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Archived questions from: 29 October, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

WHere did I go wrong with my bf for him to diss me like this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

29 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - this is long.. but i really just want to know WHAT HAPPENED!!??!! I know i need to move on, and forgive myself.. but i just dont get WHY this person wont just admit what he did. I was with this guy for 4 years.. on and off. Off is when he would be mean and cruel to me unti... (698 words)

How to fall out of love with best friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

29 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Long story short; two years ago, I made the classic mistake of falling for a guy who I was in a "friends-with-benefits" situation with. I was a completely innocent, naive sixteen year old, and he was eighteen and pretty experienced. I'd love to be able to say that I just lik... (410 words)

Does my internet boyfriend really love me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

29 October 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - Does my internet boyfriend really love me? I know I'm doubting him. We've been going out for almost 2months now. He's 15 and I'm 13 1/2. I tell him I'm not good enough for him, and he responds with hearts (3) and says stuff like "You're the only girl I want" or "I'm lesbia... (129 words)

Could my breasts get larger without the side effects of the pill?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) age 30-35 - my breasts have grown bigger since i've been on the pill, but i didn't get and soreness or aching which i'm concerned about? Of course i'm not complaining, but is it possible that they can grow without any of those side effects? ... (42 words)

How do I ask out an older guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

29 October 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - there's a guy at work who i have really started to develop feelings for, we work together every week and have started to have a little bit of banter with each other, but i can't tell if he's flirting or just acting how he does with everyone else. i want to ask him out, but i'm ... (73 words)

My boyfriend ABANDONED ME far from home today!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4392 days ago

29 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - THIS IS A LONG ONE BUT PLEASE READ ALL OF IT AND LET ME KNOW WHAT YOU THINK: First of all, we have been together for 3 years. We're both 22 years old. We just moved in together a few months ago. We're both going to the same college full time. Today after I got home from sc... (640 words)

Could use a bit of advice... this girl sucks but I can't quit her

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

29 October 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - So I basically just need to tell someone this story and get some potential advice on what I should do. This is kind of a follow up to an existing post I have here: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-the-hell-happened-we-went-from-being.html So, since that time, I ... (736 words)

Is it too late to send a gift to a friend who helped me in a bad time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

29 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - i recently got a divorce and don't have alot of friends but one of my friends here offered me to stay with her. i lived with her for a month crying and moaning about everything but did not even get anything for her, just a card and i feel really bad about it. she hasn't kept in ... (98 words)

Is she playing hard to get? Or she's just not interested?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) age 30-35 - Ok so here's my question... At the beginning of this academic year at uni, when we had our introduction party, I met this girl. I saw eying me from across the room a few times and after a while I decided to join the conversation she was having. We ended up talking all even... (373 words)

After all this time I still can't get over my wife's deceit and betrayal..help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

29 October 2012 (M) age 51-59 - I am in a real mess and am extremely in distress. I hope I will get some help from here. Phase 2: Aster, marriage, kids and all other staff. Here is my story. I married my girlfriend of four years; only to find out she was unfaithful and lied about it. Meaning, our mar... (1653 words)

Its been 5 days and he has not contacted me. Any ideas why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4405 days ago

29 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I went for a drink with an acquaintance last Wednesday night. I wasn't sure if it was a date or not as we were sort-of-friends, but we didn't know each other very well, nor had we ever spent any time along together -- anyway, we had a really good time, he told me how excited ... (368 words)

Why doesn't my boyfriend say "I love you" to me in person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

29 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend said he loved me only two months into the relationship over a message. He then said it over the phone and then said it a few times in person. Now he doesn't say it in person but only over messages. Before when I used to leave him in the morning he would say it,... (212 words)

Vitamin supplements that could help improve my memory?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

29 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, Just a heads up its not a relationship question,but they are so many wise people out here,so I thought I would reach out to you guys.. So I have a very very important and life changing exam in december,and I'm putting in a lot of work and energy into it and I'm ... (117 words)

Am I bad for faking orgasms with my boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

29 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 26(F) with my boyfriend 25(M). We haven't been dating a super long time, but we fell in love and got very close very fast. He is wonderful, and I love the shit out of him and would do most anything for him. I can totally picture myself being with him for the long haul. ... (360 words)

I can't wait forever for my boyfriend to figure out what he wants!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4405 days ago

29 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 8 months, and I had been fighting a lot, I got fed up with him over a situation, and told him our future seems foggy, and told him how miserable I had been feeling, and he retaliated with saying he needed to take a break. Well, we have been on a "break" for a ... (430 words)

Why did my boyfriend start acting so strangely?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4405 days ago

