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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 years and he's very sweet to me. He's a caring man and would whatever that makes me happy and smile. We are both 23. He comes from middle low class family and not so happy family while mine is wealthy and happy family. Recently I've been told by one of our friends that he's been lying to me about his activity and what he's doing. From 2 years relationship, I don't have any clue that he's smoker, though not a serious smoker. I don't know that he ever gone with his friends to have a massage and the therapist help him to masturbate. I don't know that he invites his girl friends to clubbing and I've got a picture of him putting his hand on a girl chest while he's study abroad in the beginning of our relationship. In the 2nd year of our relationship, we seldom see each other because he said he's busy and his mom doesn't let him to go out and ask him to help their business, but the truth is he's going out with his friends doing all that. I'm so hurt deeply. I'm so loyal to him from the start till now. I can't forget all what he had done to me. He promised that he won't do the same mistake again ever. I know he loves me, but after all of this, my mood swift easily from happy to suddenly sad and down when I remember what he's done to me when we dating.I think that the biggest problem is because he's so childish. He's so easy to follow others whether its good or bad because what all he had done is because of his friends invitation and he agreed that. I think he's also not a smart man because he can't separate what thing can be share to other and can't. He told his friends that his sister got debt and sold her house. I think he's better to cover the truth and he doesn't need to tell other about his sister's debt. For what?? I don't know he's really dumb or acting like a dumb. Sometimes I'm so tired and down when he's like that. From all of this, I still loves him and my parents don't know about this, they adore him so much and told me to keep this relationship well. I'm just in dilemma what should I do now to repair our relationship? I can't tell anybody about my problem especially my mom, because I don't want her to worry about me. I really love him and I want him to change for the sake of his good and our relationship. I love him and I want to be with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2013): You should listen to your friends. Even though your friends cannot know everything about him, it is still too much!
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