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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Man with little response...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 October 2012 (F)

- I have been spending time with a man who became a widower 18 months ago. I didn't want to be involved in a rebound situation and he admitted he felt vulnerable so we literally are just friends. The problem is, now I have been spending time with him about one day a week, I am ... (322 words)

Shall I walk away, or take a very big risk???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 October 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have Just started some part time work after getting my life back together from an abusive relationship. A man in my work place has for several weeks been friendly but until recently didn't realise he was attracted towards me. He has now made it really obvious, and I recently ... (198 words)

Help!!! How can you be in love with someone you have never seen???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I really need some advice. I have been talkin to a guy over the phone for 4 months. I know him since over a year since we used to Facebook chat regularly. I'm 18 and he is 25. Our families know each other very well and are practically family who have not been in contact ... (1149 words)

I do love him... but do I love him enough to be with him again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4393 days ago

27 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm so depressed and have no zest for living anymore. I just feel so alone and stupid.... I'm 22 years old, and i recently broke up with my bf (28) after 2 and half years. My bf/ex was working in the states alone for the whole of our relationship. It was my first relation... (1534 words)

Is being called sweet a major red flag and are relationships worth relocating for?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 October 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Alright everyone, I know I should know the answers to these questions as a 24 year old man but I have not been in the appropriate environments for me as of ywr so please bear with my questions. I am about to date this one lady who is just two years younger than me but I am ... (494 words)

If I play out this fantasy will is ruin our friendship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

27 October 2012 (F) age 36-40 - I am single, not been seeing anyone lately and I have a friend (a boy) who i spend lots of time with, he is younger than me about 2 years, I am 25 and he is 23 and I knew since i met him and he wanted to f*** me and I didn't think of him in any way but he is a cute boy that ... (193 words)

It's weird to think that it was only a week ago yesterday that I had really strong feelings for him and now, well they're gone!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - How is it my feelings for this guy disappeared so quickly! The guy who I had liked for two months and used to get butterflies in my stomach over, when we kissed i got that tingle feeling and i was in complete bliss whenever i was around him. He is the only guy who I have ever ... (294 words)

Why do you think she would have just stopped texting me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 October 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - This girl I like we would always see each other on nights out, kiss a lot and just have banter, it was really nice. But then recently I started becoming lazy in texting her and I could tell things were dying out with us when we saw each other, i felt like i was loosing interest ... (229 words)

Confused - recent ex-girlfriend who I still love is sending very mixed messages. Help please!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 October 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi Agony Aunts! :) My ex and I are both 24, she's 25 in November. My now ex-girlfriend of 2 years 5 months dumped me a week ago after a very unfortunate situation. I yelled at her whilst under immense stress, left her house, and didn't answer her calls. I am ashamed I tr... (526 words)

First date, first kiss... few concerns

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 October 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, i'm 15, and I got my first boyfriend last night. I'm really happy about that, i really like him, but there are a few things that are worrying me. 1: our first kiss Basically what happened is he kissed me for a long time and then asked me out. It was my first kiss ever. ... (297 words)

I love her and can't get over her but she only thinks of me as a friend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

27 October 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Please help me.Hai,i am loving my girl for last one year.we used to be good friends.always chats in mobile.i felt good with her.i have been in hostel for last two years.when i go to home,i see her and talks.she is near my house.all her's family know me well.days went by in ... (165 words)

What kind of a move do you meake when you know a girl is checking you out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 October 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi There, I need some advise on what to do if a girl is checking you out and you are checking her out. It seems girls don't make the first move but guys should. I went into a shop earlier and the girl behind the till was very attractive and she was checking me out, I w... (94 words)

What's the best way to approach money issues in a relationship in a sensitive way?

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27 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - what's the best way to approach money issues in a relationship in a sensitive way? my bf and i have been together 2 years, he proposed a few months ago to my surprise and we're now buying a house. we live separately right now. i rent a flat so am in a position to move right ... (356 words)

Has my boyfriend really changed?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

27 October 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have had a rocky 8 months to say the least, with my first ever boyfriend and now i'm just wondering has he really changed? I first met my boyfriend when i went back to school after missing a year, i was sent to learning support center, where he happened... (1369 words)

I haven't heard from my boyfriend and I'm worried that something happened!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Yesterday was my boyfriend's birthday, I was so excited to see him so I could give him gifts and stuff. I know his schedule for the day, he had work from 12:00- 6:00. So, I texted him at 10 in the morning, figuring that if he wasn't awake by then, he would be soon. Hours had ... (263 words)

I got too clingy! How can I show him that the old me is back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - please help ive made an awful mess of this. ok i have a good friend and during the summer we became close. hes been with a girl 5 years. she has a lot of issues which hes explained. she needs lots of space, goes out drinking with guys from work and takes holidays with them. ... (305 words)

Am I over-reacting about porn I found on his laptop when I checked out things on his laptop?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

27 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I'm a 25yr old Female. I have been with my bf for 6yrs now.both of us studied in the same uni where we met through common friends. A year later we moved in together.we have had few ups and downs but he has been an amazing bf through out. About two years back he comple... (714 words)

I feel as if I've lost myself . I love him but I've changed. how do I tell him I need "time out" without hurting him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

27 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for three and a half years. We love each other and all, but we've broken up and made up numerous times. I feel I've changed drastically from being the fun girl to being the obsessed girlfriend. I feel as if I've lost myself in the wa... (127 words)

