He's got to go to a stag do at a strip club, I'm not happy about it...help!!!
Q. My BF is going for a Bachelore party next month - yeah,that doesnt sound like a big deal to you guys, but to me - I AM GOING NUTS! I don't agree with Strip clubs at all. I don't unerstand why guys go there. To me its the biggest disrespect to th...
A. 9 September 2007: Hi Yes they can be. But good for you. Let this one go. Its not like its something hes kept from you, and he has very little choice and you sound a strong woman telling him if he goes to anymore your over. You sound like you mean it too! That mak... (read in full...)
My boyfriend assures me this crush for another girl will fade away. Should I give him more space?
Q. My boyfriend and I are very much in love. We have been dating for 2 years and we are both 17. But there is one problem. He likes another girl. It's been about three weeks since I found out, and I was hesitant to stay in the relationship but there is ...
A. 29 August 2007: Hi
He sounds either extremely honest or looking for an escape???
Hats off to you though. I think you're brave! My pride would have me running as fast as my legs would carry me! But i expect there are plenty of guys and gals that are attracte... (read in full...)
My husband senses the closeness I have with my cousin. We are both married, should we pursue a relationship together?
Q. I have been married twice. The first, was very short at a very young age. The second, is my current husband. We have been married and together between 5-10 years. We share several children. He has a child from a previous relationship and we ...
A. 29 August 2007: Hi
Your husband senses a closeness because there is one.
We all have instincts, his are telling him this is dangerous (for him) he's right?
I think if you want to save your marriage, then you keep your distance from this cousin.
If you dont, ... (read in full...)
Can any of you relate to me?
Q. Some female advice please I'm a mid 30's guy and happily single. It's really great to have my own life and I'm really happy except for the lack of intimacy and female interaction. Right now its just not an option to be looking for a wife and I don...
A. 29 August 2007: I hear ya Rockelle! I'm always making sure ive got my best gear on when i go shopping in Tescos! haha (thats the big name supremarket here)
Seriously though. You're quite right. Im a big believer in fate/destiny though.
C xxxxxx... (read in full...)
Can any of you relate to me?
Q. Some female advice please I'm a mid 30's guy and happily single. It's really great to have my own life and I'm really happy except for the lack of intimacy and female interaction. Right now its just not an option to be looking for a wife and I don...
A. 29 August 2007: Thats really sweet Anon about your dad.
I agree with that too. He just needed to be a bit more selective. It can go both ways though.
My recent ex, bought everyone with money. He had more respect for his ex before me, that ripped a hole in his wall... (read in full...)
She was blowing hot and cold so I ended it. How do you move on from someone you still love?
Q. I just recently ended a relationship with a girl that almost lasted nine months. this is by far my longest relationship and i just need some help on how to cope with it. i did not want to leave her, but she was not sure if she wanted to be with me ...
A. 29 August 2007: Thats a good start then, as long as you both know you need to work on what went wrong and not just brush it under the carpet. Otherwise you will be back to square one.
Keep us posted!
Keeping my fingers crossed!
C xxxxx... (read in full...)
Can any of you relate to me?
Q. Some female advice please I'm a mid 30's guy and happily single. It's really great to have my own life and I'm really happy except for the lack of intimacy and female interaction. Right now its just not an option to be looking for a wife and I don...
A. 29 August 2007: Right i think i'm getting where you're coming from. I'm in a similar situ myself.
I too am quite happy being single. I've got 2 kids. Ones 12 and the other is 10 so we have a ball. BUT like you, i would like to meet that special someone. But that... (read in full...)
My boyfriends little daughter wants to know why her parenst split. They have told her she will know when she is older. Do you think this is right?
Q. My boyfriend's daughter who is 7 years old told me she wants to know why her mom and my boyfriend got separated. She doesn't understand why everyone keep telling her they will explain to her when she is 17-18. The truth is her mom had an affair with ...
A. 28 August 2007: Hi
I would steer away from the gorey details at this age, for sure!
There is no way she should be told her mum had an affair. Shes 10. She doesnt need to know. Im not saying we should wrap our children in cotton wool, but really....
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What do you think about affairs?
Q. What do you guys think about affairs? Esp when someone has one when only in the first few years of their relationship. Does this mean generally they are unhappy, missing something? And if so once the affair has started and even stopped, will that...
A. 28 August 2007: If its not a rewarding relationship and talking has got you nowhere, then leave the relationship, then there's no need for cheating!
