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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I really want a baby. I'm trying IVF. But have personal troubles with my new man, who is critical of me. Is it a cultural thing? What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

22 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been seeing this guy for three months, getting on really well. We both currently live in Thailand, working together and spending all our time together. Up until now it's been great. Feel very relaxed around each other and open about everything. My country is the UK and h... (545 words)

Was a Bj the first night too soon? Do you think we have a chance at dating and him respecting me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

22 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I'm 27 years old and a few weeks ago I met a man at a party. We hit it off right away and spent the entire night talking and drinking, he got tipsy and invited me to stay the night there with him but I laughed it off and offered that he take me on a date some oth... (153 words)

Am I the fall back girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

22 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - hello aunts and uncles, please bear with me as this is a long story.. I'm not sure where to begin with this, basically 7 years I ago I started talking to someone via an Internet site, at the time we had both come out of bad relationships but we became good friends online a... (653 words)

My girlfriend snores really loudly. How can I raise this sensitive subject, and not hurt her feelings? Because I can't get proper sleep myself in this situation.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

22 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Yikes! I've got a bit of a small problem, but it's still causing me some issues. My girlfriend snores really loudly. It makes it almost impossible for me to sleep. I toss and turn. It's not pleasant, and is getting to the point where I don't want her to stay over because whi... (173 words)

I love my guy, but recently he started insulting me a lot, and we fight. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

22 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this guy for 10 months now. Initially it was all great between us. We were like the completely in love couple. But in the past few months things have gone haywire. We have started fighting a lot. Its majorly over this guy who I used to like before and now e... (178 words)

My LDR wants sexy pictures from me. But I have put on weight. I've tried sending him fake pictures.What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

22 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a long time now. He is in the marines in one state, while I am in another state. We've hung out a lot before he left, and I was pretty thin then. I have Gained some weight since ive last seen him. He asks me for "sexy" pictures, bu... (107 words)

What's your opinion on his actions on Facebook? we are dating but he "likes" girls on FB.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

22 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I noticed theres a girl that my boyfriend works with and he "likes" a lot of her photos on facebook. Should i ignore it or ask why does he always like her photos and tell him i dont like it? (even though it may start a fight) I dont "like" or comment on any guys photos s... (70 words)

How should I handle this? My beloved bisexual Gf proposed that we have a threesome

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

22 February 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - My beloved bisexual girlfriend proposed a threesome with a girl (or hooker) of our choice, and i told her that i used to have a wild side in the past, but not anymore, and she keeps mentioning that she wishes she met me back then, which makes it clear that she would like a ... (148 words)

Two days ago my online guy was distant. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

22 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I started dating a guy about 2 months ago and we hit it off immediately. He would text me everyday and our conversations lasted all day and all night. He works, goes to school, and has an 8 year old son. For the first month he was off of work and since he's gone back he has... (157 words)

What strategies will help me identify a good man who will step up and stay around like my husband, who accepted my bisexuality?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4287 days ago

22 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm a single mother of two, separated from my husband of 19 years two years ago, finally dating, can't seem to find and keep a good man, a man like my husband who accepted that Im bisexual and will allow me to have flings with women while he stays monogomous to me and takes go... (95 words)

That are some good opening words to start a conversation with a girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

22 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - So I know their are a few threads out here, but I really need some help or steps I like a couple of girls at my school, and one girl was from my highschool who I'm fond of. I'm a short guy 5'3" and I have a Hispanic accent I've erased my Facebook and I have a phone because I... (170 words)

Should I reconsider or consider reconnecting with my ex again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

22 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been on a constant cycle of emotions this past month and a half, it seemed that every time someone spoke about my ex, or when i talked about him, or of course just thinking about when we were together, all of this always made me feel upset or angry. But what would al... (333 words)

Do I move on to a great job? Or to a guy I love, but who isn't right for me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

22 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all! I have a dilemma guys, Basically I have the option of moving down south of my country to a really good job or I have the opportunity to move up north of my country to an ok job but the guy I like lives there. That guy and I dated for a while at university and it wen... (266 words)

Based on the rules in my workplace: If we just go out on a date here and there, would that be what they call a relationship? Could our employment be terminated?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

22 February 2013 (M)

age - I work at a private school. There are rules of conduct for the staff. One of the rules is relationships are not permitted between staff. I am very attracted to a co worker and I can tell she has a serious interest in me. I know why these rules are in place, but I'm not a ki... (248 words)

She was his next Gf after he broke up with me. She and I have been talking. He has been violent with her too. Is it wrong to talk to her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

22 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, bear with me please, as this will be a long question, but i really need help. I broke up with my boyfriend two years agp. We were together for a year and a half. He was violent and jealous. But i went back to him several times during these two years. I have moved on th... (197 words)

