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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He's hot and cold and I'm shy! How do I talk to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

25 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is he hot and cold? I really like him:(? So I've liked this guy for months now. It all started when whenever I'd look up he'd be watching and would look away when I catch him. He'd talk to everyone but me. Now we talk and sometimes he asks questions about me then ... (170 words)

Can I shake off these feelings of detachment or are we destined to fail?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

25 February 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi There. I have been in a relationship for just under a year and a half. It has been the best relationship I've had in truth. But something has changed and I'm not sure why. I'm in my mid-twenties and have had several relationships since I was a teenager. My girlfriend is... (393 words)

My g/f broke up with me saying she needs to find herself but wants to be friends

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

25 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi,I'm 20 years old and me and my girlfriend were dating for 3 years. She left me yesterday telling me that she wants to be my friend again and that she needs to find her own identity.Please help.I really want to get her back.... (44 words)

My boyfriend disrespected me by walking away with another girl after a party infront of me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

25 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been a relationship for 4yrs, we have had some rough patches such as last year I attended his birthday party and he disappeared then i learned he disappeared with another woman. This year,he held another party and the woman was there, during the party he told me that ... (237 words)

I want him back, but I don't want to go back to somebody that is just going to hurt me like that again. Any advice for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

25 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! I am having major heart anxiety and I do not know what to do. I have been dating and been hopelessly in love with a guy since the beginning of my junior year in high school. We were together for almost two years, but about seven months ago I had to move a few states a... (589 words)

Should I get checked? I was bleeding after sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

25 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I think I'm kinda embarrassed to answer this question so anyways. Just had sex with my friend. He's like my bestie. Hell I can't believe this happen since I be on that 90 day rule shit lol. I don't feel nasty or anything because we have been friends for so long and we are ... (190 words)

Should I try to continue this workplace friendship after he got sacked or quit?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

25 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I've got a friend at work, well we recently started chatting as of jan. I would go down to his class room(he's a teacher) and we would chat on his free afternoons about music and other random stuff, we were both into steampunk, he without my knowing found me a new song to... (223 words)

I'm pregnant and my husband isn't interested in sex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4255 days ago

25 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I are expecting our first child. I'm five months pregnant. The last couple months, since I've been showing, my husband hasn't been as interested in sex. Most of the time we do, I have to ask for it or he initiates early in the morning for a quickie; either way, I ... (499 words)

Was breaking up the ideal solution?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

25 February 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. Here goes. I broke up with my girlfriend ~1 month ago. We are both university students. She is an undergraduate student and I am a graduate student; I work full-time all year and I get 3 weeks off. We had been dating for 14 months. Everything was going superb for... (700 words)

Should I ask this guy out? My friend thought I was joking when I told her about it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

25 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a student, and I have been working somewhere for a while. Im about ot leave in three weeks time, and I really want to ask out one of the guys there. Only thing is, that he is slightly older, lives with his mum, and is not the best looking of guys. I'm quite attractive, and ... (122 words)

I don't understand my girlfriend's behavior and I'm worried that something is really off!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

25 February 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - i don't have a clue what to think about this situation and i'm incredibly confused about what's really going on. i have been with my girlfriend for about three months now, but something in the pit of my stomach tells me that i'm missing something or that something is wro... (620 words)

Ladies: Why do so many of you criticize other ladies?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

25 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a few questions for the women. Before I ask them, though, I just wanted to say I know not ALL women are like this. I've noticed quite a lot are, though. First question: Why do you think that if you don't have big boobs, or you have fat in other places than your boobs ... (675 words)

He needs some foot hygiene help! How do I do that without embarrassing him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

25 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My 28 year old boyfriend and I were hanging out at my place. He was exhausted from work, so I offer to give him a foot massage. His skin is a little hard and dry but the feet don't smell. At a certain point I notice that he has some white cottage cheese looking stuff be... (159 words)

I've never taken a guy on a date, what should I plan to do in London when he comes to visit?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

25 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello aunts and uncles, I'm 20 years old and I live in London, and there's a guy that I'm talking to who's 21 and he lives in Leicester, just over 100 miles away from me. I met him when I was in Leicester visiting my friends at their university 4 months ago, so we h... (255 words)

Why won't my amazing, lovely wife have sex with me with the lights on?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

25 February 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife is amazing in bed,even after 20+ years together,3 kids I still think she has a fantastic figure,the only problem is she still won't have sex with light on,let me me see her naked or have sex in daytime,I keep telling she's got a lovely figure,HELP... (47 words)

What girls mean when they say and how to work on to show how good I am?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

25 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - hi little about me : (not boasting) I am confident, easy to approach and Like jokes and talented. I play sports (four currently at campus) , write , and down to earth and honest. Helpful and kind with people. I have lots of other hobbies too. I m famous at university n f... (352 words)

