Do you think I should give my cheating ex another chance?
Q. I have written on here three time already but wanted to update you. My ex (broke up 7 months now) really wants me back and I am re-considering. He cheated on me whilst I was pregnant but they didnt have sex until we broke up and there relationship ...
A. 13 December 2007: Hi
Sorry to hear things didnt work out. If you can stay on good terms for the kids though thats good.
Although i think he should of waited a while yet before introducing the kids to someone new. And should of spoken to you about it first, thats a ... (read in full...)
He said he wanted to move slower in our sex life, but wants it every night! Does this make sense??
Q. He told me he wanted to slow down on sex! He said he wanted it to mean more and I have not been pressureing him. But now it seems every night he wants to make love to me. Does this make sense?? ...
A. 26 September 2007: Hi
He obviously just cant resist you! That would do my head in probably though. I would be thinking hes only in it for the sex. Is nice now n then to just cuddle and go to sleep!
Well, in my opinion anyway.If its the begining of your relation... (read in full...)
How can I get my ex to move on - I still care about her as a friend, so I just can't ignore her.
Q. I recently broke up with my girlfriend. A few months ago we got in an argument, and she abandoned me. She lied to me about a lot of things, and i thought that I forgave her. Before I begin, I need to explain that I have no hard feelings. A...
A. 25 September 2007: Hi
I know what you mean, im in a similar situation with an ex from 4 months ago. We are on mates terms now and its fine (hes on his way here now with his daughter for a couple of hours cuz our kids still adore each other) and he knows im gett... (read in full...)
Do you think I should give my cheating ex another chance?
Q. I have written on here three time already but wanted to update you. My ex (broke up 7 months now) really wants me back and I am re-considering. He cheated on me whilst I was pregnant but they didnt have sex until we broke up and there relationship ...
A. 24 September 2007: Hi
This is a real tricky one because different circumstances would make for a different answer. But the fact you are both young, the fact that you have children and the fact that you have feelings for him still (im assuming cuz i didnt spot that... (read in full...)
I wouldn't have cheated if I had been sober, but how do I shake this feeling of guilt?
Q. Hello everyone. I've been dating this wonderful girl for about 2 months now, but something has happened to turn my life upside down. Last weekend, I went out drinking with some friends of mine, and I wound up cheating on my girlfriend. I d...
A. 20 September 2007: Hi
What a nightmare! Atleast you now know your best off not getting trollied when out with the lads!
As you have learnt from it and regret it completely, DONT tell her. (unless theres a sure fire chance someone else will) And you cant go through ... (read in full...)
Our 16 yr old son wants to become a male stripper when he leaves school. How can I get him to aspire to something else?
Q. Recently I got a phone call off my 16-year-old son's teacher saying that "your son is showing very little interest in his work at school and the only thing he's interested in is becoming a male stripper. The careers advisor told me this. We've also ...
A. 20 September 2007: Hi Mark.
I dont really know because i'm wondering if its not a bad job really! Here in the Uk the demand for male strippers is getting higher and higher. Its perfectly legal. And maybe hes right he will enjoy it?
Only problem with trying to get y... (read in full...)
Should I tell him that for 10 yrs I never stopped thinking about him and I want to try again?
Q. i have a first love come back into my life after 10 yrs. i'm separated from my daughter's father we remain close and even were intimate after the separation a few months ago. my first love and i have been communicating for a month now and he's com...
A. 20 September 2007: Hi Slow down! Im in a very similar situation myself right now! I got divorced 13 years ago, split from him 16 yrs ago. A few weeks ago i rang him (my little bro has always been in touch with him off n on) and i asked him to give me his number. ... (read in full...)
I'm unsure if he likes me...
Q. Im unsure of what this guy thinks of me. I met this guy about two weeks ago, and since then he has been non stopp texting me! Like 24/7! Some days I would go through $20 (Australian Dollars) worth of text messages. He said he thought I was pr...
A. 20 September 2007: Hi Its tricky isnt it the early days! I know what you mean! It could just be because hes not well. It could be because you have been flat out txting and hes run out of things to say! It could be that hes skint now and used up his txt quota? He wo... (read in full...)
I quit my job for him and we deleted our internet profiles. I found out he has a new one that lists him as single and looking for sex!
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend for two years, i worked in a pub which he wasn't happy about, as customers flirt. so i gave up the pub, and together we decided to delete our internet profiles. however i found out he had created a new profile ad...
A. 19 September 2007: Hi
This is crazy! why do you both need to be flirting with people on line anyway? facebook, profile sites? its ridiculous. When i get in a relationship, i lose the internet chat. There isnt enough hours in the day anyway!
