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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I forget about my wife's past with my friend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4317 days ago

24 February 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - When my wife and I got together she just come out a brief relationship with a friend of mine,he was known as a bit of a player i was relatively inexperienced at sex where my wife was very experienced and very good at sex,when I asked my wife about the relationship she said she ... (108 words)

We have to sneak around because of my boyfriend's best friend. Do I just drop both of them?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4317 days ago

24 February 2013 (?) age 41-50 - i have a man i have been seeing for a three months ..i would not say we are in a relationship because neither one of us has committed however we talk on the phone everyday and i see him often. To make the story simpler though i will call him my bf. The problem is his best fri... (312 words)

Is my hot young fitness instructor attracted to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

24 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello Cupids. I am a single girl and I have been going to exercise class for a few months at my gym. The instructor is a hot young guy around my age. He is single, too. I have gotten to know him a little during this time but we have kept things professional. ... (235 words)

My girl who had been raped before is asking me to do rough role play with her. It feels wrong.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

24 February 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - So my sex life with my GF has always been pretty vanilla, she doesn't really like kinky stuff and hates things like dildos or porn or anything that is in anyway a little wild. in the past I had often found that she seemed bored during sex and simply had sex with me to please me ... (327 words)

Need advice on being a wife of a minister

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4317 days ago

24 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this is going to sound like a stupid question but I married a minister and hes not real into his ministry as of yet. Its not as settled as he would like but I need help. Ive always hated secrets and hate that he has to keep things from me because of his ministry so I was ... (91 words)

Found girlfriend on dating site after 5 years together

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

24 February 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been in a relationship for 5 years with a 41 year old professional woman (a maths teacher in Worcester UK who goes to church and acts like she has high standards) where we have drifted due to stresses that happened such as burglaries, business being destroyed, serious ... (422 words)

My abusive ex is still controlling my life today.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4317 days ago

24 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I was dating this guy a month back, we broke up because my so called 'best friend' was a lying cow and took advantage of his paranoia to break us up then tried to get in there herself. But that's another story. The important thing here is that my ex is still incredibly contr... (190 words)

Why isn't she getting back to me after she shows interest?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4317 days ago

24 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I got a cute girl's number, we texted, ended up going out and had a great time. She even suggested "grabbing dinner next time." I asked her out again, and she agreed, but she said that she had to check her schedule and get back to me. A couple days went by until I texted her ... (120 words)

What does it mean when a girl uses exclamation marks in her messages?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4317 days ago

24 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - There's this girl I like. I only got back in contact with her recently after 2 years. I know she had a crush on me last time I saw her. She uses exclamation marks at the end of all her sentences. I know it's speculating, but what does this mean? ... (53 words)

I don't know why I am not feeling intimate anymore.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

24 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what to do so any help would be much appreciated. I've recently started having trouble being physical with my boyfriend. We have been going out for over 2 years now and we both virgins (even thought I know that he would have sex right away if he could) due to the ... (147 words)

Relationship ending due to cheating but stuck in an apartment together

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4317 days ago

24 February 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - hi Im really hard a time thinking about this me and my ex gf of almost 4 years broke up with me she said she couldn't love me anymore because she cheated on me she says she doesnt want me to get hurt anymore, i did forgive her for the cheating, i know i made mistakes to for not ... (112 words)

Guys, do you compare gfs with porn actresses and think about them in sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

24 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - guys, be honest, do you compare your gf's body to those of the women you see in porn? and do you have mental images of the women you watch in porn when you're making love with your gf? thanks for any answers :)... (43 words)

Getting married in May but fiancee called another girl beautiful on the phone.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4317 days ago

24 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid friends, help! I have been dating my fiance for 7 years. We are supposed to get married in May. He knows I already have trust issues with him. Well the other morning I looked at his phone and to my shock he had texted some other girl and called her beautiful. Im ... (100 words)

Stress of being 8 months pregnant, school work, money and fiancee being away.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4316 days ago

24 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello i could really use some advice as i just don't know how to cope with all the things life is currently throwing at me. I think i may be depressed. Ive just moved out of my parents for the first time and have got my own house with my fionce. I am 8months pregnant and ... (232 words)

He wants to be friends yet flirted with me. Where do I stand?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4317 days ago

24 February 2013 (?) age 26-29 - I'm a junior in high school and i like this Guy a lot. He is a grade below me but he's only 2 months younger than me. He had a gf but they broke up a few days after he found out that i like him. I didn't actually tell him myself until after they broke up. He told me that they ... (197 words)

Has anyone suppressed their feelings when it comes to loving someone they're dating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4317 days ago

24 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Has anyone suppressed their feelings when it comes to loving someone they're dating? If so.. Did it work? What was the outcome?... (22 words)

Please can someone explain this man's behaviour to me? So confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4312 days ago

24 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I really need the advice of someone objective! Basically I really liked this guy, and he told me he liked me too (more than once). He used to message me, offer to walk me places and would talk to me whenever he got the chance telling me how beautiful I was, etc. He als... (507 words)

I don't know how to handle myself around an older coworker.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3892 days ago

24 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, I'm a 16 year old girl and in need of some advice. I work part time and a man works there also. He's in his twenties and seems like a very friendly genuine person. I have a large teenage crush on him, I go all red around him and can't seem to stop smiling. He knows I'... (166 words)

52 year old male with 3 late teen daughters seeing a 20 year old woman?

