My guy sends off signals that he cant be trusted, I've found some txt from another girl, do I contact her?
Q. Hi. I have been together with my boyfriend for almost a year now but something about him sends off signals that he cant be fully trusted. Maybe it's that he constantly checks out other women in my presence. Anyway, I will openly admit that I am a s...
A. 27 August 2007: If you think he is lying i would go to her yes.
Has he suggested that at all? My ex used to. But then he would, he knew i wasn't going to go that far, I wish i had! Ha!
Good luck. Let us know how it goes.
c XXXX... (read in full...)
I'm tired of my brother being friends with my ex!
Q. Hi Ok, i saw a question on here earlier that drew my attention to my current situation and wouldn't mind a bit of feedback on it. My ex and i split 3 months ago now. I have no feelings for him apart from dislike and he is aware of this (i wont go ...
A. 27 August 2007: Anon, i have no desire to cure my exes drinking problem. Hes of no interest to me. Was only half with him a year. Off n on.
If i had my way, he would of disappeared 3 months ago when i dumped him and i wouldnt of seen him again. Isnt that what we a... (read in full...)
Ive just got engaged and I'm happy but i fancy a girl at work! Help!
Q. Hi i'm 20 and i've recently got engaged to my long term girlfriend a few weeks ago, i also look after my 9 week old step daughter from my girlfriends ex who i also love very much. I thought everything was going great until recently i have started ...
A. 27 August 2007: Hi
Blimey thats a tricky one. Umm you say you're definately not getting a bit panicky about making that commitment to your girl? Feeling its all going a little too quick?
Maybe something is missing with the girl you are with now?
I really dont ... (read in full...)
We split a month ago and I've tried dating someone else but cant get my ex out mr head!
Q. So me and my boyfriend broke up like a month and a half ago. we dated for a little over 6 months. I just cant seem to get him out of my mind. i started talking to one guy and he was really nice but everytime we were together i just couldnt get ...
A. 27 August 2007: Hi
Too soon, way too soon. Regardless of who did the finishing, you need to go through a grieving process. Sounds crazy yes, but that is exactly what it is.
You need time to find yourself as a single person again. Even if you didnt live with som... (read in full...)
How easy is it to make a girl ejaculate?
Q. On average how hard is it to make a girl ejaculate? Can it b done by oral sex?...
A. 27 August 2007: Hi
Good luck with that! Ive had some damn good orgasms but never once ejaculated! I prefer not to cheers, its clean n tidy this way! haha
Dont be watching too many porn films! They are highly misleading to guys.
Out of every 10 women you sleep wi... (read in full...)
He split with her then wanted to start seeing me but she is spreading rumours about me. Should i get with him?
Q. I started a new job working night shift about 9 months ago. I was trained by a guy (well call him Nathan) and we had so much free time we got to know each other very well. I am not in any type of relationship but he had told me he was. Nathan never ...
A. 27 August 2007: Hi
This is one of those gamble things really.
I was in a similar situation, met a guy, he said he wasnt happy with his 6 year relationship, hadnt been for a couple of years. I said thanks but no thanks, i dont go for attached guys. He left her with... (read in full...)
My guy sends off signals that he cant be trusted, I've found some txt from another girl, do I contact her?
Q. Hi. I have been together with my boyfriend for almost a year now but something about him sends off signals that he cant be fully trusted. Maybe it's that he constantly checks out other women in my presence. Anyway, I will openly admit that I am a s...
A. 27 August 2007: Hi
When i first read this question the first half was like you were talking about my ex!
I was with him a year and to be honest, my instincts were telling me he couldnt be trusted. He did lie about his ex txting, saying it was someone else (male) h... (read in full...)
Girls, what would you not like/tolerate in a partner, generally speaking?
Q. All right, so most guys already know what it is women want in a guy, smart, handsome, confident, etc. But a question I don't ever see asked that I think would help out my situation as well as some others is, what don't women want in a guy, what a...
A. 27 August 2007: Everyone will have a different answer. Lifes not that simple you know! ha!
But me personally, and bear in mind i'm an oldie so younger women will probably say different.
But i go for someone that i get good vibes from. My senses tell me if someone ... (read in full...)
I'm tired of my brother being friends with my ex!
Q. Hi Ok, i saw a question on here earlier that drew my attention to my current situation and wouldn't mind a bit of feedback on it. My ex and i split 3 months ago now. I have no feelings for him apart from dislike and he is aware of this (i wont go ...
