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writes:ok so there is this boy and we are both 13 he is my nextdoor nieghbor! I really like him and he flirts with me all the time. even my parents like him but he has a girfriend and i want to go out with him so bad it makes me feel so sad when i see them together or just the thought of him hugging her! anyhelp to help me get him!
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reader, Blue_Angel0316 +, writes (22 September 2008):
 The best of relationships sometimes started out *Just *Friends. As his friend you should allow him to be with whomever he wants. Consider this, you say he is flirting with you, is he really? Perhaps he is just being nice and you are taking it that he is flirting. On the other hand he could be flirting but doesn't want to break off with his present girlfriend. (There could be any number of reasons.) He might not be able to let her go cause he is really into her. He can't because he doesn't want to hurt her. He won't because there is something else in it for him. The list goes on.
Never try to breakup a relationship. If you can do it to someone else...it can be done to you! Accept the fact that he is with someone else and not you. Perhaps he really likes you...as a Friend. If he is interested in you for more than friendship, remember....he is still with her. That choice was his. In the future he becomes single again and he wants to persue a different relationship with you then is the time to step up. Let him be the one to follow thru.
At your age you don't need to worry so much about 1 person. Get involved in a hobby or a girl's club. Do girl things and just have fun. You have a long time to figure out what to do about boys. The pleasent thing is that boys will some day grow into men and who knows it could be then be a match made in Heaven. Take your time and just have fun. Focus on your schoolwork for it's very important for your own social status. KNOWLEDGE IS POWER!
Reach for the Stars and with God's help may you grasp them firmly in your hands.
God bless,
Blue_Angel
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reader, miss know it all  +, writes (22 September 2008):
no because your going to cause alot of hurt and you will be the one to blame. Its best just being his friend for now and just see what the future holds but if you decide to go ahead and break them up YOU will be the one he will hate in the long run.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (22 September 2008):
 You need to respect other people's relationships. You wouldn't want someone else to wreck yours if you were on that other girl's shoes.
Respecting relationships isn't just the right thing to do. It is also the way to spare you a lot of pain and problems.
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reader, 05hughesk +, writes (22 September 2008):
 You should just leave them to it .. no matter how much it hurts .. just be his friend try to spend a little time with him .. he could start to like you and break up with her .. or if she breaks up with him you can just be there for him and he will start likeing you good luck
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reader, sappygirl +, writes (22 September 2008):
 there's nothing you can do but be his friend until they break up. Just be yourself, act cool, and maybe he'll like you better and break up with her for you.
BUT ..don't interfere in their relationship and do anything to break them up. Karma's a bitch
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