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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is this a decent way to ask someone to prom? Too cheesy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

19 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey all, so I'm asking this girl to the prom within the next week, hopefully. I don't particularly know her all that great, so I'm kinda just winging it. I was going to go all out and spend a decent amount of money on it, or get something while it was on sale after Valentin... (203 words)

Why can't my husband get an answer from his doctor about him having erectile dysfunction?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

19 February 2013 (F)

age - How common is that, that a man cant get an answer from his doctor why does he have erectile dysfunction? My husband has a bad case of ED and total lack of desire. He went to the doctor, and he dint find anything wrong with him, from medical perspective. The psychiatrist ... (165 words)

Why is my ex's new girlfriend stalking me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

19 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so my child's dad has a new girlfriend I have decided to accept it and move on as long as he takes care of business I just moved to his area staying with my aunt until my place comes through the end of spring and job searching before i move so he can be close to his child ... (112 words)

Our 16 year old being inundated with spamming/cyber bulling from companies on facebook?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

19 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - We have a 16-year-old daughter. A few weeks ago she joined Facebook; we allowed her to join it on the condition that her friends were people she knew only in the real world, and she's stuck to that - vigorously, I might add. In fact, when she does use it, it's mainly to help ... (393 words)

My 15 year old son is running around with an older girl and wont come home!

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

19 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - HI my fellow aunts/uncles were always so good at giving advice that sometimes it's hard to take. Now is that time I ask you for your input on my situation. For the past two years my son who is now 15 has giving me more than a run for my money. He has been taking drugs,... (479 words)

I overheard my husband saying he wish I would lose weight. Now I feel sad and like absolute crap!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

19 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I don’t know what to do. It all started New Year’s Eve, my husband and I were at his company’s party and I went to grab him another drink. As I was walking back, I saw my husband and one of his employees talking, when I walked up behind my husband (his back was to me), I heard ... (559 words)

Is marriage worth it? Should I give up on the idea of being married at my age?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

19 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I just wondered, to those of you who are on here who are married, is it worth it? I'm approaching 40 and had loads of boyfriends but never yet met someone I seriously wanted to marry. I really loved some of them but knew it wasn't right in some way and now when I think abo... (285 words)

Is my girlfriend being unfair? She's allowed to be with male friends late at night but I'm not allowed to be out with girl friends late???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

19 February 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - long distance for the most part but have the goal ultimately of living together. We visit multiple times a year for months at a time as well. I love this girl more than words could ever describe. I just need some opinions. My girlfriend is a very cool and down to earth ... (554 words)

How to talk 'again' with a guy without it being awkward?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

19 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - So I met this guy on Facebook and he really seemed nice, I really wanted to talk to him and the only way was on Facebook because I don't know him personally. I was really nervous about all this so I asked my best friend for advice and she told me to say and I quote "hey, do I ... (210 words)

Girl I am dating does not know I am older than she thinks! HELP

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4314 days ago

19 February 2013 (M)

age - Ok, I met a wonderful woman online, and we really, really hit it off. She is 31, and I am 48. We want the same things. Neither of us have children and both want them, and believe in marriage, commitment etc. Very attracted to each other and both agree we are compatible. ... (274 words)

My boyfriend goes hours without contacting me but has time to play on xbox?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

19 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Should I be pissed off that my boyfriend, of 2.5 years, goes hours on end without contacting me - yet within those hours will play on facebook and xbox? Example: he may text me at noon and then I won't hear back from him until like 10pm but he makes the time to play on ... (62 words)

My best friend insists he's not gay but did sexual things with me. How do I talk to him about it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

19 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Its been along time since ive asked anything on DearCupid but I really need some advice now. I have asked before about my friend for many years cause i was wondering if he was into me(yes im gay) he is my bestfriend for many years but we dont hang out that much cause im now at ... (579 words)

No matter how much we talk about it, my boyfriend keeps making the same mistakes over and over again! I can' t take it!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

19 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not sure what to do in this situation. My fiance and I have been together 3 years. Currently, we're in an LDR, but that's only been for the past couple of months. I have a problem that he keeps making the same mistakes over and over again. I keep forgiving him and we come ... (224 words)

Why do ladies not have any respect for men who treat them right?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

19 February 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Ladies, you always complain about all the guys who mistreat you, so why then, do you always mistreat the guys that dont? Why dont you have any respect for guys unless they are bad to you?... (36 words)

I love her but she's ready to settle down and I'm not sure that I am. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

19 February 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 25, she is 30. We got together when I was 22. Our relationship has come to the point where she is ready for engagement, marriage and kids (completely understandable). I love her with all of my heart. She is the one I want to be with for the rest of my life but I do no... (193 words)

My birthday's coming up and I have no money. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

19 February 2013 (?) age 30-35 - My birthdays coming up, On Friday the 22nd and I don't know what to do since I have no money and I don't have a baby sitter for my 6 month old daughter. Any ideas on what should I do? I just wNt to have a good time. Hopefully someone surprises me with a cake lol... (56 words)

I cheated and now my boyfriend wants concrete evidence that I won't cheat or go back to the other guy!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

