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writes:ok so me and my gf has been dating for 2 years we have broke up a few times for space and 1 time bc i cheated.things have been great till the past 2 months, everything is comein back up. well now its like she wants to be with me, like she loves me, but she ignores me at times and really never honest with me it seams.but recently found out that she is in a bitch mood, selfish mood. she tryin to get over it but im afraid that we are not goin to make it. i keep tellin my self its a bump in the road its a test of our love but idk wat to do.iv tried buyin things. iv tried talkin more, bein with her more. sex is no problem. thats 1 thing we are good at i might add. but is a problem in our life right now and im confused on how to fix it.we have been tryin but idk if i should give her space or be there for her more can any 1 help me???
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (8 October 2012):
 It sounds like you've made effort, you've tried, but it's just not working. The fact that you guys have been off and on, off and on, makes me think that perhaps it's just not meant to be.
It could be that she is having a hard time forgiving/forgetting what has happened in the past. That's fair, it's hard to move on from cheating. That could explain her distance and moodiness.
Maybe it's time to break up for real. Spend some time dating other people and understanding yourselves. If after a few years you find your way back to each other, then you know it was meant to happen.
Good luck!
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