29 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupids, This may be a bit of a long one so I am sorry in advance. My boyfriend of 7 months broke up with me yesterday due to the fact he had "fallen out of love with me" - The funny thing is the week before we were loves young dream... we did everything together shoppin... (560 words)

I can't stay wet during sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

29 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem, I can't stay wet when I have sex. I get really wet before hand then after 5 minutes I get really dry. Help?!... (27 words)

My boyfriend said I smelled bad during oral sex. What can I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

29 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend went to eat me out and he said that I "smelled bad" he didn't say it was fishy, just smelled bad. What can I do to fix this? I know I don't have any infections. Is there any soaps, cleansing pads, etc. I could use to fix this? Thanks!... (51 words)

What can I do? I'm devastated after an unanticipated breakup

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

29 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I am new here. I was with my ex for two years I thought we were so happy he was the best thing that ever happened to me. Yes we had arguments and it got really tough then he lost his job and I was paying for everything we had a flat in the end we got into loads of debt and ... (162 words)

If your 15 year old daughter had a boyfriend, how would you react?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

29 October 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so i am 15, and i want to tell my mom about my boyfriend. If your daughter came to you and told you this, how would you react? How would you want to be told?... (36 words)

I like two women. Do I date the one who is single or wait for the one who is separated?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

29 October 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello. I am not sure what I should do. I am in a very tough spot. :( This is the story. I like two women and have feelings for both and they both like me. One is single/available and the other is going through a separation. Do I start to date the available one or do I wait... (79 words)

I wish my boyfriend would be a little more affectionate!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

29 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is more of a id rather see you than Text or call you kind of guy. I dont remember him ever wanting to call or text me. Im usually the one who text messages first. I asked him if he feels anything when i txt him and he says no i just see youve texted me and txt back... (133 words)

Is 5 sex partners by age 21 ok?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

29 October 2012 (?) age 36-40 - Hi. I am curious whether it is ok/normal for a 21 year old boy to have slept with 5 girls. I am a 20 year old virgin and my boyfriend admitted he slept with 5 girls previously. I shouldn't have asked about his past, but I was curious and didn't want to be with someone who had ... (139 words)

My boyfriend couldn't keep his erection. Is it because he doesn't find me attractive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

29 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so I've been with my boyfriend for over 2 months now and this weekend we finally got some us time. Things began to get physical between us ( it wasn't planned jut felt right at the time) after some foreplay we decided it was time to take our relationship to the next lev... (162 words)

Is this a panic attack or am I just afraid of what happened?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4404 days ago

29 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i don't know if anyone will be able to give me a set answer but i was just curious, i find that when i talk about my past to my boyfriend about my mum and when she was ill, she died when i was young but i can remember it really clearly a lot of things are gone from my memory ... (195 words)

Did I ruin things before they could even begin?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

29 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear aunts and uncles. Please help me. I have totally muucked things up with a guy who I really like and who I think was perfect for more. I feel sick at what I have done, or more importantly how stupid I have acted. I am 31 and can't beleive I become some crazy woma... (410 words)

How do I stop from coming across as clingy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

29 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm afraid I come across as a clingy/ desperate person to this guy I'm dating. I don't have much experience and he's aware of this but I still don't want to make some major mistakes and annoy him. He initially asked to meet up and we have had a few dates now and already agreed ... (200 words)

How do I help my friend? She's afraid to tell her family that she might be gay

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4405 days ago

29 October 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My best friend and I come from two very different backgrounds, she's from a religious family who don't accept homosexuality, I come from a family who support gay rights. She was talking to me the other day and said that she was scared she might be gay, and that she couldn't... (205 words)

My husband left me for a 19 year old and took our kids with him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

29 October 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have two children, a 16-year-old son and a 21-year-old daughter. Me and my husband have been married for 20 years now. I'm 42, and he's 45, and recently he left me for a 19-year-old and moved in with her taking the kids. I'd gone out to work one day and found a note saying '... (307 words)

My partner is accusing me of cheating because of my body!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

29 October 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - i am in a relationship of more than 20years, now my partner is accusing me of cheating he told me that my vagina is loose from the outside i am worried because he said he will end our relationship and yet i have no cheated, please help me ... (48 words)

My man has no sex drive! what to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

29 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This is driving me nuts. I guess it's unusual for a girl to have this problem, but here goes... my boyfriend of six months has NO sex drive. He's on a very strong antidepressant which causes his sex drive to diminish. I, myself, am also on antidepressants. But my brand doesn't ... (227 words)

My mom is too overprotective! How can I change her thinking?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