19 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a very stable relationship with my boyfriend and we were supposed to get married end of January.I did something horrible and i cheated on him a few weeks before we got married and now he wont take me back. The truth is i love my boyfriend and he loved me so much ... (196 words)

Cousin always asking me about spankings I give women.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

19 February 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - My cousins know that I go with women that like spankings and what not. Whenever they visit or when I visit them, they always ask about the ladies. However, one of my female cousins often asks me questions regarding the spankings. Pretty much, over eighty percent of ... (131 words)

Am I pervert because I have fantasies/crushes on younger girls?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

19 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey Guys ever since i can remember i have had fantasy/crushes on "youthful cute girls" Im 21 and this still remains, Although the problem is this trait is mainly in younger girls(not preteens I'm not a pedo) with the exception of a few in there 21+! so i end up checking them ... (178 words)

Extreme loneliness from a sudden long-distance relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

19 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I've been having an extremely difficult week, and I guess I just need reassurance that it does get better, and maybe some new tips for very long distance relationships. My boyfriend and best friend, whom I have lived with for almost three and a half years mo... (351 words)

Slept in the same bed with another girl (just friends) and I have a girlfriend..

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

19 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I am just really worried at the moment as I am at Uni and we went to an after party at my friends and it got really late so i fell asleep on the sofa and their living room is really cold and my two friends (girls) offered to sleep with them just same bed nothing else of ... (403 words)

How to nicely tell my bf that his female friend needs to back off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

19 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now. We've had some discussions about our friends of the opposite sex and how sometimes they make us uncomfortable. He told me this about one of my best guy friends, so I nicely told him to back off a little because it was making ... (303 words)

I'm really trying to save myself for marriage and dating a non-virgin really bothers me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

19 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I recently got into a relationship with a guy I really like. We have terrible communication and it makes me angry. He always apologizes for that lack of good communication in our relationship. The thing is, we actually started talking alright the other day and he let slip that ... (221 words)

Continuous bleeding for 1 month after taking emergency contraceptive pill.. NORMAL?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

19 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I had protected sex with my partner in the 2nd week of jan. Within 12 hours i took an emergency contraceptive pill. within 1 week after this i started getting slight vaginal bleeding from around 14 or 15 of jan.On 26 jan we again had unprotected sex and i did not take any ... (164 words)

Does the guy at work like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

19 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I need your opinions if a guy at work likes me and whether its a good idea to get involved. History: We both started working together at the same time, and broke up with our partners on the same day (we didnt realise this at the time) We both are part ti... (580 words)

How to convince a girl that she is NOT a rebound?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

19 February 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello DearCupid Family, I am in pain since several months. I should tell you that your website has helped me already a lot, reading about similar cases. I am 27, and my ex, whom I met in my grande école (its the french equivalent of university) is 26. We had been t... (1555 words)

My boyfriend hasn't yet said that he loves me. Do I suck it up and accept the relationship for what it is or am I wasting my time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

19 February 2013 (?) age 36-40 - Hi all, I have been with my boyfriend for just over three years now. He has been married before but his wife died of a short term illness. We have a great relationship. He is sweet, kind, generous and am really happy being with him…..except he has never said he loves me. I f... (224 words)

Why am I thinking of a guy I've only met twice when I have a boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

19 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Modnote:how old is this son of your friend? Why do i (21) keep thinking about my friend's son (19), whom i only met twice?!? Not more than 2 words. Ughhh...so gorgeous! Im in a relationship for 2 years but turns out he (37) married twice and had kids. But he is a great guy. ... (72 words)

After taking him back again I found out my boyfriend cheated. When confronted he never even replied back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

19 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - A week ago I found out my boyfriend cheated on me after only 4 days of getting back together. We had been off and on since November (we were bf/gf from June through November then he broke up with me in mid-November, we spent a week or so apart, then started hooking up again ... (723 words)

I don't want to start anything with a much older co worker but want to see where it goes!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

19 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been flirting with a man at work for several months now, he flirts back and has openly told me he likes me, hes quite a bit older tho, im 22 and he is 54, he bought me 12 roses for Valentines day this year, we worked together last night and I don't know why but I really ... (124 words)

Boyfriend always accuses me of having sex with other men but then gets off on it

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

19 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - This might seem strange but the guy I'm currently with is extremely jealous , through out our relationship of nearly a year he has constantly accused me of havin sex with other guys. If I go out for a few hours and am late back he would take me to bed and tell me he could smell ... (189 words)

Why did her friend keep telling me this girl was very forgiving? Forgiving for what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

19 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I was hanging out with these two girls jessica and britney. I happen to like the girl jessica and we were just driving around in my car and britney randomly says to me "you know jessica is very forgiving." I was confused by this and felt alittle awkward with jessica sitting ... (216 words)

Incredibly drunk guy called me gorgeous. Did he mean it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

19 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - The other night I went to a party. One of my good friend's roommates was there. He was actually the one who texted me and told me to come party. Anyway, we both got incredibly drunk and started dancing together. It's all a blur now, but we kissed a couple times And danced some ... (158 words)

