Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 20 August 2009: Only just got back on here after a few months away, whats happened since?... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 12 March 2008: Because he's a manipulative jerk that knows you better than you know him, and has just been binned off by the new squeeze that sussed him out quick smart :o(
Didn't wanna be friends up til now huh.
Blimey that was a long scroll down to post!
C ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 6 March 2008: And you dont know me or my brothers situation, yet you judge that we should be getting him help. Hahaha! You think we havent? You answered the help statement on your own, if they dont want help, they wont take help.
Sorry if you saw it as insu... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 3 March 2008: You're addicted to drama. I would go see the doc and see about some counselling, to find out why. I dont think anything will change until you figure out why you need all this melodrama in your life. Its very self destructive. And could be very ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 19 February 2008: Hey thats great! 40 a day and even after all this crap going on, you still didnt start again???!!!! Now THATS something good!
And as for the manipulation, i know what you mean. I cant remember if i mentioned it in this thread, i wont check, but my r... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 15 February 2008: Very good positive attitude. Glad to hear it. Blimey he was a charmer wasnt he? not! Thats the best thing to do, keep reminding yourself how nasty he acrually was. And all those things...you deserved better.
I didnt realise he was on coke, unfo... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 13 February 2008: How far up his own ass is he?He didnt sound like he wanted to talk. He knows what buttons to press thats for sure, and exactly how you react, thats horrible. And a tad creepy! The power trip must be sensational for him! I wasnt pleasant to an ex ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 11 February 2008: Hi
You have a constant migraine because of the pressure in your head. This is basically all doing your head in. Too much stress. I expect you're not eating either. Bad combination. We would all get migraines in this situation. This is a nigh... (read in full...)
We've broken up, but is it all over?
Q. hi guys, my ex and i been broken up for a month now, and im torn. the day he left me i felt it in my intution. that whole day i new something was wrong i just felt it throughout my entire body, but i dont feel the same about us being broken up. ...
A. 11 February 2008: Hi
No one can say if he will come round or call but i personally would leave him to it. If he is confused, he might well love you, but feels a bit too young to settle down with one person yet. Or it could be the unthinkable, that he has met some... (read in full...)
Can I trust him not to be a cheater like his best mate?
Q. i have being with my partner for 9 months. when we first got together we were so happy. he lost touch with his best friend and we had a great time. have being on holiday and generally enjoyed each others company. his best friend has now came bac...
A. 11 February 2008: Hi
Set nights could be a bit regimental. But i dont see anything wrong with people going out with their mates even a couple of times a week. Especially at your age. Get to my age and that all gets a bit tedious anyway and you would rather stay in a... (read in full...)
He cheated, so I broke up with him. Now I changed my mind, but he doesn't want ME!
Q. Right well I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year now! we got together on the 26th January 2007 but we split up Thursday of last week! I finished him because he cheated on me while he was drunk and then denied it and said that it was me in the ...
A. 11 February 2008: Hi anon,
Well, if you are back together and he has apologised (or atleast sees what he did was wrong) then thats a good thing. People makes mistakes and screw up, sometimes its a good idea to give someone a second chance. But remember the sayi... (read in full...)
He cheated, so I broke up with him. Now I changed my mind, but he doesn't want ME!
Q. Right well I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year now! we got together on the 26th January 2007 but we split up Thursday of last week! I finished him because he cheated on me while he was drunk and then denied it and said that it was me in the ...
A. 11 February 2008: Fair point Laura. But i think this site would fall flat on its face if couples had to give both sides of a given story.
You certainly did imply the poster should feel they need, and should ask, forgiveness. We can only go by what the question aske... (read in full...)
He cheated, so I broke up with him. Now I changed my mind, but he doesn't want ME!
Q. Right well I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year now! we got together on the 26th January 2007 but we split up Thursday of last week! I finished him because he cheated on me while he was drunk and then denied it and said that it was me in the ...
A. 8 February 2008: Laura, people come on here to ask opinions, and unless i'm wrong, and obviously i sometimes am, i think they like good quality advice. How can saying sorry to a guy thats cheated and blamed you, and ask his FORGIVENESS???? be a good quality ... (read in full...)
He cheated, so I broke up with him. Now I changed my mind, but he doesn't want ME!
