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Archived questions from: 23 February, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Buying a place with or without boyfriend and how much should I contribute?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4319 days ago

23 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have always wanted my own place but back then I had no money, kept switching jobs etc so that's why at 28 years old I am still living with my parents. Right now I have money but I am now waiting for my boyfriend to find a job in the city(he works in another town) so that we ... (405 words)

Would a guy text you every day if he just wanted sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

23 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Would a guy text you every single day if he was just after sex. Me and this guy ( i know him yrs as were in the same group of friends years) had a drunken kiss at christmas. He had been trying it on a few times over the last couple of years and i laughed him off as... (371 words)

After reading my boyfriend's messages he doesn't think I'm hot enough?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

23 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for just over half a year, today I checked his Facebook not because I don't trust him. Jus because he told me of an old friend who messaged him recently from Spain, I was interested and so decided to read it, I don't care how that sounds ... (228 words)

My girlfriend is in prison and I think she's developed feelings for another girl in there

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

23 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - So my girlfriend is in prison. She has been locked up for thirteen months. There is this other girl that she has developed and emotional attachment to.My girlfriend says that they are just friends, but there are little things that they do to make me question otherwise. I want ... (109 words)

Since our first date he's tried to get me back to his place. Is he just in it for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

23 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I've gone on 2 dates with a guy. We got along very well, spent the whole date laughing and talking about how much we had in common. He invited me back to his house both times but I declined. While we were at dinner talking he told me that he was in a different place... (228 words)

Should I dump my boyfriend because he doesn't spend time with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4313 days ago

23 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Whn ever my boyfrnd is workng he neglects me. he does not spend time with me especially on a pay day now i dont knw what must i do i think i should dump him bt i lov him too much to loose him! i dont knw what to do plz plz help me... (55 words)

How do I tell my soulmate that I can't be with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

23 February 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - There is really only one question that I have, how do I tell the woman I love, the woman I feel is my soulmate, that I cannot be with her?... (30 words)

How do you deal with relatives that are so cruel and jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

23 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been reading recent posts and I couldn't help but wonder they are soo many relatives out there,who would do anything to bring the morale of their own down,I thought I may be among the few realised their many..I would really like if some of you who have been thru this and ... (145 words)

Should I leave my cheating husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4317 days ago

23 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - i love my husband very much and recently i found out he did cheated ..should i stay with him or leave?... (21 words)

My b/friend's very ill ex is in the hospital. How do I deal with this sad uncomfortable setting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

23 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and his baby mama never got married, just lived together. They broke up (couple months after the child was born) because she liked to party and get drunk, and was jealous of the love my boyfriend had for his son. Nevertheless, she got custody, as my boyfriend is in ... (406 words)

My married lover won't leave his wife for me. Its not fair!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

23 February 2013 (?) age 41-50 - I am deeply in love with a married man that doesn't love me back. Why do all of these lucky bitc*es get their married boyfriend to love them. Let me guess its all about looks?? Only beautiful and attractive women can get the man to fall for them. its not fair. We can't all be ... (100 words)

Sneaky girlfriend, should I dump her??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

23 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Greetings, im just going to be straight about this. Ok, so this is what happend: i've been with this person (girl) for almost a year now, infact we will be making a year next week friday! She bookd herself in a hotel for the weekend, so we could spend some time together... (169 words)

Should I leave my boyfriend because of his addiction to cyber sex?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

23 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello Dear Cupids I discovered my boyfriend had been emailing female contacts he has on yahoo and also paltalk, to talk about sex. I discovered after I checked his computer after he had repeatedly clicked off the screen quickly when I came in to the room. I had previously a... (902 words)

BF said "I love you" for the first time after I gave him oral sex - did he mean it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4316 days ago

23 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for five months - he is 30 and I'm 29. We are moving in together in a couple of weeks which seems fast but we both want to and think its the right thing to happen and we get get along really well, sex life is great and have spent a weeks holiday ... (302 words)

