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Archived questions from: 26 October, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Help me make a list of everything I need to take with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

26 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really looking forward to tomorrow. About mid afternoon I am meeting up with my boyfriend and going for a walk around a local park. Then we are going back to his house to get ready to go out to a mutual friend's birthday party, I will be completley getting ready in his ... (156 words)

We can't get married as we are two different religions... help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

26 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I met my partner in 2005, we were both in relationships, we shared every problem we encountered in our then relationships. In December 2010 I ended my relationship with my partner because he was jealous and abusive, then I got saved (born again)in March 2011. His relatioship ... (143 words)

My wife has been keeping secrets from me. What did she do in Vegas?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4422 days ago

26 October 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I were in Venice sitting on a hotel balcony overlooking the Grand Canal. We were joined by 2 girls in their mid 20s and a boy about the same age. Conversation let to what our favorite city was. When my wife's turn came she stated her favorite city of all time is ... (400 words)

We dated for a year. Then were told we're related. Is it wrong to stay together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

26 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been talking to this guy a year now and he's everything I wanted in a man. After the year was up we were told we were related. That hurt me to the core. We care for each other so much. Is it wrong to not let go? I wish I would have known from the start I would no... (74 words)

Is this just a rebound move on my part, considering I only just broke up with my Gf?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

26 October 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey- This may be a bit silly, but I was just wondering and I wanted to know what everyone thought. My girlfriend of a year and a half just broke up with me out of nowhere about a month ago (there was distance, and a lot of outside circumstances on her end, but pr... (300 words)

His Porn addiction is getting worse. It's bothering me. How do I raise my concerns so he'll listen?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

26 October 2012 (?) age 41-50 - I've been dating the same fellow for a couple of years now and the last number of months has giving me grown concern and I'm not sure how to approach or even handle this situation. I've always known that he has had tendencies to watch porn and booty shake videos on YouTube.... (173 words)

What happened to the concept that guys like a natural look? I'm invisible to guys when I go out with her!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

26 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Can someone explain what is so amazing about my friend that everyone likes her and all the guys i meet first meet first, set her and then want her!! On nights out she gets so much male attention you would think she was megan fox. She's mixed race and yes she is very beautifu... (409 words)

I get too wet during sex and it worries me that he can't feel me properly. Is there a solution possible?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4297 days ago

26 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone... Okay this is a kind of embarrassing problem and i'm really paranoid about it , its starting to affect my confidence and my sex life. So iv'e got 2 children 7 and 8 and im a good weight, healthy etc, thing is though, quite a lot lately everytime i have sex with ... (253 words)

I want to be friends, he wants a FWB

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

26 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This may be odd...but i need help. I met this guy at the beginning of my senior year, same age as me, and we obviously liked each other. We hung out once at his house and chilled and almost kissed. Then a week later he got into a relationship that lasted for about 7 months. I ... (165 words)

Was he fake or for real?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

26 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'd appreciate some thoughts on this situation. Recently on a business holiday, I met a man in fairly unusual circumstances. We clicked instantly. There was a very strong attraction both physical and spiritual. I think it kind of shocked us both a bit. We live in diff... (1573 words)

How does he always seem to turn up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

26 October 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - theres this boy who is always just turning up when I arrive in the cafeteria and I dont even have a really regular set routine. So how is it when I choose to go early there he is? When I choose to sit outside he just happens to walk up the path and asks can I sit here? He's ... (162 words)

I'm a guy who wants a relationship and just treat her right. So how do I make this happen?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

26 October 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - hi everyone, i've been speaking to thisgirl on facebook/tumblr etc. for a few months now and we met up once with her friends. then we organised to meet but the day before she stopped talking to me and we didn't end up going out. then she started talking again a few days lat... (249 words)

He's 64 and I'm not interested. How do I discourage him without ruining the car share system that benefits us all?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

26 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am part of a car share group where one drives and the other three are passengers. We rotate who drives. It works OK. In fact it's very convenient. But two days out of every fortnight there are either one or two of the others not present. Thes occasions become embarass... (408 words)

Would it be best to wait? New relationship: Is there really anytime where sex is to soon?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

26 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - after having my daughter 5 months ago, and her father leaving me while i was pregnant .. I Finally met someone amazing . He Makes me laugh , has a great personality , extreamly attractive , has a lot of things going for himself There's nothing i dont like about him . The... (129 words)

