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Archived questions from: 8 October, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He's too "nice" for me and it's a turn off.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

8 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing this really nice guy for the past 4 months. His "niceness" is starting to bother me, in that I find him to be not as masculine as I'd like him to be. He is the type who always has a smile on his face, who is always polite, helpful, and generous. For some ... (141 words)

She said she just felt like talking to a guy on line! Your thoughts please? But why would she start talking to a stranger online?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

8 October 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been with my GF for almost 3 years. When I first met her she was always online chatting and I know she has done a lot of stuff she regrets while she was chatting.. She had promissed me to stop that because I said I would leave her and her 2 kids if she continued. To my k... (224 words)

Is this bad? "Virgin" girlfriend has kissed 80 guys!! What does this say about her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

8 October 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Is it bad that my girlfriend is only just turned 20 and has kissed around 80 guys. She says it's nothing bad because she's still a virgin, so it's not like she slept around, but that kissing was harmless fun. But what do you guys think? I find it very, very odd that she's k... (96 words)

Will the religion I broke away from also ruin my relationship with my wife? We still get along, laugh, hangout, and are friends. But I fear for the future of us.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

8 October 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I grew up in a particular religion in very religiously conservative family. I got married and had kids very young. I find myself now in my early 30's and married 12 years. About 5 years ago, I started changing my viewpoints considerably. I am no longer with the religion I g... (492 words)

My boyfriend has had sex with 100 girls. Am I just the next one in line?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4415 days ago

8 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend confessed to having nearly 100 past sexual partners. I'm still a virgin, which makes it a shocker for me. He told me that before he turned 21 (his bday is next month) he wanted to go above 100, but said he would stop at me. He wanted me to take this as something ... (130 words)

My LDR of 4 years wants to break up when we are set to move in within a month! Help me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

8 October 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - We've been in a long distance relationship for 4 and half years now , and in 1 month I could finally move in with her and we could start our lifes together , even yesterday we were planning what car we should get etc. (she is Norwegian I am romanian) But today in about 3... (248 words)

What causes him to act this way? He's my friend one minute then snapping at me the next.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

8 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi agony aunts i'm soo confused! I got really good friends at University, the one friend is a guy we get along sometimes other times he's soo spiteful towards me and i've no idea why. Back in the first year he lost his mum and because i was young when i lost my mum i just said ... (281 words)

I'm terrified he will post naked pictures of me on the internet! Is that illegal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

8 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I split up with my boyfriend because I found him on a dating site. He keeps saying he was set up, he deleted the account and it actually says closed by user so there's 100% proof he did it. He got nasty and said I'd set it up or my friends or sister did, just called me a slag ... (243 words)

How do I get my prude girlfriend to do sexual things with me?!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

8 October 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - How do I get my prude girlfriend to do shit with me?! We have been dating for a few weeks and we have only made out. I try to feel her up and she just stops me. how can i seduce/persuade her to let me finger her or give me dome!? ... (52 words)

Why would my ex watch me as I walked away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

8 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - what does it mean your ex watched you walk away? yesterday i seen my ex and his wife at the store my best friend that he was watching me. she said he watched me until i got in the store and then he looked away. i haven't talked to him in 8 days we have a 15 month last time i t... (115 words)

Why didn't he accept me on facebook? He acted like he liked me

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

8 October 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, i recently filmed a movie for college with some people and someone brought along one of their friends to play my boyfriend in the scene. We had to take loads of shots of us kissing and stuff and it was all really good. He kept making excuses to out his arm around me and ... (105 words)

Situation with my sister have left confused

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

8 October 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My 12 year old sister and I have always had a good relationship, occasionally we fall out but it always blows over in a couple of moments. Recently though she seems to becoming more and more sullen, more prone to back chat to the rest of the family and less willing to help out ... (497 words)

How do I get my gf of ten months to open up to me again after I asked her not to?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

8 October 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I've been with my gf for ten months now. I love her honesty, she's type to say what's on her mind without being disrespectful or rude. She'll simply let you know her truth and I used to love that. If she says she doesn't like something or someone, then you know th... (313 words)

Are you ever too young to fall in love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

8 October 2012 (?) age 26-29 - I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months. I'm almost 16. Am I too young to fall in love?... (19 words)

I'm pretty so why don't I get asked out?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

8 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I am a 23 year old girl and I'm single..now here's the thing I don't mean to sound conceited or superficial but the reason I'm telling what I'm going to right now is I just caant figureee why this is happening..so. Please do help me.. I am a good looking young gi... (242 words)

I'm ready for sex but g/f doesn't want to take my virginity

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

8 October 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello everyone, I've been with this special girl for 3.5 months now. I'm crazy about her and really love her. I'm a virgin, she's not (3 previous sex partners). I told her i was ready for the next step. She said I dont have to look forward to it nor plan it. She says she's a... (256 words)

Am I too ugly for my crush????????

