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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

After all these years should I try to apologize for my behavior?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4294 days ago

15 February 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I would appreciate some advice regarding an ex 'girlfriend', over whom I have some feelings of guilt. She was the first girl I ever kissed, when I was 15 and she was 14. We went to the same school and although we didn't know each other there, I'd noticed her and admired her ... (304 words)

My ex has a new girl in his life, but I really can't help how I'm feeling right now after we flirted. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4295 days ago

15 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - My ex boyfriend now has a new love interest, which is fine by me. My ex and I are still good friends. On Valentine's day, we was playing fighting over this teddy bear, so we was in close proximity, the closest we've been in since we broke up and that unnerved lots of... (139 words)

My married boss and I have feelings for each other. How can I end this without leaving my job?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4293 days ago

15 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid ,this guy at work we have the hots for each other. Problem being he is married and he is the boss to a certain extent. He and I went on conversating with one another talking about the ages of my kids and so on so forth then all of a sudden he must have forgot w... (195 words)

Should leave my boyfriend for this guy I like? Trouble is that the guy I like only wants sex, and I'm a virgin.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4293 days ago

15 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I’ve been in a relationship for about 2 and a half months with an amazing guy but the problem/ question I have is: if I should leave my boyfriend for this guy I like? This same guy that I texted almost every day and he said he liked me and I met him once and had a crush on him ... (136 words)

Some thoughts on retroactive jealousy

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

15 February 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I was thinking about my wife's past (again) and experiencing retroactive jealousy. I'm trying to root this out of me. It is the wise thing to do. Anyhow, I want to know what others going through this think of what I'm about to write. Recently I wrote down some pos... (329 words)

Why does this man's friend interfer when its obvious he doesn't want me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4294 days ago

15 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Have been having a little relationship for a while and it was just casual and fun, with a kind and intelligent man. The problem is initially I met his mate, who dumped me. His mate made out that I was a complete mad woman ....I probably am in some areas! But then seemed p... (226 words)

Agony Aunts/Uncles need to open their hearts and minds rather than judging

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 February 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I wrote in yesterday and got a lot of very negative and hurtful comments from so-called agony aunts on here who seemed to think they know all about my relationship when they have never met me or my girlfriend. I wrote back to defend myself but nobody has replied and I assume ... (314 words)

I'm so depressed about the size of my penis. I'm very depressed

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

15 February 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello i have a really big problem with myself im so self councious i cant live in peace this started 4 months ago when i started going out with my girlfriend she is a really nice person i love her so much but i have an issue. not long ago we started getting ahead in our rela... (266 words)

How do I end this love, which I discovered is not "love" at all?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4295 days ago

15 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear agony aunts I have been feeling very miserable for 2 weeks now, and I'm afraid I have no more tears to spare. I have been in a relationship with my bf for one year now, and I have loved him for 2 years. What I thought was love, apparently wasn't. When I fell in l... (418 words)

Is it bad that I want to sleep with my friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I've got a couple of good female friends and they're basically my best friends at the moment. We're just friends and nothing more but a lot of the time I just can't stop thinking about how much I want to have sex with them! They're not even that physically attractive. Is this ... (59 words)

How do I help my boyfriend last longer without hurting his feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Im sorry if this is a little graphic but could really do with some advice. I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months, everything is perfect apart from sex. We have sex basically whenever we get the chance so sometimes a couple of times a day so that bit is fine. What im st... (268 words)

I'm treated as one of the guys, but if they find out I'm dating their co-worker, will they change?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I started a new job about 2 years ago in a building where it consists of about 40 guys mostly around my age and a couple of older women. it was very daunting working with all guys and it took over a year before any of them really spoke to me properly. now they've gotten to know ... (260 words)

How do we resolve our major differences? We get along so well!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

15 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, So this story starts off pretty normal: I met my now BF about seven years ago and we started dating 18 months ago. The relationship started off really slowly because niether of us had ever been in a relationship before. The problom comes with the fact that he and i disagree ... (400 words)

