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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do you cope with an annoyed partner?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

4 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - How do you cope with an annoyed partner - he's annoyed basically because his brother in law (my brother) has not yet bought his Christmas present (yes, Christmas just gone). I'm fed up with hearing about it - although I do agree with him to an extent. The gift was 'promis... (114 words)

First date and I got really nervous. Should I skip class so I don't have to see the guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

4 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been (sort of) talking to this guy whose in one of my classes a little bit and recently we had our first 'official' coffee date after already having made out/ hung out at a couple of parties before and having class together. Weeelll, anyway I clammed up and became th... (148 words)

Please help :( I love my boyfriend, but could he be gay?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

4 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay guys, I really need your help. I am such a mess from worrying about this. I've explained a lot below...read it and let me know what you think? I am 22. I've been with my boyfriend, who is 23, for about a year, and I love him to death. We get along so well, we see eye... (1025 words)

Should I tell my boyfriend to work weekends so he can earn money even though I don't like the idea?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

4 February 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I started dating in September..everything has been going pretty well..we both love each other and constantly tell each other, he is very sweet, i have met his friends and family. So far, he is the best guy i have been and can see myself marrying him. We are ... (693 words)

Was it out of line for my therapist to tell me that I'm beautiful?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

4 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I recently started seeing a therapist because I have issues with my parents at home. I've been verbally abused my whole life and that is why I've decided to seek out a therapist. Last night I had my fist session with my therapist and I told him the nature of my... (122 words)

Would you be annoyed if your friend drunkenly felt your boyfriend's butt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

4 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Silly question....Is it normal to be very annoyed at a good friend for feeling up ur boyfriends ass??? my good friend had too much to drink so she started touching his ass. Should i be annoyed?? because I am:( I would not do that to her boyfriend no matter how trashed...They ... (64 words)

My best friend has caused me so much pain! Does he not have any idea how much he has hurt me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

4 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, Around June time last year I fell for my best friend – we have known each other for 8 years and being only 24 that is quite a long time. The thing is he has supposedly wanted me this whole time, yet when I finally fell for him – he ran. After some brief conversati... (597 words)

Infatuated with a mutual friend of my husband's

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

4 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have become infatuated with a mutual friend of my husband. We have all been very close for over 15 years. We have always play flirted ( yes, even in front of our significant others - we have all played around like that forever) but he started sexting me a couple months ago. ... (163 words)

Desperate - wife found a pic and says she is leaving

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

4 February 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I have had a very close relationship - and we have both been known to get a little freaky regarding sex. We both use porn (me more than her), but she has never had any issues w/it at all. I recently created a "locked" folder on my phone that has lots of pics tha... (512 words)

Since we took the distance out of the relationship he's been treating me badly

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

4 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I was in LDR for past 3 with my bf and since I came back my bf is acting weirdly. He is treating me like shit all the time, forgets to call me even for a week. Never goes out with me anymore, doesn't want to break up also. What should I do, pls help me. I still love him... (60 words)

We're waiting until we're married -- but what if he doesn't have enough to satisfy me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

4 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I am a 30 year old female due to get married in a few months. My fiancé and I are both virgins, we decided to wait till marriage. It's never something I regretted. We have spoken about sex and I have friends who are sexually active so I'm clued up. I asked my fianc... (124 words)

Why am I not feeling stronger but worse now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

4 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 18 and I have a long distance relationship with my boyfriend . He is 34 . We are both very happy . We only met for the first time Saturday and had an online relationship previous to this . Every night for three months solid we had 3 hour phones even some times we would last ... (232 words)

Am I overreacting to feel hurt, upset and objectified?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

4 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I hope someone can help. I'm a black woman who's been dating a white guy for the past four years. Recently I found myself with his computer. I was surfing the net and ended up peeking at his Facebook messages, which I know I shouldn't have done. I saw an old message between ... (131 words)

Our relationship has changed since I've been pregnant, what should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4287 days ago

4 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My relationship has changed since I've been pregnant, and not for the better. My husband and I used to be very active together, but since I've become pregnant, I've had to change my fitness routines, so we don't share that bond anymore. On the weekends, he continues to do these ... (474 words)

I'm pregnant! How do I tell my parents who don't like the guy and don't even know we've been seeing one another?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

4 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - What is the best way to tell my parent's I'm pregnant and that the father is 7 years older then? My parent's are strict Christians and for the past year, I have kept my relationship a secret as they didn't approve of my boyfriend as a friend let alone boyfriend. I live abo... (208 words)

I don't want to be my boyfriend's doormat but I am!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

4 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi My bf of 3 years didnt contact me for a week, tod he called me and said he was busy. Thats it no explanation watsver for his behaviour and no aplologies and now he is not picking up his call again. I know he is not treating me right. I want to leave him before it kill... (99 words)

Does anyone else feel cursed?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

4 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I wonder if anybody has the same experience I do? It is very hard to find any info on this subject, and Im hoping someone might knows the right resources for me, So I have this strong feeling, that I have been ''cursed'' or something like that. Something out of the ordinary... (197 words)