I think this is what people are meaning.
I personally think a lot of the time people just like the thrill of livin... (read in full...)
Is she dating someone else or is it just hormones?
Q. I have a pregnant ex girlfriend who may be seeing someone else. She won't even discuss us or getting back together. She just says it's over and I need to get used to the fact. Is it just hormones? Most of my guy friends think she has someone else ...
A. 28 August 2007: Hmmmm i can see your point.
Obviously you have an obligation at the moment, if the babe is yours.
I would just come outight and ask her 'are you seeing someone else because you seem to avoid the question??' or something like that.
If she just doe... (read in full...)
My boyfriends little girl sees me as a threat. I dont want to come between her and her dad. Any advice please?
Q. My boyfriend of 2 years has a 7 years old daughter. She is from his previous marriage that his wife ran off with another guy. The daughter is now living with the mom who just had a new born baby. I’m in good relationship with my boyfriend’s ...
A. 28 August 2007: Hi
My daughter is 10 now but doesn't like me having a boyfriend. I'm single now and she has made it perfectly clear that she wants me to stay that way, wants me all to herself. Has told me i cant even LOOK at nice looking guys in the street! haha... (read in full...)
I've been having an affair with an attached girl, I want her to leave him, can her relationship survive with him??
Q. Just after some different opinions bout me problem. I know its bad but been having an affair wiv a girl whos got a boyfriend of three years. It was both emotional and sexual and quite highly charged. We became v close through it. Think it started ...
A. 28 August 2007: Hi
And you wouldnt be treated like that by her if she did leave him, because?.......
If she cant dump a guy shes not even living with, what chance does someone she has responsibilities with in the future got?
She's got no commitment to him, ie h... (read in full...)
My ex just split from his girlfriend after she cheated on him, he wants me back. What should i do?
Q. Right my Ex boyfriend is in the army and he had a habbit of picking me up and putting me down when he felt like it. We split in December last year (just gone) and he was going to propose to me on new years. We dated for 3 and a half years. However ...
A. 28 August 2007: Hi
I would steer well clear of him if i was in your shoes. An ex is an ex for a reason and hes basically just trying to get back with what he knows (you)
Its 'safe' for him.
You can do better than that hun.
C xxxxx... (read in full...)
Why can't I get over my ex?
Q. So I broke up with my boyfriend back in Febuary and we didn't talk again until this summer. Things started going really well and we started thinking about dating again. Or at least I did but he was acting like he wanted to date me again. So a few ...
A. 28 August 2007: Hi
I feel for you, its horrible isnt it. Time and strength is the only things that will work through in the end. Like ive said to people before, you can know things aren't going to work, so split, but still feel terrible. Love isnt a light swit... (read in full...)
I've cheated on him 4 times but feel so guilty. Should i tell him??
Q. Please can you help me. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and love him very much, we talk about getting married and having children. However last year I cheated on him 4 times. Even now I cant explain why I did it; I lost both my grand...
A. 28 August 2007: Hi
Heres how i look at things like this. IF by telling someone a secret it improves things for them, then i say tell them. IF its NOT going to improve their life in any way, then dont!
Yes you feel guilty, this shows you have a conscience, many don... (read in full...)
Is it normal to not be able to orgasm with penetration only?
Q. I have been married a month but have known my husband for 2 years. I cant orgasm with penetration on when he fingers me, is this normal? I have always assumed it is but then he gets upset with me and says its because all i want him to do is finger ...
A. 28 August 2007: Hi
Perfectly normal. 30% of women will orgasm through penetration alone. The rest need clitoral stimulation.
Have fun.
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Does he really want me or is in it for the phsycal side? How can I tell?
Q. My probelm is as folows, this guy and i have been "dating" on and off for a few years now, the relationship tends to be physical although there is a connection, he just recently got out of a long term relationship and now wants me back (he actually ...
A. 28 August 2007: Hi
Sounds like a nightmare for you!
You say usually broke up with her for you? so i assume he's been doing a fair bit of yo yoing? Thats just awful and i cant imagine how you put up with that.
Wouldn't you be better off cutting your loses and du... (read in full...)
What's wrong with loving someone who is a bad person?
Q. What's wrong with loving someone who is a bad person?...
A. 28 August 2007: Hi
Nothing, but be prepared for a turbulant flight! Some people like the up n down emotions in a relationship with a bad boy/girl though. And that would be their choice.