A. 27 August 2007: Hi Penta,
Yeh i stopped giving him money just after me and the ex split, because that was the only time i heard from him. The ex had taken off to Spain for 2 weeks, because we split.
Me and mum have spoken to someone about his drugs thing and they... (read in full...)
Is he taking advantage of me? I feel like he's wasting my time!
Q. Is it just my problem or there is real one? Im dating a guy 1 month, but almost every day we see each other..It started unpredictable and thought would be one-night-stand..He's nice, but he is temporarily in my city..I have psychological pr...
A. 27 August 2007: Ena,
You can be in the driving seat in this situation.
When you go out to dinner, go dutch, ie...go halves! When he goes to pay the bill, put your hand in your pocket. I wont have any guy paying for everything. Its even stevens, 50/50 these da... (read in full...)
I cant get over my ex, i'm giving up on love!
Q. Sorry to be such a pain but nothing is cheering me up I have no enthusiasm for any activities anymore I had been enjoying before Kim dumped me and she hasn't called me , sorry to keep going on but everything is reminding me of her , I have TMF on ...
A. 27 August 2007: Hi Jabba,
Skye is right.
Time is a great healer you know. I have said this to a few people recently, but it really is a good book, buy Starting again, its a relate book. It covers all aspects from thinking of splitting up through to actually... (read in full...)
We had unprotected sex, I took the morning after pill, but i'm worried!
Q. I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend but i stopped us because i started to get worried. we're a long distance relationship too so he says since he hasn't come in a while he isnt sure if any precum was there or not. The following day i got the ...
A. 27 August 2007: Hi
Oh right yes, you are in Canada, would be a different brand. In the Uk the most common is Levonelle. They give you 2 tabs to take so many hours apart. If you vomit the 2nd one covers that.
If you didnt vomit you really dont need to worry. Y... (read in full...)
Why would a man join an online dating site if he has been in a relationship for almost 2 years????
Q. Why would a man join an oline dating website if he has been in a relationship for almost 2 years?...
A. 26 August 2007: Hi gradu8,
Usually because he is bored? Things have gone stale in his relationship so he's doing what a lot of people do, trying to find someone else before he splits from the current beau!
OR he could be crying out for help and trying to communic... (read in full...)
Is he taking advantage of me? I feel like he's wasting my time!
Q. Is it just my problem or there is real one? Im dating a guy 1 month, but almost every day we see each other..It started unpredictable and thought would be one-night-stand..He's nice, but he is temporarily in my city..I have psychological pr...
A. 26 August 2007: Hi
You need to outright ask him!
I've been in a relationship that started out as casual but ended up lasting 2 years and we adored each other! So sometimes it can start out like that, but turn into something more.
You will only know if you talk ... (read in full...)
I meesed up with my guy, now he wont talk to me! Whats the best thing to do?
Q. Is the saying 'If you love someone set them free - if it's meant to be - they will come back' - true ? I broke up with my bf for the wrong reasons and have hurt him, i miss him greatly and love him sincerly, when we were seeing each other he told me ...
A. 26 August 2007: Hi
I believe that is a very true thing myself!
If he feels that you let him down, he is probably angry. It depends how long ago it was.
Be strong and accept what will be will be! Thats another very good saying.
Take care.
C xxxxxx... (read in full...)
He's my brothers mate, I like him, but he thinks we should stay friends. What do i do???
Q. After splitting up with my bf I got quite close to his best friend, hangin out alot and chatting all the time. He is also my brothers friend which makes it doubly complicated. After trying to ignore my feelings for him for ages I told him how I ...
A. 26 August 2007: Hi
Just tread very carefully because this guy has got a bit of a point!
I dated one of my brothers mates, and they weren't even best buddies, but because i was with his mate, he ended up working for him, and now me and the guy have split, me and m... (read in full...)
He's set a date to leave his wife. But i'm paranoid he wont! Help with advice please..
Q. How do i stop loving this guy? I have been seeing this guy for a while, he is beautiful amazing funny.... married and my boss. His marriage has been troubled for a while, they have both had affairs. We are fantastic together and i do know he ...
A. 26 August 2007: Thats never going to be easy. But you can do it, and have a short (ish) sharp shock, or keep prolonging the agony for a lot longer.
Take care.
C xxxxx... (read in full...)
I lied to him in the past, now he doesnt treat me well!
