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Archived questions from: 3 February, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I be worried about the lack of sex in our relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

3 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been in a relationship for more that five years and during this time our sex life was great. we made sure we saw eachother all the time so we could have sex since we dont live in the same house. But lately all we do is chat and hang out. We havent had sex in months and ... (112 words)

Feeling comfortable with anal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

3 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - im 16...me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a year have the best sex imaginable...but we rarely have it...we look up many positions,lubes, handcuffs,etc...we try it all...he wants to try anal now...im very scared to even attempt to do it but i want to because i love ... (119 words)

Is she too young for me to be doing more than flirting?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

3 February 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, So before people start calling me things please read everything. I'm currently married but me and my wife are looking to go our separate ways. We had our first child when we were 18 and got pressured into marriage(her family felt very strongly about this) although at the ... (409 words)

Anyone have experience with an IUD?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

3 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys. I have a health concern but I'm not looking for medical advice per se, more whether others think it sounds serious or not. I have to tell this to someone because I don't have anyone else, and I'm scared :( I'm 20, and got a copper IUD inserted at the start of Nov... (231 words)

Confused about masturbation and things related.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

3 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Right some questions, masturbation when in a relationship - isn't the whole point of masturbating because you can choose who you want to look at as in porn/think about and not many people think of their own girlfriend because there is no point? My boyfriend said he resented... (122 words)

I'm 16. Is it wrong for me to have unprotected sex, already had a miscarriage and want to get pregnant?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

3 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - ok so heres the deal...me and my bf have been dating for almost a year now...we stated having sex 5 months after we began dating...but we NEVER used condom...we are 2 highschool students and he is to graduate this year...i have suffered a miscarrage already only because im too ... (73 words)

Boyfriend broke up with me because of my depression and distance. Should I wait to see if he'll come back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

3 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I were at school together in Norway when we were seven. Years later due to the wonders of facebook, we got in contact again. We found out we both loved hill walking, etc…so a couple of summers later we went on a walking holiday in Norway for a week with a couple of ... (981 words)

My boyfriend lies to me about masturbating

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

3 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Well i will just hop into it. My boyfriend of 4 years likes to masturbate , which what guy and girl doesnt. I dont mind it, Im actually turned on by it. I dont like that he lies to me and says he never,not even once a year, does it. Idk why he lies about? I love that he ... (147 words)

Male co-worker a little too interested in my life. Its weird, isn't it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4339 days ago

3 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - There's a guy at work who I've known for a couple of months. He came out of a relationship in December and we were texting and he wanted to be f***buddies but I didn't want that as I wanted a relationship but I knew he had to get over her so I was wary and didn't wanna be a ... (267 words)

How do you get someone to make a fuss over your looks?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

3 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a bit of an unusual questions. One of the things I want from a relationship is I want to feel sexually special and I want a fuss made of my looks, but I am losing them and I am concerned you would have to be good looking for them to fuss over you physically at the ... (96 words)

The man I am dating seems more interested in our business relationship than our personal one

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

3 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I am dating a guy who is running a family business where I get my supplies from, so basically we are business associates though I stay in different parts of the country where the main office is located. We met in a business conference I attended 3 months ago and h... (186 words)

I want to try being a transgender hooker. What are the pros and cons?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

3 February 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a male who loves crossdress on a regular basis. I am small in stature and a bit feminine so I have no problem passing. I have dated and have had sex with men as well as women. Last month I decided to take a vacation in a city that has a big transgender community. While ... (172 words)

I cant talk about serious things with my b/f and its making wonder if I should end things

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

3 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been at university since September and after a few weeks I started dating this guy. He's a very sweet loving person and always is there for me but sometimes when I want a serious chat it's like he just can't handle things. I used to class him as my best friend but not ... (272 words)

My ex wants to get together again but I'm not sure if I want the heartache

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

3 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend and father of my 4 year old daughter wants to give us another chance but im not sure if its worth the heartache again. We were only 17 and 23 when we got together, we were together 2 years then I had my little girl at just turned 20. My ex spent all his time wit... (200 words)

I think that this guy's comments about paying me to have sex with him were completely uncalled for!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

3 February 2013 (F)

age - Hello I am happily married and middle aged and work with a group of girls in health care, There is one guy who also works with us, he is a flirty joking type. One of the girls at work likes him and hits on him a lot. Yesterday evening he made a comment to this particul... (256 words)

I'm married no longer love my husband but am still in love with my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

3 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - What should I do? Im 27 years old.. Im not in love with my husband, Ben anymore.. I have a 6 year old kid.. My story is like this. He was my boyfriend during my college years.. After graduation, I move back in our province, then I met again my super crush , his name is Cris, ... (259 words)

Am I bi or straight?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

3 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel a bit puzzle about my sexual orientation. I am attracted to guys, I have crushes on a lot of guys. But at the same time, I do have crushes on girls. I think i am sexually aroused by guys. But when I see girls who are pretty, I will be become interested in getting to know ... (166 words)

My supposed friends are spreading rumors about me and a teacher. How do I stop this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4333 days ago