A big thank you to you all for your advice!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

23 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I want to start off by saying THANK YOU, THANK YOU, AND THANK YOU again. All of your encouraging words and helpful advice has gotten me a long way. I do know I have a long long path still to recovery getting over a 19 year marriage. I fell to my lowest after sending you all a ... (265 words)

Am I the most beautiful girl in my BFs life? Not according to his Facebook messages ...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

23 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Help I am having self esteem issues now. A couple of weeks back I got a hold of my boyfriends Facebook messages (we made an agreement that we would delete both of ours months ago). Anyway, when I read the messages I saw things that were sweet that he said to some girls he wa... (126 words)

Confused cousin: she's giving me mixed signals.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

23 February 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - My cousin makes me feel alot confused as she is giving me mixed signals. These range from prolonged eye contact when talking ( 3mins), preening, side glances when I'm not aware and etc. She even friend requested me on facebook and well that's a waste of time because she ... (92 words)

Any advice on how to make close friendships? I seem to be left out.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

23 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 27, have never really had a close group of friends and it upsets me that that's the case. I've had friends over the years of course, but only ever one or two at a time and often they have been born out of convenience, ie we were the only 2 single people in the office so ... (201 words)

Can my GF and I really get back together after this break?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

23 February 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone. My girldfriend of 9 months asked for space and time apart for a month. We had a great relationship for the first 6 months then some arguments and a fight happened. I apologized sincerely. We haven't spoken in 3 weeks. She contacted me three times after aski... (233 words)

I think my guy is still hung up on his ex. There are too many rules about sex because of how he did things with her!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

23 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I think my partner is still hung up on his ex. The reasons I think this are: 1) he won't kiss me properly (tongues are a definite no-no) as he says when he used to kiss her she wanted more than just kissing. I have assured him I am not the same. 2) he will only have sex ... (378 words)

Does my crush like me or is it all in my head?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4319 days ago

23 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - So i have another problem this one is to do with my ex-crush... Last year i told him i liked him but then he said he aint ready for a relationship and what not so in short he rejected me.. But we continued our friendship and acted as if nothing happened but now this y... (129 words)

We've been together for a few years and now I just don't fancy my boyfriend at all. Is it just a phase?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

23 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have an issue with my boyfriend. I have been with him for a few years now and just dont fancy him at all. is it time to call it a day on this relationship? i havnt told him of my concerns but basically sex is just clumsy and i find myselk avoiding it completly. when... (187 words)

Is my boyfriend getting it somewhere else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4317 days ago

23 February 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - My Boyfriend and I Have Been Dating for a few months (im gay), and its been an up and down ride. Mainly because I have issues with his exes that he's still friends with and texts frequently, but we've learned that I don't need to worry, or do I? Very recently we've been ... (132 words)

Does anyone have any tips on how I can break my bad eating habits?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3916 days ago

23 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I know this is not a diet and exercise forum but I'm hoping some of you may have gone through this before and can offer some advice. I have put on about 15lbs in the last year. Ever since I was a child, I could eat whatever I wanted and I always stayed 130lbs (I'm 5ft 8), so ... (331 words)

Oral sex? No I don't like giving it. So should I tell him I don't like doing it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4314 days ago

23 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I’m a young man and I’m gay and I’ve a boyfriend, we’re together for 3 years. But there is a problem. The thing is that I don’t like giving oral sex. I know how that might sound like, but I really don’t like it. Hard to explain why, my boyfriend is clean and smells good, so... (274 words)

Any tips on how to cope when my partner is out of town for work? I get so lonely.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

23 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all! I was hoping for some help... I've been used to living with my parents and 2 siblings all my life, so it's always been a busy home. However my partner and I bought our 1st house together last year and I love living with him, just the 2 of us but I really st... (379 words)

Confused about whether or not to end this relationship. The pros and cons are equal.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

