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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My friend thinks this guy is too old for me but I could see him being my FWB

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

28 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - A few weeks ago I went to the pub with my friend (20) her parents, her boyfriend (also 20) and her male friend from high school (who again is also 20) Her male friend had been flirting with me all night and when I had gone home, he messages me on Facebook telling me to go to my ... (156 words)

Should I have my boyfriend over and let him tell my dad we'll be out for 2 days?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

28 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - For Valentine's, my 33 year-old boyfriend got me a gift voucher, good for a spa day for two, and a night in a hotel, breakfast included. We've gone to the spa (great, by the way), and we will book the night very soon. However, I mentioned this to my aunt (who is close to... (182 words)

My girlfriend gives her phone number out to other guys and texts them!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

28 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - My Girlfriend and I have been dating for about two months now. I dont talk to any other girls but she talks to other guys. what pissed me off to get mad at her and write this was she said something like "why wont this guy leave me alone, I dont want to talk to him". So i was ... (197 words)

Does this guy in PE like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

28 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - sorry it is long I am a new student at a high school. Their is this guy in PE class I am wondering if he likes me. I did not have a locker the first few weeks so i changed in the ladies bathroom so i came through a different door than all the other girls. I would see him ... (201 words)

I'm terrified of telling my parents that I'm gay so I stay away but I miss them and want their understanding!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

28 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - i'm a 29 year old lesbian. i've been out of the closet since i was 18 and am nowhere remotely ashamed of my sexuality and who i am. i never feel the need to hide who i am and what my sexual orientation is. if people ask, i always tell them the truth. truth is, though, i never ... (565 words)

The 4.5 year boring boyfriend or the exciting new guy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4264 days ago

28 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, (Sorry, this is a long one, but I feel that each factor is important) I'm 20 and have been with my boyfriend for 4 and a half years. We are currently in our 3rd year of university. Anyways, last Summer I spent 3 months of it in my home country to be with my family as ... (863 words)

Broke up with bf.. but now he's being mean?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

28 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok - I broke up with my ex almost 2 weeks ago and have been NC since. I broke it off, because he was distant and not giving me enough attention, and gave me the impression he wanted out of the relationship but wanted me to end it... so I did. He's made no attempts to contact me ... (167 words)

Boyfriend's unwillingness to save money is affecting our future and I don't know what to do about it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

28 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend are complete opposites when it comes to money. He's all about spend, spend, spend and I'm the save, save, save type which is causing problems between us. Any time he works he wants to spend it all instead of saving. We're trying to make a life for ourselves ... (125 words)

I want my ex husband back after he's cheating and my surgery. I seem to want him more now that he's been with someone else!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

28 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - This is a long story, but i will try to shorten. This began 2 yrs ago, i had been having some issues with fatigue and depression also had absolutely no desire for sex! During this time my husband of 14 yrs found someone who did like sex( 12 yrs younger too). Long story... (288 words)

Asked a girl out said she's seeing someone else should I go for it anyways?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

28 February 2013 (M) age 30-35 - Got this girls number had previously meet her and already decided that i liked her. Been texting a little bit asked her out on a date and she said she might be seeing someone else. I dont think their in a relationship just been out on a date. can i still go for it? what do i ... (58 words)

Why is my friend's boyfriend being so mean to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

28 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - one of my friends has recentally got a boyfriend who i think is very aggroant. he has only talked to me twice and both were mean things. him and my friend constantly give me nasty looks. and today he was telling his friends how ugly and fat i am. this didnt really offend me as ... (112 words)

All kinds of drama with my family but I don't know how to stand up for myself

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

28 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My family intrudes too much in my life. They want to control me, they play the victim, give me silent treatments, guilt trip me, then buy me food and clothes, so that they can say I'm being ungrateful. I still can't afford to move out, I'm a college student. It's... (244 words)

I thought the meeting with my family went well but I haven't heard from him since

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4283 days ago

28 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi I posted a question earlier in the week about this guy who ive been seeing for a few weeks who met my parents for the first time on sunday. Anyway just to recap he wasnt in a hurry to leave and seemed to get on well with them and told me when he left see you soon and he'd ... (188 words)

I need help overcoming my addiction to prostitutes

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4264 days ago

28 February 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi I've been seeing prostitutes for 15 years. It started off out of boredom. I have always had a strong sexual appetite, I started masturbating from a young age. Every time I use a prostitute I beat myself up about it. At first I had protected sex, now I don't have intercou... (137 words)

My father isn't going to be happy when he finds out how I've been spending my money!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

28 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - A aunt was supposed to stop by to change my bed (long story). I wasn't at home, so when I got there I noticed she had cleaned my room. Though I appreciate the gesture (even tho i didn't ask her for it), she moved everything around. Including bank papers I had on a drawer. That ... (470 words)

My g/f blocked me on fb so her parents can't see my comments?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

28 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - we've been dating about one and a half years my girlfriend blocked me on facebook and told me it's because her family won't stop giving her crap about us and she's just sick of dealing with it she said it's like her parents can see things i post because they're also her fr... (434 words)

I think I'm in love with my husbands older cousin.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