I wouldnt give him anot... (read in full...)
Are we playing a dangerous game, here?
Q. Ok an ex question...again.. Been split from a yr long r/s for 4 months now. Alls fine there and we are on friend terms. He pays me to do his ironing and we spcialise because his daughter gets on so well with mine. He knows my ex hubby, used to go ab...
A. 19 September 2007: Hi Eddie Yeh i guess you're right. I just dont really like the whole people assuming we will get back together thing. 16 yrs is a long time ago. And i dont even know if hes changed, he doesnt know if i have. We only met up a week ago! Last night he... (read in full...)
Is it best to stay friends after a break up or better to sever all ties?
Q. is it best to stay friends after a break up or is it better to sever all ties? my ex and i were very close and he often said i was his best friend as well as girlfriend! We broke up amicably and he said he wanted us to be like ross and rachel i.e ...
A. 18 September 2007: Hi
If you had deep feelings it might not be possible for a while yet. I managed to stay friends with most exes and always have contact now n then to see how we are doing, but its usually impossible for a few months atleast. After that it can be grea... (read in full...)
I left him b/c he told me he had plans to sleep w/ my friend. We split, now they're together! Is something wrong w/ me??
Q. I recently left my boyfriend because he was telling me that he is gonna sleep with my friends. One day after I left him, he already started dating my friend... I tried so hard to keep him, I did everything he told me to... What more am I supposed ...
A. 18 September 2007: Hi
No there is nothing wrong with you, but there is something wrong with your ex, and your mate too as it goes.
2 betrayals, 2 selfish tactless people with very little morals, that you had a lucky escape from by the sounds of it!
You're we... (read in full...)
My fiance says his active dating profiles are fake, but I think otherwise! What do I do?
Q. Hello there.. i am very tensed and confused. i love one guy and i felt he loves me too well i can say sometimes that he loves me. i just found out his profile in dating sites and talking to other womans for hot chat. i found his pictures n told him ...
A. 18 September 2007: Hi
Unfortunately from this side, it doesnt look promising, but we are only hearing one side of the story.
But no, i wouldnt be thinking of marrying a guy thats frequenting dating sites. He doesnt seem too bothered if someone is using his picture ... (read in full...)
My partner confimed my belief that all men would be unfaithful if they could! But he said he's different. Why should he be?
Q. Please, would you give me your view?. It is my suspicion that all men would be unfaithful if they could and were not found out and the person offering sex was attractive enough. My partner told me that I can trust HIM, because he values our ...
A. 18 September 2007: Hi
They always say they are different. But i think on average more guys cheat than girls. Its just the fact they have more opertunities. We have kids etc, and less time in the day and less energy!
But all people, men and women have the chance a... (read in full...)
I found a shirt he only wears when he goes out in his car, but we hadn't been out in a while
Q. My b/f and i were planning on going away for a long weekend. I usually do not see him on wednesdays but since we were leaving thursday morning I saw him straight from work so we can leave in the morning. I get in his car..and i see a plastic bag in ...
A. 18 September 2007: Hi
How did you get from a shirt in his car to him having an affair? So maybe he went out with his mates, when he wasnt with you, so wore the shirt then? Why does it have to involve another woman? Or am i missing something here?
C xxxxx... (read in full...)
Is it normal that he wants to keep in touch with some of his exes?
Q. hi all - newbie here! just wonder what people think of their partners having contact with their ex's when there's no real need [kids etc] my longterm boyfriend of 3yrs still emails and chats online with a couple of girls he was involved with, h...
A. 17 September 2007: Hi
I think you're reading too much into this myself. These exes are in a diff country after all, what more bounderies do you need?
Hes prob only playing down your relationship because he is being tactful with them. Because they are exes. We are a... (read in full...)
My mum's doctor started groping her and pulling her upstairs!!! She won't let me report him, what can I do?
Q. A while ago I asked for advice about my mum's encounter with her randy, over familiar stand in toy boy doctor, who wanted to give my mother of 59 and suffering from depression, more than just a pill to take before bedtime, the sex beast doc, was ...
A. 14 September 2007: Hi
Hes crossed the line now, i would report him. The police wont do nything, unless he had actually attacked her. its the practice manager you need to arrange to see.
Good luck.
C xxx... (read in full...)
Could that lump be sign of cancer?
Q. Hi - I was wondering if someone could help me diagnose or even give me some advice on what to do. My girlfriend today broke down in hysterics telling me shes wanted to tell me this for ages but hasn't had the courage and wish he hadn't now. She ...