She left me for her ex and now is afraid to talk to me since things ended with her and her ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

19 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - i was really into this girl and she too had feelings for me. but one day she decided to get back with her ex. i told her that it was a bad idea but her ex is a manipulative guy. she still went back to her ex leaving me heart broken. after that she stopped talking to me ... (180 words)

My boyfriend cheated but he is constantly accusing me of being the cheater!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

19 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has cheated on me in ?the past and I decided to forgive and forget about all of it but since then all he does is accuse me of ?the same things he was caught doing and I can beg and plead till I'm blue in ?the face for him to believe me and he still doesn't believe ... (114 words)

Am I cheating? Can I have a LDR?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

19 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I Moved to a new city, a new school and really started liking this guy who is a very nice loving guy. we told each other our feelings and made out a couple of times, but i told him i don't want a relationship now as we need to study really hard. This was the story for 8 ... (241 words)

My boyfriend says the past is the past but I have trust issues!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

19 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my fiance for seven years. We broke up for five monthe in 2011. When we were broken up he was awful. He lied to me so many times. He started seeing a much younger girl. We are back together now. And we are planning our wedding in just a few short monthes. He ... (109 words)

Ex boyfriend has 20,000.00 he borrowed from me. Will I get it back?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

19 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My bf of 2 years broke up with me few days back, he was very abusive during the last 1 yr. Im still under depression and i did all things like begging, sending him mails, calling him to take me back. He didnt repond to anything, i guess he moved on, but i couldn... (100 words)

Husband wants me to become friends with strange women because he likes them

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

19 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband seems to always want me to be friends with girls that he "gets a kick out of" but it always feels like he wants it so he can have an excuse to be close and flirty with them. I have said I am happy with my current friendships and don't want any more friends because I ... (353 words)

M I overreacting from my supposed best friend telling everything to my now ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

19 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I lived next door to a woman my age with children the same age as my son. I felt lucky to have moved into a home so close to someone I could relate to and chat with, and our kids could play together. My boyfriend and I were fighting a lot, and I admit that most of our issues w... (629 words)

Husband's phone has a name as "buddy" who turns out is a girl! Should I be worried?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

19 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - So the other day while my husband was in the shower, he asked me to find a number in his cell phone (a friend of his that we were meeting later) and call him to confirm the time. When I was doing that, his recent call history showed up, and I noticed a name that I had never ... (191 words)

Is it possible to forgive after spouse confesses to being unfaithful

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

19 February 2013 (F)

age - I need help and don't want to unload on family and friends, so I am turning to my dearcupid family. Does anybody believe that it is possible to forgive after spouse confesses to being unfaithful. The betrayal happened long ago, and he lied to me for DECADES about this. He ... (362 words)

We don't seem to agree on how things should occur before he proposes!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

19 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. We lived together for one and I had to move out because of family issues. He just started a business an hour away and wants me to get a job down where he is so we can be together again... I told him I would not move back in ... (149 words)

Guy friend has asked me to meet his family. Is that a good sign?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4323 days ago

19 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - This guy and I had a little fling few years back. Now we getting close again an hanging out all the time. Besides being flirty an talking lots. Nothing physical has happened again. But I feel with time we could actually start something more. Going slow. Now my question... (105 words)

Guys: Would you date a freshman if you were a senior?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

19 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have a quick question, mainly for the guys out there. If you were a college senior, would you date a freshman? I'm asking this because the guy I like is going after a girl who is a senior like him. The thing is she looks a lot like me, not to be conceited but I would say ... (108 words)

Should I ignore the comment my older boyfriend made about me wanting to be in bed with both him and his son?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

19 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm upset about a "joke" that my boyfriend made today. My boyfriend is much older than i am ( he is 21 years older than i am, and i am only a year and a half older than his son!). He hasn't seen his son much though since his son was four years old. At the moment, he hasn't ... (326 words)

I know I should be relieved to be out of the relationship but I just feel so down!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4324 days ago

19 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My bf of 3 yrs broke up with me saying i was nagging him all the time and he had enough with me. He was the one who was verbally and emotionally abusive all the time and calls me nagging even if i call him once a day. I know i should be relieved to be out of ... (115 words)

How to cope with your man going to prison

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

19 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - im 19 me and my man got busted together hes going to prison. I feel so guilty like its my fault. I tried taking some of his charges but he wouldn't let me. were in love but its so hard for me not being able to see him. im waiting for him but all I want to know is how to cope ... (71 words)

My boyfriend is torn between two households. Is time and space the answer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

19 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - my bf and I have been together for a year seeing each other everyday since we met doing everything together never really having any major disagreements. we both have children from ex marriages and have been going through custody battles his parents live with him due to helping ... (470 words)

My boyfriend seems repulsed by my weight loss and breast size being smaller

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

19 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I was 14lbs heavier when I met my boyfriend and I'm losing weight quickly through stress that I'm experiencing at the moment. Well I've always had big boobs and I'm now a uk size 10 and they're 34 e, he doesn't like it because they're getting smaller but I'm not losing weight ... (180 words)