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anonymous
writes:I have become infatuated with a mutual friend of my husband. We have all been very close for over 15 years. We have always play flirted ( yes, even in front of our significant others - we have all played around like that forever) but he started sexting me a couple months ago. It's very sporadic and probably when he and his wife aren't getting along but I have found it highly addictive. He called me last week and we had phone sex. We kept saying how we want to sleep together even after. We saw each other over the weekend, as couples, and we could barely look at each other. Thankfully, there were a lot of people there so it wasn't very noticeable that we weren't really speaking but there was just this electricity. It was probably guilt mostly but I can't stop thinking about him. Has anyone been in a similar situation?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2013): Think hard and long. If you want this man walk away from your marrriage. Thats the decent thing to do. Also remember this man just wants sex, so take the risk and you stand to lose not only your husband but your heart to a man that will never be yours. Do you want be his sex thing/mistress. Thats all you will ever be.
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reader, RUOpenMinded +, writes (5 February 2013):
You're bored and need some excitement in your life. WE ALL GO THROUGH THIS. Sure you love your husband but the excitement of this other guy has you obsessed.Only you can decide what is best for you. If you decide to go further with this guy, are you prepared to suffer any consequences that will come up? Trust me, they will eventually rear their ugly head.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (5 February 2013):
Do you love your husband? Do you want to stay married to him? If the answer is yes then you have to stop immediately. It was a fun diversion from reality but if you don't think it's worth losing your marriage for sex then stop now.
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