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My partner who has a terminal illness doesn't want to get it on!

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Question - (13 September 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 14 September 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

My partner who is 34 suffers from a terminal illness he has also been diagnosed with depression he is always happy an jus gets on wit it!now he wont have sex he doesnt mind me givin him oral but wont do anything to me he says its not me and he has no trouble geting an erection please help

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A male reader, Tommy7 United States +, writes (14 September 2007):

Try a vibrator and fantascy.

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A female reader, jasmine200785 United Kingdom +, writes (13 September 2007):

my mums fella has the same prob go to a doctor with him. my mums partner i believe doesnt want to change he just knows she's there and doesnt have to bother with her. it brings my mum down. i couldnt do it personally

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A female reader, hlskitten United Kingdom +, writes (13 September 2007):

hlskitten agony auntHi

First of all, sorry for your partners illness. Heart goes out to him.

Secondly, depression will knock sexual desire straight out the window to be honest. And meds for it make it worse to boot.

I personally think you need to go with the flow with him. He is the one with the illness.

All the best.

C xxxx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2007):

Maybe he's afraid of getting you pregnant because he may not be around for a long time?

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