels and if he is actually wanting a committed relationship...
A. 15 December 2007: Thanks for all your help guys. He came round last night and we had a chat. Im not going to see him now until next thursday (20th) because we are both busy. Thankyou x... (read in full...)
My boyfriend raped me and I don't know what to do about it, I feel so dirty.
Q. Help me please i thought he loved me im 14 and my 15 year old boyfriend Raped me :'( i havnt told anyone what shud i do i thought he loved me, He was walkin me home and he suggested we go the long way round so we have longer to talk and then he ...
A. 14 December 2007: Aww babes, Im really sorry to hear that. I was raped by my stepdad when I was young and my birth mum laughed. I know its not your situation but I can relate to how you feel. Please, please, please tell someone. Have you got a best friend? Parents, ... (read in full...)
Who should make the first move - and how?
Q. Hi everyone I got such nice responses last time, I need some more advice and feel I can turn to you guys so here goes. I have been with my boyfriend now for 6 weeks and he told me for the first time on saturday that he is a virgin and while I ...
A. 12 October 2007: I am NOT iviting him round just to have sex, but i cant help the fact that he turns me on when we kiss passionately. I want him to wait and make sure I am the right girl. I love him so no I dont just want sex, Id wait til we'd been together 4 years ... (read in full...)
Condom broke and he didn't ejaculate, any chance that I may be pregnant?
Q. hi,yesturday i had sex with my boyfriend and the condom broke but he didn't ejaculated, is there any chance that i get pregnant?...
A. 26 September 2007: Hi Chick,
If he didnt ejaculate inside you then you should be ok but if he did inside you then I would go to the doctors and get yourself checked, they can give you the 'morning after pill' in the first 72 hours after sex and you can have a chat... (read in full...)
Very confused by his mixed messages
Q. I don't really know what to do or how to feel. There's this guy at my school who I really like. I think he likes me too, but I am confused because he sends me mixed messages. Sometimes he's really friendly and wants to be close to me a lot, but ...
A. 25 September 2007: Hiya hunny, have you known this guy quite a while? It sounds like he may be shy at showing if he likes you or not, then again on the other hand, he might only be after what he can get. If hes being moody, he cant be that interested. I went out on ... (read in full...)
I need ideas as to how I can let him know I'm interested in a quality relationship...not just an occasional hook up!
Q. So I'm interested in this guy and I would like ideas as to how I can let him know I'm interested in pursuing a relationship and not just an occasional hook up sort of thing. We don't live in the same state and I see him only when I visit a friend...
A. 24 September 2007: I went out on a date with my boyfriend and for four dates after that and I really wanted to ask him, then one night when we were together, I asked him did he think of me and he did so I took that opportunity to ask him how he felt and we became a ... (read in full...)
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