I'm not Asian so could we be compatible
Q. I have a question about a guy I am interested in that I may be starting to date (assuming he moves things forward with me). He has been separated for three years and his divorce paperwork is with the lawyers. His ex-wife is not contesting the ...
A. 26 January 2008: I wouldnt look too far into the divorce, especially if they have been estranged for some time now. The divorce is just a technicality. Time will sort that.
Are you sure he hasnt just dated Asian women because its where he works? I mean, its quit... (read in full...)
I've scared him off by not wanting to get married so quick after meeting. Did he love me?
Q. I met my boyfriend on 27 Oct 2007. He was very loving and proposed to me 2 weeks later. I agreed but then stalled and asked for more time, suggesting we get engaged in a few months. We spent 10 days together at Christmas but I felt it was too much ...
A. 26 January 2008: Hi
This struck me as a bit too much too soon. Why is he is intent on getting hitched so quick?
Not too sure if i beleve in love at first sight personally, but who knows. I agree that if he really loved you, something like that wouldnt send him pack... (read in full...)
He has his cake and eats it
Q. Ok. I had an affair with a man I am in love with and he is in love with me. I got a divorce and he didn't. He told me he couldn't leave because of his small child. He does not want to lose his child or have his child growing up being shameful of ...
A. 26 January 2008: Until she goes along to the sports shop and purchases herself a pair of balls and tells him to do 1. Cuz at the moment you are both too lacking in self esteem to give the bloke the heave ho and find someone that treats you both with respect. No shes ... (read in full...)
I need help healing and getting through this breakup
Q. Need help healing - my question is mainly - how can I get through this "breakup"? Background follows: I just ended a casual relationship with a guy that I have had a friendship/flirtship with for over a year. We work at the same company. For th...
A. 26 January 2008: Glad to hear it. I guess its like giving up smoking. After a while, the craving goes away and someone can put one in front of you and you dont get that urge anymore! Blimey that was ages ago you posted that question. I hadnt long split from someone ... (read in full...)
Can you break a penis?
Q. I know this sounds totally ridiculous, but can you break a penis? Is this possible? Just seen as you can break an arm or a leg, why shouldn't you be able to break a penis?...
A. 25 January 2008: Just found this on line if its of help...
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Can you break a penis?
Q. I know this sounds totally ridiculous, but can you break a penis? Is this possible? Just seen as you can break an arm or a leg, why shouldn't you be able to break a penis?...
A. 25 January 2008: No but you can 'fracture' it. Its common when the woman is sat on top and smacks down hard and misses basically! Some guys say they hear a snap sound. Sometimes it needs surgery even. Scar tissue builds up and can cause a bend. But its rare. My ex ... (read in full...)
Do guys compare their girlfriends to the girls in porn?
Q. do guys compare their girlfriends to the girls in porn? I was just wondering because my boyfriend watches porn all the time and lately I have had a hard time in bed because I am worried that I am not attractive enough because he'll be thinking...
A. 25 January 2008: I can see what Yos is saying. But its extremely common for both sexes to 'imagine' being with someone different when having sex. Might come as a bit of a shock to some people that but i'm afraid its a well known fact. And any relationship counsellor ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to give him oral sex but I don't want to...what should I do??
Q. My boyfriend wants me to preform oral sex but I don't want to. What should I do?...
A. 25 January 2008: Then dont do it. Is there any particular reason you dont want to? Have you tried it? At the end of the day, you only do what you feel comfy with. It does my head in when guys pile the pressure on women to do what they want to them when they're not ... (read in full...)
He doesn't want to see me because of my depression but if he isn't interested then why spend so long on the phone with me???
Q. Where to start. Started talking to someone on line October 06, we were supposed to meet 22nd October, never happened, had a huge online argument instead on a public forum. Started talking again Jan 07, he lived 280 miles away. He moved to within ...
A. 25 January 2008: So in theory the whole thing could be a farce? What did he say about the holiday then? Is there really a house? And to be honest, i wouldnt even consider moving in with a guy i hadnt met in person. You dont know what spending a few hours in his ... (read in full...)
He doesn't want to see me because of my depression but if he isn't interested then why spend so long on the phone with me???
