Is it true that people that only go out with good looking people get hurt eventually?
Q. Is it true that people who only go out with good looking get hurt eventually, than the people who choose personality over looks?...
A. 13 September 2007: Hi
I just think you are reading into it too much. Im guilty of that myself at times! I dont think most girls intentionally get a thrill out of hurting people at all. Young girls especially are immature and they just mess people about, much the same... (read in full...)
Does my married boyfriend still love me?
Q. My married boyfriend is scared to death of his wife. I bought him a cell phone and now I havent heard from him in three weeks but he is listening to all my messages is there any hope he loves me still?? His wife and him have not been happy for six ...
A. 12 September 2007: Sweetheart thats terrible ad i can sympathise when they have decieved you AND your kids. I was angry with someone for that. But the anger does pass and one day you seem to wake up and not give a sh** anymore to be honest! It was all a new emotion ... (read in full...)
Is it true that people that only go out with good looking people get hurt eventually?
Q. Is it true that people who only go out with good looking get hurt eventually, than the people who choose personality over looks?...
A. 12 September 2007: Hi Your wasting too much thinking time on this shallow person! hehe you know that deep down. Be strong! C xxxx... (read in full...)
Do I risk damaging our relationship by bringing up the friendship with the ex?
Q. Hello I have a question relating to my girlfriend being friends with her ex. We have been dating a few months now and are very close, when we met I knew she was friends with several of her exes which I didn't really like too much but I know I c...
A. 10 September 2007: Hi I know where you are coming from here, ive been on both sides of the fence. I have no problem with being mates with exes and i am actually friends with 4 out of 6 of them. One of them (that i married at 18) and split from 16 years ago, i am in co... (read in full...)
How long does the honeymoon period last?
Q. how long, does "the honeymoon period" of a relationship last?...
A. 10 September 2007: Average of 18 months - 2 years. C xxxx... (read in full...)
He's got to go to a stag do at a strip club, I'm not happy about it...help!!!
Q. My BF is going for a Bachelore party next month - yeah,that doesnt sound like a big deal to you guys, but to me - I AM GOING NUTS! I don't agree with Strip clubs at all. I don't unerstand why guys go there. To me its the biggest disrespect to th...
A. 9 September 2007: Hi Yes they can be. But good for you. Let this one go. Its not like its something hes kept from you, and he has very little choice and you sound a strong woman telling him if he goes to anymore your over. You sound like you mean it too! That mak... (read in full...)
My husband flirts with other women, takes their numbers but says its innocent.
Q. I have discovered that my husband has been flirting with other women - but would like advice on whether he's going too far. I have been with him for 5 years, married for 2. Last night he came come late and drunk, about 3am. He fell asleep mid text...
A. 8 September 2007: Hi
Er yes. I wouldnt be sticking with him. Its only a matter of time before he takes it further. How do you know he hasnt already.
Probably booze fuelled but what use is that.
Good luck.
C xxxxx... (read in full...)
I think he cheated... What do you think?
Q. I think my partner is cheating on me, please advise We have been together for 14 years, and have lived together for nearly 7. I have a son by a previous relatonship who has left home. We live with our two other children who are 6 and 3. For so...
A. 8 September 2007: Hi
Probably not. Alarm bells would be seriously ringing for me after all that crap! Why would he want a pic on his phone of his mates partner anyway? bullshit. Joined a dating site to see if someone was on there? you dont have to join to browse so..... (read in full...)
Should I trust my wife after she kept this from me??
Q. I've been with my wife since I was 19 and she was 18. We went to high school together and have a loving marriage of 15 years. Prior to our getting together ( a few weeks) she hooked up with another high school friend and I suspected they had had ...
A. 8 September 2007: Hi
Before you met her? ancient history surely?
Im a bit surprised she denied it, when you hadnt yet got together anyway. Its her business. But obviously we dont know both sides of the story and the full one.
I wouldnt say from that she cant be ... (read in full...)
I'm married, but I contacted my ex and now I want to see him! What do I do now?
Q. I dont know what to do. My marriage was on the rocks for about 5 years, well since the beginning. I was always faithful and stuck through all the drama, but these last 2 months I contacted my ex. Now I really want to see him. He just divorced ...
A. 8 September 2007: Hi
This is so sad. You have 2 kids and are willing to screw them up for your ex. Grrrrrrr exes drive me insane! People always go backwards, why dont they ever go forwards!?
You know its a bad idea but you will do it anyway. Posting on a web site... (read in full...)
He's gone. How can I recover from this?