29 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My mom is extremely annoying. She's overprotective of me since childhood, and continues to be so even into my 20's. I recently got into an argument with her when she declared that she thinks that its risky for a woman to be on tour alone or with a bunch of female friends, and ... (170 words)

I'm uncomfortable that my daughter with diabetes will inject herself in public. Am I wrong for feeling this way?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

29 October 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Okay, a very tricky question here. About a year ago my 24 years old my daughter suddenly developed diabetes type 1 - yes, type 1 where you have to take insulin - and ever since then she has to take insulin shots 4 times a day. We have no history of diabetes on my or her ... (713 words)

Am I being just unbelievably dense and she's just waiting on me to make move?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4400 days ago

29 October 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone, The other night I was at a party that some friends of mine were hosting and this mutual female friend of ours and comes by and asks to sit on my lap. So I said yes. Later, I told her to get up cause I had to go to the restroom and when I got back she got ... (241 words)

My lover just got engaged and I'm devastated!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

29 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i love my lover a lot... more then everything but now he got engaged with someone else... so what should i do ? how can i forget him? in these days i am suffering from very bad condition i want to forget him now... plz help me soon...... (48 words)

Why did he stand me up???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4406 days ago

29 October 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I met a guy on a dating site a little bit over a month ago. And since day one we would text every day. He was looking for friends at the moment since he had just gotten out of a 2 year relationship two months prior to meeting him on this site. we would take turns texting, one ... (393 words)

Why has he contacted me after 5 months? Does he want me back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4371 days ago

29 October 2012 (F)

age - Hello everyone, I have had no communication with the guy I was in a friends with benefits (FWB) relationship with for the last 1yr 4 months - now 5 months later I receive an email from him out of the blue saying 'Hope you are fine. Tell me what is going on? Can we what?'. ... (241 words)

Just when I thought I was over her, the feelings have returned with a vengeance! How can I let her go for good?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

29 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I am in a bit of an odd situation here... So, many years ago back in 10th grade, I met a girl, and fell hopelessly in love with her. I thought about her every single day. She was perfect to me, and I connected with her on an intellectual leve I'd never felt befor... (452 words)

This is a very bad situation, but who do I choose ? And how do I solve this problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

29 October 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - ok, worst situation ever. the type that makes a man not feel like a man. ill try to keep this extra short.. this all started 2 and a half years ago. at the time i had been with my girlfriend for seven years. we fought all the time. arguing. screaming. almost each a... (854 words)

Is my Bf involved sexually with an older lover? He says no. His text to her implies yes. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

29 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Am I over reacting or what? My boyfriend has an older lady friend who stays at our house quite frequently, helps us out a lot. They've been friends longer than I've been around and she's like 20 years older than him so I never thought twice about leaving them alone together... (252 words)

Am I over reacting? Can I forgive him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

29 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I had a rough start to our relationship. We started out rocky...but we did dated and we've been together for 2 months (6 months prior online). I wasnt really honest with him, I was a virgin and we both had sex (he was a virgin too). We lost our virginity to... (399 words)

FWB problems. Do I keep waiting for him or just stop seeing him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

29 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm currently talking to this guy as fwb but he treats me as if we were more than that. We had sex last week and I texted him today and asked him to come over, clearly this ^^^^e want a piece of ^^^ but that was what I wanted tonight. He asked me if I was alone at home, a... (119 words)

He's a great guy, but modestly uptight...should I give him a chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4406 days ago

29 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey Cupid, I need some advice. I struck up a conversation with this guy over the summer and we hit it off pretty well. Since our second date, we've established contact on the phone and he's a nice guy to talk to. Personally I feel as though we have a lot in common a... (399 words)

My girlfriend's told me she's not willing to be with me if I follow the career path I think I want?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4395 days ago

29 October 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - To give you guys a little bit of background, I'm a student at uni deciding on my career options. I'm in a long distance relationship and have been throughout my time at uni. We met at high school, fell in love and have been with each other ever since, despite being at ... (813 words)

Do I tell my former teacher how I feel and risk ruining our friendship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

29 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a freshmen in college now about to be 19. For the past 4 years I spent in high school, I grew extremely close with my high school band director: single, no kids, late 20's. Problem: I have developed STRONG feelings for him, perhaps even fallen in love. We are extremely ... (190 words)

My husband doesn't care for me because I am unemployed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

29 October 2012 (F)

age - My husband doesn't care for me anymore because I am unemployed. I am looking for a job, but we are so far in debt he just blames me for all the financial situation that we are in. I am 59 now and have health issues, so it is hard to find a job, but I am willing. What can I do ... (69 words)