This question has 38 answers - newest was posted 4316 days ago

24 February 2013 (M)

age - I'm 52 and divorced with three daughters ages 21, 18, 17. I have been seeing a 20 year old woman. My daughters think this is very bad. The 20 year old wants me to choose her over my daughters. I broke it off with the 20 year old because of my daughters but now I'm unhappy and ... (67 words)

Will he ever believe me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4317 days ago

24 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi my bf and I have been together for 10 months. From the beginning hes had control, jealousy,.and trust issues. They seem to be getting worse. He had my fb and hotmail passwords and yes he gave me his I looked maybe twice he was on my lots daily looking for things that dont... (319 words)

Boyfriend will not acknowledge me on facebook

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4314 days ago

24 February 2013 (?) age - I have been with a man for 1 year ..we get together every other weekend as my 10 yr son goes to his fathers house. I have travelled with this man and still I find it troubling he wont ackowledge my relationship status on facebook, I am getting upset as he would rather ... (209 words)

In love with my bf but just found out he's going through divorce, he doesn't know that I know yet..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4317 days ago

24 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 months, we both have trust issues since our exes cheated on us. We have our little fights here and there but we usually apologize and make up afterward. I have been in a handful of relationships that didn't work out and i'm so tired of it. I ... (351 words)

Reats me like princess but says doesn't love me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4318 days ago

24 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - my friend treats me like his girl, like a princess, spends millions on me but he wont commit. he says he doesnt believe in love. i tell him i love him and he stays quiet. i should be thankful for what he does but i feel like im hanging in mid. and if really consider me a friend ... (66 words)

Messing around with my cousin but now regretting it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

24 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, I have something really very stupid and deviant. I have a great crush on my cousin for like 4 years now and I seriously love her a lot. About a month ago, we used to hang out like friends and used to study late nights for our entrance exams. It all happened on one such... (362 words)

The guy that I've been dating for 3 years has done the disappearing act!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4317 days ago

24 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - So the guy that I've been dating for 3 years.. has done the disappearing act.. No contact or communication whatsoever..lately.. There was no arguments nothing of that nature.. I feel like he's either one of two things.. Has a fear of taking our relationship to the next level.. ... (84 words)

Boyfriend wants to go away travelling. Will our relationship survive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

24 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there I am really in need of some advice and possibly just pointing me in the right direction! I have been with my boyfriend for about 4 months and it's going really well. He was recently made redundant but has quite a bit of money and wants to head away travelling for a ... (207 words)

Getting a Second Chance to Meet Someone Again for the First Time

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4318 days ago

24 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Late last summer I met this girl working at a restaurant I was visiting with friends. The dialog between us was very brief and somewhat awkward since the meeting had been arranged on-the-spot by my friend's girlfriend (the girl's co-worker), yet I got her number and confirmed ... (507 words)

Could he possibly be flirting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

24 February 2013 (?) age 30-35 - Ok, so theres this guy i know really well. He used to date my cosin up north now, i only see him on facebook cause he is all the way up north. Now he always likes or comments on my status and pictures on FB. This last summerhe came down and stayed with my grandparents and I ... (98 words)

Received advice before, but still feeling bad . . .

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

24 February 2013 (M) age 30-35 - I have posted a couple of questions on this site and I received a lot of good answers that built me up. However, I am still in the same place I was when I started posting because for every kind answer I received here there were others on the internet and in real life that ... (127 words)

Can a correctional officer visit her boyfriend at her previous job she just got fired from because of the relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

24 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Can a correctional officer visit her boyfriend at her previous job she just got fired from because of the relationship ... (20 words)

I am frustrated my girlfriend can't meet me this weekend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

24 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I been seeing this girl. We are really close and she tells me she likes me. Well I know anyway the way we spend our time together. We meet once a week and she never changes her plans if for example she is meeting friends and I ask to meet. she hurt her leg a bit, and ... (200 words)

Arguments over dinner ingredients resulting in mom not talking to me.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4317 days ago