I cant take it, i prefer a more even keel, someone on my wavelength. But ive ... (read in full...)
Whats the aerage size of a penis and do girls say size matters???
Q. This isnt really a question but it is something that bothers me and im guessing, quite alot of other guys. please could you tell me the size of ur penis flacid and erect. as for me im 1.5" flacid and 4.5 in erect. For women please could...
A. 28 August 2007: Hi
Sizes vary greatly! Just remember, its not the size of the wave that counts..Its the motion in the ocean!
C xxxxx... (read in full...)
I dream about this girl, is it a crush? Any advice please..
Q. Hi, well this is my situation, there's this girl in my class and i just can't stop looking/staring at her, and i have no idea why, i even have a different feeling when i talk to her its just like i totaly act different and want to do things together ...
A. 28 August 2007: Hmmmm
I'm not a big believer in dreams, even now, but i once dreamt about a guy i worked with, had only been married to someone else about a year at the time! But certainly didnt fancy the guy at work! Ended up with him 2 years later and having 2 ki... (read in full...)
I always orgasm during sex, But how do i ejaculate????
Q. I always orgasm, several times during sex, but never squirted ? how do i do this ?...
A. 28 August 2007: I'm with Spanna here! Why would you want to? Its quite a rare thing anyway. Dont focus on it, enjoy what comes naturally!
All the best.
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I need some tips about sex with me on top???
Q. I have a bit of a confidence problem, i have a new partner who is lovely and makes me feel special but when it comes to sex i feel i let him down. ive been sexually active for four years but i still cant go on top and take control as im emba...
A. 28 August 2007: Both!
Try not to worry, just climb on top and lift up and down (helps if you're longer legged) then try back and forth. There really arent any hard and fast rules! Pardon the pun!Have fun.
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How long should an orgasm last????
Q. I recently only started having sex for the first time. I was wondering why it seems that i only orgasm for like 5 seconds and thats it? is it suppose to last longer? How can i make it last longer? ...
A. 27 August 2007: Hi
It can last a few seconds and a bit longer if you can have multiples! To have those you need to go past the orgasm and keep going! You know, past that sensitive barrier and 'sometimes' you have another one a few seconds later. They're alri... (read in full...)
My mates been cheating on her guy and now I'm seeing the guy she's been sleeping with! What should i di??
Q. Hi my best friend lets call her suzie said to me about three months ago that she really likes this guy she has known for two years, lets call him jake, and its only this year that he can return her feelings but now she has a bf! she keeps doing stuf...
A. 27 August 2007: Hi
Sounds like a bit of rivalry going on here?
Was you even a little jealous that your friend had 2 guys on the go?
She's definately not ready for anything serious is she. But these guys are like puppets on a string!
I would forget this Jake... (read in full...)
What is it called when a girl uses a sex toy on a guy??
Q. what is it called when a girl uses a dildo on a guy to shag them? me and my gf saw it during a porn vid we watched together and are extremely interested in trying it. If any1 has any experiences of this please can you give us sum tips to prep...
A. 27 August 2007: I dont think there is a word for it????
Just use plenty of lube and go steady!
Good luck.
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She was blowing hot and cold so I ended it. How do you move on from someone you still love?
Q. I just recently ended a relationship with a girl that almost lasted nine months. this is by far my longest relationship and i just need some help on how to cope with it. i did not want to leave her, but she was not sure if she wanted to be with me ...
A. 27 August 2007: Hi
I wouldnt have a clue if she is possibly cheating, obviously you couldnt put all the details in here. But go have the one to one with her IF you think there is a possibility things could change. No relationship should end if you are in love and ... (read in full...)
My boyfriends female friend likes him! Its making me feel insecure. I hate her. Do i dump him??
Q. Ive been with this guy for six months now.before me he used to like a girl, but she got with his best mate and they are still together.my boyfriend and this girl are still 'best friends' though. is that possible???she really is the perfect girl for ...
A. 27 August 2007: Hi
I think this is more about how you feel about yourself?
Its a tricky situation because your spot on about what it will make you come across like if you say something to him.
He probably does like her as a mate and she probably does like him, bu... (read in full...)
I didn't want to ruin our friendship so i refused to date him, But now he's met someone else, I feel i made a mistake????
Q. Should I tell him how I feel, or is it just too little to late? One of my best guy friends and I have always had a flirty relationship where we both basically liked each other. He has attempted to take things further on a number of occasions, but ...