28 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my husband for 5 years, married for 1. Even before we got married I was having doubts. I still love him and would never want to hurt him, but I don't love him the way I used to. But now we are staying with his cousin. His cousin is always teasing me and touc... (255 words)

My boyfriend said to not meet for awhile until after his divorce is finalized

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3662 days ago

28 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend said to not meet for awhile until after his divorce is finalized (they've been separated almost a year, and he filed for the divorce 3 months ago). He wants a divorce because his wife cheated on him. He told me it shouldn't be any longer and I've seen the documen... (183 words)

Do you think this is a legitimate reason to end an engagement?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4182 days ago

28 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Is this a legitimate reason to end an 3 month engagement and a four year relationship? February 25th 2013, I’m 23 and my ex-fiancé is the same age. 4 months ago my fiancé broke up with me because of something I did, or rather did not do, a few days prior. Before the incid... (943 words)

Need help shopping for the perfect engagement ring

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

28 February 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm starting the process of shopping for an engagement ring for my girlfriend. It seems like I've been reading up on them for hours, learning about the quality, cut and color. But I cannot seem to find a good way to determine carat size. I know that 2 months salary is the ga... (231 words)

Should I accept being the messenger between my divorced parents or should I just put my foot down and refuse to get involved? And how do I deal with my fathers behavior?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

28 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm going crazy. My parents divorced (not officially yet) a month ago, and they both expect me to be the messenger between them. When they separated, my mom told me some things that I felt were very hurtful, so I didn't feel the need to talk to her since then. A week ... (476 words)

Could he still love me after this time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

28 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - A boy proposed to me in high school, i loved him secretly but i told no thinking he already have some girlfriend, after school i got married n have two childrens now, secretly i still love that boy each day, we met on fb after 8 years i told him tht i still loved him n he ... (136 words)

Should I tell my boyfriend that I have been faking my orgasms?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

28 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Okay, I'm going to keep the introduction 'til my problem as short as possible. Please bear with me because I could really use some advice. I had a very rough childhood, bullied a lot and extreme. Then a couple of really bad things happened to my family and due to... (684 words)

Is it normal to have fantasies about being anally raped?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4097 days ago

28 February 2013 (?) age 26-29 - I'm just your normal, every day 17 year old girl. Sometimes I like to read erotic stories online. About two months ago, I stumbled upon this story where a teenage boy forced himself onto his sister, anally. I don't know why, but this turned me on more than a normal story, and ... (287 words)

Does I'm sorry no longer have any meaning?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

28 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Am I the only one who thinks that sorry has no meaning anymore? When my ex said he was sorry for leading me on, I just thought it's just a word, it doesn't mean anything to me... I find people say the word sorry too easily these days, that they think saying that one word will ... (108 words)

In love with my ex's little brother

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

28 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I lived with my ex for 3 years, during those years 2 of them his younger brother lived with us... I was very close to his brother we spent way more time together, way more then with my boyfriend... Over the years I fell in love with him, but nothing ever happend between ... (162 words)

My daughter is having trouble with her father and his fiance. Is there anything I can do to help?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

28 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, my daughter has been having trouble with her dad and his new fiance.They have been together for about 18mths and engaged for two. When they first got together my daughter happily went to their house.She has three children and things went. I was happy her dad was with som... (310 words)

What do I have to do to make my boyfriend realize that what I do for him/his family is out of love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

28 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it possible for someone to never be satisfied with you,rather not see how much you care.. My boyfriend of 5 years never really sees the good in me..I'v been taking care of his autistic sister for the past 4 years not because I have to but because I want to. I spend time w... (155 words)

Is it true that if you've been hurt in a relationship you shouldn't compare others to your bad experience?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4264 days ago

28 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I wont bother telling you the background of me and the girl I was dating for just about 3 months, I'm just interested by her comment and wanted to know what you guys can make of it... My best friend saw her last night and said he spoke to her and said that they were talkin... (183 words)

Will my boyfriend no longer want to date me if he finds about my family history?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

28 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I have a boyfriend who knows everything about me apart from certain things about my family I omitted like...my dad's sister ran away against the wishes of her family and got married to a convict whose been involved in a lot of crimes,and he's no longer alive,he... (110 words)

Does my boyfriend have anger issues?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

28 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Agony Aunts and Uncles, I'd like to know if my boyfriend has anger issues or not. I was giving driving directions to my boyfriend to somewhere (about 15 minutes away) that he has been to twice before. He didn't really remember the route properly so I was telling him how ... (514 words)

I'm a virgin. But due to my thoughts I'm worried that I might be becoming a sex addict. Should I be concerned?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

28 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Im 17 I'm a junior in high school and I have a problem. My prob is I think I might be a sex addict....so here's the catch: I'm still a virgin. I have never gone farther than making out and even that I have only done that two times. Both with the same guy who I dated for... (322 words)

Married 15 months. Yet without telling me he's resigned his job and left me. How can I get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

28 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - please help me !!! We have been married for the past 15 months. For the past 6 months we have been facing a lot of issues in our profssional and personal life. He started beating me abusing and so did I One morning he told me he is leaving the house and will never look ba... (118 words)