Is it wrong for me to have fallen for him? He's 17!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

25 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi this is a tough one, Im a 27 year old woman and i recently started back at college in september last year, I became close friends with a 17 year old boy we have become really close we get along so well and have same interests and hobbies our relationship is getting stronger ... (109 words)

Am I sexually satisfying my bf enough?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

25 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 24 and recently moved in my bf of 1.5 years. I am FT grad student and used to work PT but it was alot so he pays everything until I finish ( a year). He is 30 and an attorney who makes over 6 figures. He said he doesn't mind and loves taking care of me. I do everything ... (149 words)

To text or not to text... help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

25 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so I went out on a first date for drinks with someone I met online a few days ago. Things went really well, because he kept asking me the whole time about going out again to a movie or dinner. The next morning, he texted me and told me to have a great sunday. I guess to let ... (147 words)

We are friends, dated, now we are living together and are FWB, help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3859 days ago

25 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so me and this guy have known each other for like 11 years our family went to high school together. anyway we tried dating like 3 years ago and well i had my head up my ass and i just stopped talking to him and he got in contact with me and he was with his ex-girlfriend at ... (735 words)

I thought he was the one. How could I have been so wrong?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

25 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - We were together for a year. We connected on so many levels (emotionally, intellectually, physical intimacy). I've had many relationships before. I've even been married once. Never have I been so happy as I was with him. He broke up with me on the eve of our one year ... (154 words)

Is he the right Bf for me? He prefers vanilla sex. I want threesome,s sex toys, bondage, role plays, sex outdoors and dressing up

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

25 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 24 and my partner is 28 and we have been together for a year and a half. Although we love each other the chemistry in the bedroom isn't sizzling... We keep fighting and getting frustrated with each other about whether we are having sex or not, how 'vanilla' our sex is a... (154 words)

How can I make my dad understand my college situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

25 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I got into college last September. Although my college has many, many, ridiculously too many parties, I never went to a single one. I tried to get in the whole college spirit but I just don't enjoy getting stupid drunk and hangover. I went EVERY single day of the first ... (318 words)

I'm straight. My gay male friend gets holier than thou when I talk dating a guy. What can I do ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

25 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm pretty much stuck in a situation where I feel like a total Fag Hag. Most of my friends are gay. I absolutely adore all of my friends, and see them as amazing people who just happen to be gay. It's my gay friends who like to socialize and be out and about town, and it... (413 words)

I really like this guy. He did message me. All things considered, does he like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

25 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok i met this libra guy and we hooked up. He just start to travel and have no plan yet. He asked me if i have a bf and if i want one. i said i don't really know because i'm going away in 5 months. we clicked it of he's really sweet and charming just like other libra. i s... (431 words)

What's changed? I'm attractive and the same weight etc. Yet guys have stopped asking me for dates, since I turned 40. Is it me? Why the change?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

25 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm a pretty woman in my early 40s. I look very young, not my opinion, but others say it. I have a great job, friends, my only child is away in college. I decided not to have a boyfriend after my divorce few years ago, as I couldnt fit one into my busy life. I tried, b... (518 words)

What can I do about the double standards in my family? All my siblings are adults, yet as the eldest more is expected of me.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

25 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I hate being the eldest. If my siblings want me to do a favour, I get screamed and yelled at. But if I need a favour from my siblings, my parents don't care at all. They tell me it's my problem and instead yell me to shut up. I'm sick to bits with being used just because ... (96 words)

Are we Platonic or not? While telling me he's a "Player", now he wants me to meet his sister.Why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

25 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - If your guy friend wants you to meet his sister(after 9 months) is my relationship with my guy friend platonic or not? Why am I confused? It's because he has been saying that she wants to meet me, and now he's actually putting something together. If we are friends, then wh... (167 words)

What can I do about my fiance who continues to lie to me? Money is tight yet he still spends on things we can't afford.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

25 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - my fiance keeps lying about stupid things and its driving me up the wall. He's not working at the moment so money is tight, I have spoken to him about how much he keeps spending several times now. He has two kids from a previous relationship that we cannot afford treats... (171 words)

My world is crumbling around me. Are there any strategies that could help me deal with all this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

25 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem. Basically the world is crumbling beneath my feet. I have studies at Uni to finish, I'm in my last week of my internship and everything is going to hell. I really need some advice or at least a listening ear. This is my situation: I am currently living at ho... (712 words)

I thought, due to his own issues, that we were going to be FWB. Yet is he getting attached to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

