I met up with my ex again and all the feelings came back but I haven't heard from him...
Q. Hi I broke up with my boyfriend a few months ago but I still felt really strongly about him and I'm pretty sure he still felt the same about me. We broke up over something stupid and we were both idiots for not dealing with it. Anyway he has been ...
A. 18 August 2007: Thats something then!
BUT if i were you, i would hold off on the sleeping togther thing, which i expect wll be difficult, until he has said about getting back together, or i can see you feeling a tad used & that will definately send him the wron... (read in full...)
I discovered pictures of an ex, over 4 years ago I believe which were all of her in posing in underwear.
Q. Hi There I am writing as in a new relationship - 4 months ish. I am totally infatuated with this guy and he seems just as keen but something is still niggling at me all the time telling me I couldn’t be as lucky to get someone I like this much l...
A. 17 August 2007: Hi
I was terrible for comparing myself to things like that when i was your age! It does get better when you get older to be honest. Not wishing you to get older but you will know what i mean in 10 years hehe.
I think you just get more acceptin... (read in full...)
How can we be more discreet with our lovemaking?
Q. Hi, Me and my girlfriend have been going out for nearly a year and a half. I moved in with her a few months back due to situations at home. Her mum lets us slep together because she trusts us and she's known me all my life and me and her daughter ...
A. 17 August 2007: Hi
Stick a sock in your girlfriends mouth! hehe
Well her mum knows you are having sex. She let you move in! But i know what you mean. Many moons ago my hubby moved in, when i was 16. I cant remember what we did to be honest! But go slower! ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has a drink problem!
Q. Hi, My girlfriend whom I've been dating for 7 months now has a drinking problem. Everytime she drinks, I will feel obligated to drink because I can deal with the drunken issues so much better when I am a little buzzed myself. Just recently, we had ...
A. 17 August 2007: Is this the night for drink problems? This must be the 3rd or 4th question about it on here today.
Like i said in the other thread, i would get her to go to AA, both of you in fact, if you both use alcohol to drown out lifes issues, ifg they wont... (read in full...)
He said that he doesn't want to have sex b/c we're around each other too often. Is this normal?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for almost two years. We were instantly attracted to each other and bonded so well. The first two months in our relationship we were intimate every evening and twice in the morning. It was great. ...
A. 17 August 2007: Hi
It could just be a stress thing. That can affect anyones sex drive. It could also be a sign that hes losing interest a bit. Dont want to scare you, but just speaking my mind as you obviously want honest opinions.
2 years is around the time rel... (read in full...)
When women get urine infections is it normal that when they go to the toilet blood comes out when they urinate as well as it hurting as well?
Q. When women get urine infections is it normal that when they go to the toilet blood comes out when they urinate as well as it hurting as well? I know this qestion my sound of putting....
A. 17 August 2007: Hi
It could be a bad case of urinary tract infection. In fact, it probably is at your age. Go see the doc. Probably need some anti biotics.
Might just be cystitis, but you dont normally get blood with that, just pain.
Deffo need to take a urine... (read in full...)
I was on his myspace and in his trash was mail with his ex girlfriend saying he still liked her and she likes him and they said he might dump me for her...
Q. I'm worried! My boyfriend says he loves me, he always has and he still does but I was on his myspace and in his trash was mail with his ex girlfriend saying he still liked her and she likes him and they said he might dump me for her but this was a ...
A. 17 August 2007: Hi
I would get out now, and move on!
C xxxxx... (read in full...)
He was texting a 24-year-old co-worker and finally confessed, what should I do?
Q. Am I over reacting? I noticed my husband was being a bit strange with me and couldn't sleep, went downstairs and found dating sites on the internet that he had joined. It was then that I noticed his phone was always in his pocket whereas befor...
A. 16 August 2007: Hi
Only you know if you are looking for a way out, but, it sounds like there was something going on with the work mate & maybe now they have had a tiff.
You need to do some serious talking, look him in the eye & ask him, is he actually happy an... (read in full...)
Are we too young to be engaged?
Q. Im 16 my boyfriend is 17 we have been together a while now and are very much in love. We are considering moving in together at the start of next year. We were talking last night and he said next time we go shopping he wants me to point out some ...
A. 16 August 2007: Hi
I moved in with my guy at 16, got engaged at 17, married at 18. Ok it only lasted til i was 21 (my choice) but that was because he was a lazy so n so! So im not a big believer in waiting til whatever age til you 'settle down' I split with him ... (read in full...)