Q. Where to start. Started talking to someone on line October 06, we were supposed to meet 22nd October, never happened, had a huge online argument instead on a public forum. Started talking again Jan 07, he lived 280 miles away. He moved to within ...
A. 25 January 2008: Hi
Im not getting this, you have never met the guy but he is putting money into your account and sending parcels?
You argue on a public forum and give him a hard time?
Its possible this guy is extremely inexperienced in real r.ships and thats wh... (read in full...)
Deep down I am not ready for this type of relationship...but could letting him go be a big mistake??
Q. For over two years i have been dating the same guy. He is great, funny, nice, loving... But lately, especially over the last few months i have been questioning our relationship. Our families have different religions and he will never agree with min...
A. 25 January 2008: Hi Oh blimey, what a dilema. Hmmm well, i guess if he doesnt tick all the right boxes then you would be better off moving on. Easier said than done though isnt it! I suppose you could say no one would ever fit our ideal, afterall there is no such... (read in full...)
Is cyber sex cheating??
Q. Is cyber sex cheating? I have a bf but i ended up having cyber sex just once with one of my friends i met online. Should i tell my bf? My bf and i have been together for 2 months now, we havent told eachother we loved eachother, so it hasent g...
A. 25 January 2008: If you know it wasnt a smart thing to do and wont be repeating the said thing, then im a big believer in 'if it benefits them to be told the truth tell them, if it doesnt make their life a better place if you do tell them, then dont'
T... (read in full...)
Should I worry my wife might be gay because she watchs lesbian porn before sex??
Q. My wife watches lesbian porn before we have sex. Do i have to worry if she is a lesbian????...
A. 25 January 2008: What does she say?
If she needs to do that before everytime you sleep together then surely thats a bit of a worry?
I know plenty of people that like watching gay porn but are straight though. I would be more concerned if she needed to watch po... (read in full...)
Do guys compare their girlfriends to the girls in porn?
Q. do guys compare their girlfriends to the girls in porn? I was just wondering because my boyfriend watches porn all the time and lately I have had a hard time in bed because I am worried that I am not attractive enough because he'll be thinking...
A. 25 January 2008: Cant answer for guys but any guys ive known that have liked porn (amazingly not all do!) have said they never compare their women to them. I mean, would you compare the guys on there to yours? I know i wouldnt.
Porn does little for me so its not ... (read in full...)
My wife added an ex as a friend on myspace and I think this is very wrong...should I just delete him or confront her first??
Q. My wife and I are married for a little over 4 years. We were dating/engaged for about 3 years before that. So we have a lot of history and a great marriage. Question is, my wife recently set up a myspace account (with my help, she is a little c...
A. 25 January 2008: Hi
I wouldnt go deleting it. She might not be great on pc's but that doesnt mean you go deleting contacts on her profile pages.
Depends how you feel about this guy, what kinda threat he would be to you. If you have a good marriage, is there a ... (read in full...)
He isn't working. Am I being selfish wondering is there any future for us?
Q. hi all just wanted your advice see ive been dating this guy for 4 months and since we started to go out he hasnt had a job , i mean hes tried going to job center and trying all sorts of places but its because he didnt get any qualifications i...
A. 25 January 2008: I agree with anon e mouse to be honest.
I have a couple of things that are a must when i next meet someone and they are the same 2 things. Apart from the obvious other things of course!
I am in no position to support someone, i have 2 children... (read in full...)
Should I still trust my wife after she admitted emailing her ex behind my back??
Q. Hi, My wife received an email from an old boyfriend, she told me at that time and we agreed to that, she will reply and tell him that, my husband don't like us to exchange emails and for that this is my last email to you. The problem is my wi...
A. 25 January 2008: Hi Tricky one. Yes and no. Possibly it is only to see how everyone is getting on. Thats fair enough. Or possibly she isn't too happy at the mo and is looking for a bit of excitement. Him emailing is out of her control and the fact she was upfront ... (read in full...)
Is it possible that the G spot is sensitive for only a certain percentage of women?
Q. I have a very good sex life and I am able to orgasm by masturbation. But I have been wanted to have a G spot orgasm and even squirt for the longest while. I have seen vidoes and read books etc on how to do it. I know where my G spot is and often ...