If the Past is the Past with regards to Sexual History, why do some keep in touch

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

4 February 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, this site has been great for me and my relationship over the past months. Been reading many other post over many months and one thing seems to stick out or contradict each other. So just wanted to hear some thoughts on this. My question. "If the past is the pa... (462 words)

I found out the guy I'm dating was posting for no strings sex on Craig's List! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

4 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I started dating this guy who's really sweet and nice but I found out that before we met he was posting looking for no strings sex in the casual sex ads on Craigslist which I'm a little freaked out about. (he didn't tell me, I kind of stumbled on it when I was randomly googling ... (225 words)

What should I do if my boyfriend asks for sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4305 days ago

4 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear cupid, am 16 and a virgin i love my b/f very much but what should i do if he ask for sex?... (23 words)

I got drunk and made out with co-worker. My husband said don't ever tell him if I cheat but I can't handle the guilt!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

4 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I did something awful and I don't know what to do. I was out of town for work and was hanging out with other people in my field. We were drinking and a man who's very well known in my field started paying attention to me and I was flattered even though I wasn't attracted to ... (174 words)

The missionary position caused me pain and I couldn't thrust. What could be the problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4307 days ago

4 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I had sex with my wife in the missionary style..and in the process i could not thrust well and i was feeling pains as well. What could be my problem?... (30 words)

I don't understand how I can have a successful relationship if I am not experienced and someone else is very far ahead of me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

4 February 2013 (M) age 30-35 - I have never had a girlfriend or kissed a girl. Most people lose their virginity when they are teenagers and keep getting busy after that. i don't understand how i can have a successful relationship if i am not experienced and someone else is very far ahead of me. I have seen a ... (124 words)

I broke up with my boyfriend over this situation. Was I wrong?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4305 days ago

4 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - If you get confused about the situation, please ask me to clarify. I need as many opinions as I can get. My boyfriend's aunt never met me before, so she told him to invite me over to her house for the super bowl. When we went to her house, they were all smoking cigarett... (701 words)

What caused him to change his mind so dramatically? I can't figure it out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

4 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, this is basically a question about long distance relationships. The one I was in has already ended but I am just desperate for an outsider’s opinion on this because my friends and family are too close to the situation. I play in a band and at one of the gigs I me... (873 words)

I got drunk and missed my personal tranining session, how do I apologise to my trainer?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

4 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - What have I done? I've really hurt him:( how do I apologise? So I got drunk last night and I'm the kinda girl that never drinks. (I'm a good girl, i dont party or anything) But I was bored so I drank last night and woke up with the biggest hangover ever!! But I ... (195 words)

I thought he liked me but he seems to have done a 180 since my friend butted into our conversation!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4307 days ago

4 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - It all started when I was inebriated and had access to facebook. I sent this guy who I've never met/spoken to before a message saying I find him very attractive, on my friends account. She then clarified to him later on it was me who had sent it, not her. A few days later I ... (299 words)

I'm almost certain my partner is planning to leave me and our son, how do I get him to come clean about his intentions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

4 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - All I want is the truth I'm almost certain my partner is planning on leaving me and our son. He has left before 4 years ago and is starting to act in the same manner he did the last time. Clothing/belongings have started to deplete(albeit he may be having a clear-... (305 words)

Strange thing that happened with my GF, what was she thinking?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

4 February 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so Iv'e been with my girlfriend for two years now and this is the first time it happened. It's nothing major but I thought I would ask anyway because it was so strange. I had made a pavlova cake for her one night (an Australian cake with merangue and fruit) which mad... (230 words)

I really care for my boyfriend's little boy, but how does he feel about me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4305 days ago

4 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - This might seem like a strange question but here goes, I have been dating a man for nearly 7 months. I met his son more or less straight away. He is a gorgeous 10 year old boy who is polite, non-demanding, intelligent, quiet and just an all round lovely boy. I have always tr... (494 words)

'Grass is always greener' syndrome in my relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4304 days ago

4 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for nearly three years. Currently, I am 23 and she will soon be 22. We met in college and were friends for a year before starting to date, so we had an established friendship beforehand. She's perfect; just about the best thing that ... (530 words)

Am I doing the right thing in deciding not to get back with my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

4 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Ive written questions on this board before and I really appreciated the help. Im at a different stage now and I would be grateful for some advice again. I am currently divorcing my second Husband, the relationship was terrible. I have one child aged 3 from this relation... (744 words)

Parents and relatives control my life. Would I be a bad daughter if I left?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

4 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, This will be long, so please bear with me. I am a 19 year old Asian Australian. All my life, my parents (especially mum) have restricted me from doing much (this includes going out with a guy friend for coffee, going out, parties..etc). She let me go shopping with my... (536 words)

Who should I show loyalty to in this tricky situation? My BF or my ex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

4 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello everyone, I have a problem. My ex wants to apologize to me "for everything," and I want my boyfriend to be in the know when my ex and I meet up to talk about it. The problem is that I feel like I'm disappointing my ex if I let my boyfriend in on his intentions. I know it'... (174 words)