My wife wants to have a child, I dont. What should we do?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

15 February 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I’m 31 year old man and I’m having a trouble in my marriage. My wife ( she's 32) wants a child, I don’t. We are married for 4 years. We discussed this subject many times before our marriage. I told her I never want to have children and asked whether she’s ok with it. She was ... (307 words)

How long before he texts me again after I ignored his last one?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4293 days ago

15 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated this very good looking man for over a month, and then he started disappearing and playing games. He ignored me for over a month and then returned. Now we're talking again but he's not being very attentive. I don't really have a choice at this point other than to win at ... (101 words)

He has stopped telling me he loves me and he misses me. How do I save my LDR?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship because I'm away for school. Up until recently, our relationship has been pretty amazing despite the distance. We've had our fair share of disagreements, but they've never been serious and we always try to put it behind us ... (277 words)

Is there anything wrong being naive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4295 days ago

15 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Is there anything wrong being naive? I am 34y old, and I do believe in people. I said naive because things happened to me and my friends and people that i know told me how is this possible... Is not just about guys and dating stuff..is with everything, with my frie... (105 words)

I'd like to get together with my physiotherapist

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

15 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm seeing a physiotherapist just after having surgery, she's about 23 years old, I'm definitely attracted to her physically and a bit emotionally, although I'm not good with emotions or love. My emotions are a bit messed up because I still have very strong feelings for my ex ... (159 words)

I want to have anal sex but when the time really comes I chicken out!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

15 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I keep wanting to have anal sex. Like me and my boyfriend are really up for it we both feel ready and trust each other enough. But when it actually comes down to it i stop him and tell him i'm too worried to carry on, i'm guessing this kind of pisses him off. We tried it once ... (153 words)

My annoying brother is clinging to mum....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid im not sure if this is the right place to share my worries but since i have been here before and have gotten relationship advice before i feel this is the best place to speak my heart out. Right now im studying part time and only attend classes in the weekends. I ... (308 words)

He's posting on Facebook that he misses me but doesn't reply to my texts....what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - So, I posted a question yesterday about pushing my bf away with my jealousy and insecurities, if you read it thanks so much.. Here's where I am now: he text me last night, after 24 hours of NC, and wished me a happy vday and said he loved and missed me. I woke up this morning ... (221 words)

I miss him when he is not at work with me, how do I stop this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4295 days ago

15 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi folks, There is this guy I'm friends with at work. (I don't see or chat to him outside of work for various reasons) we both get on really well, but when he's not at work I feel really fed up, like there's no point if he's not here. We flirt occasionally when we are bore... (135 words)

My paranoia and insecurities are pushing my boyfriend away....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months now, and we love each other so much, but i'm scared i will lose him, recently we've been arguing so much and it's mainly because of me and my insecurities, i always get paranoid about him looking at my friends in a sexual way, they are ... (265 words)

My boyfriend doesn't satisfy me sexually and I feel insecure about him looking at female celebs.....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hope you chaps can help me, i got into my relationship 9 months ago and i am deeply in love with my boyfriend, we have sex fairly regularly, but when we do he nearly always stops everything as soon as he has jizzed, like that's it he just tells me to get dressed and it's over ... (229 words)

The romantic Valentines dinner and surprise turned out to be a stirfry on the sofa and an iTunes voucher! Am I right to be upset?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - So it was Valentine's Day yesterday and my boyfriend said I would be getting a 'romantic meal and a surprise'. I was quite excited and made plans for the rest of the day to show him how much I love him which he really enjoyed (like horse riding and a personalised treasure trail ... (196 words)

What makes a good relationship good?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4294 days ago

15 February 2013 (?) age 30-35 - I need tips on what makes a good relationship good... And I need to know how can you prove to someone that your trustworthy. I know actions speaks louder than words I have tried both but is there any other ways? Help? Please!... (46 words)

Should I try and have a relationship with my dream girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

15 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - From the first day I saw her she was in training class and I was in another class I liked her. WELL now we have gotten to talk more and she makes me laugh and makes me happy. We have some things in common but I'm not sure if I should pursue her for a relationship. It may end ... (247 words)

