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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My ex b/f already knows I'm with another guy so why does he keep calling me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4305 days ago

6 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend travel for 6month with no contact, not quite long I met this new guy in my life that love every bit of me, now my gone away bf is bad, I promise to wait 4 him, but it a new story now, my new bf knows about him and he won't give me any chance to speak with him, his ... (111 words)

We've been talking for a week and he says he's in love

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4303 days ago

6 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So i started talking to this guy that i met on facebook. i really really like him, we have only been talking for a week and he's already saying he's in love with me. i had a really bad break up with my daughters father and it took forever for me to get over him. My problem ... (239 words)

If you've moved on, is it permanent?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4304 days ago

6 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My question is: Once people have moved on do they ever really come back? Have their feelings gone forever, or could there still be a chance? If someone has moved on from someone else because of fear (scared of developing a relationship), their past history which could invo... (175 words)

I'm feeling pangs of jealousy even though I thought I was over her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4304 days ago

6 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - i broke up with my ex back in the beginning of october. we really did love each other, although we just weren't right for each other. we were going different directions and wanted different things. we also had very different personalities. i'm very laid back and she's very ... (507 words)

Is he flirting with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

6 February 2013 (?) age 30-35 - well there's this guy, im in his class, but he never knew me before. I was just put in his class last week or 2 ago. He knows my name good for not hearing it before. Now he stands over me (he is much taller then me), puts his hands on my desk and another, sometimes he will ... (124 words)

He's not my Bf. So did he go too far by hugging me from behind? I feel confused by it.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4304 days ago

6 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Guy friend hugged me from behind?? We're friends but not close have similar interests and occasionally flirt. Both in serious relationships and have no intention of leaving our partners so no affairs. It was really weird we were talking about my car (it was being fixed). I... (123 words)

Is it time to break-up? Why am I holding on to someone who doesn't want the same things as I want?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4305 days ago

6 February 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I really need some outside perspective on my issue, so here it goes... First of all, I think you should know that I'm the type of guy that always has a girlfriend. I'm also the type of guy that loves to show my affection a lot, through little surprises to cuddling. Aft... (406 words)

I work full time. Don't want to settle down. Do want a nice Gf. So where can I meet such a girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4304 days ago

6 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 20 years old, haven't gone to university, instead I work. Most girls who are my age or a little younger are either at uni or going to uni in a few months. I'm not looking to settle down and no matter what happens with girls I'm still focusing on my career and personal ... (136 words)

My friends told her . My crush knows I like her; what should I do !!??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4304 days ago

6 February 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Well some of my friends told my crush I like her, and I started to avoid her for about a week after I found out. Now I see her everyday on the way to school, and I speak to her quite a lot. Anyway my friend asked her what she thinks of me, and she said I was friendly... ... (96 words)

Where is this relationship going? I think her feelings may be more serious than mine. Nor sure what to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4304 days ago

6 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Been with my girlfriend for about 9 months now, first few months didn't really count as we started dating towards the end of the uni year, then I went travelling over summer, and we live in different areas but still spoke frequently and met up when we could. Things have bee... (410 words)

After five months he broke up with me, for doing all the things I thought made me a perfect girl friend. What did I do wrong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4300 days ago

6 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Basically ever since I was younger I've always had this preconception of guys as hard and unfeeling and only wanting sex. So when I picked a boyfriend, I picked one who wouldn't be emotional or sensitive or want me to open myself up, nor one that looked "hard", strong, attracti... (247 words)

What can I do about my girlfriend, who is so jealous of the relationship I have with a sweet guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

6 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My girl friend as been so jealous about my relationship cause it going well for me. Her boyfriend is a close friend to my boyfriend, and they both work in a construction company and see most time at break, without knowing abt my friend jealousy, I always tell her everythi... (252 words)

Was I a fool to get involved and offer my support to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4304 days ago

6 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - A friend of mine was going through hell as his wife had gone off with another man, leaving him a note. He hit the drink and after a week moved into a new place he kept on drinking I stepped up and saved him and his job, Things moved on and we became more than friends goin... (376 words)

What are his intentions? ignores me for several weeks, then sends a text.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4303 days ago

6 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated this very good looking man for about 6 weeks. He texted me as soon as he woke up every day and we saw each other once or twice a week. Then we had a fight because I got jealous over his female friends and he put me in my place by clarifying we are not in a relationship, ... (516 words)

Can someone explain why a man would still want to be your friend after you have dumped them by email?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4305 days ago

6 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I need to help with my situation Can someone explain why a man would still want to be your friend after you have dumped them by email? My ex doesn't resent me or anything, I don't understand. It makes me feel like he felt nothing for me. How can he still want to be my friend... (84 words)

I'm 26 and want to know if this is a norm, for guys my age? I need to visit a prostitute every week or I get too frustrated.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4304 days ago

6 February 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I feel compelled to sleep with a sex-worker at least once a week. Otherwise, my libido gets the better of me and I find it hard to focus on any task for long because of an over-active sex drive. If I go without sex for three months, I actually find myself becoming extremel... (85 words)

How long can someone's feelings last, without ever mentioning anything to the person they like?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4305 days ago

6 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - First of all i want to say this post is really long. The predicament i am facing is something i thought i would never have to go through. But I was wrong. So what does my guy friend mean when he tells a friend of mine that he liked me several years ago but he moved on. Bu... (499 words)

