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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I want to have sex with my married ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4445 days ago

20 October 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex-girlfriend has come back into my life after a four year absence. After she broke off our engagement she had a baby with another man, who she broke up with afterwards. She is now married and has a second child. I have gotten over the bitterness and hurt, and I enjoy ... (164 words)

I cheated on my LDR boyfriend. Do I tell him or just end things?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

20 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I cheated on my long distance boyfriend. I got so lonely waiting around for him to return home. The relationship more or less is dead. Do I tell him or do I just break up? I feel so guilty. ... (39 words)

LDR equals dead end relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4445 days ago

20 October 2012 (M) age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend are in a long distance relationship. We have been for the last two years. I'm starting to miss being with her. We're both 18 and I think I'm wasting some of the best years of my life in a deadend relationship. Is it time to end things?... (51 words)

Can anyone give advice about a sexy surprise for my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4445 days ago

20 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to suprise my fiance with a sexy night. I no the obvious ideas are candles in the bedroom ect but we dont live together at the moment so i cant do anything like that. Tomorrow night were going for a meal and to the cinema then back to his and im spending the night. Is ... (81 words)

What is the simplest way to get a legal separation in Scotland?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4445 days ago

20 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi can anyone advise please what is the simplest way to get legal separation in Scotland. I have seen some sites but confused as some day best for both partners to go meet a solicitor while some advise its a form D8 that needs to be filled with a petition to be sent to the ... (98 words)

What will his little girl think if we get married?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4445 days ago

20 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am going out with a wonderful man. I work with him, he is lovely and I think we could work out. However, he is 39 and I am 29. We have been dating for two year. He has a little girl from his wife who sadly passed away four years ago. I love taking her out shopping and I do... (160 words)

We started out ok, he's grown cold and nothing I am doing is working!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4445 days ago

20 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy through my cousin, and it seemd like a good idea. We atrted texting, we met once but it was brief, and i knew there was just something about him. I thouhgt about him off and all, and he finally got my number. So we started texting, and we talked for a week before ... (317 words)

Is she shy, does she like me or is she giving me the brush-off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4445 days ago

20 October 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a crush on this kinda shy younger girl I work with. Anyway I was doing small talk with her. I told her my days off, then she told me hers. I asked if she was doing anything special this weekend and said not really and walked away to do work. Having said later she came up ... (122 words)

My gay girlfriend told me she was pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4364 days ago

20 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm having some problems. The other week my girlfriend told me she was pregnant. Now I'm not stupid enough to be thinking its mine, I'm gay, it's impossible, that's the problem. She's obviosly been with a man. I've not spoken to her since she told me. What am I supposed to do? ... (70 words)

The thought of an employee knowing my dark secret is making me ill!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

20 October 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I really don’t know who or where to turn to for advice- but I am extremely upset to the point where I feel like I cannot move on. First, I will let you know that I have been questioning my sexuality for a few years- and currently I feel that I may be gay or bisexual.... (422 words)

Flirts with me, gets a girlfriend, then continues to flirt with me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

20 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Here is the problem DC friends. I work closely with a guy who I have become friends with. He flirted with me constantly, got close, supported me through my divorce, and led me to believe that he wanted to be more than friends. I made the move and asked him out. He told me it ... (306 words)

I worry about how my boyfriend will cope when I am no longer around

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4445 days ago

20 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everybody, I have been dating a guy for 6 years and 3 months now,my first boyfriend,my first kiss,my first in many ways..we understand each other,there are at times where I don't have to say anything as to why I'm upset and he would just hug me and it would all be okay.. ... (212 words)

2 months after meeting online, how long should I wait for us to meet?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4445 days ago

20 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i've been talking to this guy i met on facebook for 2 months... he use to text me a goodmorning text now he doesn't... i don't know if he's intrested ... he was suppose to met up with me we live an 1hr and a half from each other ...but he didn't come and didn't call his anwser ... (97 words)

How do I get the attention of my crush?

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20 October 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - i really want my crush to like me, he doesn't come to my school anymore, but i do confirmation classes with him. i don't think i've ever wanted someone this bad for this long. so give me your strongest advices. the thing is that everyone likes this girl, she's really pretty, ... (172 words)

Should I have Had An Invitation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4445 days ago

20 October 2012 (F)

age - I had a platonic friend whom I had many holidays to many places-basically not sure if he fancied me but I didnt fancy him but were good friends. This was over many years so he must have had girl friends as well. He went on the internet and emt someone who lived reasonable... (267 words)

Should I take what he says when he's drunk seriously?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

20 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hi im 27 his 41 i love him so much he once told me that he wants to marry me but he was drunk when he told me. his a person who live a private life. i dont know if i should trust him on that i got one kid and his got six not seing the mommys anymore. im self employed i have ... (120 words)