A. 27 August 2007: Hi Jessica,
Do you know what, i think you made the right choice before and you could of ruined a good friendship and you're just losing sight of that at the moment possibly?
As long as you are still able to be friends now, thats a good thing?
... (read in full...)
He's got to go to a stag do at a strip club, I'm not happy about it...help!!!
Q. My BF is going for a Bachelore party next month - yeah,that doesnt sound like a big deal to you guys, but to me - I AM GOING NUTS! I don't agree with Strip clubs at all. I don't unerstand why guys go there. To me its the biggest disrespect to th...
A. 27 August 2007: Hi
Awwwww its a tough one for your guy really cuz hes just gotta go with the flow, not really his fault. Unless he doesnt go, and thats not really fair on his cousin.
I can see where you're coming from too though because i wouldnt be totally ... (read in full...)
My guy doesn't like me going on dear cupid! He says it's porn with words!But i enjoy it..
Q. My boyfriend gets mad at me when I go on Dear Cupid! I am a stay at home mom, and I'm pregnant so I don't have much of a life. I go on Dear Cupid and I like to try to help by giving people advice. My b.f. gets mad at me and says that the ...
A. 27 August 2007: Hi there,
Has your guy actually had a look through the site?
I ceratinly wouldnt expect a guy to be happy if i was browsing porn sites but this site is here to offer people opinions on varios things. If i was with someone i would be a bit miffed i... (read in full...)
This guy knows i like him, he has a girlfriend but wants to start seeing me! What shall i do?
Q. okay, well the guy i like is now 16 (im 14) and we've been really close for ages. he always used to flirt with me alot, but i just assumed he was just being a good friend and messing about. But about a year ago i realised i liked him as something...
A. 27 August 2007: Hi there,
Im going to hazard a guess here, but what if he's now hitting on you because you confessed you liked him a lot and he wants to now take advantage of that fact?
The best thing you can do for YOURSELF, is tell the guy to go buy some bal... (read in full...)
I'm a mum of 2 and have met a great guy but cant help cheating with my FWB. How do i move on???
Q. I am a divorced mum of 2 and last year i met a guy who i totally fell in love with. The only thing is, he only wants to see me for sex. He said he enjoys my company but doesnt want a relationship. I know this is wrong but i cant brake the habi...
A. 27 August 2007: Hi
You have let the nice guy go but still want the user guy?
I'm not getting that.
If i was in your shoes i would do a lot of soul searching and try n figure out what it is i exactly want. The fwb guy wasnt giving you everything you want or you ... (read in full...)
She was blowing hot and cold so I ended it. How do you move on from someone you still love?
Q. I just recently ended a relationship with a girl that almost lasted nine months. this is by far my longest relationship and i just need some help on how to cope with it. i did not want to leave her, but she was not sure if she wanted to be with me ...
A. 27 August 2007: Its a nightmare isnt it! I remember it well and never thought i would come out the other side to be honest but you certainly do.
Good on you fighting the booze and drug deamons before, stay strong. Thats the last thing you need now.
It will be ... (read in full...)
He said our relation wasn't "exclusive," I slept with an ex and now I feel guilty. What should I do?
Q. I met a guy at work recently and we started sleeping together, I have started to get a bit attached to him and told him, only for him to tell me that he couldn't cope with a relationship right now and could we remain sex buddies for the duration, ...
A. 27 August 2007: Hiya,
Hey stop with the guilt! You dont owe this guy anything. You both agreed you were free to do what you liked. Do you think he hasnt used that advantage too? You havent agreed to give each other details when you do have you?
I really think yo... (read in full...)
Is a £95 necklace enough or too much for my girlfriends birthday?
Q. Hey .. i was just wondreing.. its my gf birthday a few days after our 6 month...and i got her a £95 white gold heart necklace..do you think thats too much or too little (or just right lol).. thank you :):)...
A. 27 August 2007: Hi
Sounds good to me!
She will love that.
Congrats on your half year anniversary.
Thats sweet.
All the best.
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Erections fade quickly...what's going on?
Q. I've had a very good sexual relaion with my husband. but recently it seems something is wrong. he gets erected , starts doing it and in few minutes we face a diserection. wt culd b the reason...
A. 27 August 2007: Hi
Could be lots of things. What age is he?
Erectile dysfunction affects about 1 in 10 guys at some point.