Q. A sad old story realy. I have been dating this guy for 2 years. He was just getting over another relationship at the time. We were incredibly attracted to each other and started up a very intense relationship. ,He has a lot of emotional proble...
A. 8 September 2007: Hi
Its shite isnt it. Been there and done it. I was with someone not quite as long as you, but he had only just split with someone. It was a rollercoaster time, there was 3 of us in the relationship. I got out in the end and yes, he jumped stra... (read in full...)
Condoms turn me off but my new girl insists I wear one. How can I get my erection to last longer with one?
Q. after about six months of dating me and my girl stopped using a condom, we have just stopped dating after about a year and a half. after not using a condom for that long i cant get back in the swing of things and the new girl im interested in ...
A. 7 September 2007: Hi
I dont know the answer to your question, but i just wanted to say, you're lady is an extremely well balanced woman, and has her head screwed on in my opinion.
C xxxx... (read in full...)
My 13 yr old son is looking at porn. He doesn't know I know, but should I talk to him?
Q. My 13 year old son is looking at porn, he doesn't know I know but should I talk to him? What should I do?...
A. 7 September 2007: Hi
My son is 12 and i would have no problem with him looking at porn. They are going through puberty and its a natural curiosity. No. I wouldnt confront him. Let him grow up naturally. It will benefit him positively in his future relationships if h... (read in full...)
Can a Doctor perform a smear test on a woman, even if there is a nurse present?
Q. can any one help me answar a question ,regarding a male doctor ?can he perform a smear test on a girl/lady even when there is a nurse present?...
A. 7 September 2007: In the Uk yes. They dont even have to have a nurse present though. The reason they are advised to, is so the woman can't accuse them of anything. Thats what the doc told me anyway.
C xxx... (read in full...)
Is my mum's doctor coming onto her?? Is this normal??
Q. please could i get some very much needed help and advice regarding my mum and her doctor ,for a month now my mum who is a good looking woman for her age 59,has been visiting her doctor,regarding feeling low and down and finding things a bit tough ...
A. 7 September 2007: Hi
Ive been in a similar situ. I dont tell many people because i dont think they actually believe it! But its appropriate here.
I too went to my doc a few years ago when i was feeling down after i split from someone i loved.
I told him i had jo... (read in full...)
I know if I admit to having an affair he will go beserk as he gets very upset if I only just mention an ex's name in our conversation.
Q. I have been with my bf for 9 months. He's a lot younger than me (he's 22 and I'm 32), and he says this is the best relationship he's had, he loves me very much and almost puts me on a pedestal. I love him very much and feel the same, he's kin...
A. 6 September 2007: Hi
Let him go find a guy that can offer him loyalty. I feel real sorry for him to be honest!
Fair enough if you like casual sex, thats your business but if you're not using protection it becomes a lot of other peoples too in the long run.
Do... (read in full...)
Last week he confronted me on some things that I've lied about during the course of our relationship.
Q. Hi all, please help. My boyfriend and I have been together 2 years. We own a home together, have a 1 month old son, and I have a 4 year old daughter who he treats as his own. Last week he confronted me on some things that I've lied about during the ...
A. 6 September 2007: Hi
I had this problem with a guy, but it was him that was lying and denying it when i knew he was lying.
After a year i got fed up with it and ended it. Then he came clean about the things and it was too late. I dont like lies. Ive been with eno... (read in full...)
During a break my guy got with a barmaid. Hes back with me but he's still drinking in the pub she works in. I want him to stop drinking there!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years we broke up in March for 6 weeks and during that time he started seeing the barmaid of the local bar he drinks in. We got back together and she kept on phoning him even though he was back with me. ...
A. 5 September 2007: Hi
Er no you're not!
But not being funny. 6 weeks and he jumps into someone elses bed tha quick?
How does that make you feel? And i take it, it was more than a one night stand?
All sounds bizarre to me.
It might be totally innocent, and he mig... (read in full...)
I thought having a baby would get me off the council estate. My married lover is married and has money. I wanted that lifestyle.
Q. I'm 18 and I have been lying about being on the contaceptive injection. I have had a hard childhood on a council estate and I thought if I got pregnant to my older boss I would get a better life. I'm pregnant and he's staying with his wife that he ...
A. 5 September 2007: Hi
This is shocking tbh.
You will be lucky if you get anything much out of him! His maintenence payments will go straight to the state and you will still only get basic income support the same as every other teenage mum.
How old is this guy????... (read in full...)
Am I being suspicious for nothing?
