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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:It all started when I was inebriated and had access to facebook. I sent this guy who I've never met/spoken to before a message saying I find him very attractive, on my friends account. She then clarified to him later on it was me who had sent it, not her.A few days later I went on my facebook to find he's sent me a friend request. I accepted and we started talking on there, and we had pretty good flirtatious banter, which included him volunteering to be my snuggle buddy and saying that I must have guys lining up outside of my door to be with me. I should probably point out he was inebriated when we started talking. This carried on the next day as well, after he'd sobered up. But the day after that, although we were talking, he didn't seem as engaged as he has before. He gave me his number that night and the next day we agreed to meet up, but life got in the way and I ended up having to cancel. We carried on talking on facebook til the early hours of the morning, when a message popped up under my name, that I hadn't sent, saying, "Stop talking so much you guys I'm trying to read your conversation". It was from my best friend who knows my email/password for my facebook, who the guy I was talking to also knows. Straight away he said he had to go and left without any further goodbye, when usually it takes us five minutes or so to say goodbye. That was two days ago, and he hasn't spoken to me since...What's going on? I thought he liked me, but he seems to have done a complete 180 :s
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (4 February 2013):
 passwords are like underwear..
change them often
don't show them to anyone
don't lend them to anyone
in addition at your age you do not need a 'snuggle buddy" which is a nice way of saying "i'm interested in sex"
thirdly... not sure about your part of the world but a kid here at your age inebriated... NOT LEGAL or wise.
every time an adult drinks it destroys brain cells.
every time a child drinks (and yes at 16-17 your brain and body are not done growing so that defines child in this case) you are destroying potential!
if you need help with your substance abuse talk to your parents...
change your passwords
and as for this boy... chalk it up to live and learn...
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