24 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I'm having problems with my mom, she often shout t me for things sometimes I see why others are not so clear. One of the more recent occasions she asked me to vacuum the dining room which I did along with cooking lunch and washing up and helping my bf with his essa... (691 words)

Is it illegal to date second cousins?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4317 days ago

24 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend is my second cousin 3 we love each other so much but people judge us and our family doesnt know yet... is it illegal to date him in australia?!? help me plz he is my true love xxxx... (40 words)

Family is against lesbian relationships. How to take it to the next level.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3866 days ago

24 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - So I've got a problem. I'm in love with this totally awesome girl. We're both bisexual and we are dating. I've spoiled her rotten on Valentine's Day and her birthday and what not. We've been dating for like a year now I think and my family knows about it. All of them but like 3 ... (129 words)

Could I have a little "Green" in my eyes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

24 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Im currently in a long distance lesbian relationship. Nancy (girlfriend) is wonderful to me. I feel insecure about my weight. Im a big girl. I keep getting this sick feeling in my chest that Nancy may be losing interest in me. When I visit her we use to go to bed together at ... (371 words)

For how long am I expected to work at making this work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

24 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I have some relationship probelms, including my bf's financial probelms, having to bail him out, the nagging ex wife and massive fights he has with her and so on. She even sent me thretening messages. We don't live together so althogh I get incredibly angry with how he ... (189 words)

No affection, I am trying to deal with it!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

24 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I am ashamed of myself. I know that what he is going through is worse than any pain I could have, but it doesn't make my pain go away. We have been living together for a little over a year. Things were good before he moved in, then we had the typical new relationship issues of ... (181 words)

How can I tell if a girl with a boyfriend also likes me? NO intention of making a move as she has a Bf.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

24 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - When I first met this girl over a year ago, I asked her out but she told me she has a boyfriend. She was really nice about it though and said we could hang out and be friends. I was ok with that because I just wanted to get to know her. Over the past year we've talked m... (200 words)

How can I get out of this unhappy situation? He says a divorce will be worse on the kids than us being unhappy.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

24 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 14 years and have 3 kids under 10. My husband and I dated for 6 years before getting married. I am absolutely miserable in my marriage. My husband is emotionally abusive...a true narcissist. It has taken me too long and years of counseling to fi... (221 words)

He broke my hear, yet he won't leave me alone. What are my options in this situation?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4317 days ago

24 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of two years decided a week before christmas break was over and he went back to school that he wanted a break because he feels we are too young to be tied down. He's in his second year of college and I get that he feels that he hasn't had a real college experien... (273 words)

16 weeks pregnant and my Bf is acting distant. What can I do? He's not affectionate now. It's made me feel lonely.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

24 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 16 weeks pregnant and I'm 28 y/o. 5 years ago I was* married and had 2 miscarriages. I found out that my (now ex husband ) was cheating on me so I filed for divorce. Now, after years of thinking id never be lucky enough to get pregnant again, its happened. My now... (353 words)

How can I progress this? And, how do I ask the younger brother out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

24 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Everyone. I am stuck. Properly stuck. My story is this. Two brothers. When I met the elder, he liked me and wanted to date me, but I decided he wasn't the guy for me. We set up a bit of a flirtation but only that. He has a girlfriend now and is very happy. Now... (369 words)

Do you think this girl at the store likes me? or has a crush on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

24 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - There’s this girl I always see at the store, she always smiles at me and asks me if I found everything ok.....and she just keeps smiling at me and staring.... Well a few days ago I seen her and I got into another lane and she was there, but at a different register and she seen... (311 words)

I'm pregnant with our second child but now he's hardly talking to me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

24 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend and I have been together for two years ad we have a daughter who is currently one. We had her kinda early in our relationship but we both agreed that was fine. Now pregnant again and after I got pregnant he stopped wanting to touch me which is understandable ... (180 words)

How do you cut someone you see frequently out of your life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

24 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I need to cut someone out of my life because I believe that is the only way to get them off my mind. I've had a crush on this person for a terribly long time and they give less than a damn about me. They may not be aware that I still like them (I do everything in my power not ... (155 words)

I really like this boy. Should I let him give me guitar lessons? Will it ruin a chance of a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

24 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I really, really like someone in my class. He's so lovely to everyone and he seems really perfect to me. Me and him are both extremely musical. He comes from a musical family, (I'm friends with his twin sister who is also extremely musical), and I know he plays guitar, bass and ... (414 words)

Will our relationship survive on little contact?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4316 days ago

24 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so I'm 17 and I've been with my boyfriend for almost a month now. he's amazing, he doesn't mind the fact that I'm a virgin but he just started working and we would go weeks without seeing each other and to top that sometimes we only talk for 5mns .so my question is, will my ... (59 words)