Q. Right well I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year now! we got together on the 26th January 2007 but we split up Thursday of last week! I finished him because he cheated on me while he was drunk and then denied it and said that it was me in the ...
A. 7 February 2008: That was a joke response Laura1318 i guess? Noticed a few crazy responses to questions on here from your name. Is it boring in Malasia?
Anyway, where were we, the guy is a complete rsehole.
You know that.
I agree with the annon response, it... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 7 February 2008: Who cares if you have pushed them together. They deserve each other dont they? They probably wont make each other very happy. And She certainly wont ever trust him.
And he asks you to treat HIM with respect??? I would of replied with a lot more than... (read in full...)
My foreskin hurts sometimes when pulled back during sex, need I worry? Also, any information about gaining long-lasting erections naturally?
Q. hey people, I just wanted to ask a few questions regarding sex. First of all, when having sex does the foreskin get pulled back so that u cn see more ove the flesh on the penis? mine gets pulled back n it really hurts sumtimes when having sex! ...
A. 6 February 2008: A trip to the Gp wouldnt hurt. I dont think it should be that uncomfortable. Only a Gp can answer that really though. They have seen lots more!
Multiple orgasms? Tricky one. Much like the G spot orgasm!
Very much a personal experience that not... (read in full...)
How can I get over my jealousy?
Q. Just wondering... So me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost a year, and we already know that we are going to get married. But before we were together he had been with a lot of girls, too many to count off hand....and everytime I hear sto...
A. 6 February 2008: Blimey when you get to my age, most the guys you get with have married, dated, shagged and snogged a ton of women. Past is past. He loves you. Trust me, something like that wont be an issue in years to come.
Him being in a band throws up all kind... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 6 February 2008: Well said RCN. The longer you are on your own, and really dont mind being on your own, you gain strength and know being on your own is way better than being treated badly.
Its quite a shame the amount of people on here that settle for second, thir... (read in full...)
She doesn't see anything wrong with posting trashy pics of herself on line. Am I being out of order?
Q. I'm going to try to be as fair on this question as possible. I'm not going to leave anything out, even things that I did. My girlfriend and I have been together for years. Toward the beginning of the relationship, she posted a picture on one o...
A. 6 February 2008: Hi
Said to never treat her like what again? Did you turn violent? Hopefully not.
If you only verbuly expressed more than once (or twice as it seems) that you dont want your partner posting trashy pictures on web sites, and she has taken offense ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 6 February 2008: This is truly horrible. Nothing anyone can say will make the situation any better. Theres lots on here with problems obviously, and this is one of the many worse ones. At the end of the day, it sounds like he played you both for fools, and, small co... (read in full...)
Why can't I move on?
Q. My ex partner and I were together for 7 years then split up a year ago. He got a girlfriend straight away, almost too quick if you get my drift. He cheated on me twice in the relationship. I am still in love with him and he keeps phoning and texting ...
A. 6 February 2008: Tells you he still fancies you and cares about you = wants casual sex on tap and keep you in the wings. Sorry, i could well be wrong obviously, but it screams of this! The trouble when you love someone is, much like a person addicted to the pull of ... (read in full...)
Nasty Ex - How do you get over an ex that won't let you go??
Q. How do you get over an ex that won't let you go?? I have been apart from my ex for just over a year, he dumped me on new years day 2007, we are in a really complicated place, he apparantly doesn't want a relationship, yet he sleeps around with ...
A. 4 February 2008: Hi
Once again Collaroy hits the nail on the head.
And he's not destroying you piece by piece, you are.
It sucks when someone has a hold over you, and has a manipulative personaility. But you have just got to be stronger than them! I'm in a similar... (read in full...)
He makes himself look as the victim.
Q. I have been engaged for almost one year....it's been a lil bumpy breaking up making up...mainly over dumb things and this past sunday we had just made it past a breakup (we had broken up for 2 1/2 weeks) and we had talked and realized that this is ...
A. 4 February 2008: Hi
You are not in the wrong here. Your arguments and splitting are down to both of you, but him throwing his toys out the pram after you split, is down to him.
I would be mega offended if my ex was 'moving on' a day after we split! They always a... (read in full...)
My husband is having Cyber sex
Q. i have been married 28 years i recently discovered my husband was having internet sex with web cam. he said he was looking at chat line and was very excited by what women would show him he bought a camera because they expected something in return w...
