A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I find myself tempted by 'shemales' i dont find men attacrtive but crossdressers and shemale i fantasize about, could this mean im gay? i mean what i'm after if a woman with a penis, surely that means i like penis? i'm scared because i dont want to be gay.
View related questions:
shemale Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2012): No, gay means you'd be attracted to other men, not shemales. They're not the same sex OP they're transgender.
OP sexuality isn't always black and white, you can be heterosexual and find the idea of a shemale appealing, or even be heterosexual and find the idea of being with another man appealing too. There aren't always strict labels to put on people so don't try and label yourself.
I'm heterosexual but experimented with guys when I was a teen, playing around with another guys penis was actually fun but it's not something I yearn for, I'm not attracted to men nor could ever romantically love a man but I'm pretty sure if I tried it again I'd probably still have fun. Does that make me bi? Some people may think so but I know it doesn't.
OP hetero guys being attracted to shemales is very normal, because it's basically a woman with the power and domination that comes with having a penis. Quite an appealing thing for a lot of guys, regular women will just never have that penetrative power, it's a type of dominance no woman can achieve.
A
female
reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (8 October 2012):
 nope it does not mean you are gay...
btw you may not WANT to be gay but it may be what you are...
but MOST cross dressers are heterosexual men..
do you find women attractive sexually?
...............................
|