A. 13 September 2007: Hi
Relax!!!! Its extreeeeeeeeeemely unlikely to be malignant after all this time! Honest. I wouldnt just say that! She needs to get it checked out as a matter of routine but i would bet money on it being a harmless bit of fibrous tissue (fatty lump... (read in full...)
Am I an idiot for thinking his excuse is plausible? Online dating searches "just for the laugh" ?
Q. I desperately need some advice about my husband. We've been married for almost two years. About 18 months ago I found out that he had registered on an internet dating site, understandably I was furious. He had given detailed descriptions of t...
A. 13 September 2007: Hi
The guy is called a hunter, as my counsellor friend once told me. Hes playing you for a fool. They dont join as a laugh. They join because they are looking for extra marital sex. Oh he isnt looking to replace you, i'm not saying that, hes look... (read in full...)
I love this man! But, we have trust issues. Please give me some sensible advice.
Q. hi everyone,i hope someone can give me a sensible answer,without accusing me of anything as i seem to see a lot of aunts making assumptions,when its advice people are asking for.i been with my fella just under four years and the first 2 were kind of ...
A. 13 September 2007: Hi
Its awful isnt it when someone wont believe your worthyness towards them! Its like banging your head against a brick wall!
To be honest, i have never managed to convince guys i wouldnt cheat on them, but i think that says a lot about the type... (read in full...)
Some tips to help me orgasm from penetratiev sex?
Q. Hi, I need tips to help me orgasm from penatrive sex. I have never had an orgasm. My boyfriends penis size is fine, we have plenty of fore play too. I always orgasm during cunnilingus, am I too used to the thrill of oral sex maybe? Can you sugg...
A. 13 September 2007: Hi
Good luck with that. 70% of women wont orgasm through penatrative sex alone. Its no biggie. Keep trying for fun, dont pin too much emphasis on it though ey.
C xxxxx... (read in full...)
I left my bf of over 7 years after finding out he was member of a sex chat and hsi net profiles were stated single. Overreacting?
Q. Im 23. I left my boyfriend of 7 years just 3 weeks ago, because i found out he was looking at porn, was a member of a sex chat site (1 that i know of), and he was chatting to many girls and his profiles were stated SINGLE. I only found out due to...
A. 13 September 2007: Hi
Er, no you're not!
C xxxxx... (read in full...)
My bf is still active on the dating site we met on. How do we talk, what should I not say?
Q. I have an online dating question: I have been dating a man now for 6 months that we met on a online dating service. We have got along very well from the very beginning. After two months of dating twice a week and talking on the phone ever...
A. 13 September 2007: Hi
The guy is keeping his options open hunni!
Thats if he is actually still using it. I think im actually still registered on some dating sites, girlsdateforfree etc but i cant tell you the last time i was on there! A long time ago.
I met a guy on... (read in full...)
My partner who has a terminal illness doesn't want to get it on!
Q. My partner who is 34 suffers from a terminal illness he has also been diagnosed with depression he is always happy an jus gets on wit it!now he wont have sex he doesnt mind me givin him oral but wont do anything to me he says its not me and he has ...
A. 13 September 2007: Hi
First of all, sorry for your partners illness. Heart goes out to him.
Secondly, depression will knock sexual desire straight out the window to be honest. And meds for it make it worse to boot.
I personally think you need to go with the flow wit... (read in full...)
My ex said he gets sad and lonely - should I tell him that I still have feelings for him?
Q. I was in a short relationship last year, around 2 months. He broke up with me after 2 months saying that it was him and not me. I was so confused as when we were together he would tell me that he has never been so happy. After a year i haven't s...
A. 13 September 2007: Hi cheerybomb.
Are you sure you're not pining for him because hes dangled the lonely carrot and you feel you can be his savior? Just wondered. 2 months isnt an awful long time to even get to know someone, let alone have feelings for them. And it w... (read in full...)
I want an open relationship! Any experienced people, please let me know how you got on?
Q. Hi I have been with my guy 4 years I was with my ex 17 years Im now in my 30s with 3 children. My guy always likes the women to instagate sex ,make the first move and dress up stocking etc which I didnt mind at first but I get fed up with the havi...
A. 13 September 2007: Hi
If he doesnt instigate sex because of fear of rejection, im guessing hes low in confidence, in which case an open relationship will just have him rock bottom in no time!
You dont sound compatible to me but what do i know at the end of the day.... (read in full...)
Should I apologize to my on/off again guy for flipping out that he has a girlfriend now?