A. 4 February 2008: All what Collaroy said to be honest!
C xxxxx... (read in full...)
Why is anal so painful? Only once it surprisingly worked by using lubrication.
Q. Whenever we try doggy style, it really hurts. We've tried using lubrication, and one time it surprisingly worked, but all the other times we've tried I've felt ill with the pain. He knows this, so we don't do it, but I know he wants it. I'd love to ...
A. 4 February 2008: Hi Its not what mother nature intended it to be used for, thats why it hurts so much! Most women dont really go a bundle on it, they just tend to go along with it because they think their guys will think they are hot, and great in bed! Its redicu... (read in full...)
Anything we need to do before going to our first swingers party?
Q. Hi my wife and I are intrested in going to a swingers party to try other partners. She would like to try a younger guy again. We have discussed it at great length and feel it would be a great turn on for us both to watch each other with someo...
A. 3 February 2008: Hi
Yes, dont do it!
Ooops sorry, just thinking out loud there. I cant help thinking people are playing with fire when they start introducing other people into their sex life. Im not a big believer in it, i think it throws up no end of trouble,... (read in full...)
She is the love of my life, but her ex is in the way
Q. Last June, I bumped into a girl I once worked with. We never had a relationship at that time - in fact we were both married. A few weeks later, she contacted me saying she was single and miserable (recently broken up from a two-year relatio...
A. 3 February 2008: Hi
Yes fairly often people return to an ex even though its very unlikely to be any different, second, third, fourth or how ever many times later.
If she loves him, she is, to a major extent, still connected to him. I feel for you, because its way ... (read in full...)
I really love him but cant take anymore lies...is walking away the right thing??
Q. I have been in a relationship with a married man for the last 4 years. Initially we started off as friends but became much more than that. He was in an emotionally abusive relationship with a very controlling woman. They were supposed to be ...
A. 1 February 2008: Hes not going to divorce her, you know that deep down. If he was going to he would of done by now. It wouldnt take all this time to hear news from the solicitor.
Maybe he does love you, but then again maybe he doesnt. Maybe he wants his cake and ... (read in full...)
How can I have sex with other girls without hurting my girlfriend?
Q. me and my girlfriend have been dateing for 7 mounths now and the frist couple day of our relationship she took my virginity and for the past 4 or 5 mounths i wanted to experience it with other girls but with out hurting her can sombody please help ...
A. 1 February 2008: Hi
You cant. You need to finish it with her first. Otherwise your commit the ultimte sin of having your cake and eating it basically.
Its a shame, but the majority of people want to experiment with different sex partners at some point after lo... (read in full...)
He's helped his ex 100 percent financially for 9 months now. Should I be worried?
Q. I have asked this question before and everyone said I had nothing to worry about. My boyfriend is from Romania and went to college in the the US. he is graduated and gainfully employed. he dated another Romanian girl for 4 years while in college...
A. 31 January 2008: Yup, looooooooooads more guys out there, that wont live in such a bizarre way! 28? Blimey, Im 37. I didnt start living til i was 29 and boy oh boy have i lived since then, and i have met shed loads of guys since then too!
You just dont know it yet,... (read in full...)
He's helped his ex 100 percent financially for 9 months now. Should I be worried?
Q. I have asked this question before and everyone said I had nothing to worry about. My boyfriend is from Romania and went to college in the the US. he is graduated and gainfully employed. he dated another Romanian girl for 4 years while in college...
A. 31 January 2008: Of course shes not trying to get a job because she doesnt have to. I am a bit amazed he cant see that himself, and is cool with supporting her! Its bizarre!
If i was in your shoes i would be gone.
C xxxx... (read in full...)
My ex could never get over the fact I dated somebody else during a break: please help me put my family back together.
Q. my ex and i have were together over 4 years. we have a beautiful little girl, an engagement, 2 dogs, a house, joint bank accounts, etc. things were rough about 2 1/2 years in, we fought constantly and i split up with her, then dated another wo...
A. 31 January 2008: Hi
I have so been in this situation before. Only difference was we had only been together a year when we split because of always arguing, and he did sleep with the woman he was seeing after me a few times, but it was purely sex he said, even thou... (read in full...)
