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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Was my room mate rude or am I over reacting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

1 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I moved in with one of my good friends a few months ago, around September/October. This is the first time either one of us has had a room mate. For New Years, we had other friends over and cooked dinner together. I brought 2 bottles of champagne and our other friends brought ... (340 words)

How should I approach the attractive girl on Facebook?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

1 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, so there is this girl I am friends with on Facebook and I find her very attractive, we have about 80 mutual friends (which in todays society meens f**k all, cos we probably added one another just because we have mutual friends, it's a numbers game) so the likely hood of us ... (300 words)

No marriage, no will, no life insurance and thinking of the future. Should I stick around?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

1 February 2013 (F)

age - Last night I expressed my feelings, to my boyfriend of 5 years, about what would happen to me if he died. He is much older than me and we are not married. I was thinking about this because I had pneumonia and he had the flu and both were really debilitating. Lets face it we are ... (358 words)

I feel more like I have a child than a relationship and my ex is always on my mind!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

1 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I completely forgot I had an account on here. It seemed everything was going all right for me (finally!) but of course nothing good seems to last forever. And sorry about this post, it's probably going to be long. But I need help. . Here's my issue..I'm not s... (1059 words)

Is my boyfriend only with me because he can't have her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

1 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, My boyfriend hurt me earlier in our relationship. I told him I cannot tolerate it anymore and left him. He spent two months taking a good hard look at himself, he came back outta nowhere and wanted to me tell about what he learned. It was profound (he matured and got ... (567 words)

Why is my teacher suddenly ignoring me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

1 February 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - well there's this teacher, we talk quite often. i kinda favours me just as a student, he'll say hi to me in the corridors, even in lessons he's always giving me positive marks,i think he knows im quite shy naturally. He's married and has two kids, all of a sudden now he just ... (130 words)

My wife wants to get a house, but she won't help pay!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

1 February 2013 (M)

age - I have questoin my wife want to get a house and ther is only one income i take care of all the bills as it IS. I tell her she need to helppáy for a house but she dont wont to help ... (45 words)

Body language? Is he flirting or being friendly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

1 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - This lad began coming into my shop just over a month ago. He always bought the same drink and left with the usual pleasantries. He came in daily. One day he came in and asked me about a product we stocked and we had a discussion about it. The following day he came back in ... (463 words)

Now that her mom is sick, she only has time for her friends. Should I end things?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

1 February 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi I've been seeing a girl for nearly 2 years,she is great and everything but recently her mother has become ill, so she has to look after her. Now i ask to see her but she always says shes busy looking after mum, but she goes to the cinema once a week with her friend and g... (161 words)

I'm with someone great, but I can't get over my ex. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

1 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Here is the issue. I had a girlfriend for 2 years and we broke up on Thanksgiving. I was depressed for awhile because the mistakes I made and wish I could take back. She made mistakes too and we ended on pretty bad terms. Well its February now and I've been dating this new girl ... (306 words)

I feel uncomfortable still living at home at 27 but its a necessity right now. Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

1 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am currently 27 and living with my parents. I am doing it while I sort out my finances which are a mess (long story short, I took out a loan with my ex fiancé to help him clear his massive debts but he committed suicide shortly afterwards leaving the debt with me). I cannot ... (262 words)

My boyfriend drinks and tells me he's sleeping with other people, what should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

1 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello i have been with my partner now for 2 1/2 years and has been a very terbulant relationship, he drinks heavily and when he aint arounf me he promises he wont drink and when i phone him and he is drunk on the phone or even before he gets to that stage he swears on our ... (136 words)

My cousin is coming to visit, should I change my ways while she's here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4310 days ago

1 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - sounds like an odd thing to ask advice on.. but my cousin is coming to stay for the weekend at my university in two weeks and i don't know if she'll be happy about how i really am here.. i think she has an idea but doesn't fully know. i'm a big flirt, i love talking to guys ... (387 words)

I think there might be a connection, but I don't know.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4304 days ago

1 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - i have a guy friend that I've known for about a year now and last year we used to hangout in the library with my his friend who was in the same class with me, helping each other with work class during lunchtime, so yesterday he asked me to do homework together at lunchtime and ... (237 words)

It hurts me to see my friend with my girl crush together. Should I cut them off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

1 February 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Without going into a lot of detail, my closest male friend and a girl I had been crushing on for quite some time now, and for the first time for one of my crushes actually getting on with the person a good deal rather than admiring from afar, basically spent a recent night out ... (295 words)

I don't know if I should be patient and understanding or just stop this relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

1 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have reached a point where I am at a lost and I don't know if I should continue this relationship. Well, I agree that he's having serious money problems as he has borrowed money from the bank as well as from friends that he cannot repay. All his problems are the resu... (220 words)

Should I talk to his ex gf? I feel that he is hiding stuff from me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

1 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend who I'v been dating for a few months now seems to be hiding a lot of things,and I think the only woman who would know him inside out would be his ex girlfriend they dated 6 years,is it ok if I talked to her?I know her since we went to school together but we weren't ... (84 words)

I like him, but I'm not sexually attracted to him. I'm confused, help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

1 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, So I am in another situation. I am getting mixed signals from a boy I am not sure I like. We have been friends for 8 months, and become quiet close. At the beginning he said he liked me and as time progressed I started to like him, by then he had lost interest...... (134 words)

I found a receipt for heart shaped jewelry, so whose got it!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

1 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I are going through a very rough time in our marriage. About a year ago he came to the conclusion that "marriage just wasn't for him". Although things were not great, this totally took me by surprise He later filed for divorce, but had reservations so he ... (199 words)

Are we moving to fast?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

1 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating a guy for 3 months and the beginning was rough but things have turned out great. I spend the night at his house almost everyday, he takes me to work some days at 7 am, I've net his mother 3 times. He has even joke about how beautiful our kids would be. He has ... (85 words)

Sex and frustration! Does he want me or not!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

1 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - there is this Guy we hung out a few times. The first time we hung out he would say things like he has never dated a girl of my ethnicity but he would if it was me because I'm cute. He was flirting with me the whole night. and the next day at school he talked to me and then he ... (1120 words)

We've never talked about what we are

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

1 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I recently met this really sweet guy. At first we just hung out a couple of times as friends Recently though we have started hooking up, but nothing further than just making out. Its been about a month of constant talking and hanging out, but he has made no inclination that i ... (147 words)

I can't read him anymore

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

1 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello all, so I am going to apologize in advance for the length of my story/question. Anyway, so I recently started college last fall and I met this guy in December. We were at a party in the dorms and we were drinking and having a good time and we both went out to smoke ... (806 words)

Whispered calls with another woman while I am in bed next to him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

1 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - i just ended a relationship with a guy that i had been dating on and off since i was 14 years old yesterday we have a 7 year old son together we just hooked back up 4 months ago he assured me that he was single at that time and so was we both live in the same state but ... (832 words)

What does it mean if a guy calls you "high maintenance"?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

1 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - What exactly does it mean by 'high maintenace'.. The guy I'm dating now its been a few weeks and the reason he dint ask me out earlier is because he thought I would be 'high maintenance'..what did that mean:( ?... (41 words)