Q. hello out there..my ? is this..we have been 2gether 2 yrs I love him, but i have lied in the past (not anymore) he says we are done. He knows the lies, for awhile i used drugs, i was caught by him, they were to take away the pain of him reje...
A. 26 August 2007: Hi lonelyinlove,
The trouble here is your guy doesnt trust you anymore. Some people aren't very tolerent when it comes to lies. I know i am one of those people. My ex told a few porkies, which i know were to protect me, or rather, he says, beca... (read in full...)
He's set a date to leave his wife. But i'm paranoid he wont! Help with advice please..
Q. How do i stop loving this guy? I have been seeing this guy for a while, he is beautiful amazing funny.... married and my boss. His marriage has been troubled for a while, they have both had affairs. We are fantastic together and i do know he ...
A. 26 August 2007: Hi
The percentage of guys leaving their wife for someone else is about 1%.
So it is possible he will! But its more probable he wont.
Usually they do it without much warning though to be honest. Ive never heard of a date being set, but hey, we dont... (read in full...)
I'm in a long distant relationship and would have to move for it to work, what should i do?
Q. I'm in a long distance relationship, been a year now. He is seperated but not divorced yet and states he has no plans in the near future to get one as he will have to pay full child supports. I have a career (a really good one). He says he will ...
A. 26 August 2007: Hi
Depends what you want in the grand scheme of things.
Leaving someone you love because you know the futures not bright is hard work! But you do get over it, time is really a great healer and in the future you wont even look back! Ive been the... (read in full...)
We had unprotected sex, I took the morning after pill, but i'm worried!
Q. I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend but i stopped us because i started to get worried. we're a long distance relationship too so he says since he hasn't come in a while he isnt sure if any precum was there or not. The following day i got the ...
A. 26 August 2007: Hi
Regardless of how long ago he had sex, there will always be pre cum.
Secondly, the morning after pill is brilliant. It has a very high success rate and as long as you take it within 72 hours, the risks are minimal.
Only thing that would affect... (read in full...)
I have been dumped 3 times this year. Am i horrible and ugly???
Q. This summer i have been dumped three times. Am i just a horrible, ugly, stupid waste of space? I hate everything. Can someone help? ...
A. 26 August 2007: Hi
The fact you have had a try at relationships by your age is proof enough you are not horrible or ugly!
You just haven't met mr right yet. Its normal when things dont work out to blame yourself. Its also normal to blame the other person. Neither ... (read in full...)
My first serious relationship and shes great, but i crave being single again, help!
Q. Hello thanks in advance to anyone who can help me out with this. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half. I am 21, she is 22. It started off rocky, basically we wernt really "dating" and she took 4 months to choose between ...
A. 26 August 2007: Hi
It sucks doesnt it when you are with someone but wonder what it will be like having some freedom to experiment!
That was the main reason i split from my childrens dad in the end after 9 years. I dont regret it, and everyone is happy. But do y... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin. He's convinced me to have sex, I'm nervous, any tips???
Q. hi guys,well I'm a teenager and i have a great bf i no I'm under aged but he has kind of convinced me to have sex with him.i was just wandering because it's my first time and I'm slightly nervous any tips on how to actually have sex?i no that sounds ...
A. 26 August 2007: Hi
I would be inclined to not do it! Save it until its legal. The words 'convince me' i found a bit alarming.
Dont let yourself be browbeated into losing your virginity. You have every right to be the one saying when you are ready.
Take care... (read in full...)
I crumbled when I saw my ex talking to a woman..I can't face anyone
Q. Hi everyone, I need helo, I was out at the weekend got pretty drunk and saw my ex talking to another girl (we have been kindof seeing each other again lately) he wasn't kissing her or anything just talking, anyway with the bboze i got upset and ...
A. 26 August 2007: I doubt they will even remember! My mates ex walked in the pub we were in friday night and she let rip at him, i was stood right next to her when she was shouting him down, he ended up going home in tears and leaving his current beau in the pub, and ... (read in full...)
We watch porn together but i found a mag with only women in,he hid it from me, should i be hurt?
Q. My boyfriend and I watch porn movies and magazines together but I recently discovered a magazine that wasn't porn, just women,I feel more hurt because it wasn't porn and he hid it from me. Am I wrong in feeling this way? ...
A. 26 August 2007: Hi
Not really. If it bothers you, then it bothers you.
Have you asked him about it?
C xxxx... (read in full...)