Am I first in his life or is his ex more important to him?
Q. Hey Everyone, Just wanted to write to you and probably get it off my chest and ask for a little advice from a wide range of people! It's probably gonna be a long one, so mind me! first off, my family hasn't been so good lately, just lots o...
A. 16 August 2007: Hi
Its unlikely, especially if it was a long time ago.
But i would chat with him. If you are close you can do that?
My most recent ex used to put his ex, that he split with about the time he met me, on a pedestal all the time. He always denie... (read in full...)
I dont want my relationship ruined over alcohal, and I am not sure she would be willing to stop dirnking for me...
Q. hi there. i have a girlfriend, whom i've been dating for 7 months. just recently we had both, quit drinking for two months and it was wonderful. last night she had decided to drink seven beers, and now im afraid that all the raging alcoholism is ...
A. 16 August 2007: Hi
Its unlikely.
Alcohol is their best friend & saviour.
Dont let her drag you down too.
Suggest she goes to AA.
Good luck.
C xxxxx... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is an alcoholic who never has time for me
Q. my girlfriend is an alcholic and says she loves me and wants to spend time with me but always uninvites me to events she's asked me to go with her , won't let me come with her to do things an will only spend time with me for maybe 3hours per week i ...
A. 16 August 2007: Hi
What a nightmare.
Its a toughie being with an alcoholic. I was with one a year. To be honest it was just one of the reasons i split from him in the end, 2 months ago. He is still the same, sits in the beer garden of the pub next to my house. H... (read in full...)
I met up with my ex again and all the feelings came back but I haven't heard from him...
Q. Hi I broke up with my boyfriend a few months ago but I still felt really strongly about him and I'm pretty sure he still felt the same about me. We broke up over something stupid and we were both idiots for not dealing with it. Anyway he has been ...
A. 16 August 2007: Oh well, thats strange then. Couple of years ago me & an ex spent a couple of weeks txting & met up for a drink once to see if we wanted to get back together, but he is one of those guys that doesnt know what he wants when hes drunk. We came back ... (read in full...)
Are there any tips you can give me on seperating the guys at clubs who want just sex and ones who might be looking for more?
Q. Ive just come out of a really bad relationship where I was treated really badly. My friends invited me clubbing this weekend with them, which I have only ever done once because my ex boyfriend wouldn't let me go unless he was with me, and he hates ...
A. 16 August 2007: Hi
Its true guys in clubs are more likely to just be after a bit of fun. But whats wrong with just swapping numbers, then meeting another day somewhere quieter? Me and an ex did that & were together nearly 2 years. He was renoun for pulling girl... (read in full...)
Will my vagina loosen the more I have sex?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for two years. I lost my virginity to him when I was 13 and we've had sex about. . . . Um let's just say we lost count. But we do it a lot and I'm scared my (thing) will get loose.... and I don't want to stop ...
A. 16 August 2007: Hi
No it wont. Not even if you have children eventually. As long as you do your pelvic floor exercises!
C xxxxx... (read in full...)
Why are guys more likely to commit to an average looking girl and just choose to sleep around with the good looking ones?
Q. Can someone please explain the theory that guys are more likely to commit to a proper relationship with a less good-looking girl than a very good looking girl and just sleep with the really good looking ones but never have a proper relationship with ...
A. 16 August 2007: People see different looks in different people. But i know what you're saying to a certain extent. I dont think thats always the case, in fact i think its the minority. But maybe some guys think less traditionally good looking women would be a safer ... (read in full...)
I met up with my ex again and all the feelings came back but I haven't heard from him...
Q. Hi I broke up with my boyfriend a few months ago but I still felt really strongly about him and I'm pretty sure he still felt the same about me. We broke up over something stupid and we were both idiots for not dealing with it. Anyway he has been ...
A. 16 August 2007: Hi
I dont expect he was using you (if you're sure he isnt capeable of that) Maybe he is having second thoughts about getting back together. Was there any alcohol involved the night you got together?
I would bung him a casual txt & see if he repli... (read in full...)
We're always arguing over stupid little things and it gets to the point where I slap him and I hate doing it but he gets me so angry.
Q. Me and my boyfriend love each other loads but the problem is we're always arguing over stupid little things and it gets to the point where I slap him and I hate doing it but he gets me so angry. He blames everything on me but I hate the arguing, it ...
A. 16 August 2007: Sounds like you need a bit of anger management? What makes you automatically lash out physically? Normally its when someone feels they are losing the argument.