Can be physical, so he does need to see a doc, can just be smoking or drinking too much, or can be psychological.
Is that possible at all?... (read in full...)
My guy sends off signals that he cant be trusted, I've found some txt from another girl, do I contact her?
Q. Hi. I have been together with my boyfriend for almost a year now but something about him sends off signals that he cant be fully trusted. Maybe it's that he constantly checks out other women in my presence. Anyway, I will openly admit that I am a s...
A. 27 August 2007: If you think he is lying i would go to her yes.
Has he suggested that at all? My ex used to. But then he would, he knew i wasn't going to go that far, I wish i had! Ha!
Good luck. Let us know how it goes.
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She was blowing hot and cold so I ended it. How do you move on from someone you still love?
Q. I just recently ended a relationship with a girl that almost lasted nine months. this is by far my longest relationship and i just need some help on how to cope with it. i did not want to leave her, but she was not sure if she wanted to be with me ...
A. 27 August 2007: Hi Niceguy,
Yes i would of done the same thing to be honest. Lifes too short to be waiting for someone to make their mind up. I would do it for them.
Ive been in that boat where you split from someone you still love and its flippin hard! But time... (read in full...)
Moving to a new town, I find myself in minority! How do I immerse in a society I dislike?
Q. I just moved from NYC to a new town and I am really scared of trying to fit in here. I would love to have friends and have a life the problem is that people here are SO different to what I am used to. Please don't think I am a snob, but the only way ...
A. 27 August 2007: Hi
Its going to be very difficult to make friends with people you dont even like?
I would find that real hard.
You are going to have to sacrifice your own values and lower yourself. Are you happy doing that?
What a shame you have to live there.
... (read in full...)
Is it normal for boys to stare at other girls while out with their fiancees?
Q. Is it normal for guys to stare at girls while out with their fiancees? I understand that looking or glancing at someone of the opposite sex once in a while is natural, but my fiance just stares at girl for more than a few seconds while he is right ...
A. 27 August 2007: Apparently most guys do it. I havent experienced it a lot, only with younger guys. Its rude in my opinion though.
Its embarrassing for us too. Women can be very catty to other women, and that just adds more fuel to their fire at times.
C xxxxx... (read in full...)
I'm tired of my brother being friends with my ex!
Q. Hi Ok, i saw a question on here earlier that drew my attention to my current situation and wouldn't mind a bit of feedback on it. My ex and i split 3 months ago now. I have no feelings for him apart from dislike and he is aware of this (i wont go ...
A. 27 August 2007: Anon, i have no desire to cure my exes drinking problem. Hes of no interest to me. Was only half with him a year. Off n on.
If i had my way, he would of disappeared 3 months ago when i dumped him and i wouldnt of seen him again. Isnt that what we a... (read in full...)
Ive just got engaged and I'm happy but i fancy a girl at work! Help!
Q. Hi i'm 20 and i've recently got engaged to my long term girlfriend a few weeks ago, i also look after my 9 week old step daughter from my girlfriends ex who i also love very much. I thought everything was going great until recently i have started ...
A. 27 August 2007: Hi
Blimey thats a tricky one. Umm you say you're definately not getting a bit panicky about making that commitment to your girl? Feeling its all going a little too quick?
Maybe something is missing with the girl you are with now?
I really dont ... (read in full...)
My guy sends off signals that he cant be trusted, I've found some txt from another girl, do I contact her?
Q. Hi. I have been together with my boyfriend for almost a year now but something about him sends off signals that he cant be fully trusted. Maybe it's that he constantly checks out other women in my presence. Anyway, I will openly admit that I am a s...
A. 27 August 2007: Hi
When i first read this question the first half was like you were talking about my ex!
I was with him a year and to be honest, my instincts were telling me he couldnt be trusted. He did lie about his ex txting, saying it was someone else (male) h... (read in full...)
I'm tired of my brother being friends with my ex!
Q. Hi Ok, i saw a question on here earlier that drew my attention to my current situation and wouldn't mind a bit of feedback on it. My ex and i split 3 months ago now. I have no feelings for him apart from dislike and he is aware of this (i wont go ...
A. 27 August 2007: Hi Penta,
Yeh i stopped giving him money just after me and the ex split, because that was the only time i heard from him. The ex had taken off to Spain for 2 weeks, because we split.
Me and mum have spoken to someone about his drugs thing and they... (read in full...)
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