Q. Hi. I've not been the greatest wife in the world. We have had stressors way beyond the norm and I have been the primary money earner throughout those times. I escaped from personal problems by throwing myself into my work and by drinking when I was ...
A. 5 September 2007: Yep i agree with the other poster. I had an ex telling me he didnt want us bumping into his ex because he knows she will say shes been seeing him, haha he was. Also another thing for girls to watch is when a guy says there are some of my old mates ... (read in full...)
Do I break contact with my ex? I still have feelings for her and find it hard to move on..
Q. Breaking off contact. Help please..... I'm 36 and my now ex girlfriend is 40..... we were in a long distance relationship for 4 years and split nearly 4 months ago. During our time together we had a fantastic relationship, very compatible and o...
A. 5 September 2007: Is it just me or did we have this same question yesterday or maybe even the day before? I could of sworn i answered it.... (read in full...)
Does my married boyfriend still love me?
Q. My married boyfriend is scared to death of his wife. I bought him a cell phone and now I havent heard from him in three weeks but he is listening to all my messages is there any hope he loves me still?? His wife and him have not been happy for six ...
A. 5 September 2007: Hi
First off...How do you know for sure hes listening to your messages?
C xxxx... (read in full...)
My ex left me for someone else but is saying she was only friends with him back then. Its all gone wrong for her and she wants back. What should I do?
Q. Ok to cut a long story short 6 months ago my gf left me for another guy(someone that i know) it crushed me completly, anyway after 6 months of no contact she calls and we talk and then we arranged to meet. When we met it was really emotional...
A. 5 September 2007: Hi
I dont think her chasing you or the other way round would make any difference. Im not all that into games. Its not a good start.
I just wouldnt be going back with someone that had disappeared without much by or leave supposedly with someone ... (read in full...)
My ex left me for someone else but is saying she was only friends with him back then. Its all gone wrong for her and she wants back. What should I do?
Q. Ok to cut a long story short 6 months ago my gf left me for another guy(someone that i know) it crushed me completly, anyway after 6 months of no contact she calls and we talk and then we arranged to meet. When we met it was really emotional...
A. 5 September 2007: Hi
1] No i wouldnt chase her, you're right there.
2] I agree he might be a bit manic, so best not to.
3] Definatey what will be will be.
4] You are not in control no. She is.
Do you totally believe that she wasnt seeing him before she le... (read in full...)
He says he never had intentions of meeting girls he chats too...and the lie detector agrees with him!!
Q. I really need your advice, i have been dating a guy since March this year, at the start of May i found a txt in his phone saying ''sorry to call you soo many times but i thought youd let me know what you were up to''. I confronted him about th...
A. 5 September 2007: Hi Polygraph tests are about 96% accurate. I would be happy with the results of one. Chances are he wasnt intending on meeting them. Im sure there are plenty of guys and girls that lead people on in that way. But i also think he needs a lot of ... (read in full...)
Can there be love without trust??
Q. Can there be love without trust? I keep believing there can be, but I am having my doubts and I need your advice. I need opinions so I can have options to choose from. Sorry, but this is going to be a long post. If you have the patience, do rea...
A. 5 September 2007: Hi Her parents splitting undoubtedly has a bearing on her trusting people. Thats my opinion anyway. You need to go with her to couple counselling. If its worth sorting anyway. You will keep trying to prove your worthy and its not going to make a ... (read in full...)
How do you leave somebody you love??
Q. Is it possible to move forward and end a marriage you dont want to end but you have no choice to because the other person is just a taker? How do you leave someone you love? Especially without a support system. How do you throw in the towel when ...
A. 5 September 2007: Hi You just do! I left someone 3 years ago that i absolutely adored! Had been with him nearly 2 years. I hadnt ever split from someone i had loved before and i wont pretend its easy! Its not. It was harder than i ever imagined it would be. But he... (read in full...)
My older txt buddy says he likes me txting him but I txt him twice today and he's not replied. Is he trying to tell me something?
Q. me and this lad have been txting for some time now, he is much older than me and has a job, i understand that he cant txt me when he is workgin because he has a buisy job, i txt him twice today and i havnt had a reply and i know he gets breaks ...
A. 5 September 2007: Hi
Maybe hes married or attatched? Or maybe hes just not interested. I met a taxi driver sat night, 9 yrs older than me, my bro and my mates telling me i have beer goggles on and that hes waaaaaaay too old for me haha and he txt all evening whil... (read in full...)
Is my mind still too much on my ex to start a new relationship??
Q. Hello everybody. Not really sure how I'm feeling today.. a bit wierd. To take my mind off of my ex for a while I'm trying to focus on wanting to be with somebody new, as opposed to wanting to be with her. I figured, I can want and want all I like, ...