I am Not Keen On Sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

20 October 2012 (F)

age - My problem is I have never liked sex very much. Its not an age thing Ive always been the same-Ive had a few relationships but they have always gone pear shape for that reasons. Whilst I realise sex is important to most men and women - I wonder is it possible that th... (131 words)

Am I getting mixed messages?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

20 October 2012 (F) age 30-35 - The joy of mixed messages! Or as I perceive them as so! There's this guy, as there always is, he's pretty cute and in my class at college! Anyway, last week, things seem to be going well (we hung out alone a few times and he made a few comments that were interesting/hint... (709 words)

Do guys who are unemployed really have a hard time dating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4433 days ago

20 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I really like this guy and I think he likes me too. One thing, he is unemployed but actively looking for work. He doesn't have much money which is not a deal breaker for me and I am not looking for money, just companionship. Well, this economy is really bad. I am working, and ... (118 words)

I still really love him, but I just don't know what's real.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4445 days ago

20 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - In February 2009, I met a friend of a friends at a local pub. I didn't think too much of him, but he was persistant to be around me and we started spending time together. I fell in love in a matter of days. He was everything I had ever dreamed of in a man. About two mont... (964 words)

My very loved mother is orthodox and traditional. How can I encourage my mother to support a more modern approach to how I live?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4445 days ago

20 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, Let me get straight to the point,I love my mother a lot,I know she always has my best interest in mind BUT having that said she's very very orthodox and traditional which annoys me. I'm a modern day girl with a different outlook towards life and there's always a... (289 words)

Am I paranoid or confused for thinking she is still in love with her ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4445 days ago

20 October 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I dated 2 years back,we broke up,she got married and is now divorced. We did get back together recently and have decided to get married. After seeing her her ex husband not too long ago(never made convo),I've noticed a change in her behaviour toward... (137 words)

She takes offence easily. I'm not sure if we're right for each other. Should I stay or leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4445 days ago

20 October 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - So i've been with my girlfriend for just over 3 years now but im not sure if i should stay with her or move on. We're both in our early 20's. She's the first real gf i've had and the only girl i've slept with. She really is a great person and i love her, but theres a few thi... (475 words)

He's gay but may be bi. Would hinting at my romantic feelings I have for him feel too weird to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4445 days ago

20 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone I thank you in advance for hearing my story and helping me out. I have a best friend i'm really into. He's gay but i think he's been having romantic thing with women.I gather this from things that he says. Anyway, I can't seem to stop thinking of him in a ... (229 words)

Was it wrong for me to finally object? His binge drinking and his obstinant attitude to trying to address his eczema has me fed up.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4445 days ago

20 October 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I need a bit of advice regarding my ex partner and his skin condition please - he had very bad exzema that flares up when he binge drinks. Despite the fact that this guy treated me really, really badly for nearly two decades - after more than two years of being separate... (1207 words)

Why will not one tell me why he needs time alone? Is this about me refusing the naked picture of me? He says it's not about me. He's 19 and my parents don't know about him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

20 October 2012 (F) age 26-29 - I'm 15 and my bf is a 4 yrs older than me. My parents don't know anything abt him. We didn't talk abt sexual things for a long time after we started this. But one day he asked me why won't you talk about such things with me. Then we started to talk about those things. Then... (472 words)

He ignores me now. Why would he do this? Is it that he just randomly just start hating me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4445 days ago

20 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, So there's a guy that I met a few months ago through some family friends, and when we first hung out, we really hit it off. We had a lot of fun. But as things progressed, I clued into my girl instinct and picked up a few signs that maybe he liked me. Let me just expla... (206 words)

How can I move past the size issue of my 4 inch penis? What might help me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

20 October 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Sigh* so lately I have been stressing out about what most guys stress out on. My penis size. I am about 4 inches long only and as for girth I'm not really sure but I know it is not that big either. It's been bothering me because everybody makes fun of me and it bugs me even ... (209 words)

He's older and I'm falling for him. He does flirty things with me. What can I do about his Birthday?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

20 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear higher power relationship gods and love gurus, There's this guy in my uni. He graduated already and he's in his mid twenties. he's taking only two classes here because he needs them for grad studies and he didn't take them in undergrad. Besides that, he has his own apar... (647 words)

She loved me, left me, and now wants to come back

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4445 days ago

20 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I had never been with a girl ever an then met someone in jan this year!! Fell for her head over heels an gave her my heart. An she used me and then dropped me in April to go back to her ex who had done the same to her!!! But I haven't moved on with anyone since cos I was so ... (165 words)

I need help dealing with very dry, coarse, curly, frizzy hair that is FRIED!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4445 days ago

20 October 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. This isn't a sex/relationship question, but I guess you could say it's a self esteem one. I have very dry/coarse/curly/frizzy hair that is FRIED! I will be getting regular trims from now on, but I desperately need tips as to what I can do it right now. I have read/tried ... (319 words)