He's helped his ex 100 percent financially for 9 months now. Should I be worried?
Q. I have asked this question before and everyone said I had nothing to worry about. My boyfriend is from Romania and went to college in the the US. he is graduated and gainfully employed. he dated another Romanian girl for 4 years while in college...
A. 31 January 2008: Hi
I would seriously resent all that to be honest. He pays for her 100% but only half for you? Im all for going dutch (50/50) so thats not unusual, but if my guy was paying for his ex 100% i would have serious issues with that.
9 months is atleast ... (read in full...)
Am I being played for a fool? Should I even talk to her?
Q. Ok. I was with this girl for 2years. We broke up in August of 2007. We had an on going relationship, even having sex until October. Around mid November i cut it off, and didn't speak to her again until a bit before New years. Since we broke up we ...
A. 30 January 2008: She misses you so much that she jumps into bed with anything? Hmmm, maybe shes so screwed up about the split, shes been seeking reassurance elsewhere, or maybe shes not really mature enough yet for a full on r.ship? I dont think either of you are. ... (read in full...)
Does my teacher have feelings for me?
Q. I've fancied this teacher at my school for 3 years, i've recently realised that I think i'm in love with him. Lately he's been making innuendo's that he may have feelings for me too. When i'm around him he constantly stares at me, and when I look a...
A. 29 January 2008: I approved this question, was tempted to say its an asked often question but really thats why i approved it, whats going on these days? Everyone is 'in love' with their teacher or their teacher 'fancies' them? And 99% of the time, its girls talking ... (read in full...)
First love...Does it ever end?
Q. Hi, I want to know if your feelings ever truely fade for your first love or do we hold those feelings for the rest of our lives!! I know the saying that you never forget your first love! My situation is that, I went out with a boy when I was 16...
A. 29 January 2008: Hi
I dont know, i adored someone i was with for 2 years, we split and it took me atleast 2 years to get over him, a little bit more in fact if i'm honest. And even when i met someone 2 years after splitting with him (it was my choice, he was 10 yrs ... (read in full...)
Did he really sign up on this dating site...just as a joke??
Q. hi i just recently found out that my long term partner signed up to a dating wbsite i used to trust him but after this i think i no longer can we have 2kids together and he has been bringing up my other 2 children from a previous relationship. i ...
A. 29 January 2008: Did you tell your current partner though uncle phil? just curious hehe. I have a great sense of humour to be honest, but im not sure joinging a dating site while with someone and when found out would say it was a joke, is something i would see as a... (read in full...)
Scared I am pregnant!
Q. ok so i would appreciate any help. I had my period on the 12th of January (Saturday) and it lasted until the 17th (thursday) I had sex that next day, Friday, and my fiance and I started out without a condom, but after like 10 seconds he put one on. ...
A. 29 January 2008: Hi Stop panicking. Its extreeeeeeeeeemely unlikely you are pregnant. Working on the theory that....you are most fertile between days 10 and 18 of your cycle..ie, 10 days after your last period. You wouldnt ovulate straight after your period. ... (read in full...)
Its gone sour since she moved here to be with me but I'm worried about her wellbeing if we split, so what should I do?
Q. I am 31 yrs old, I live with my g/f which is 26. we met on the internet almost a yr ago. We talked and emailed for a month, then I flew her to me in California. She stayed out here with me for 2 weeks. We had a great time. Then a month later I asked ...
A. 29 January 2008: Tricky one. Learnt a lesson i expect, less speed more haste!
Meeting up more would of been good in the early days.
You took a big gamble moving in together after so little physical contact.
But i dont doubt whatever you're feeling at the mo, she ... (read in full...)
The other guy wants me to choose. What should I do?
Q. I have been dating a guy (Guy A) for about 8 months and I do think I love him. About 4 months ago I met someone else (Guy B). He is very good to me and I do enjoy spending time with him but feel guilty doing so. Guy A says he is not in a "hurry" ...
A. 29 January 2008: How comes you only see guy A a couple of times a month after work? I would go for guy B from what you have said! If guy B knows about guy A but guy A doesnt know about guy B, why is that? There must be a reason for that. The guy (A) isnt long out a ... (read in full...)
What is a good diet to loose weight?
