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*indhart03
writes:A while ago I asked for advice about my mum's encounter with her randy, over familiar stand in toy boy doctor, who wanted to give my mother of 59 and suffering from depression, more than just a pill to take before bedtime, the sex beast doc, was only too quick to wrap his arms around her, to offer her in his own words a little tlc. As you can imagine she was a little uncomfortable with the situation, but a little flattered too. He offered to call round to look in on her, and did just last week my mum did fancy him a little but didn't think he would try anything on with her, she was so wrong, no sooner than he had stepped in through the door he was grabbing, groping and snogging her like some kind of wild animal, he tried to drag her upstairs with force but my mum panicked and told him to stop. She was so scared and embarrassed by the whole thing, she had to humour him to get him to leave. She now feels, more depressed and upset by this whole thing. I want to phone the surgury but she won't let me. I hate seeing her like this and I'm really annoyed, what should I do?? Please help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2007): I can only assume your mother is probably not the only 'victim'. It might be worth seeing if you can discreetly find out more about this person? How long has he been there? Talk to people that know him and ask what they think of him. You could book an appointment with her next time or book to see him separately -saying how concerned you were at the state your Mother was in after her last visit. Tread very carefully as any accusation needs backing up and ultimately your Mothers health and welfare are the most important thing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2007): THe doctor should be reported BUT it won't help your Mum by going against her wishes and reporting him. Maybe try and convince her to change her mind, but don't go behind her back and do it as this may hurt her and make her feel even worse.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (14 September 2007):
 Hi
Hes crossed the line now, i would report him. The police wont do nything, unless he had actually attacked her. its the practice manager you need to arrange to see.
Good luck.
C xxx
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reader, faith scott boreanaz +, writes (13 September 2007):
 Your mums had a very normal and bad turn from a pshycologist point of view, depressed, perhaps a little confused and scared. if i was you i would talk to a counsellor to help make up your mind whether or not to go to the police because we have to maintain the fact you still wanna be friends with your mum but i think its safe to say she'll forgive you and understand your looking out for her. so report him, i wouldnt like anything happening like that to another woman. all the best, faith.
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