I havent ever got that make up sex thing. I have to sleep after an argument & start agai... (read in full...)
I discovered pictures of an ex, over 4 years ago I believe which were all of her in posing in underwear.
Q. Hi There I am writing as in a new relationship - 4 months ish. I am totally infatuated with this guy and he seems just as keen but something is still niggling at me all the time telling me I couldn’t be as lucky to get someone I like this much l...
A. 16 August 2007: Hi
I wouldnt worry! Ive still got pics on my phone from my ex, in, um, little attire hehe and we split a couple of months ago, my choice, cant stand the bloke & certainly havent even looked at them. Just havent got round to deleting them. Ive got ... (read in full...)
I'm unhappy in my marriage and am seeing my ex!
Q. Hi everyone, here goes a complicated story. Posted before about meeting up with an ex boyfriend from years ago, I explained that I was unhappy in my marriage before I met this guy again, anyway, marriage has gotten much worse and I'm still having ...
A. 16 August 2007: Hi
I cant help thinking the reason your marriage is getting worse is because you're seeing your ex. It would wouldnt it?
So you're cheating on your hubby & your ex is cheating on his girlfriend whom hes happy enough with to go on holiday with? Of... (read in full...)
I gave the dog to my sis in the end, but i can't stop crying now.
Q. I know this is madness but i guess i just wanted a moan. I posted a question a couple weeks ago about a 7 month old dog i had that trashed my home. She was only a puppy. Anyway my sis came to visit at the weekend and fell in love with her, my ...
A. 16 August 2007: Sorry to hear that Midge. That sucks :o(
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Should I be worried that he didn't orgasm from my blowjob/handjob?
Q. Today I gave the boy I liked a blowjob/handjob. It was for 10 minutes. And at the end he said, "That's good." and so i stopped. and he was kissing me and caressing me alot. I asked him if he orgasmed. and really quickly he said no. And i was like, ...
A. 16 August 2007: Not all men cum through oral. I remember at least one guy that didnt, he said he never had, but there was nothing wrong with our sex life i can tell ya! hehe
Dont panic.
C xxxxxx... (read in full...)
What is the best way to get over someone and make them miss you at the same time?
Q. Whats the best way to get over someone whilst making them think about you! me and my bf been split up 2 months (im so gutted) A lot of people might say go out with friends etc but thats not convenient as i work unsociable hours.. I jus...
A. 16 August 2007: Maybe he knows if you split, then you split for a reason & is being mature & moving on?
I dont think there is any way to make someone miss you or want to get back with you. And you wouldnt want that surely?
But i guess it depends why you split in... (read in full...)
Should I be concerned by his frequent porno viewing?
Q. Should I be concerned that my boyfriend of 6 years views porn every time he is by himself (3-5 times a week)??...
A. 16 August 2007: I agree with rjgirl saying thats down to you.
Once upon a time that would of really upset me, but not these days. But im older than you.
If it really bothers you, then i dont think porn is something in life thats essential & your guy should r... (read in full...)
I gave the dog to my sis in the end, but i can't stop crying now.
Q. I know this is madness but i guess i just wanted a moan. I posted a question a couple weeks ago about a 7 month old dog i had that trashed my home. She was only a puppy. Anyway my sis came to visit at the weekend and fell in love with her, my ...
A. 16 August 2007: Thanks folks. Those are reassuring words.
I txt sis last night & she said the dogs havent stopped playing yet! 5 minute naps here n there then they're off again! So she must be having fun thankfully.
Shes going to ring me today. I might well get... (read in full...)
We are thinking of moving in with each other for conveniece purposes and we would love to give our daughter a "complete family".
Q. Dear Cupid, I have been divorced from my ex husband for 8 years. Since then we have remained in each others lives either as friends or parents to our daughter. We have had many fights but have always forgiven one another. We have both had relation...
A. 15 August 2007: Hi
Im not a big fan of open relationships. But it could work? Although the down side is the influence it will have on your child as they get older? In fact thats a pretty big downfall.
Its kind of defeating the object?
C xxxxx... (read in full...)
He is texting another girl saying i do his head in!!!
Q. I've been with my husband 6years now and married 2years and got a 1yr old daughter. Recently things haven't been good between us and I found messages on his phone from and to a girl who he works with saying how they missed and loved each other and ...
A. 15 August 2007: Hi
Hes lying. What do your instincts say?