Is there anything wrong with my boyfriend having harmless sexy chats with other men as long as they aren't leading anywhere?
Q. Advice needed!!! I've been with my boyfriend now for nearly a year. We both go on things like msn, facebook and myspace but I've noticed that whenever he's on it when I'm there he'll quickly hide his messages or close them down very quickly. F...
A. 26 August 2007: Hi
I wouldnt be happy about it!
You need to speak to him, and i would tell him what you did. Fair enough you do need trust but if your instincts are telling you somethings not right, you tested it, and was proved right. If you had just spoken t... (read in full...)
Ive had a stalker in the past, now i'm getting songs sent to my phone, how can i stop this?
Q. I've in the past had a stalker and I'm slightly concerned as I am now constantly getting love songs sent to my phone on an anonymous call... Is there anything I can do without changing my number? ...
A. 26 August 2007: Hi
I wouldnt know, i would personally change my number though if it was that bad.
Land lines i know you can get numbers blocked but you would need to know the number in the first place so i think you might have a job on your hands there without ... (read in full...)
I'm using hard objects to masturbate, is this damaging??
Q. I use hard things to masturbate like mobile...i use hard ones to reach orgasm that i can' t reach with fingering. May this damage my virginity? may these hard things have a bad effect on my vagina? can they lead to an infection ?...
A. 26 August 2007: Hi
I would avoid using things like that, there is no need. You can buy plenty of sex toys off the internet.
If the things you are using aren't clean then yes you can get infections & i expect it can be likely you could harm yourself, so i would go... (read in full...)
I crumbled when I saw my ex talking to a woman..I can't face anyone
Q. Hi everyone, I need helo, I was out at the weekend got pretty drunk and saw my ex talking to another girl (we have been kindof seeing each other again lately) he wasn't kissing her or anything just talking, anyway with the bboze i got upset and ...
A. 26 August 2007: Hi again,
Its possible he didnt see it like that? And thought maybe you were just having casual sex?
Before you go any further with him, i would talk to him. He might of only been talking to the girl and because you took off, you wont have found th... (read in full...)
Am i addicted to masturbation? How do i deal with it?
Q. Hi every one. my problem is that i practice the secret habit(sexual habit)since i was so young till now; i want help to get rid of it i'm so accustomed to it that whenever i decide to stop i find myself doing and after i do it i hate myself so much ...
A. 26 August 2007: Hi
You're saying you feel disgusting because you masturbate?
You shouldnt do. Unless it is getting in the way of your normal relationships that is.
Even when you are married you might still want to and thats fine.
C xxxx... (read in full...)
I have OCD. Anyone with some adivice out there?
Q. Im a teenager and i have ocd and im worried i did something wrong but when i think about it i dont think i have and my friend said i havnt either. Me and my ex-boyfriend was drunk i asked him to kiss me and we did and i felt him up just outside the ...
A. 26 August 2007: Hi
I think you might be over reacting a little. Your ex will only do what he wants to, and you said you have been doing stuff on and off for a while anyway?
Sounds like you are beating yourself up about this.
C xxxx... (read in full...)
We havent gone past first base and my mates think i should dump her, how long do we wait before moving on from kissing?
Q. Ive been going out with this girl for about 6 months now, we're roughly the same age and we still havent really got past the kissing and hugging stage. my freinds keep asking me "how far have you got" etc.. and when i tell them they tell me to dump ...
A. 26 August 2007: Hi
I wouldnt be worrying about your mates. Teenagers can only see things in black and white at times! You sound a bit more mature than that. You go past first base when YOU and your girlfriend are ready.
And if you arent at the stage where you can ... (read in full...)
I crumbled when I saw my ex talking to a woman..I can't face anyone
Q. Hi everyone, I need helo, I was out at the weekend got pretty drunk and saw my ex talking to another girl (we have been kindof seeing each other again lately) he wasn't kissing her or anything just talking, anyway with the bboze i got upset and ...
A. 26 August 2007: Hi
How long have you been split from your ex then? Its quite normal to get pangs of jealousy if you see your ex chatting to someone else. We are all human! Its part of the 'grieving' process. Dont be so hard on yourself.
Oh and if i was you, i w... (read in full...)
We haven't spoken for 3 weeks and he now has a new girlfriend. How can i get over him???
Q. I dont know why but I cant seem to forget about this guy.He would daily call me for 3 months I thought he was the perfect guy on earth...Well everything has changed since that time...I dont get it everytime me and him talk we just argue now its ...