Q. Ok so this is kinda a long story... but i'll try to make it as short as i can... i really need advice... me n this guy have been on again off again for the past year... and it hurts everytime he disappears... n he knows he disappears... well i ...
A. 13 September 2007: Hi
Not if your only shag buddies no. What he does is his business. Thats the nature of shag buddies, do what you like, no commitment from the shag buddy and have a mate that you get your oats from all rolled in to one. Never been one myself and woul... (read in full...)
Is it true that people that only go out with good looking people get hurt eventually?
Q. Is it true that people who only go out with good looking get hurt eventually, than the people who choose personality over looks?...
A. 13 September 2007: Hi
I just think you are reading into it too much. Im guilty of that myself at times! I dont think most girls intentionally get a thrill out of hurting people at all. Young girls especially are immature and they just mess people about, much the same... (read in full...)
Suffering from low sex drive, and I'm concerned. Can anybody help?
Q. hope someone can help. basically ive been with my bf only just over 3 months now. im 19 and hes 22. at first when we had sex it was great and never had a problem appart from when he went too deep it hurt but all in all it felt nice and normal. now ...
A. 13 September 2007: Hi
I assume your not on any anti depressant meds at the mo? They can kill labido. I will assume you're not.
More than likely what you said. Stress at the moment. Sex is the first thing to go out the window when stress rears its ugly head. Also if ... (read in full...)
I split with him, and now he's with somebody else... It's tearing me apart!
Q. I split up from my ex recently but i still love him loads but the problem is he goes with someone else now and i dont no what to do. i've heard he doesnt like the other girl but i dont no what 2 do please help its tearing me apart ...
A. 13 September 2007: Hi
Stop stressing about it thats what you do! Blimey if he gets with someone that quick you had a lucky escape! I had a similar thing happen recently. You have to bear in mind some people are petrified of being on their own so they jump into bed ... (read in full...)
We've been together 2 yrs but now he says he's not ready for a relationship. Can anyone help?
Q. I am really confused. I had been with my boyfriend for 2 and half years when he said that he didnt know what he wanted anymore. He said that he loves me but doesnt know if he wants the relationship anymore. Hes 24 and says hes not sure if he is too ...
A. 12 September 2007: Hi
To be honest, without knowing too many details, i would say hes got through that honeymoon period and wants to try other people out. 18 months to 2 years is the classic time period when its make or break time with the person you are with.
I wou... (read in full...)
Does my married boyfriend still love me?
Q. My married boyfriend is scared to death of his wife. I bought him a cell phone and now I havent heard from him in three weeks but he is listening to all my messages is there any hope he loves me still?? His wife and him have not been happy for six ...
A. 12 September 2007: Sweetheart thats terrible ad i can sympathise when they have decieved you AND your kids. I was angry with someone for that. But the anger does pass and one day you seem to wake up and not give a sh** anymore to be honest! It was all a new emotion ... (read in full...)
Is it true that people that only go out with good looking people get hurt eventually?
Q. Is it true that people who only go out with good looking get hurt eventually, than the people who choose personality over looks?...
A. 12 September 2007: Hi Your wasting too much thinking time on this shallow person! hehe you know that deep down. Be strong! C xxxx... (read in full...)
My ex wants to keep in touch with his exes 18 yr old daughter but she is now ignoring him because he wont pay their bills. What can he do?
Q. Hi I split from my boyrfriend 4 months ago. There was a lot of anger on my part because i always felt he was keeping something from me the year i was with him. Thats why we split in the end. Turned out he was. He was in touch with his ex, but only...
A. 12 September 2007: Yes ive said that now Tommy. He said last night he has deleted her number. I said i would possibly go round there if i was him, because he really doesnt know what went wrong. And surely he has a right to know? Its either because he didnt get back ... (read in full...)
I found his secret phone and txt from a girl at work. Hes an alcoholic and we split loads but I hate being on my own so we get back together.
Q. i have just found out my partner of 3 years has been cheating on me, i found a secret mobile by his side in bed while he was drunk as usual!, it was full of explicit texts to a girl he works with, i couldnt believe wat i was seeing, i know he hasnt ...
A. 10 September 2007: Hi
Yuk yuk yuk. What a loser! I would kick his ass out, like yesterday! What a dispicable man. How can you possibly prefer being with someone like that than on your own? I just dont get that at all. Im on my own with 2 kids, and its fine. I know... (read in full...)
Does he want to end things with me and is trying to let me down gently?
Q. My boyfriend of 8 months recently told me he is depressed and that he wanted to get away from his friends, me, the city we live in (not together) and away from doing the same old things. He is a mature student and is due to start back at un...