3 February 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - Im not the type of person to get bullied, i rarely ever do, i can't handle rumors properely, especially if their big ones. These two girls that are supposed to be my 'friends' spread a rumor saying that i like a teacher, and that i've been doing disgusting stuff with him, ... (214 words)

Is it too much to expect your partner to call rather than text?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

3 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, My question is: Is it expecting too much to want your partner to call you instead of texting you when he plans to spend the night away from home with friends? Thanks!... (40 words)

Does she like me? Or is she shy and has walls around her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

3 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Been with my girl for about 5 and a half months. She's two years younger. I love spending time with her, but we only get to see each other about once a month. On social networking sites she will sometimes ignore me, wait for me to start the message, and pretend to be bu... (225 words)

My college girlfriend just asked me if her friend could sleep in bed with her because all the beds were taken! I would never ask her such a thing!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

3 February 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - So my girlfriend and I have been dating for about 4 months now and things are going really really well. I didn't have any trust issues with her. But, I have been out of the state for a week and will be for a whole week more. She just asked me if one of her college friends ... (163 words)

B/f interested in sex, I'm not but I can't leave him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

3 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - i am typical indian teen . well during my summer vacation a met a guy called xxxx. he was charming d lovely. we fall in love (both r virgin and dont hav any past blah blah..)he said me to join his college i promised him i would but due to distance and other issues i was sent to ... (176 words)

Will 20 year old b/f get in trouble for being with a 17 year old?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

3 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend is almost 21 and I'm 17 , we kinda wanna get married. will he get in trouble for Benin with me?... (25 words)

Are relationships that exist with absolutely NO violence towards one another?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

3 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Aunts and Uncles... Have any of you (honest answers please) had a physical fight with your current spouse? I just want to know if there are relationships that exist with absolutely NO violence towards one another. Again, please be honest. Thank you for your response. ... (53 words)

Three months together and already I am jealous of this other girl. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

3 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, I have been going out with this guy for almost 3 months and he's the type of guy every girl wants to be with. And this one girl especially is all over him and she's always talking about how they use to go out and stuff and well I don't know. I am the jealous type and... (93 words)

What are the key factors to keep a Gf interested? I'm afraid my Gf will eventually lose interest in me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

3 February 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - a simple question, i'm a very nice guy. too much of it. i please my gf in every single way but im afraid she eventually, with time, will have taken me for granted and lose interest. what are the key factors to keep her interested?... (47 words)

Dating for one month so far. I feel as if I'm not good enough when I'm trying to pleasure him. What could be the problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4340 days ago

3 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating this guy for almost a month now. Let's call him X. He's 39. I'm 22. I'm still a virgin and he's not. We've already done sexual stuff and he knows what he's doing. I, on the other hand, have not been able to get him off. I feel bad because I want to pl... (117 words)

How to make her feel comfortable and relaxed for our first date? And do you think she likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4340 days ago

3 February 2013 (M) age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I have known this girl from college just over a year now and we have always spoken online mostly, not much in person. Normal friendship talk, until last month or two we have gotten closer. Especially last month we have been texting everyday morning to night. I... (286 words)

Even 18 months later I don't have a clue how to trust anyone I meet. How can I learn to trust again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4340 days ago

3 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - about a year and a half ago, i got out of a two year relationship from hell. from the start, she played me for a fool. only a few months in, i saw hickies on her neck that she convinced me were pinch marks from her mom (even got her mom to actually "pinch" her neck on top of t... (865 words)

I compromise all the time with him. He becomes verbally abusive all the time. Then is back to normal 5 to 10 minutes later. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4329 days ago

3 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - hey I am from an orthodox middle class family. I met a guy in facebook. He was charming and decent. We fell in love. It was fine then but now he is verbally abusive, calling names argues often. I compromise him every time. Thent he behaves normal after a time limit 5-10 min ... (109 words)

I want love. But my mother is nagging me to get married asap. Is what I want too much to ask for?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

3 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 26 and single. My mom has been constantly telling me to just find someone and get married. As long as he's nice and I can tolerate him then that's good enough. Anyone would do. Anyone is better than no one. I'm 26, it's time, soon it'll be too late to find anyone. She... (159 words)

Met a gorgeous guy on the train but he has a girlfriend!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

3 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Everyone This Week I met a guy. The way I met him and started talking seems like it belongs in a movie. Basically I was waiting in the train station waiting for my train number to be announced. When they finally called it I headed down the steps on onto the platform. Du... (690 words)

I got drunk once and now my relatives think I get drunk all the time

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

3 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I'm 24 years old. As silly as this sounds my relatives(not immediate family) won't let me forget something I did! So my friends and I were partying at a club and they handed me one shot of tequila, here's the thing I have never consumed alcohol, so just one shot... (170 words)

I love my boyfriend but I think his goals are holding me back

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4340 days ago

3 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a long term serious relationship, like any relationship we have our ups and downs but we've grown to love and respect one another and have become very close planning a future together. My problem is I am a bit younger, my boyfriend is settled has a great career, ... (246 words)