Should I go back to the social club where I met my ex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4295 days ago

15 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hope you guys can help. I recently moved to a new city and joined a social club to meet and make new friends. Within weeks I started dating a guy who was a regular at the club. We were together for 6 weeks when I broke it off. I then took a break from the social club to ... (201 words)

Completely confused with exes behaviour!?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I am totally confused with my exes behaviour! We broke up at Christmas after an argument. He barely spoke to me over Christmas then told me the day after boxing day that he wanted to break up and he'd arranged somewhere else to live! All without even as much as a face t... (555 words)

She left me for her ex-girlfriend but still has feeling for me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4295 days ago

15 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I know it's quite common that people leave each other because of other people usually from the past but I just need to let it out, talk about it. It seems to be the only thing that helps a little - talking. To my walls, to myself, to my computer, to the mirror... Before we... (964 words)

I am hurt that he chose to spend most of Valentine's Day with someone else instead of me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm really upset and cant stop crying. My boyfriend didnt spend the day with me yesterday, and i thought he would have as it was Valentines Day. He only asked me to go round to his house at 7pm, so i only got to spend a few hours with him. He was drunk when i got there. I didnt ... (569 words)

Do women date guys they have only met once or twice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Is it reasonable to date women if you have only met them once or twice? I ask this because I'm tired of "hanging out" in mixed sex groups and making friends with women instead of pursuing a relationship. I find this form of courtship useless because I'm insensitive to a... (106 words)

Married man at work bought me dozen roses after I told him I only liked him as friend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been workin at a place for about 4 years and in the past two years had a flirty relationship with a married man, nothing serious as he obviously loves his wife, but at the Xmas do he tried to make a pass at me I told him I wasn't interested in him like that and we should ... (183 words)

My boyfriend is emotionally abusive but I keep crawling back to him!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

15 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My bf of 3 years is lately being emotionally abusive towards me, never spends time with me, always blames me for verything. Whenever he get angry and yells at me, says he need to yell cause i was stupid enough not to understand him. His friends (particulary his... (210 words)

I'm in a relationship I don't know how to get out of!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So this is how the story goes, I met my boyfriend off of Facebook about 2yrs ago, we live close by so we hit it off started talking on Facebook, then it continued onto the phone and then meeting up and eventually dating. He was amazing, nothing like any other guy I've ever ... (1251 words)

Intense feelings for his friend causes me to break up with my boyfriend. Bad move?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with a guy for 5 years and he is the love of my life. Everything was going great until I met his friend and instantly it was like I was drawn to this guy like a magnet. We would spend the night because there is no drinking and driving allowed and my boyfriend would ... (223 words)

The idea of hanging out with this friend is just awkward! Why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Will be visiting a couple good friends soon which is great because it's been a lonely time over here. However, they also mentioned inviting another friend of ours as well. This girl is one that I liked, possibly obviously liked to others, but I never took initiative with her. ... (203 words)

Is he just a flirt? Or could he like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 February 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - I met this guy about two years ago when i just started sixth grade and right on the first day he starting being annoying and always teasing me. I hated him. He always teases me in front of everyone and everyone would be looking. One day i had to sit next to him in math class ... (473 words)

The girl I like said her crush asked her to be his valentine. Should I continue to pursue her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and i were dating for 2 years. we broke up 2 weeks ago. we are both okay with the break up and are doing fine. I've developed feelings for a girl that she used to be friends with, her name is Ashley. Ashley has been really flirty with me, but today, valentines ... (82 words)

Makimg out w/his new gf while standing right next to me: not classy!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 February 2013 (F)

age - I became romantically involved with a friend I've known for close to 20 years at a time when we were both available and really lonely. We had a ton of fun, shared a very close emotional and physical bond, but since I wanted a boyfriend and he didn't want to be that,we parte... (336 words)

Is it bad to want to be alone ALL the time?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4294 days ago