What is the exact way to deal with people who are egotistical but don't express their emotions easily?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

26 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, it seems that Guys who have the following characteristics are Egotistical to the max. Characteristics: Intelligent, Sophisticated, Reserved, Frank, Straightforward, Don't express emotions easily. Ive seen that such people are not chest-beatingly arrogant... (117 words)

He's looking at Porn every night. Is this what men do or is this unacceptable?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4432 days ago

26 October 2012 (F) - Mondote: Please provide your age next time you ask a question to help people who answer your question/s. Been with C for 8years, lived together for 5years and have an 8month old baby. Always had arguments about porn with empty promises about not watching it anymore etc.... (248 words)

Co-worker who I can't avoid. Why is she manipulative and cold with me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

26 October 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I need help with a woman that I come into contact with in relation to my work. We're not co-workers exactly, but she now teaches in the college where I am currently researching - she dropped out of PhD research to become a tutor whilst I carried on researching. I'm extre... (816 words)

He makes racist inappropriate comments. Now it seems he may have been seeing a local prostitute of the same race he vilifies. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

26 October 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend is nearly 40. He makes comments all the time if we are out and see an oriental woman with a man he immediately says "oh look it's bought your wife". He even said that my friend who was 27 and going out with a 42 year old was going out with an "old perv" becau... (357 words)

He's been an idiot to me. And now he's asking me what I'll name my children? is he just messing with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

26 October 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have history with a guy I've known since I was three. He's the same age as me, (15/16) and he's been a bit of a pain to me. He's messed with my feeling, said he liked me when he didn't, kissed me and used me. I've loved him for three years despite what he has done. He alw... (151 words)

I didn't cheat. How do I convince her? She will not talk to me, so what can I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

26 October 2012 (?) age 41-50 - My girlfriend of two years left me because she thinks I cheated on her But I didn't ... I tried to talk to her, to tell her the truth, but she will not talk to me at all. Seh has blocked me from her phone ... I'm soo. Soo in love with her my heart hurts so bad and I have ... (145 words)

She belittles me in public. Should I stay friends with her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

26 October 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My girl friend is from a richer home than me. i'm broke she can't assist me financially. When ever we are out for an outing and we happen to get into one dissagreement or the other,she tends to talk too recklessly and shout at me on the top of her voice in the public. After al... (83 words)

My ex is pleading for me to come back. How do I tell him I've fallen in love with another?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

26 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so I broke up with my boyfriend of 7 and a half years about a month ago. I just didn't feel like I was in love anymore and I want to feel this way and be happy/not miserable for the rest of my life. We had two dogs and lived together in a fairly quiet area. I would say ... (954 words)

Why would an almost stranger go through my bag in these circumstances?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

26 October 2012 (F)

- This is a very little matter indeed, but I come to you to find out (or confirm) if it is weird. I'm working with a family - a Father and daughter... they have asked me to adapt their daughter's book that she wrote when she was 6 into a play. Alright, very well. So I'm doi... (657 words)

Should I choose a different Doctor? When I met the new Doctor I realised that I've slept with him and his wife. He was professional when I saw him recently.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

26 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay this is an odd thing that happened to me, I went to the doctors because I have been having some bad neck pains so I just randomly picked a doctor and when I finally meet the doctor I actually know him and have slept with him and his wife when I was a single woman I liked ... (96 words)

What can I do? I feel embarrassed about how to approach a guy I used when we went on holidays together

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

26 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've done something so terrible and feeling bad about it. I went on a trip with a guy in summer and there i was mourning and crying about my ex all the time and he comforted me and was there for me instead of being mad at me he was being a good friend and helping me out w... (190 words)

Internet Online Dating and serious relationships - isn't it just truly a waste of time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

26 October 2012 (F)

age - Hi everyone, I am so disillusioned with internet dating. Over the past few years I have joined a few dating websites hoping that at some point I will meet a man, who I get along with, have similar interests/humour, share the same values in life, who is unattached and availabl... (305 words)

She's not just curvy anymore. I love my wife and she means a lot to me but why does she ignore my request that she please keep in shape? What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

26 October 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I have an issue. My wife and I have been together for 9 and a half year and married for 8. When we first started dating she was always trying to stay in shape. All the way up to our 4th year of being together. Then she decided to get too relaxed and started gaining weig... (254 words)