I'm trapped in my married life. How do I prioritize my life? My parents? My family? My lover? My marriage? My husband? What I want?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

4 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a dire dilemma of my life and in serious trouble. I am in love with my married boss and he too loves me but neither did he committed to me nor I asked anytime as I knew it he was married before we got into relationship Later I married the person my parents chose and cont... (272 words)

Why? I don't understand why my boyfriend cheated on me. I love him and don't want to end up bitter.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

4 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Still to this day I don't understand why my boyfriend cheated on me. He always reassures me it's been three years, and he tells me he doesn't know what he was thinking back then and why he cheated on me of he could take it all back he would. My problem is I chose to ... (287 words)

I have a busy active life. Yet what on earth do I do to try and meet more people?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

4 February 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - This is a bit long and multi-faceted, I will try to summarise. Been single three years, 39, own place, interesting but not highly paid job but I'm only full-time person so no real work colleagues I see daily. Involved in amateur drama, lots of it, and many friends through ... (327 words)

Her past relationships haunt my thoughts but so does my mistrust for her. Is there hope for our relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

4 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am currently in a major dilemma. My fiancé and I are close in age. Until I met her and never had a serious relationship. I saved myself for the person I honestly thought I would marry. She told me her past a month into the relationship (in explicit detail) We... (717 words)

If I'm pregnant how do I tell my boyfriend its not his?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

4 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Cupids, got my self in a little bit of trouble and need some Help and advice. I had a one night stand January 26th early morning January 27th. The guy i had the one night stand was without a condom. We were both having a few social drinks and things got carried away... (228 words)

I am attracted to my married female pastor and I think she knows it. Now what?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

4 February 2013 (M)

age - I'm attracted to our female church pastor. She's married. I took her for coffee, but I think she picked up my motives cuz she won't email me anymore. I couldn't stop thinking about her, but it's getting better now. It was terrible! I was waking up in the middle of the night ... (132 words)

Is there such a thing as attraction-karma?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

4 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Do some people just attract the opposite sex even when they aren't trying? Is there such a thing as attraction-karma? My husband and I are both nice looking (so I hear) but when ever we go out to parties or events, women seem to descend on him the moment my back is turned. Yet ... (268 words)

Please, somebody help me. I found out about my boyfriend's affairs and I don't know what to do.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

4 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey... well, I couldn't be in worse shape right now. My "boyfriend" and I are in a very dark place. At first, I would defend him whenever people would talk bad of him. And I would just like to say now that my friends have always said that my boyfriends were cheating on me, but ... (1048 words)

Why did my ex want to be in contact and then change his mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

4 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I was in love with my ex. As are most people. I would like to think that he was in love with me too. He broke up with me on Halloween. I suppose out of fear, because he has never seen a relationship work. Not with his parents or with his own romances. He is a divorcee and his ... (540 words)

I want my boyfriend to be more of a man. How do I do this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

4 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, me and my bf had been together for 4 years and he's so good to me. We are 23.Problem is, sometimes I feel down when seeing him talking and acting like a girl. When he's talking, he often uses the voice like how a girl laugh. Oh I don't know how to describe it, but its so ... (176 words)

My husband is constantly making jabs at me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

4 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my husband for 9 years, married for almost 5. I'm so tired of our relationship as it seems things are never changing or they will get better for a little bit and go right back to the way they were. My husband grew up in a family where he saw his dad constant... (324 words)

My friends are telling me my boyfriend is lying about his activities

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4307 days ago

4 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 years and he's very sweet to me. He's a caring man and would whatever that makes me happy and smile. We are both 23. He comes from middle low class family and not so happy family while mine is wealthy and happy family. Rece... (480 words)

After10 years of sleeping with a married man who swore he never touched his wife I get a HPV. Was he lying to me? What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

4 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Help. This might sound wrong and sinful of me but I don't know what to do or how to deal. I been having my routine pap smears, blood tests for STDs, and always a HPV test done since the birth of my son, 12 years. All tests have been negative HPV and normal cells on pap and no ... (279 words)

I feel like my dream has turned into a nightmare with this girl! What would you do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

4 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, I met a girl through the internet about 5 months ago. We talked for days on end and when i met her in real life instantly i felt a connection with her. Ended up going to dinner with her the first night and then talking all night on her bed (nothing sexual happened). Next ... (935 words)

Why does my brother think I owe him something when he is living with me for free?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

4 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello Cupid , I have a question for you my mom fell really sick like seven months or so ago my brother moved back from X to come back and help me with my mom. But when he get in good his help begin to slow down.My mom is late for doctors appointments now he barely wants to ... (177 words)

Was that a nice way of blowing me off? Or does he actually want to see me again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

4 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So I went on a date with this guy the other night. We had a nice dinner and a few too many drinks. We ended up making out a lot and I decided that I shouldn't drive so I slept at his place. We slept in the same bed and he wanted to get physical but I told him no and he ... (143 words)