My experience of an LDR has been flawed by his need for a FWB as well. I refused the latter. Can LDR partners stay faithful?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4305 days ago

6 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - can people mix up long distance friends with benefits relationship with a committed faithful long distance relationship meaning? I was in a long distance relationship and thought he was faithful for the year prior to my trip to meet him. He kept asking me my opinions about... (246 words)

We tried to move past his cheating but I'm recently starting to resent him for many things, how do I approach this situation?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4304 days ago

6 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't even know where to start with this be here goes. So I have been in a 3 and half yeah relationship with my boyfriend. He cheated on me but we decided to move on together and move past the situation. We have gone on to have a little boy and get our first home toget... (325 words)

My wife wants a divorce after rushing the marriage, was she just using me to get over her ex? What should I do now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

6 February 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Seven months ago, on a dating site ,I met American girl who was 16 years olders than me , means she was 46 and I was 30 then. In just matter of two months , she came to Pakistan and married me. Honestly speaking, she was doing all that too quickly but anyway we got married . ... (796 words)

Did she end our friendship (again) because she likes my husband and cant stand seeing us happy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4303 days ago

6 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - So I've been best friends with a woman for 15 years. The first 5 we were inseperable. We met husbands around the same time 5 years later but after the birth of my son, she dropped me. I called and left messages but never heard from her again for 5 years. It broke my heart but I ... (610 words)

How can I find out if she is serious about our relationship or if this is just for fun?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4305 days ago

6 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I was chatting with a girl from last 8 months and unexpectedly she proposed me and im happy with this relationship, but sometimes somewhere i think she wants relationship for fun because she doesn't msg and call me often in a day...so how can i come to know if she wants this ... (58 words)

We only have sex once a day when we used to have sex 6 times a day! Are we on different pages sexually?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4305 days ago

6 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Cupids, my boyfriend and i dont have sex as often as we used to. We used to have crazy wild sex and passionate sex at minum 6 times a day. Yes we were horny teens then but we arent much older. He is 20 and i am 21. Could our age have effects on why our minimum number of times ... (171 words)

I cheated on my girlfriend but don't feel guilty. What should I do now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4305 days ago

6 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Ive been dating my gf for over 3 years now, and Ive been extremely faithful this whole time without ever being tempted until now. The last 2 years though have been rough, I havent been excited to see her, or genuinely been as happy as I was the first year in a very long time ... (736 words)

My roomate is trying to sabotage my relationships!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4305 days ago

6 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - i've got a real problem with my roommate. we've been living together for quite some time now; about 4 years. and she's really caused me a lot of issues in my social and dating life. she's practically a recluse. we work together, that's how i know her. but when she gets of... (664 words)

Struggling with the maintenance payments to my ex and worried about losing my girlfriend over this!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4304 days ago

6 February 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi has anyone been in my situation? Any advice? I have been divorced 6 years and pay maintenance to ex and for 1 child, but in past 3 years changes at work meant no raise and no bonuses for that time-I've looked for another job but nothing yet. I had to move in with my mum ... (132 words)

Is there a chance that my ex and I can rekindle our relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4305 days ago

6 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I am in love with a guy that I left 8 years ago today we talked on he phone and then feelings started coming back between the both of us.I really care for him I want to make things happen with him but there are some issues and boundaries that we have crossed but can't seem to ... (114 words)

Why did he go out of his way to NOT mention that he has a Gf when he talked to me so often, and more recently flirted with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4305 days ago

6 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I went out with my coworker two years ago. Things didn't work out between us, and we both (especially him) moved on... but lately we'e been flirting a lot again. [Please don't tell me it won't work out because we work together. If he had expressed an interest in getting ... (333 words)

I had a sneak-peek at his email. I found out he's buying things for himself on line he's not told me about. Why the secret?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4305 days ago

6 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've just found out that my boyfriend secretly spends a lot of money behind my back as he left his email account logged in and i had a sneek peek. He even bought lots of stuff on my b'day for himself! When talking about what he buys, he obviously white lies to me as he's told... (88 words)

Do I break my heart and never know? Or tell my crush my feelings for him on Valentine's day?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4305 days ago

6 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been stuck with this for over a year and a half now. I have developed strong emotions towards a guyfriend I've known for nearly 10 years. Never thought itd turn out this way. I don't know if he shares those same feelings. I've always heard things of how he feels towards ... (160 words)

He'd like to see me introducing things to titillate him during lovemaking. But I'm shy. Should I break up instead?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4305 days ago

6 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really at a point where I don't know what to do. My boyfriend and I have been together for quite a while now and he was a virgin when we first had sex. (Yes, we really do love each other and have feelings for one another.) I on the other hand was not, but I still do not h... (144 words)

Why did my cousin's friend indicated interest one day yet the next day he was disinterested?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4287 days ago

6 February 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi! Please help me. I'm so confuzzled. Okay so my cousin's best friend started messaging me on Facebook again and asked for my number. So I gave it to him and from that day on we've texted every single day! It was one day he asked if I liked him I said yes and he said awww... (164 words)

Was My boyfriend's reaction out of line? I had to enroll, online, for classes and the slot allocated to me ate into time he wanted to spend with me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4305 days ago

6 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - All my college procedures are done online. Today I had to choose my class schedule. Obviously, my college has thousands of students, so we're assigned a period of time where we could chose it (for example, all names starting with A do it from 9am to 11am). I got today fro... (463 words)