A. 26 August 2007: Hi
Filling the void that is there now. Doesnt come easy to do, but in time you do it. I split from someone 3 months ago and i'm now at the point where i dont even think about it much, in fact i prefer it this way! Ive built up a social life.
Time ... (read in full...)
At what age are g-string panties appropriate for girls?
Q. I was shopping with my mom today. We were in the kids section. They had a display of "girls and junior g-string panties 20% off." My mom and I were both shocked. At what age are g-string panties appropriate for girls? Would you let your daught...
A. 26 August 2007: I'm not sure how genuine this question is, but anyway, yes i would let my daugter wear them if she wanted to and she is 10. But she doesnt.
C xxxx... (read in full...)
I can't help thinking about his four one night stands from the past, it displeases me...
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. I'm his first official partner, he has a dark past. Anyways, he's had four one night stands before and am a virgin, I really don't know what to do, he hasn't pressured me into having sex and ...
A. 26 August 2007: Hi
Past is past. He hasnt had that many one night stands compared to some people!
I wouldnt be worrying about how many people he has slept with. Everyone has a past, you will be lucky to meet someone that hasnt!
Chill out and enjoy your guy. An... (read in full...)
How can i build my confidence and stop letting men use me for sex?
Q. Whenever I meet men and we ended up fooling around. I ruin the whole mood and moment. I continue doing this to whomever I meet. I ruin it by talking to much in bed because I am insecure about my body. I turn men off by saying sorry for my body ...
A. 26 August 2007: Hi
Thye main problem here is you dont seem to think too highly of yourself? When that happens people tend to make bad judgements to be honest.
You really need to work on your confidence, try and think where this stems from.
Unless someone is d... (read in full...)
Tests were negative but I've been having symptoms of pregnancy and am very confused! What are your opinins?
Q. My name is Arianna. I'm 16. I don't know if i'm pregnant. We had sex aug 1 and the condom broke, i was supposed to start aug 11 and didnt. On aug 10, 11 and 12 i had light brown spotting. I have a few of the symptoms: headaches, sensitive to ...
A. 26 August 2007: Good luck Mrshopkins. Hope it all works out how you want it to.
C Xxxxx... (read in full...)
Tests were negative but I've been having symptoms of pregnancy and am very confused! What are your opinins?
Q. My name is Arianna. I'm 16. I don't know if i'm pregnant. We had sex aug 1 and the condom broke, i was supposed to start aug 11 and didnt. On aug 10, 11 and 12 i had light brown spotting. I have a few of the symptoms: headaches, sensitive to ...
A. 26 August 2007: True actually. If the test wasnt done to instructions, is out of date, illnesses, meds people might be on, or if it was used before the missed period. They are supposedly 99% acurate and unless its changed, which is possible in the 10 years since i ... (read in full...)
Tests were negative but I've been having symptoms of pregnancy and am very confused! What are your opinins?
Q. My name is Arianna. I'm 16. I don't know if i'm pregnant. We had sex aug 1 and the condom broke, i was supposed to start aug 11 and didnt. On aug 10, 11 and 12 i had light brown spotting. I have a few of the symptoms: headaches, sensitive to ...
A. 25 August 2007: Hi
I know you can get a false negative but not a false positive so it is possible, but 5 tests saying you aren't i would believe them. Especially as its not even that soon after your period was due. Next step would be the doctors. Could be a horm... (read in full...)
I've a long distance relation, my boyfriend is very insecure, misinterpreting my friendship with the ex and is jealous in general. How do I cope with this?
Q. Hiya, I have a problem with my boyfriend. We've been dating for quite a while and I love him very much. He's incredible in every possible way, except for one - he's very insecure and gets jealous easily. I feel that I'm at the end of my rope he...
A. 25 August 2007: Hi
I can see both sides of the fence here. If you and your ex are just friends now then your guy shouldnt really get jealous. Especially if you split with your ex a while before you met him. If you split because of the guy your with now, him to acce... (read in full...)
Curious about periods.
Q. I have a question just out of curiosity. Why are some womens' periods so much heavier than others? For example, mine is really heavy for six days, and then light for two more, when my friend says she has just four days of light bleeding. I'm not ...
A. 25 August 2007: Hi
Just that, that we are all built different. As you get older they can lighten up a bit.
C xxxx... (read in full...)
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