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

8 October 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - am i ugly? i really like my crush and i was just wondering if im too ugly for him. i have brown long, silky striaght hair. cute glasses. no spots, clear skin, normal nose, normal lips. kinda rosy cheeks. straight white teeth. Many people say i'm cute or once in a every once in ... (105 words)

Do I call off the engagement because I don't want to marry?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

8 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - So, I need some advice after accepting my bf's marraige proposal because I'm not sure if I've made a bad decision :( Been together 2 years, he's been pushing to live together for 1 year, I've held off til the last few months and now feel ready to move in, although my gut ... (611 words)

We've been togetehr a year and still havnt slept at his house?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

8 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and we still havent slept over at his house, He's stayed at mine atleast 30+ times, whenever ive even hinted at it i get stuff back. His parents werent comfy over it because im the first female to stay at his house, his parents ... (122 words)

Why am I worried about my boyfriend going off with a younger woman all of a sudden?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

8 October 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm 45 and he's 39 we've been together for three years I never have been insecure about my age before but recently I'm starting to have doubts about him with younger women, why?... (34 words)

How do I tell family I can't afford to go for the holidays when I am taking a vacation later?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

8 October 2012 (F)

age - My brother keeps inviting me every year to their house for the upcoming holidays. They live in another state. Plane tickets are around $500.00 round trip. Checked greyhound buses which is a lot cheaper but I would have to stay a lot longer than I would want too. Long story ... (570 words)

Why has she gone cold all of a sudden?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

8 October 2012 (M)

- I have been seeing this girl on and off since August, she is 27, and in 34. We hit it off straight away and get along really well. We started off casual dating, going to the cinema, meals out, walks ect. We both work full time, and both have quite hectic schedules with friends ... (205 words)

I was given an ultimatum by 2 men. Which do I choose?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

8 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in love with two men at the same time. Yes, it IS possible. I have been putting myself under great stress because I've been unable to choose which one I ought to stay with and whom I should let go. I am very compatible with one man and we have the same dreams and desir... (209 words)

If I'm attracted to cross dressers does this mean I am gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

8 October 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I find myself tempted by 'shemales' i dont find men attacrtive but crossdressers and shemale i fantasize about, could this mean im gay? i mean what i'm after if a woman with a penis, surely that means i like penis? i'm scared because i dont want to be gay.... (49 words)

Still madly in love with my girlfriend, but all my old feelings for my friend have come rushing back! What does this mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

8 October 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I use to know this girl,, we we're just friends, kissed a few times but nothing more then that, anyway i got into a relationship with a different girl and everything was great, a year later, i find myself still madly in love with my girlfriend but i bumped into the old friend ... (98 words)

People find me intense and intimidating. How can I can get them to relax around me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

8 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This is kind of an odd post...for me anyway... But I have a tough time getting people to get comfortable around me. Everytime I meet someone for the 1st time, they are so cagey and quiet and stiff. They have a hard time making eye contact with me and I'm the kind that likes ... (274 words)

Should I move in with him when he's been on dating sites plus I'd be living in his ex wife's home?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

8 October 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi looking for advice here so it may help me make my mind up before I take the plunge...My partner of over two years has asked me to move in with him.Everything is fine apart from two things is one that I would be moving into the house where him and his ex wife lived in ... (109 words)

We've went on dates I really like him but he told a woman on facebook he loved her after she said it to him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

8 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - There's a guy I went on a few dates with and I like him very much. I feel like we are a good match and he does indeed seem into me, only thing is our distance is definitely a challenge. We are friends on Facebook and for some reason, ALL of his activity shows up on my timeline. ... (216 words)

How should I go about telling him how I feel without being pushy about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

8 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a long distance situation.We have known each other for almost a year and we went on a date about a month ago. In the beginning when we met, I was vocal about wanting to talk to him on the phone and he said he'd call but it never happened. I didn't make a big deal out ... (347 words)

Does my straight(?) friend like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4426 days ago