How can I move on from my very loved ex? We broke up because he could not commit

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, Me and my newly ex boyfriend broke up a week ago because he decided he didn't have enough time in his life to commit so me and engage in a serious relationship that I really wanted, so we ended. We are still very much caring about each other and he really wanted to... (137 words)

I don't approve of boyfriends friendship with this girl. what to do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and I have been arguing for the past few days about his friendship with a girl who continuously flirts with him. he says the flirting has stopped after the first time I confronted him about her texting him saying"call me so j can give you something good to dream... (245 words)

She was the ONE. I'm still getting over our break-up. I would love to hear your thoughts on my issues please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 October 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - It's been almost three years since we first broke up. About two years since we actually spoke to each other even though we were hanging out within 5 feet at a friends about a year ago and still didn't actually speak. I don't know a lot obviously, but I do know she is almo... (235 words)

She is not demonstrative. Am I unreasonable being irked that she will not initiate any hugging nor kisssing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 October 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I've been a relationship for the past 2.5 years now. I'm 18 and my girlfriend is also 18 and we are each others first boyfriend and girlfriend. We have chosen not to have sex until marriage however there is always one thing that bugs me. I do dearly respect ... (519 words)

Do you think he wants me just for sex? He admits he had a STD test recently. Could he be a player?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been seeing this guy and we've been on three dates. He initiated everything from asking me for my number, to arranging for our dates, to paying for each one of them. Yesterday he invited me for drinks with his friends. They were mostly male and mostly his housemates (... (289 words)

My due date is soon. I'm really scared. So how can I get this fear under control?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - When my mum had my youngest sister 6 years ago she had really bad complications in pregnancy (eclampsia) She ended up really sick and to be honest it frightend me to bits as being 18 at the time, the memory is very fresh. I'm now expecting my first baby and my husband and I... (169 words)

It feels like people in this Gaming club hate me. How do I still enjoy the club and make friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4408 days ago

27 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I joined my school's gaming club, because I love gaming and I want to meet other gamers, but almost all of the people in the gamer club seem to hate me, because one time I was with one of their friends and they kept bugging me and I lost my temper and yelled at them to chill ... (187 words)

I think my girlfriend likes somebody else.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

27 October 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I try to be the best Girlfriend i can Be To MY Girlfriend, I think she like this Dude. He was on her, and they probably would have kissed if i wasn't righ by her side. I asked her do, she like him she said no, but i feel like she do.. I just need advice?? I can't tell if she ... (108 words)

Its my first relationship but it doesn't feel normal!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and this guy we have known each for 1 month now. We were complete strangers when we first met. Starting from the 5th day we known each he was talking about how much he loved me and how much he cares for me because of how much we have in common and making remarks about sex ... (671 words)

I have the hots for my sister's husband!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 36 F. I know what I think is wrong. but it is difficult for me to stand this. I think it is due to I am Pisces and he is Scorpio by Sun sign. I am interested in my younger sister's husband. We flirts and he calls me to talk personally. I feel he is interested too. How do I... (96 words)

I want to be more than a friend and study buddy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 October 2012 (?) age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I met this girl in university, I noticed her the first time she walked into the room, she sat by me. I never talked to her because I didn't want to fall for her. A few classes later, she talked to me. The first thing she said to me was, did you get your homewor... (351 words)

He is a player and a liar, and I had sex with him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

27 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy on a dating app. He came over in the weekend we drank some ciroc the biggest bottle between me and him we finished it, we was in my kitchen and he was trying to take my pants off and I looked at him and I said no, so he let me be. I liked the way he was he was ... (392 words)

Am I just loving him beyond his imperfections?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

27 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 3 years now and like any other relationship it had it's 'honeymoon' stage but our 'honeymoon' stage lasted for over a year which was an acheivement for both of us as we never had such relationships before. Sadly I was the one to ... (339 words)

Hubby won't get healthy for his own sake!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband used to be in very great shape (he was in the military.) But for the past several years, he's pretty much doubled his size (he's now 350 lbs.) He was working full-time until a couple of months ago, but now all he does is sleep all day - and when he's not doing that, ... (180 words)

She lives in his house, wears his clothes and has him at her beck and call... am I wrong to think this is out of order?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

27 October 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I both are 17. I have recently found out that one of the girls my boyfriend introduced to me as his sister is not, in fact, his sister. She is just a really close family friend. She has no blood or legal ties with him what so ever! Yet she is so close to his ... (485 words)

He did things with three different girls, but only told me there was two. Should I trust him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 October 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I got back with my boyfriend two months ago after breaking up with him due to are relationship just being a real mess. We broke up for about a month before getting back together but during that month we both made mistakes and just moved on too quickly with other people hoping t... (1049 words)

Why no call after weekend if he enjoyed it so?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 October 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My guy was interested in me several months before I knew. Finally he was able to tell me. I am 44 but don't look it and he is 26, very mature and level headed. We have officially been together over a month. Spent my birthday weekend together in relationship bliss. Departed on ... (115 words)

First meeting with his parents and I. Do I take a present and if so what?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My Boyfriend said he wants me to meet his parents next weekend and I am scared. We have been together now for 6 months and this is the first time he has suggested this. He said to me to not be bothered by his Mother. I asked him what he meant and he said she can be opiniona... (269 words)