A. 4 September 2007: So do i.
My mate, shes 29, so by no means immature, yet still isnt over her ex she split with last december. She is getting there but admits if he came onto her she would find it very hard to say no!
So dont worry.
C xxxxx... (read in full...)
Had sex with my twin sister's husband. Not sure if I should tell my sister or wait to see if I'm preganant...
Q. Hi my name is Stacy. I need some advice. I have had sex with my twin sister's husband. I do not know if I should tell her or not. I know it is wrong for me to have done that. The first time it was only anal sex just because I was curious and my ...
A. 4 September 2007: Hi If you want to get 1 up on her tell her. If you dont i would do the test first. If you are, then the choice is taken out your hands isnt it. C xxxxx... (read in full...)
Is my mind still too much on my ex to start a new relationship??
Q. Hello everybody. Not really sure how I'm feeling today.. a bit wierd. To take my mind off of my ex for a while I'm trying to focus on wanting to be with somebody new, as opposed to wanting to be with her. I figured, I can want and want all I like, ...
A. 4 September 2007: Thats normal feelings though Andy. You have a void at the moment so you're a bit lonely. Nothing wrong with that and nothing unusual. Life sucks at times. Its always crap when it hits you that all the plans you had arent gonna happen. You're gr... (read in full...)
My boyfriends ex is flirting with him. Because of his past should I be worried?
Q. Before my b/f got together with me, he was seeing the other woman who is something like 26-28. She never bothered me as she is in a long term relationship with 2 children by the same guy. Untill however when I thought about the way she had been...
A. 4 September 2007: Hi Im not keen on exes that still carry a torch. I think they're dangerous. I think you need to trust your instincts and listen to what they are saying to you. I heard mine but didnt listen to them and there was unfinished business there with my ex... (read in full...)
Is my mind still too much on my ex to start a new relationship??
Q. Hello everybody. Not really sure how I'm feeling today.. a bit wierd. To take my mind off of my ex for a while I'm trying to focus on wanting to be with somebody new, as opposed to wanting to be with her. I figured, I can want and want all I like, ...
A. 4 September 2007: Hi Andy Sorry, the way i read it was like you were only communicating on line, although meeting 13 times in 2 years is like averageing once every 2 months? Not too sure why you only got 1 answer. If i was you i would ask the question again even. Ma... (read in full...)
Is it true that people that only go out with good looking people get hurt eventually?
Q. Is it true that people who only go out with good looking get hurt eventually, than the people who choose personality over looks?...
A. 4 September 2007: Haha Duce you make me die. Set my nickers on fire. Your right though. The guy i probably loved the most in my life was 10 yrs older than me, was with him 10 yrs and he was average joe loooks wise to most i would say but grrrrrrrrrr to me! I also ... (read in full...)
Many talk about writing a letter to their ex but what about sending it?
Q. Everyone (my friends, advice columnists on the internet, etc.) seem to think that WRITING a letter to your ex can be an extremely useful exercise to get some of your emotions out and help you to move on. That said, no one seems to think that SE...
A. 4 September 2007: Hi
I would, although it depends whats in it. As long as its not nasty, hinting at getting back together and is just to say the things you never felt you said then i would. I have. My ex (broke up 3 months ago too) sent me a letter the end of last... (read in full...)
Is it true that people that only go out with good looking people get hurt eventually?
Q. Is it true that people who only go out with good looking get hurt eventually, than the people who choose personality over looks?...
A. 4 September 2007: I doubt it.
Ive only ever dated 2 'traditionally' good looking people. The others have been average joes but funnily enough the 2 best looking ones i didnt fall for and didnt fancy, the others i fancied the pants off while i was with them! Hmm i th... (read in full...)
What are the chances of a relationship working in the long run, if you left someone else for them?
Q. I just wanted to know that if you are in a long term relationship and leave for another person. What are the chances of this working out? What's in it for the long haul?...
A. 4 September 2007: Hi
Depends on a lot of things really. What state the relationship was in at the end etc etc etc.
Usually pretty slim though. The grass isnt greener and we all find that out (ok some of us) at some point i think!
C xxxx... (read in full...)
How can we have a good sex life with children living in the house???
Q. Me and my wife have always had a really active and healthy sex life but at the same time we also have two kids, one at 17yrs old and another at 3 yrs old. We have always felt abit awkward having sex with them there but when it was just our 17yr old ...
A. 4 September 2007: Hi
Foot up against the door! hehe no i know what you mean, a lot of us have been there!