15 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have always been very shy and quiet and only had a small handful of friends (2-3). I don't like being friends with someone I cannot be really close with. I feel those relationships are just a total waste of time and completely fake. It takes me years and months of knowing ... (212 words)

My husband doesn't seem to want anything to do with me on Valentines Day. what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ever since I turned 12, I have always dreamed of celebrating Valentines Day with someone special. I never even had a boyfriend until I was 18. I never thought it would take seven years to be able to spend the day with someone I love. Now I'm married and finally have the chan... (238 words)

My boyfriend didnt get me anything for valentines day, am I wrong for being upset?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4295 days ago

15 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - The father of my child , did not put the effort to get me anything for valentines day . Yes we are together and have been for 3 years . He doesnt give me anything for my birthday nor our anniversary ,which he forgot about . Today is valentines day and I'm reAly upset . I dont ... (501 words)

He keeps and looks at the sexy pictures I sent him though he now has a girlfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been friends with this guy for about a year and a half now. Recently back in the summer things got a bit heated between us and I sent him some sexy pictures. We never got around to having sex though we did admit we would have. It's been about 7 months since and... (191 words)

Eight years of marriage and my husband never surprises me with gifts

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I have been married for almost 8 yrs. He never gets me gifts for anything. Not anything when i gave birth to our child! As a matter of fact this year for valentines day we were at a store and as we passed the cards he tol dme if I wanted one I should go pick ... (206 words)

Should we have oral sex if I have a cold?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - This seems silly to ask but curious minds want to know. I have a bad cold right now, but my boyfriend and I will probably please each other at some point soon before I am better. Will me giving him head give issues to his dick? Funny I know...... (49 words)

How to deal with my sex-addict girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 February 2013 (M) age 30-35 - I never thought this would be an issue, but my girlfriends is sex addict. She wants to have sex at least two times a day or as much as possible. I mean our record is 8 times a night. So to my problem. I really enjoyed this in the first few moths of our relationship, bu... (275 words)

How do I figure out if she is being nice or likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 February 2013 (M)

age 22-25 - There is a girl that I have been neighbors with for a while and I like her. We have really good conversations and she has really opened up to me and I feel I can do the same. She has helped me and given advice with girls as well. I wan to figure out if she likes me so I don't ... (77 words)

We went from a loving couple to nothing in the blink of an eye and I don't know what happened!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4295 days ago

15 February 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - i'm really hurting right now and i can't figure out what i did wrong. i'd been with my girlfriend for a couple of months and i thought we really cared a lot about each other. we really didn't have a whole lot of time to spend together because she's finishing up her last seme... (1207 words)

How do you get your first date when you're in your 20's?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4297 days ago

15 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Having trouble... This may seem like a kind of stupid question, but how do you get a "first date" when you're in your mid-twenties? I have been overweight since I was 11, right around the time everyone was getting into the opposite sex. And I have never had any kind of exp... (215 words)

Its been 4 years but I want closure. Should I contact him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I was really attracted to a celebrity(about 5 years ago). I would watch all his movies,I thought he was really good looking. He was pretty active on a social networking sight we started talking,then we exchanged emails,spoke on msn messenger. he asked for my number I... (388 words)

Are we just friends? Or is something more building out of the friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. So there is this guy an almost 2 years ago we kinda had something. But it was sorta rushed. Like we met once then kissed next an then another time slept together. He was a virgin so it was slightly weird after. Then he moved to another city for school and that was it. ... (554 words)

My highschool sweetheart cheated on me while Drunk

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 February 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - i have been with my girlfriend for 15 years we are high school sweethearts. ROck solid relationship for 15 fun years. On new years eve she got really really drunk and cheated on me. she was so drunk she hopped in a car with her new slutty manipulative female friend and the g... (224 words)

My gf forgot valentines day, should I break up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4293 days ago

15 February 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - its valentines day. long story short. im in a ldr with a girl because of her school but we see each other often. im affectionate, romantic, gentleman kind of guy and she is not much affectionate, she never let her guard down, she is cold as a snow queen. but inspite of it we ... (260 words)