A. 25 January 2008: Hi When you take into account that only 30% of women will orgasm through intercourse alone (no clitoral stimulation atall) then i guess it could be true. And i think even less actually ejaculate. Whys it such a big deal? C xxxxx... (read in full...)
She wrote love notes to her ex and I found them! How do I forget this and move on with her?
Q. Hi all, I need a little advice... My partner and I have been living together for 5mths now. When we first met we were both fresh out of previous relationships - I had been dating someone for 2mths and she had been in a relationship for 2yrs....
A. 24 January 2008: Hi Let her go. That would be my choice anyway. Love or no love. She was obviously not happy, why else would she be having second thoughts about her ex. She doesn't really know what she wants. Your a parent. The truth is, she was too soon out of a... (read in full...)
How can he say he loves me when he behaves like this?
Q. My husband has damaged our relationship, we have been married for 30 years, recently I discovered he had been watching porn and masturbating to it, he said he would stop and that it was probably due to boredom having been together for so long. Then ...
A. 23 January 2008: Hi
Porn isnt a big deal no, but when someone is hiding it, its more of a worry. I do agree with him to a certain extent about the porn though. Its no reflection on you. Blokes are very visual, unlike women so much. Guys like to actually see thin... (read in full...)
How can I get over him?
Q. I was "with" a guy but not actually dating him for almost 3 months while he got over his ex of 3 years. He was in love with her and I came to accept that he was going to need time to get over her. I didn't really realise it at the time since he was ...
A. 23 January 2008: Hi
Sounds like he subconciously used you as a crutch to get over his ex. That was very unfair of him. But i dont suppose he gave it much thought at the time and probably didnt mean any malice. Like he said to his friends he really didnt know what... (read in full...)
Am I being too soft?
Q. I have just had a really tough year in my marriage. Here is a brief history: My husband walk out after a few months of marriage, devastated I then let my job, started a new life, he asked me back after 4 months, i went back, we then move abroad, i ...
A. 23 January 2008: I agree with eyeswideopen. Couldnt of put it better myself. Or add anymore to that apart from, personally i think the idea of living in Spain is very appealing! But thats just me!
Good luck.
C xxxxx... (read in full...)
Is it healthy to date two similar men at the same time?
Q. Do you think my relationship is healthy? Im in love with 2 men and they both know. I fist fell in love with (will call him Guy) Guy is 10 years older then me, I honestly dont care about that, the issue is he does humantarian work in Africa and we...
A. 23 January 2008: How bizarre! Never heard anything like it. I think its possibly innevitable that someone will get hurt eventually. Threes a crowd n all that jaz.
I dont know, i cant see it working long term.
I feel for you, must be a nightmare loving 2 people. ... (read in full...)
Can Exes really be 'Just Friends'?
Q. Can Women and Men really be just friends if they are exs? My boyfriend still talks to his ex. He was talking to her before he and I met, but she lives all the way in Japan! They send emails back and forth and it kind of bothers me. He says its ...
A. 23 January 2008: Hi
All sounds fine to me. Im mates with my ex husband. We didnt have children together and we split 16 yrs ago. Ok, we didnt see each other until about 7 years ago, and even then it was only once when i went to a bar b q, but last summer we hook... (read in full...)
How can I believe him and trust him again?
Q. Dear Cupid, I am in a dilemma, I have been married for 6 months now and have been going out with him for 4 years before that. I just cannot tell you how much i love this man, he means everything to me and i thought I meant the same to him. The...
A. 23 January 2008: Hi
Well porn isnt a crime. And if it wasnt for the fact he hid it, it wouldnt be so bad would it? afterall, lots of people use porn even while in a relationship. Personally i dont see a problem with that. Maybe you came across as disaproving of porn... (read in full...)
He keeps on lying to me. How can I trust him?
Q. my boyfriend has lied to me many times but never cheated on me. he has lied to me for the past 7 months, and the whole time he was lying to me i was still trying to recover from his past lies. he knew i was emotionally vulnerable and i had also been ...
A. 23 January 2008: Hi
From an outsiders point of view i would run as fast away from this guy as i could. I was lied to by someone. Basically for my own protection because he didnt wanna lose me, to do with an ex and her teen daughter, but still lies, and after some... (read in full...)