I dont know. We had to wait til they were asleep and even then we got caught out by my 10 yr old once. Was rather embarrassing and i think it scared her actu... (read in full...)
My girlfriend thinks i kissed another girl but I was drunk and it wasn't quite like that. Help!
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for almost 7 months. For the first 4 months we spent heaps of time together, however recently she has been really busy with her schooling and has spent little time with me. I have found this hard to believe because she ...
A. 4 September 2007: Hi
If your mate is right about what happened then maybe shes over reacting a tad. But its hard to say if she was cooling off a bit before that anyway.
But some people can stay mates with exes. Not always a wise move for a while but eventual... (read in full...)
He says he will never forgive me if I dont give him rent money
Q. I just broke up with my boyfriend and am in process of moving out. Movers come Wednesday. I gave up my apartment the first week in May. We never put any kind of lease in writing and he has me pay him for everything in cash so he does not have to ...
A. 4 September 2007: Well i gotta say you're a better person than me! I would of been out that door as soon as i caught him with his gruts down! My pride wouldnt have me even trying to forgive that. Ive not been able to forgive much less so i know i couldnt!
Dont give... (read in full...)
He says he will never forgive me if I dont give him rent money
Q. I just broke up with my boyfriend and am in process of moving out. Movers come Wednesday. I gave up my apartment the first week in May. We never put any kind of lease in writing and he has me pay him for everything in cash so he does not have to ...
A. 4 September 2007: Hes taking the rise!
Has he been speaking to someone else on line then behind your back? I didnt quite get that bit.
If there is no tenancy agreement, i dont know how it works there but here in the Uk the law is definately more in the tenants ... (read in full...)
I accused my current girlfriend of cheating because she looks like an ex, and I'm on the whole very confused!
Q. Ive been going out with my new GF about 4months now, i split from my babys mum about 4 months now....The other night my babys mum told me she still cares for me and I told her i still care for her. I spoke to my babys mum today, and i told her that ...
A. 4 September 2007: Hi
Your going through a lot of confusion!
Maybe its just not the right time to be dating anyone. And speaking to your babies mum was basically because you need to talk to someone! Why dont you ring relate?
I'm going to do that this week myself ... (read in full...)
I'm almost 16 and haven't ever been involved with a guy. I know theres plenty of time but why do other girls cheat and seem to get a different guy all the time???
Q. I am almost 16 years old, and I haven't ever been involved with a guy. I know, there's no rush and I've got 'tons of time to find the right one'. But what I don't understand is why girls who are constantly cheating and doing awful things to their ...
A. 3 September 2007: Gets on ya t***s doesnt it! I know what you mean but i think Beckybadger is right there. Would of put the same thing myself!
Hang on in there. When those immature girls, that think putting out gets them luuuuuuuuuuurve, are being messed around left... (read in full...)
My mum has MS and my dad is having an affair with my mums best mate! Do I tell???
Q. My mum has MS (Multiple Sclerosis) and uses a walking stick most of the time. But even when she does not use a walking stick, she totters around and can barely walk. She cries most of the time and is very depressed. Dad has told her he is leaving ...
A. 3 September 2007: Hi
If your father is leaving soon, then no, i wouldnt tell her. I would let HIM know that you know, and for him to do the right thing! But not your mum. Although if its her mate she will find out at some point! I feel for you.
Good luck.
C xxxxx... (read in full...)
Is my mind still too much on my ex to start a new relationship??
Q. Hello everybody. Not really sure how I'm feeling today.. a bit wierd. To take my mind off of my ex for a while I'm trying to focus on wanting to be with somebody new, as opposed to wanting to be with her. I figured, I can want and want all I like, ...
A. 3 September 2007: Hi Andy
Its never a good reason to get with someone, to get over an ex. Not saying some fun now n then is bad, but if you really want to 'replace' her, thats where you're more likely to fail with the next one.
Internet relationships (if you can ... (read in full...)
He's got to go to a stag do at a strip club, I'm not happy about it...help!!!
Q. My BF is going for a Bachelore party next month - yeah,that doesnt sound like a big deal to you guys, but to me - I AM GOING NUTS! I don't agree with Strip clubs at all. I don't unerstand why guys go there. To me its the biggest disrespect to th...
A. 27 August 2007: Hi
Awwwww its a tough one for your guy really cuz hes just gotta go with the flow, not really his fault. Unless he doesnt go, and thats not really fair on his cousin.
I can see where you're coming from too though because i wouldnt be totally ... (read in full...)
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