What a horrible situation to be in. Does he actually look you in the eye & swear on his childs life he isnt lying about it?
If he can do that, & he is lying, he needs help really to be honest.
Hop... (read in full...)
He admitted he cheated
Q. Recently my boyfriend and I decided to take a break after 5 years. And just the other night, while I was visiting, he dropped the biggest bomb on me. He confessed to have cheating on me with 2 different girls (that I was always suspicious of) for 3 ...
A. 15 August 2007: Hi
Not a bad guy????
I guess its each to their own!
No i couldnt think of a worse nightmare to be honest.
I would now be thinking i had shit hot instincts & wish i had trusted them back then, then i wouldnt of spent years with someone that has... (read in full...)
Do I tell my ex I still love her dearly?
Q. I split up with my ex about 3 months ago and I still love her dearly, we still live together because we have a little boy together and we are still best friends. I have started seeing someone else but nothing serious and my ex asked me yesterday if ...
A. 15 August 2007: You cant compare a non serious new girl, with the mother of your child that you love?
If she can get past the fact you wasted no time meeting someone new while still living with her, and supposedly still love her, then i would jump at the chan... (read in full...)
My wife and I don't get along - would it be wrong to have sex with my ex?
Q. My wife cheated on me several times. We started to divorce but then we decided to give it another try. I must admit I hold onto a lot of resentment for all the lies and deciet along with her excuse that it was my fault she cheated. Things were good ...
A. 15 August 2007: Hi
And you 2 are still together & giving it another 'try' why?
It doesnt even sound like you like each other let alone love.
Your scoring points & trying to out cheat each other.
She has cheated left right n centre, she doesnt like you, you do... (read in full...)
I told him I found out about his sexual chats w/ other girls - now we don't trust each other!
Q. I found chatting communication of my boyfriend and girls on the net. We just bought a house and talking about having kids. Those conversations, were recent and he was initiating them. To girls he chatted long time ago. Last year he had sexual ...
A. 15 August 2007: Hi
I would get rid, unless you dont mind sharing him. He doesnt sound at all ready for being monogomous, even if its only chat on the net. I certainly dont think its normal.
Move in & have children with this guy?
And he doesnt trust you? Hang on... (read in full...)
My left side of the stomach seems to go a bit deeper than my right, is this normal?
Q. dear cupid, I don't want to make my own account so my friend let me use his one. I have a problem, my left side of the stomach seems to go a bit deeper than my right, this bit is under the ribcage bone under the chest. I would like to know do ...
A. 15 August 2007: Hi
I dont think it sounds alarming. Dont forget we have metres of intestines in there, ewwwww i know, gross! But thats what your feeling one side. If you are real concerned the doctor wont think you're wasting their time!
Do you suffer with hea... (read in full...)
I found out my girlfriend made out with some guy and went down on him at that party.
Q. My girlfriend and I had been dating for a few weeks when she cheated on me with another guy. She confessed about it to a friend of hers, and told me about it at a party a week after it happened. She only told me she kissed him though. A couple ...
A. 15 August 2007: But you had split when it happened? thats what i was wondering. So technically i personally dont term that as cheating, and like i said, were you that serious after only a few weeks?
So she only 'cheated' if you want to call it that, once?
Still... (read in full...)
What is the difference between confidence, over-confidence and arrogance
Q. Hi there Can anyone tell me: What is the difference between confidence, over-confidence and arrogance? How can you tell if a person is over-confident, not just confident? How can you tell when someone is confident and when someone is...
A. 14 August 2007: Hi
Good question! Hmmm well, in my opinion, and i guess its one of those questions people will have different thoughts on, but in my opinion, confident is happy in yourself.
Over confident is to over rate the being happy with yourself.
Arrogant ... (read in full...)
Which girl do I choose?
Q. My girlfriend, Megan and I broke up two months ago, we made up a month later. We've known one another and dated for almost three years. Two of those three years we lived together. How would I know if I do really love Megan and if she is the one I ...
A. 14 August 2007: Hi
I would get out of things with Megan. It sounds like the love has gone by the way side & its time to move on.
THEN, chat to Nadine. Its good that you both didnt want to betray the people you were with. That would be just plain nasty & unnessas... (read in full...)
When he doesn't get to have sex with me he goes to porn websites and pleasures himself, Should I worry about that
Q. My boyfriend of 11 months has a very high sex drive. He likes to just grab and touch me when we are at home, which I don't mind because at least he is attracted to me right? So as you can see he likes to have sex. Well of course there are certain ...