23 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Recently I have been thinking about ending my relationship but I'm so unsure whether I am making the right decision or not. I love my boyfriend so much, but at the same time he drives me so mad that I don't know if I could be in this relationship forever. I have also started to ... (125 words)

I love my husband but he loves his money and freedom more than he loves me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

23 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - My ques: myself and my husband got married 12 years back. We have 2 daughters. I love my husband more than my life. He 2 loves me. But he a very practical person. He is away from me for 9 months due to his work in ship. But when he is near to me he is always with me. But no... (478 words)

I resent my girlfriend because she's hot and I'm not!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

23 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a horrible person. I have a really great friend. She is by far the kindest and most sincere and loyal friend I have ever had. She's such a true friend that I truley.think if it came down to it she would throw herself in front of a car to save my life. But, there's a big ... (278 words)

My boyfriend's mother swore at me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

23 February 2013 (F) age 26-29 - I was at my bf's home this other day with him til his mom appeared and she started swearing at me in not many words saying that i am a bitch i sleep with boys and obviously showing that i am not good for his son....so it is haunting me i cannot do anything not even eat?... (57 words)

I'm moving out but too scared to tell Mom!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4317 days ago

23 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Well alot if things had change lately. Hmmm so after everything my boyfriend ask me seriously to get a place with him. I must be out of my mind cause I told him yes I will get an apartment with him. Now.. I have no close what I'm going to tell me mom. She is going to freak when ... (133 words)

I'm afraid my boyfriend's flirty friend will take him away from me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4316 days ago

23 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been together nearly 3 years. He has a female friend who is constantly flirting with him in front of me, and they have a close friendship. I am trying to keep my mouth shut, because I don't know if I can talk to them both because it will get back to ... (154 words)

Why does he randomly contact me when we only met once over 2 years ago?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

23 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy (I will refer to him as B) almost two years ago when I went to my best friend's beach house. B and I lived in the same city but we both happened to be at the beach at the same time. We really hit it off and we flirted back and forth until we both got a bit drunk ... (508 words)

I haven't had sex in sex years and new guy is bigger. Will sex hurt like the first time again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

23 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I didn't have sex for 6 years after break out with my ex bf. Now ready to have sex with my current bf. He is lot bigger than my ex and I remember my vagina stretch painfully when I lost my virginity. I afraid this may happen to me again. Will I feel the stretch feeling like my ... (72 words)

I want us to be a family but I'm tired of doing everything all for nothing!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

23 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a bondle. I have been with this person about 3 years now on and off and we have a son together. Its our first kid for the both of us and when we first started dating everything was great and we spent lots of time together. I found out I was pregnent I was happy but ... (285 words)

What we had together was amazing. Why did my commitment phobic guy cut me off the way he did?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4317 days ago

23 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I dated this guy for a year. He was commitment phobic from the start because he had some horrible experiences in his past, but we decided to go with the flow, because the chemistry and compatibility between us were very strong. In fact I would say it was rare, passionate... (241 words)

I feel lost in this new place and miss my Bf. My Mom's new Bf tells me what to do all the time. If I returned home I'd have new problems. What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4312 days ago

23 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, just feeling a little lost and could use some help. About 6 weeks ago I decided to move interstate, as my mum lives up here and I wanted to try something new. I got myself a full-time job, and borrowed $5000 off my mum to buy a car. I am now starting to ha... (143 words)

Did I ruin things? How can I get things back to the way we were at the start, flirting and saying nice things to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

23 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Dating advice needed! Recently my school talent show was on and I took part in it! I became really close to this boy, the DJ, and I slowly started to love him. We got so close at the show and I was disappointed when it was over because I thought we might never get a chanve to ... (225 words)

What should I do about this baby Dad Drama, caused by his new GF? I need help.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

23 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My child's father and I have been really going through the drama. His new girlfriend is the cause of it. She does things to influence our arguing I'm honestly tired out of fighting and I'm tired of her causing problems I talked to him about but he seems to not get the fact ... (143 words)