A. 10 September 2007: Hi
It certainly does seem like it and i would assume that, if i was in your shoes.
You deserve to know though for sure so i would be asking. You know you dont want to hear it, but you need to for closure if that is whats going on.
All the best.
C... (read in full...)
I'm quite well off but am I wrong to like a woman that has manners to offer to pay her way on dates?
Q. I'm on the dating scene.I'm quite well-off, but I hate women who are after a free ride. I know as the man I'm expected to pay,initially at least. But am I wrong to judge a woman because she doesn't have the manners to even offer to pay her way? It ...
A. 10 September 2007: Hi Lyonsdown
Well im with you on this and im a female! I dont even think they guy should fork out the first date. If we go for a drink, he will usually buy the first round but i go next etc etc Dinner i would go halves on too, unless they real... (read in full...)
My ex wants to keep in touch with his exes 18 yr old daughter but she is now ignoring him because he wont pay their bills. What can he do?
Q. Hi I split from my boyrfriend 4 months ago. There was a lot of anger on my part because i always felt he was keeping something from me the year i was with him. Thats why we split in the end. Turned out he was. He was in touch with his ex, but only...
A. 10 September 2007: Hi I guess he doesnt now, but he thinks the world of her daughter. Hes even wondering now if they manipulated it all the last year to split us up, then when they couldnt get anything out of him, sent him packing. I said to him it would be horribl... (read in full...)
He's a great dad and a great guy but I don't think I love him anymore! Help!
Q. I have been married 6 years now. We met when I was barely 20 and were married 2 years after. We have two children (one from his previous marriage)and I'm trying to act like I'm happy in my marriage for them. I just don't know how long I can do ...
A. 10 September 2007: Hi
Ive been in the exact same situ. I was 29 when i left in the end. We had 2 kids and he was a great guy, i just didnt love him anymore and i know i felt like i hadnt lived. I had been with him nearly 10 years.
I went to counselling in the end ... (read in full...)
I have been given meds for irritable bowel syndrome. But should they be making me bloated?
Q. Hey, I have irrital bowel syndrome and i have been put on Colofac tablets by my doctor, i have recently got servere bloating that hasnt gone away, would these tablets give me severe bloating? As i thought they were supposed to get rid of symtoms ...
A. 10 September 2007: Hi
Colofac tabs are suppose to deal with that symptom yes. bloating is just one of the few symptoms of I.B.S
I used to suffer with it and to be honest those pills did nothing for me.
I had 6 months of feeling bloated and had to ride it out til i... (read in full...)
Can my girlfriend get pregnant if I cum in her when she's on her period?
Q. Can my girlfriend get pregnant if i cum in her when she is on her period? and can she get pregnant if i cum in her behind?...
A. 10 September 2007: Yes first question. And no second question. C xxxxx... (read in full...)
Do I risk damaging our relationship by bringing up the friendship with the ex?
Q. Hello I have a question relating to my girlfriend being friends with her ex. We have been dating a few months now and are very close, when we met I knew she was friends with several of her exes which I didn't really like too much but I know I c...
A. 10 September 2007: Hi I know where you are coming from here, ive been on both sides of the fence. I have no problem with being mates with exes and i am actually friends with 4 out of 6 of them. One of them (that i married at 18) and split from 16 years ago, i am in co... (read in full...)
Does my married boyfriend still love me?
Q. My married boyfriend is scared to death of his wife. I bought him a cell phone and now I havent heard from him in three weeks but he is listening to all my messages is there any hope he loves me still?? His wife and him have not been happy for six ...
A. 5 September 2007: Hi
First off...How do you know for sure hes listening to your messages?
C xxxx... (read in full...)
Is it true that people that only go out with good looking people get hurt eventually?
Q. Is it true that people who only go out with good looking get hurt eventually, than the people who choose personality over looks?...
A. 4 September 2007: Haha Duce you make me die. Set my nickers on fire. Your right though. The guy i probably loved the most in my life was 10 yrs older than me, was with him 10 yrs and he was average joe loooks wise to most i would say but grrrrrrrrrr to me! I also ... (read in full...)
Is it true that people that only go out with good looking people get hurt eventually?
Q. Is it true that people who only go out with good looking get hurt eventually, than the people who choose personality over looks?...
A. 4 September 2007: I doubt it.
Ive only ever dated 2 'traditionally' good looking people. The others have been average joes but funnily enough the 2 best looking ones i didnt fall for and didnt fancy, the others i fancied the pants off while i was with them! Hmm i th... (read in full...)
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