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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I went on a few dates with a girl, but nothing panned out...however I really hit it off with her friend. Should I pursue this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4331 days ago

10 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - A while ago I went on a few dates with a girl but before anything got started we both realized we weren't each other's types and so broke it off. She's now become romantically involved with a friend of mine - which is absolutely fine by me but it just means that I see her from ... (317 words)

Are there men who voluntarily don't look at pornography?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

10 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Is there any women here whose boyfriend/husband doesn't look at porn? If they don't do you know for sure? Where did you find them? Did you have to tell them to stop? Are there any men here who don't use it in a relationship? If they don't use it because th... (92 words)

I just noticed my exgirlfriend got very thin and I think she looks amazing...is it because she broke up with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4331 days ago

10 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my girlfriend just over a month ago and I saw her last night and she's always been a skinny girl, nice weight and her figure in all the time i've known her was just perfect. But last night I saw her out and i noticed she looked a lot thinner! Honestly looked ... (233 words)

My girlfriend held me while I cried...I'm embarassed, How do I show her I appreciate what she did?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4331 days ago

10 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - To start off I'm using my girlfriend's account. Here goes: yesterday my girlfriend and I were really bored and looking for something to do. We started looking around. I opened my drawer and then I saw a photo of my father (he died in 9/11) and just completely lost ... (171 words)

How do I assert myself and get respect from my female boss without coming off as rude

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4332 days ago

10 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Oh how to go about this. I would describe myself as a pleasant, polite person. I avoid confrontation with people and only speak my mind to those whom I know would understand the point I am trying to make, such as friends. I am rarely rude to anyone, and if I am, I regret it ... (461 words)

It's not as easy to talk now as it was the first 3 months

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4332 days ago

10 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I am in a 5 month relationship and i'm young so i don't know very much about what to do at this point. I love my boyfriend very much but its not as easy to talk to be together as it was during our first 1-3 months. I'm in the stage where you have to put in work and i just ... (78 words)

I'm afraid I'm too clingy and he might end the relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4328 days ago

10 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, wondered if anyone could help me? I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months now and i love him to bits! There's just a few problems... Whenever I am not with him, i get really worried and feel sick to my stomach, i don't want to eat, drink, or even sleep when he'... (152 words)

What do men like to hear from their women during sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4331 days ago

10 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I'm just looking for a few personal opinions on what men would like most from their women during sex, i.e. what do you like to hear, what do you want her to do, etc. Any tips are appreciated! Thank you!... (44 words)

My long distance boyfriend of 7 years hasn't given me a promise ring yet

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4331 days ago

10 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all! Let's see if I can sum this up and make it short and sweet and to the point. I am 22 and my boyfriend is 23. We have been together for 7 years. I am ready to take the relationship to the next step. Unfortuntely, because of financial reasons, we cannot afford to move ... (123 words)

My boyfriend doesn't drink, how do I handle the alcohol issue in his birthday party invitation??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3774 days ago

10 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey y'all ! So I've been in a LDR with my awesome boyfriend for a year now. He comes to see me often, so he's met my friends. this time, i want to throw a birthday party for him at my apartment...and all *my* friends will be invited obviously since his friends cannot come. The ... (157 words)

My wife watches porn when I'm away!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3434 days ago

10 February 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Im in desperate need of help and advice, i checked our pcs history the other day for wedding venue sites that i was interested in. I stumbled onto a porn site and one of the viewed searches was "f***ing while on the phone with your husband"!!! I was really shocked and unsure of ... (109 words)

I shared intimate pics with a woman on FaceBook, and now her boyfriend says he'll post them on the Internet. Worried sick ... what can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4331 days ago

10 February 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello I recently found a group on fb called [name removed by mod]. I thought it would be a bit of fun and added a girl I thought I liked the look of from the page. Without prompting she started telling me all kinds of sexual things and was asking for photos of me... my d... (194 words)

Afraid I may have led him on -- how to I gently make it clear that I just want to be friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4332 days ago

10 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey I'm a 16 year old girl and in need of some advice, I think I may of lead on a guy, I really like him as a person and we have been flirting but I don't want it to go any further, even if I did like him I wouldn't want it to because there's a lot he does I don't agree with. ... (120 words)

Should I tell my gf that a mutual gay colleague tried it on with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4331 days ago

10 February 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I work with with my girlfriend but at a work party last night our gay colleague tried it on with me. he told me he'd had a thing for me for ages and said he wanted to touch me. I told him I was flattered but that I am very close with my girlfriend. He then said that he ... (300 words)

Do you think it's my place to tell a woman whom I do know that her husband is cheating on her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4331 days ago

10 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently, I've developed an unusual hobby of seeing how many married men in the area I live are cheating on their wives. I have always been a really great snoop and considered being a private investigator at one point. There is a site I found which basically encourages ... (250 words)

Just moved house and have no friends here.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4332 days ago