25 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I just started seeing this guy for a month, even we never talked about our relationship status, it's more like fwb or f*buddies.. In the beginning, he didn't really seem to give a thought much about me Recently, he acts like he is my boyfriend when we're together. He cares ... (261 words)

How can I resolve the fact that I am torn between the man I love and what I think will make me happy in the long run?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

25 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My partner is 30 and I am 20, we love each other and I think he is my soulmate. I just wish I had met him 10 years ago and things would have been different. He has two kids with his ex and they live with her. He visits them in the holidays and for their birthdays and call... (284 words)

I am her best friend, but I also know she cheats.How can I be her friend without having to keep her secrets?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

25 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. I am a romantic. I believe in love and everything it entails. However, my best friend know I have known for eleven years, is a cheater. I know it isn't my life and it's hers. I also know that it is her decision and hers alone. I have felt this way for nea... (382 words)

Should I confide in him like he confides in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

25 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm dating this guy right now, we were friends for a few months before we decided to date. He has been so open with me cause he trusts me a lot. He's told me some pretty dark things that have happened to him in his past that nobody knows. I myself have been depressed the ... (180 words)

The one thing I always wanted was passion. Just broke up. Am I asking too much? Wanting passion in a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

25 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I was wondering if the idea of real romance like in the movies is really impossible to find in relationships? Of course I realize they are only movies but a girl can dream right? I always hated romance movies because I think yeah right! But there have been a few people w... (147 words)

I don't want to divorce. Yet what can I do? Since retiring my husband likes to behave like a bachelor.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

25 February 2013 (F)

age - I am a 55 year and a working adult. My marriage was never and easy one because our was a arranged marriage. I have been married for 35 year. My spouse is a highly egoistic character. Since day one i was not able to communicate with my husband. He hates to comunication. My... (284 words)

Is my Bf mean to tell me, "if you wore make up you could look as good as other girls"?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

25 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend makes me feel insecure then gets mad if I ask questions about him having his exs numbers/if he see's then ect. He confuses me cos he says such sweet things sometimes but then he says things like "if you wore make up you could look as good as other girls" if i s... (377 words)

I'm confused, disappointed and insecure since I found he's been having sexy talks with an ex. what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

25 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been engaged to my fiance since December, but we have been dating for a year. My first husband and I were married for five years and he had a heart attack and passed away a year before I met my current fiance. My fiance had been in a rough marriage and had only bee... (238 words)

She keeps finding fault with me. Though not afraid to ask for presents.Help please, because I am confused about what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

25 February 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - My gf and I have been dating for 2.5 years. We spoke today over the phone, and she asked me if I want to know what she feels right now. I said yes. She said that a few days ago, I had put her down. I asked how. She explained that she felt hurt when I told her that my driving ... (715 words)

My 1st cousin once removed and I are in love. What can we do about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

25 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, here's the deal: I am in love with my first cousin once removed (my dad's nephew's son). We didn't meet until we were 13 and 14 and when we met we didn't know that we were related. He has two children and is planning a vasectomy in a few weeks. I don't want him to get ... (131 words)

I am heartbroken at how my mother behaves when drunk. My Bf says she needs help. Would it work to invite her to our wedding? Or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

25 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years now. My mom is an alcoholic. She wasn't always--but she got into an abusive 2nd marriage and we couldn't get her out of it. It started very soon after her and my dad divorced. Because of her alcoholism, she has showed up on... (705 words)

He broke up with me. I "lost" it . Should I apologize to him for how I acted and try to accept the breakup?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

25 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - last night my boyfriend broke up with me after 2 years together. i took it pretty bad. he said he was no longer happy and doesnt think we are a good match anymore. i cried and begged him to try to work things out but he's firm about it being over. I feel like ive lost the lov... (118 words)

He's kicked me and threatened to hit me. Will he improve? Is this relationship worth saving?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

25 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a committed relationship since 3 years and 7 months. The first 3 years we were in a LDR. Now we both stay in the same city. My bf sometimes behaves very badly with me because he feels that I control his life. I said its nothing like that. He has become a very diffic... (418 words)

My girl friend prefers to sit on the couch and eat. Will not clean unless I am beside her cleaning too. She's lazy and not a team player. What can I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

25 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, so I am 21 years old. I've been with my girlfriend for about a year now. Let me first say that she is a great girl. She sweet, funny, loyal, worships the ground I walk on and would follow me anywhere. And so would I. But the problem I'm having with her is how lazy and... (631 words)

What can I do to prevent my boyfriends from gaining weight while they are with me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

25 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem, and it is becoming more noticeable with each relationship I have. The last 3 boyfriends of mine have put on significant amounts of weight. I am talking about 30-40 pounds. Not muscle, pure fat. I want to know what I can do to prevent this from happening in my ... (163 words)