Should I go back to COJ?
Q. This guy named COJ wants me to be with him but we have already been together 4 times and we broke up again. I love him and he told me he loves me but im not sure if its true. He is begging me to get back together with him but there is another guy in ...
A. 23 January 2008: Hi
Probably not be with either of them. Especially not the guy you have broken up with so many times before. How many times do you have to try again before you call it a day completely? Ive got back with someone in the past and we split again rece... (read in full...)
Does a bigger Penis mean better sex?
Q. I can't stave off something that has made me massively insecure and jealous. My girlfriend of 3 and a half years recently broke up with me for another guy. It was the worst experience of my life, literally :( but it's been 4 months since then and ...
A. 10 January 2008: Hi
I'm with AJjess here! Unless you have a bucket...well, you know what i mean!? you wont want a mahooooosive one thats for sure. Cystitis risk increase! Ouch.
The size of someones manhood, or breasts for that matter doesnt make for a loving s... (read in full...)
Is there any way I can get rid of the hurt?
Q. my bf and i only broke up a month ago and he already moved on and askin for some girl's fone number!! i couldnt believe this after everything we went through. I still cant seem to move on from him and still have strong feelings for him even though ...
A. 10 January 2008: Hi
Well, not meaning to be rude but whats his mate on about? Why would the guy be trying to make you jealous if he ended it? or rather, tries to get someone elses number already? I'm missing something there maybe. But you're definately better off ... (read in full...)
Which is hotter - blonde or brunette?
Q. A bit of a survey here... Are girls hotter as blondes? or brunettes? I would love to know your personal preferance... thnx xoxo ...
A. 10 January 2008: Strange question. Its like asking whats best, salt n vinegar crisps or cheese n onion. Totally personal preference, and the answers will be varying and an unreliable outcome.
I have recently dyed my hair dark again. After 2 yrs of being blonde, its ... (read in full...)
How important is attraction in a relationship?
Q. Me and my fiancé broke up about 3 months ago. I still miss him and love him and am holding on to some sort of hope that we will be together in the future. However there is a new guy I have been talking to quite a bit lately.he is such a sweet and ...
A. 9 January 2008: Hi
I agree with hello1 comepletely. I too get more attracted to someone the more i get to know them. And have also spent a few months with someone that would be considred to most good looking, but i never grew to actually fancy him. I guess its just... (read in full...)
Is he on the rebound? Does he love her?
Q. me and my boyfriend of 1 1/2 years have just split up..naturally i am crushed as he has left me for another girl. but what i do not understand is that we live on an island and he is going out with someone who lives on the mainland even though he ...
A. 9 January 2008: Hi
He might well be on the rebound (very likely after such short time) but at the end of the day, he might just be wanting a bit of time out to experiment with someone new. If this is the case, why bother with him? He is probably too young to sett... (read in full...)
Found receipts of my husband's, which I suspect to indicate porn watching. What do you think?
Q. What is Video Pay TV on a hotel receipt. Is it porn? Found it on some of my husbands receipts when he was away on business. He denies it is porn, but has viewed porn many times behind my back, and would deny it no matter what anyway. He says he ...
A. 9 January 2008: Hi
I would say its just a pay per view thing, like sky, sports etc. It could of been porn, but is that so bad? I guess atleast if he was in his room, he wasnt out meeting women! Maybe a twisted way of looking at it, but true none the less ey :o) ... (read in full...)
Has he been in a lap dancing club? He's fairly attentive to me and a good father to my child, but it's the deceipt I cannot tolerate.
Q. Hi, I have just found out my husband has been into a lap dancing club. Basically the other night i found out he had been viewing porn and he lied about it to me. My husband travels a little with his job, usually Prague, a few years ago he used to go ...
A. 9 January 2008: Hi
He may well have left the place right away. My fella is not really into porn at all. He has seen films obviously, watched a few with partners in the past, and he knows i have no problem with it at all to be honest. Its only visual stuff in my o... (read in full...)
He wants his money back - do I pay up?
Q. I had a male business associate and we unfortunately became intimate two years ago. Four months into the relationship he offered to lend me money for a breast augmentation. We had a tumultuous love affair and after his obsessions became apparent, I ...