10 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 years old. I have just moved from London to Hampshire with my mum and stepdad. I have no friends in this area and I dont know anybody either. I have seen a few teens around, But i would never know how to approach them. I need friends help please?xx... (52 words)

Boyfriend now seems more interested in his XBox than me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4331 days ago

10 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - me and my boyfriend have been dating for 1 year and 10 months but for the past month or so he has been really distant. he always plays his xbox and always ignores me. im not to sure i feel the same way i have before. were in a long distance relationship and see each other twice ... (102 words)

I've cut off my jealous relatives because they bad talked about me and my parents. Why are they like this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4330 days ago

10 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, HATE is strong word but here I want to use this word and say I absolutely HaTe my relatives! They want everyone to act like their slaves, for 15 years I didn't say anything they would trash talk my dad soo much, my family put us down, the day I stood up and spo... (154 words)

Why did ex mean when he said our relationship was bittersweet?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4332 days ago

10 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - what did my ex mean when he said this to me.. "what happened with us is bittersweet when you think about it" What does he mean it's bittersweet? I've been thinking about it and still don't know how it applies to our relationship and our break up? What do you think he m... (60 words)

What are the disadvantages physically of not having sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4332 days ago

10 February 2013 (M)

age - 1)I am 59 Years of age.whats the physical and medical disadvantage of not having sex. 2)How can Low Libibo of female of 58 can be controlled.... (30 words)

Is he worth my time, he is sending me mixed signals and driving me mad!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4331 days ago

10 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So basically, I've been seeing this guy (let's call him C) for 2 and a half months now, I've been keeping count! I don't know about anyone else, but I think 2 and half months is a while to be "seeing" someone and acting like a couple in public and around each others friends and ... (367 words)

Online dating -- I'm an idiot...

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4331 days ago

10 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a man online, I haven't dated for a while by choice...but we seemed to have a lot in common. I spoke to him via the site for a while and then we moved on to phone and text and we texted back and forth all day everyday. We agreed to meet and got on great he seemed great ... (259 words)

He never calls when he's travelling

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4331 days ago

10 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - my bf hardly call me when i travel, he keep saying he dosent have money.that he is missing me but he dint call me.pls do you think another girl is taking my place back home? ... (35 words)

My sister wants us to be something we're not to impress her boyfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4332 days ago

10 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am having issues with my younger sister at the moment. She has been going out with her new boyfriend for about a year (she left her boyfriend of 6 years for him), and since then she has completely changed. He is from quite a well off family (actually so are we now, but it ... (474 words)

Mother's strong opinions make her tough to be around

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4332 days ago

10 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My mum is far too opinionated and it's getting very stressful to deal with. For example, my female friend has just ended a relationship with her boyfriend to go out with a girl. My mum thinks this is a phase and someone needs to sit her down and make her see everything she will ... (232 words)

Family won't let me see him since he was arrested

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4331 days ago

10 February 2013 (?) age 26-29 - hi everyone.. . well, just to start off this weekend has been ery hectic in a very emotional way. You see, there is this boy that I have been talking to since the begining of the school year ( since august), and we have gone more attached I would say. He is not my boyfriend... (379 words)

Did he really break up because he has to wait for texts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4332 days ago

10 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend of 6 months dumped me because he said I don't care about him as much as he cares about me, he always waits for me to text, etc. but I don't and it's tearing him apart. But I don't get that? I showed him I loved him in a multitude of ways and only didn't text him... (82 words)

Does my ex still have feelings for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4332 days ago

10 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Does my ex still have feelings for me?. I saw him in a pub yesterday. I was in the pub with my mum. He looked at me a few times . I was nervous about going over to speak to him at first, even though we have had a chat before when we have bumped into each other. He was stood ... (467 words)

She doesn't post pictures of us together

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3671 days ago

10 February 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a girlfriend going for two years and I wonder why she never post pics of us together online on her page. I see women do it all the time but she does not. She says she loves me more than I would ever know but I don't feel like she is representing me as much as u ... (101 words)

Ex has the same friend group as me and is now causing a problem, What to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4329 days ago

10 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay. Well basically me and my ex boyfriend broke up 4 months ago, I was with him for 9 months, I am now happily in another relationship of 2 months with my new boyfriend and everything so far is going well between us. Me and my exes relationship was very... (699 words)

I am 27 and don't think I've ever been truly sexually attracted to any of my boyfriends.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4332 days ago

10 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 27 and don't think I've ever been truly sexually attracted to any of my boyfriends. I have found them all attractive in the sense that I look at them and believe they are handsome, but I have never had that 'I want to rip your shirt off' type feeling that they seem to have ... (127 words)

He's 12 years older and divorced. He was my lecturer. Could we make this work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4332 days ago

10 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, thanks for those who answer my question in advance. Following is the brief intro about the man with whom i have affair. currently i am doing MBA. i met this guy during my year, because he is my lecturer.he taught me one subject,and i am a motivated student. so... (395 words)

I have a BF. Yet I'm seriously questioning my sexuality. What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4330 days ago