8 October 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I guess I just think too much, but is it possible for him to? I have came out to 3 of my best friends, which are fully supportive (luckily) however this friend just keep giving me subtle hints that just hurts more than anything. One time he would wrap his arms around my waist ... (255 words)

I really like him. Will I eventually have a chance with him? Should I not let him kiss me anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

8 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - The boy I like just got out of a long relationship. A couple weeks after, I got his number and we would text a lot and stuff. He's kissed me and we've cuddled since then, but today he told me he wasn't looking for anything serious right now. It hurts, but I totally unde... (160 words)

Does lack of sex has something to do with me being so strong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

8 October 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I haven't been sexually active in ten years I am still a young woman. I was wondering if not having sex could that be the reason I feel like superwoman? I have so much strength I can lift heavy things that most women would need help with. To be honest my strength is ... (92 words)

He treats me like a girlfriend despite insisting he didn't want a relationship

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

8 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it possible to be seeing a man who actually does not want to see you happy? I have been dating this man for awhile now who I believe is emotionally confused. We are not an "official" couple and he claims to not want to be one. However, he has asked me if I was interest... (249 words)

Should I be worried about the attention my very popular boyfriend receives from girls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

8 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my b/f are both 17 we have dated for 4 months now. so here is my problem My b/f is a popular football player at my school and all the girls are all over him (and I mean all over him). I was not popular till we stared going out. So anyway I asked him if I should b... (91 words)

Will attending college ruin my new relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

8 October 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone, thanks in advance for taking the time to read! Now, down to business... I just started dating this guy. We had been sort of at an in between, kind of dating phase for a few weeks and then we finally decided to officially get together. I am so happy about this. We... (193 words)

How can I overcome my addiction to pornography?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

8 October 2012 (?) age 30-35 - I plan on quitting pornography after using it twice a day since I was 15. Now, 4 years later, I feel like it is holding me back. I've only had one girlfriend and felt guilty using it and tried to quit it, but wasn't successful after relapsing too often. I want to quit bec... (164 words)

My girlfriend has been extremely moody lately and I don't know what to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4426 days ago

8 October 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - ok so me and my gf has been dating for 2 years we have broke up a few times for space and 1 time bc i cheated. things have been great till the past 2 months, everything is comein back up. well now its like she wants to be with me, like she loves me, but she ignores me at times... (191 words)

He's going through a difficult time so where do we go from here?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

8 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - After a party I went home with a good friend of mine. We ended up in bed together, although we didn't have sex, we kissed and were naked. We spent the next day hanging out, but didn't discuss what happened. I care about him and respect him hugely. I have known him for years. H... (363 words)

I don't like her past and think she lies to spare my feelings

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

8 October 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - help me, am a guy and am having a really hard time with my gf past she recently confessed she has been with 20 man from the time she was 20 to 26 and its really bothering me i feel so desperate and bothered by the fact has given herself to all these man..also she has told me ... (115 words)

He's nice to me but then he's nice to everyone. Could he like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

8 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I sort of like a guy at my church. He's about 7 years older than me and single. He's invited me to parties but he's never asked me out. He always offers me a ride home from the parties (I live out of his way) but, when I don't accept, he tries to find someone else to drive me- ... (90 words)

Sexless relationship going nowhere...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

8 October 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear dearcupid aunts and uncles, I would like to get some advice on my relationship with my girlfriend. We are together for almost 3 years now (living together for 1.5 years), but where once was hope and happiness shining bright I feel darkness nests. There are many facet... (677 words)

What makes her seem sexier now that I know she's a virgin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

8 October 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Men help me out here, I don't know why I find the girl i'm seeing sexier after she told me she was still a virgin! It's strange that she's now a lot more attractive to me than before, sure before I liked her a lot and found her so beautiful, but now I find I like her more. She ... (288 words)

How do I explain my severe PMS/PMDD to the guy I'm dating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

8 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating this amazing guy since the end of July. Things have been great and each time we see each other, things for the most part just keep getting better and better. 2 times during our short lived relationship (1 each month), I have turned in to a crazy bitch and ... (549 words)

My mother is being passive-aggressive because I'm finally moving out! How do I deal with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

8 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Long story short, I'm finally moving out of my parents' house and couldn't be happier. It's been a long time coming. I'm finally getting serious about my future and a career after years of slacking off and procrastinating; and my dad is very supportive and happy for... (351 words)