Q. Hey My Boyfriend And I Have An 'Intimate' Relationship... However I Feel Self Consious About My Tummy. I Am Not OverWeight Like Loads But I Am Not A Szie 6 Either :( I Have Been Thinking About Going On A Diet Of Rice Crackers (( You Know The...
A. 29 January 2008: 'Diets' dont really work. Calorie counting works better. Depends how tall you are, age etc etc. A good site to use thats free is sparkpeople . com. Lots of tips and advice in their forums, and you can type in your height and weight and how much you ... (read in full...)
How can I assure my boyfriend that I will never cheat again?
Q. Hi, I'm 20 years old, and I'm in a 7 month relationship with a WONDERFUL man who is 21. I stupidly cheated very, very early into the relationship. My boyfriend just found out and i know it hurt him very badly as he's been cheated on before in past ...
A. 29 January 2008: Do exactly what you are doing now, keep reassuring him, physically and with words. Times a great healer. If it was very early in the relationship let him know that you wasnt completely sure you 2 were going the distance quite yet and you wouldnt ... (read in full...)
How can we get his ex to leave us alone?
Q. I've known my boyfriend 12 years then we got together. I have a fear of losing my boyfriend because his ex (who was with for 4 years) messed with and is still messing with his head. She’s crazy, she stalks him and talks to friends and family about ...
A. 29 January 2008: Hi
Sorry but there are still issues with his ex, and she does seem to have a certain amount of hold over him. You wont stand a chance in this situation, thats not rocket science.
Thats the downfall of getting involved with someone thats still co... (read in full...)
He just suddenly dumped me! Has he got someone else?
Q. I was with my boyfriend for a year and almost 4 months and we were fine, we argued a few times like people do. We always told each other if we didnt like something that one of us had said or done. He would tell me he loved me and i would tell him i...
A. 29 January 2008: Hi
Well at the end of the day, you have to get over this. Hes said he doesnt have the feelings anymore and thats that. You cant make him love you. At the end of the day he hasnt (that you know of) gone out and met someone new before ending it with... (read in full...)
Can fighting/arguments be good for a relationship?
Q. Hi guys. I just have a general relationships question that I've been pondering for quite some time now and I'd really like some outside oppinions. Okay so, do you guys find that fighting/arguments are helpful or detrimental to a relationship? Is it ...
A. 29 January 2008: I spent 9 years with someone and we rarely had a row, i cant remember any anyway. But the guy was extremely easy going and maybe he just agreed with everything i said! hehe but i dont know, i have recently come out of a relationship that was fraught ... (read in full...)
I worked hard, she let go and is happy, I'm hurt.
Q. I came out of a relationship just over 4 months ago. I guess my ex just decided she could do better and wanted to enjoy the freedom of being single. Since she split with me it's felt like there's been a dark cloud hanging over me. People have told ...
A. 29 January 2008: Hi
She obviously didnt get as much from the relationship as you did. Thats not a reflection on you, if you knew you did the best you could. Its just not what she wanted/needed.
Ive never been with a nasty guy (apart from 1 that was a tad compulsi... (read in full...)
NI number criteria
Q. Can I apply for an NI number before Im 16? Im 15 next month can I apply for one because my auntie is trying to get me a job at hers...
A. 26 January 2008: Hi
Not too sure if you can get one, they tend to send you it, but it is usually before you turn 16 it arrives.
You can work before you are 16 though, i know that much, there are just certain rules that apply. You would need to google that. So maybe... (read in full...)
NI number criteria
Q. Can I apply for an NI number before Im 16? Im 15 next month can I apply for one because my auntie is trying to get me a job at hers...
A. 26 January 2008: Hi
Not too sure if you can get one, they tend to send you it, but it is usually before you turn 16 it arrives.
You can work before you are 16 though, i know that much, there are just certain rules that apply. You would need to google that. So maybe... (read in full...)
I'm not Asian so could we be compatible
Q. I have a question about a guy I am interested in that I may be starting to date (assuming he moves things forward with me). He has been separated for three years and his divorce paperwork is with the lawyers. His ex-wife is not contesting the ...
A. 26 January 2008: I wouldnt look too far into the divorce, especially if they have been estranged for some time now. The divorce is just a technicality. Time will sort that.
Are you sure he hasnt just dated Asian women because its where he works? I mean, its quit... (read in full...)
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