A. 9 January 2008: Hi
Bit amazed the last 2 answers seemed to be of the opinion that you should fc** him over and not bother paying the money back. He offered to lend you money, what makes you think its fine to not bother paying it back just because things didnt work... (read in full...)
Is there any way I can get rid of the hurt?
Q. my bf and i only broke up a month ago and he already moved on and askin for some girl's fone number!! i couldnt believe this after everything we went through. I still cant seem to move on from him and still have strong feelings for him even though ...
A. 4 January 2008: Hi
This guy is an immature prick. Sorry to be so blunt but you have more maturity in your middle finger than he does anywhere in his whole body. You only just split and he is chasing someone elses number???? Twat. Thats what springs to mind. He is a... (read in full...)
I need some information on the female orgasm.
Q. ok so im just curious, trying to figure out what women like best during sex so I can the next one I have sex with be very attracted to me. I have heard that sex is better as a female, because of multiple orgasms, and the fact that their orgasms are ...
A. 4 January 2008: 1. When women have these multiple orgasms, do you still feel tired and drained after an orgasm, or do you feel energetic and wanting to go again? ......
Yes, tired and drained. But not for as long as males usually.
2. Is the man suppo... (read in full...)
Do I have false hopes that we will ever be together?
Q. Very complicated. I have been dating a married man for 2 years. When we first met things were really good. He works in my home town and lives about 7 hours away so we were able to be with each other a lot. His work schedule is 3weeks on 1week off. ...
A. 2 January 2008: Hi
What a horrible man. Sorry but he sounds disgusting. He moved in with you after 2 months and decieved his wife and children for so long. What kind of person can do that?
Thats what i would be asking myself, and after i have spent all of 5 minute... (read in full...)
I found someone else..how do I break up with my current gf without any hostility?
Q. I've been dating the same girl for the past two and a half years. But recently things have started dying within our relationship. I couldn't care less for sex or anything like that, but the passion is gone. She has a bad habit of displacing her ...
A. 20 December 2007: Hi Hats off to you for wanting to get out and not do the dirty behind your current girlfriends back! Well, its not going to be pleasant whatever you do. But you dont have any choice do you. You are probably best off just being honest about you... (read in full...)
He got back with his ex for the sake of the kids, but still sees me. I have fallen for him hard!
Q. I met this man on a night out and he was single, so we hit it off right away. He later told me he had 2 children and after a month of seeing him he got back with his ex, i think he only got back with her for the children. Now we are still talking ...
A. 20 December 2007: Hi I agree with Waterloo sunset. He wants his cake and eat it. He doesnt love either of you. But obviously his wife is more useful to him domestically or whatever reason. And maybe you fill the sex side of things. If he went back to his ex, you s... (read in full...)
Do you think I should give my cheating ex another chance?
Q. I have written on here three time already but wanted to update you. My ex (broke up 7 months now) really wants me back and I am re-considering. He cheated on me whilst I was pregnant but they didnt have sex until we broke up and there relationship ...
A. 13 December 2007: Hi
Sorry to hear things didnt work out. If you can stay on good terms for the kids though thats good.
Although i think he should of waited a while yet before introducing the kids to someone new. And should of spoken to you about it first, thats a ... (read in full...)
Do you think I should give my cheating ex another chance?
Q. I have written on here three time already but wanted to update you. My ex (broke up 7 months now) really wants me back and I am re-considering. He cheated on me whilst I was pregnant but they didnt have sex until we broke up and there relationship ...
A. 24 September 2007: Hi
This is a real tricky one because different circumstances would make for a different answer. But the fact you are both young, the fact that you have children and the fact that you have feelings for him still (im assuming cuz i didnt spot that... (read in full...)
I need help healing and getting through this breakup
Q. Need help healing - my question is mainly - how can I get through this "breakup"? Background follows: I just ended a casual relationship with a guy that I have had a friendship/flirtship with for over a year. We work at the same company. For th...
A. 25 August 2007: Hi
He probably is a bit broken because of his forced marriage all those years ago & no matter who he is with, he wont commit to them.
By the sounds of it in my opinion you have done the right thing but that doesnt mean you just dust yourself... (read in full...)
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