Is stress a reasonable excuse for my girlfriend to be distant and snappy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

22 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Girls... If a girlfriend is acting kind of distant, seems to avoid deep or touchy subjects, etc. is it a reasonable excuse to say that she's highly stressed out about other things in life? And that because of that she needs you (the guy) to understand and back off with YO... (862 words)

Should my ex-sister in law and I start a real relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

22 February 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I split up a few years ago. We are still friends, there is no relationship. Recently after her mom passed away, I went to her mom's house to help ready the house for sale. Her brother and his wife showed up to help. The brother's wife told me how her marriage... (393 words)

What to do with my boyfriend? he vents, and he scares me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

22 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - i've been with my current boyfriend less than a month now, he is a nice guy and i like him. The problem is with his character, the work pressure makes him angry all the time and he vents it all on me. He scares me. Yesterday his very expensive car got smached into pieces,... (137 words)

I'm feeling isolated, lonely and I'm going stir crazy. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

22 February 2013 (F)

age - I moved from a big city to a very small town to be with my fiance. In my fiances line of work, he can't talk about anyone or his work because of privacy laws, so there is never any work talk from him. Due to his position he can't really become friends with people in town a... (348 words)

Why does he keep on playing games?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

22 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Why does he keep playing games? I'm so upset:(? So I really like this quiet, cute shy guy. and I thought we were getting on really well. All the signs are there that he likes me. He made me a mix CD for valentine’s day. I thought that was really sweet and took a woman he... (165 words)

Personality disorder? Or am I looking too far into the way he behaves?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

22 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I think my partner has some sort of personality disorder. We have know each other yrs and have a couple of kids together. We have had a volatile relationship in the past as he was a bit of a mummy's boy. He is 44 and we only started living properly as a family when his... (226 words)

Is it really true? Once a cheater always a cheater?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

22 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Can people be truly sorry for cheating and never go on to do it again? Or is it a case of once a cheater always a cheater? I've cheated in the past knew it was wrong and never done it again. My boyfriend of four years cheated in the beginning he says there's not a day ... (91 words)

How can I ever believe anything my partner tells me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

22 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been with my partner for 10 years. He is 12 years older than me, and we have two children together 5 and 6yrs old. 6 years ago he told me he didnt love me. By this time we had a 5 month old baby and another on the way. We seperated. After the birth of our second child he ... (205 words)

How can I find out if my co-worker likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4289 days ago

22 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - So i have a coworker who seems to flirt with me. She always approaches me first, she does odd things like subtlety draw attention to her cleavage (actually more often than not its overtly), always makes extended eye contact with me (or if im not looking ill catch her watching ... (175 words)

Broke up with boyfriend.. but he joins me on xbox?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4289 days ago

22 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I broke up with my boyfriend, of 2.5 years, 3 days ago and have been NC since. He'd started being distant and this was a problem I'd had for months. He said he wanted to be with/loved me but the distance was too much. I assumed he was waiting for me to break up him, so I did. I ... (224 words)

Are my intentions with my ex creepy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

22 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 17 and I was in a relationship with a dude for 5 months. It was amazing. I know I'm only 17, but it just clicked and we are basically the same. Other boys scare me, and other girls scare him. We are both awkward. We laugh about sex. We only met up about 20 times in the 5 mo... (368 words)

Why do girls play hard to get when you show them little interest?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

22 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Why do girls play hard to get when you show little interest?? I AM just curious? obviously you are not clinging and showing being needy. And what's the best way of getting that girl who plays hard to get? ... (43 words)

Girlfriend on site to cheat with married man. Is it time to end things?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

22 February 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I have found out my girlfriend of 2 years went onto a site that is designed for married people to cheat on each other. Her friend told me. I am surprised she told her anyway. She wrote that she is single and looking for an uncomplicated no strings relationship with a married ... (160 words)

Is it ok to date my best friend's sister?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

22 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Is this right to date my best friend sister.she is in my college and 4 years younger than me. I really like her and want to tell her that but i am scared.she is very beautiful and we are good friends.we have talked many times and i enjoy her company.Even my classmates taunt me ... (127 words)

How can I find a cute nickname for my boyfriend?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

22 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I've got a problem. My friend has an adorable nickname for her boyfriend and it isn't girly or anything (It's darebear) and he loves it. I'm having trouble thinking of one for my bf because he has the most god awful name (Rudolfo...but he goes by Rudy. His granddad and his dad ... (87 words)

Did I scare him off with my question about dating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

22 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - This guy I've been talking to wanted to come over Friday night. We were having lunch together Wednesday (he stopped by my office to take me out to lunch,) and he was extremely sweet to me. He and I dated a few months ago but have kind of been doing other things lately... ... (147 words)