A. 14 August 2007: Hi
I wouldnt be too alarmed. Like the other poster said though, can you not do things for him at that time of the month? I wouldnt be too keen on crossing the red sea either :o(
But also like Karlos said, least hes not going elsewhere. Guys are... (read in full...)
Her rectum seems easier to get into and her vagina seems more loose. Could she be cheating on me?
Q. My girlfriend goes on business trips every week to two weeks. For overnights no big deal, until little things like bruises on her arms neck mouth and between her legs even. She tries to cover them up but I'm not doing them. Also her rectum seems ...
A. 14 August 2007: Hi
The bruises might be something (not sex related necassarily) but the sex thing? Thats just plain crazy. Sex with different people doesnt make the vagina looser????? Some women have passed a 10 pounds baby through that canal & it doesnt get loos... (read in full...)
I found out my girlfriend made out with some guy and went down on him at that party.
Q. My girlfriend and I had been dating for a few weeks when she cheated on me with another guy. She confessed about it to a friend of hers, and told me about it at a party a week after it happened. She only told me she kissed him though. A couple ...
A. 14 August 2007: Hi
Hang on a mo, you had split, and had only been seeing her a few weeks anyway? Shows her seriousness of the relationship? Is a relationship ever serious after only a few weeks? Maybe im missing things here. Maybe she didnt think you would get back... (read in full...)
Had unprotected sex yesterday and lost my virginity...
Q. Had unprotected sex yesterday and lost my virginity... the problem is that I have really irrregular periods, does the 19th day idea still follow with this? I am due on supposedly in a week and a bit. Help please...
A. 14 August 2007: You are in the higher risk time scale with your cycle. You should get the morning after pill from your pharmasist. Its not cheap. About 25 pounds i think.
C xxxx... (read in full...)
Does the 72 hour pill go on my record?
Q. will the 72 hour pill go on my doctors record? really worried, just had sex and was unprotected :S i no it was stupid of me..but i wanna get the 72 hour pill but my mum doesnt know ive lost my virginity? any ideas???? please help x...
A. 14 August 2007: If you buy it from the chemist, no it wont. Obviously from the docs, it will.
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Do you think that it is possible to have many sexual partners in 1 night stand bases without her looking for sex?
Q. I'm 29, my partner is 21. I had 2 sexual partners 1 through marriage and 1 short term relationships, never 1 night stand. My partner was sexually active since the age of 14, she had 30 sexual partners most of them were 1 night stand. She keeps ...
A. 14 August 2007: Hi
I went through a couple of years of a few one nighters. I definately didnt go out with the intention to have one night stands. If i met someone, and took them home, it happened. But to be quite honest i wouldnt even say i enjoyed it. Thats why ... (read in full...)
I'm a single Mom dating a man with depression problems! Should I continue dating this guy?
Q. I m a single mum with a 5 yr old boy. I ve got a boyfriend of nearly a year. Things have been fine up until the past month or 2 but now I m not sure that I want to be with this man. He has recently told me he has suffered with depression most of his ...
A. 14 August 2007: That sounds similar to how it was for me. Its strange isnt it that usually guys say us women are too soft! Mine so far are well behaved kids. My ex didnt like my 10 yr old daughter sleeping in my bed the nights he didnt stop over. Said shes too old ... (read in full...)
I caught my partner on the internet putting a profile on "sexsearch" (when I was 8 months pregnant)... !
Q. how can i tell if my partner is cheating? i caught him on the computer putting a profile on a site called sexsearch at four in the morning when i was eight mnths pregnant. I told him to leave but he begged me to not make him leave and when i asked ...
A. 14 August 2007: Hi
If he is a liar, then hes a liar. Not a lot you can do about that. Some peoples first reaction to anything is lie about it. I think thats probably a compulsive liar. Been there done that bought the t shirt with a guy like that.
Nothing wrong wi... (read in full...)
I'm a single Mom dating a man with depression problems! Should I continue dating this guy?
Q. I m a single mum with a 5 yr old boy. I ve got a boyfriend of nearly a year. Things have been fine up until the past month or 2 but now I m not sure that I want to be with this man. He has recently told me he has suffered with depression most of his ...
A. 14 August 2007: Hi
Does this guy live with you & your son? because i wouldnt have a guy thats not living in our house start lourding it over my kids.
If they live with you then obviously they have more say, but in a reasonable way. I am fiercely protecti... (read in full...)
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