My boyfriend asked for a key to my apartment? Should I give it to him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

28 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend asked for a key to my apartment. We visit each other's places often and sometimes he sleeps over or I sleep over at his place. We have been dating for 3 months. I do not want to live with him or have him live with me. He asked if he could have a key made to my a... (137 words)

It seemed like he liked me. But then nothing? How can I shake off these feelings I developed for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4264 days ago

28 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I really don't know how to explain my situation. Okay, this guy and I have been friends about three months and I went down there to see my sister and this guy and I hooked up at the party she threw. He had spent the night with me and one thing led to another, we didn... (230 words)

I don't want to cause drama but I have to stand up for myself

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

28 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I will be getting married next year to my fiancee. His older sister has this very dominant personality and he comes from a conservative family but yet his parents are very open minded. So, the problem is that his sister was telling me that I cannot have a wedding dress that ... (176 words)

Didn't think he was the cheating type but I've caught him in lies and strange women answering his voice in the early am!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

28 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like im going insane. I do. I come from a conservative family and always thought I would be with (in regards to sex) one man. I like about the idea of only knowing one person intimately and vice versa. Me and my current boyfriend went to uni together. After know... (419 words)

I don't like him but I don't want to hurt him by breaking up

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4264 days ago

28 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - ok so i been dating this boy for 2 weeks and i feel so embarrssed like everyone says im to pretty for him and that he is ugly and stuff and i just feel sad and im not attracted to him either and he is in love with me and im afraid if i break up with him it will ruin our ... (91 words)

I miss him and don't want to be with anyone else but he doesn't want a relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

28 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Please Help! I was in a 5year relationship that ended less then a year ago. He actually broke up with me over text because he couldn't face me. The reason our relationship failed was bc I wanted to get married and he didn't. Marriage scared him we've been battling with th... (299 words)

My boyfriend's family doesn't like me or my children

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

27 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dealing with for two years now and it come and goes in waves. My Boyfriends parents dont really seem to like me or my kids. When we 1st got together it seems that they just dealt with me but you could tell by small subtle hints they really don't care for me. I hav... (265 words)

HELP guy who loves me only for my looks? mixed signals.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

27 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Alright so this isn't really a question but more of a combination of a question and a rant. It might be really long but I really need help with this. Its kind of a long story so last year was my first year in highschool. my first semester instead of having gym, I had health c... (1258 words)

How will I ever get a boyfriend with my shyness and home situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

27 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a shy 17 year old girl and I have never had a boyfriend. Over the past year, I have gained a little bit of confidence and have started talking to boys more. I like this guy at college but i know that if we ever spoke I would get all nervous and make an idiot of myself, ... (126 words)

In love with the wrong person again and it's my professor this time

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

27 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone! I don't know exactly what I am looking for,some kind of solace for the way I am feeling right now.I'm 22 and I'm in love with my college teacher.I recently found out that he has someone,he's not married to that person and he doesn't have kids.But i love him and ... (276 words)

B/f can't text me during the work day yet he's on facebook?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

27 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I've posted about this before on this site, however the problem is still continuing. Every time I text my bf while we're both at work he just completely ignores me, yet he's on facebook posting statuses, liking pictures, just doing whatever. He doesn't text me back for... (149 words)

Girl flirting with my boyfriend at party, and then friending him on Facebook.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

27 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I were at a birthday party at a house a few weeks ago. We met a mutual friend of one of the birthday girls for the first time, a female about our age. At first she seemed really nice and we were both chatting with her. Then throughout the course of the ... (791 words)

I feel like I'm disgusting to my boyfriend, why won't he make love with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

27 February 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I’m a 29 years old man and I’ve kind of a love problem. I’m gay and I’ve a boyfriend, he’s 25. We’re together a bit more than a year and I’ve to say it has been the best year of my life. He’s perfect, he’s that kind of person I’ve always wanted to meet. I’m happy with him. ... (316 words)

Now that she's got a boyfriend, she doesn't shut up about him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

27 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone I have a very good friend and she recently got into a relationship with her boyfriend but now that she's with him she doesn't shut up about him! How can I politely tell her to stop talking about him so much. Practically every time we talk its something about him ... (191 words)

I'm afraid he might reject me because of my body!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

27 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have this guy that I have been chatting with online for awhile now and he has become almost like a boyfriend of sorts. We don't refer to each other as such but the conversations that we have give the impression of two people that really like each other. We are aiming to fi... (744 words)

Is he inerested? Does he like me? Should I ask him out for our second date?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4264 days ago

27 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I went out on a date with a guy, the date went really well. We talked, laughed, he told me I looked nice, and at the end of the date we hugged and he told me we should definitely hangout again. I didn't want him to feel as if he had to be the one to text or call me, so I te... (156 words)

I need help in dealing with my self-centered father!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

27 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My dad has problems communicating with people. He has a mental illness, but which one not even the doctors can pin down. Maybe a combination of Aspergers, bipolar personality disorder, and quite a chunk of paranoia. He is very self centered. The world revolves around ... (545 words)