10 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, So here is my problem. I am in a happy, loving, stable relationship of 2.5 years with the man of my dreams. I really, truly can't picture myself not being with him. He feels the same, but... something isn't quite adding up. Ever since I was a little girl, w... (348 words)

How can I be so very upset about our breakup? The breakup was OK and he was OK as a BF.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4332 days ago

10 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I don't understand why I am upset over my break up with my boyfriend a week ago when I am the one that broke up with him, I didn't get dumped after all. We were together for 4 years. Started off OK but some issues like money and marriage and children we just couldn't agr... (119 words)

Could we try again to become Bf and Gf? We were close before, Recently we've been getting closer again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4332 days ago

10 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - When I started high school, I had a really brief fling with one of my classmates(that i had just met) It didn't last because we weren't mature enough and we didnt know each other very well either. Well anyway, after that we stayed friends and I guess now that we're senio... (118 words)

How can I ever learn to trust guys again? And find a Genuine guy? My last Bf was a liar and a cheat.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4331 days ago

10 February 2013 (?) age 36-40 - My most recent ex boyfriend was a liar and a cheater. He was super good looking and charming so I always fell for whatever he said and couldn't tell what was really going on. I am only just now starting to see what really happened. It's been 2 months now and we've had no con... (99 words)

My Boyfriend says I'm boring and I "mother" him. How can I regain his interest?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4317 days ago

10 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend recently told me that hes bored with me and that i dont "challenge" him enough. After 2 years together he thinks we have nothing to talk about and that i mother him too much. i was shocked. I thought he was happy with how things were going. i guess i dont rea... (117 words)

Do I settle for what I have with my ex now? He says he's not ready to settle down. What's the best way to deal with this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4331 days ago

10 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I never stopped seeing my ex after we broke up. It has been over a year and we never stopped hanging out and sleeping together, we just eliminated a title. It all gets confusing because for the most part it seems like we are together still but we are technically not. I am re... (216 words)

Why does this man adhere to what his Mommy says, always? Why is my mother in law so resistant to allowing her son to grow up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4331 days ago

10 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid ,I am love with this guy that I have known for many years. We have a daughter together. I broke the relationship off and moved to another state. We talk to one another on the phone from time to time and every time I hear his voice it makes me want to rekindle our... (217 words)

He's married. We're strongly attracted. I even told his wife nothing was 'going on'. I want to have sex with him, should I?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4331 days ago

10 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi...this is my first time seeking advice through the internet. I'm almost 20 years old. I applied for a job at a restaurant and I got the job and the general manager is 37. During the interview we made deeply eye contact and then once he hired me the staring could not st... (366 words)

My husband respects my bisexuality. How can I repair the rift, now that my daughter knows the truth?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4332 days ago

10 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm bisexual and have been married to an amazing man for 19 years. My husband respects my sexuality and has always been supportive of my need to also have a significant woman friend. It is never a threesome situation. We have kept this private from our daughter, leading her ... (138 words)

She's 19 and I'm 23. If I accept her invitation to go to a nighclub am I likely to have trouble getting her into venues that only accept over 21 year olds?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4333 days ago

10 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been dating this girl for over a month now and tonight she invited me out to go dancing with her at a nightclub. The issue is I'm not all too familiar with nightclubs as it was never really my thing and the last time I went to one I think I was around 17. I need to know... (160 words)

What would be the negatives about having a first child when aged 35?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4331 days ago

10 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am turning 21 this year and the thought of having children anytime soon within the next 5 years sounds really unappealing to me. A lot of my high school friends are getting married and having children already. I just want to be free and single and date and mingle. I want... (190 words)

Why does she take days to respond to my texts? is she playing hard to get or is she disinterested?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4332 days ago

10 February 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - There's this girl I really like whom I met about 4 months ago. We see each other only once a week along with a group. I am friends with her sister but not too close to her (although we get along great). At first, she use to reply to my texts in a timely manner but recently she... (190 words)

In public he's a tiger, once home he not interested. How can I ignite his sexual desire at home? A striptease maybe?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4332 days ago

10 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - When I'm out with my 29 year-old boyfriend (hanging out with friends, on a date, even walking to get on the train), he always mentions how hot I am, how horny he is, he usually hints on how he wants sex (like, if we're at a coffee shop and I ask if he wants something, he'll say ... (315 words)

I'm so used to girls rejecting me. Never had a Gf. How can I change this situation and get a girl interested in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4333 days ago

10 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a 20 year male and I have never had a girlfriend/had sex. My first question is, is this normal? I feel it is not because I am surrounded by people in relationships, or at least have had their first kiss by now and I just feel this emptiness and aloneness. I truly am con... (194 words)

I'm concerned that she's more excited by the dildos than me. Is this a deal breaker for marriage, if that's true?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4332 days ago

10 February 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello all, I'll give a little background first. My girlfriend and I have been together for a little over a year. I'm 46 she's 41 both of us have been divorced from former spouses for over 5 years. We became sexually active after about 5 months into the relationship. Our s... (410 words)