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I left him b/c he told me he had plans to sleep w/ my friend. We split, now they're together! Is something wrong w/ me??

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Question - (18 September 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 18 September 2007)
A female Zimbabwe age 30-35, *razzzy writes:

I recently left my boyfriend because he was telling me that he is gonna sleep with my friends. One day after I left him, he already started dating my friend... I tried so hard to keep him, I did everything he told me to... What more am I supposed to do.. Is there something wrong with me???

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A female reader, Basschick Australia +, writes (18 September 2007):

Basschick agony auntNope, you cannot keep someone who isn't interested in staying with you. At least he was up front about his plans to shag your friend. What a creep.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2007):

nothing is wrong with you girl.. Maybe you trusted him to be a better person. but he wasn't, and your friend wasn't. It doesn't matter what you did. He was not meant for you. you will know this later. when the pain you now feel is passed.. you were rigth to leave him.

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A female reader, rockelle United States +, writes (18 September 2007):

rockelle agony auntNO, there is nothing wrong with you.

But, there is something wrong with them. I know you are probably hurt, and are wondering why your friend would do that to you. She will get what is coming to her. Now, that you aren't with the scumbag any more he is her problem. You will see, what goes around comes around. Friends like that you are better off without.

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A female reader, hlskitten United Kingdom +, writes (18 September 2007):

hlskitten agony auntHi

No there is nothing wrong with you, but there is something wrong with your ex, and your mate too as it goes.

2 betrayals, 2 selfish tactless people with very little morals, that you had a lucky escape from by the sounds of it!

You're well rid of them and sometime in the future, you will see that too.

Good luck.

C xxxxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2007):

This guy was no loss. He was obviously a complete jerk - how could he tell you he was going to sleep with your friend, and as for your 'friend'she is an insult to the word. Any real friend would have told him to keep walking. There is nothing wrong with you, you just picked the wrong one... move on, be happy and remember what goes around, comes around.

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