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Archived questions from: 19 October, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is giving a blow job to another guy cheating? My Bf is getting all worked up about what I did.

This question has 33 answers - newest was posted 3837 days ago

19 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This is just a quick one so you guys can help see my bf that he is over reacting. We've been going out for just over 1 year and we are very much in love. at the start of the relationship we did everything that we could possibly do both socially and sexually. so in the bedroo... (199 words)

Since I kissed another boy I'm putting my Bf's feelings before her wishes and she does not like it. Am I losing her as a friend because I refuse to go drinking at her home?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4455 days ago

19 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - well about 4 weeks ago i told my boyfriend that i cheated on him twice, by cheating i mean i kissed them. We're not back together but we are working on things. We still see each other as much as we did before all this happened. He just wants to see if he can forgive me and l... (286 words)

Is she distracted? No longer cares? She cheated on me last year. And now she's forgotten my Birthday. Will things ever go back to how they were?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4455 days ago

19 October 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi guys, hope you are well. I will go straight to the point, my wife forgot my birthday and I can't help but feel so sad. She remembered a few minutes to Mid-night and said happy birthday and apologised. I don't know what to do because over a year ago she cheated on me, we wo... (108 words)

She's single now. How do I start a conversation with her that could hopefully turn into a date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

19 October 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - hi everyone I was at college for a year and i liked a girl in my class for a while but i was a little shy and barely spoke to her but we spoke a little about little things etc. I couldn't ask her out as she had a boyfriend. since then about a year and a bit has past and we... (133 words)

Texting friend: I want to know if he likes me. He has trust issues from past relationships.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4455 days ago

19 October 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so I don't know how to word this but last night me and the guy i like were texting each other, we were talking about past relationships. His past , as i have never been in a relationship. He then asked on the end of the text if i like anybody at the minute. I didn't know ... (143 words)

Claim to be my friends. Make plans in front of me. Then exclude me. What can I do about this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4453 days ago

19 October 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - i hate them all!!! you have no idea!! first off they're always make plans without me, and really cool interesting plans every week which really irritates me. they plan then out loud in front of my face and block me out the whole group, the whole circle, everything. ... (380 words)

I can't tell where I stand with this guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4455 days ago

19 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This is going to be kind of long, but I’d appreciate any help I can get because I’m really confused right now. About two months ago I started talking to this guy I worked with over the summer. Every time we’d have the same shift we would talk on our breaks. I found out a lot ab... (835 words)

Upset that my crush used me, and now we're moving next door to him! How can I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4455 days ago

19 October 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have fantasised about something for a while and it's coming true. My fantasy is that I would move next to my crush of three years. I'm an only child living with my mum and dad in a two bedroom house. My mum is pregnant and we have to move into a bigger house. It just so happe... (255 words)

What if you never meet the right person?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4455 days ago

19 October 2012 (M)

- It's struck me. What if you never meet the right person. We all dream of meeting someone we love, who we're attracted to and and who makes us happy but what if that just doesn't happen. What if we never meet the right person? What if we meet someone we thought was the ... (105 words)

Could my crush be hinting about things?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4384 days ago

19 October 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - me and my crush hugged, face to face, my arms around his neck and his hands on my bum, does it mean anything?. we r quite close, we joke about, hug allot, he squeezes my bum, we wait for each other after classes and talk all the time, he admitting to liking me last year, and ... (123 words)

I feel my girlfriend is rushing our relationship. 6 months and a LDR and she's talking of marriage!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4454 days ago

19 October 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this girl long distance of 6 months now, and we are planning to move in together in 2 months. She has had many more sexual partners and failed relationships as well as a marriage when she was still young. Where as this is my first real relationship and the ... (383 words)

Should I offer myself to this guy for two months before I move abroad? I don't want to look like an idiot'

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4455 days ago

19 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I want to make a deal with this guy but I am not sure if it is normal to do so or how to get by doing the deal without looking like an idiot or making a fool out of my self. I am moving out of the country end of this year as I just signed a contract to work f... (314 words)

I have Aspergers and I'm bisexual. How do I find someone (preferably a woman) to date in my small town?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4455 days ago

19 October 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - i am 26 years old from the United Kingdom, and have Asperger's Syndrome. I have a brother but I only see him now and then as he has his own life in another county, and a job. I enjoy life, do voluntary work including some with elderly people [mainly IT tuition sometime... (538 words)

Follow up: my husband has disappeared 6 weeks after we got married.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4455 days ago

19 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Thank you for your help on my question at http://www.dearcupid.org/question/married-six-weeks-and-now-he-has-left.html I'll clear up a few things for you now; He's Canadian, born in Vancouver, well Scottish-Canadian to be exact, his ancestors emigrated here in the 17... (432 words)

My husband's interactions with other men make me very uncomfortable, is he gay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4449 days ago

19 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been having suspicions that my husband could be gay for awhile now. When he is talking to other men he is a little to friendly when talking to them. He has friends he talks to that I have never met.When he goes to shake another man's hand he holds on to their hand a ... (219 words)

I have literally no interest in girls whatsoever, is there something wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4455 days ago

19 October 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, Somehow I am not interested in relationship with any girls. I have no idea why. It makes me feel really weird since almost of everyone at my age is talking about girls, whilst I am just not so interested. I have a lot of female friends and in fact peopl... (151 words)

What do I do next? This Crush is eating me up. Does he have an interest in me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

19 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I have a crush issue that is eating me up. I met this guy(he's a colleague) over a year but we just started talking as friends recently. He is a graduate, and I am just finished my graduate education in the same university. The issue is that while I was al... (612 words)

It seems that I'm always the one tying to maintain the friendships. How do I cultivate friends who seek me out to go places and do things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4454 days ago

19 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what is it with me and friends. A little about me: I just graduated and now I'm going to start my second BA. I paint, I'm also a singer I am into mountaineering. I have friends when I am a part of an institution eg. College or a school but otherwise I have onl... (186 words)

Could it be that working with so many women (aged 30 to 50s) that is causing me daily angst? Should I change jobs?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4455 days ago

19 October 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - alright im a young male and i just got a job with 40 "mothers." All but one of them in there late 30's to early 50's. I've noticed that lately i have been worse. When i had just hit puberty I was horny all the time to where masturbation didn't do anything, and im so angry wh... (152 words)

Is this too much to take? Should I stay or should I go?? HELP

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4455 days ago

19 October 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - After six months with a person I have fell in love with I'm sitting here questioning if I should stay with her. She's the type of girl I could see spending my life with but she's also the type of person that drives me insane! I've never had a connection with a girl like thi... (839 words)

How do I get hope back into my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4455 days ago

19 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 30 years old and have achieved nothing in my life that is worthwhile. I am a serial procrastinator, I cannot be bothered to do anything - I have no motivation at all and just feel like what is the point?. I make lists saying I'll do this, this and this but nothing ever... (180 words)

I don't want to hurt him. I want to keep him as a friend. So how do I let him down nicely?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4455 days ago

19 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - There's a really sweet guy in my algebra class and he's asked me out. I like him, but don't. He's a really good guy and is more friend than anything else. I told him I don't want to ruin our friendship but he wants to try. I'm confused and I've gone to different friends for ... (93 words)

If someone was so horrible in the beginning of the relationship can they completely change and learn better ways to behave?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4455 days ago

19 October 2012 (?) age 30-35 - After two years, I'm back! What's funny is, I can still look at questions I've asked over my (going on) four year relationship. I love my fiance', but there have been so many problems, I'm shocked we've lasted this long. Faced everything from his lying, his past drug abuse,... (582 words)

How do I get through this time? I feel overwhelmed since being expelled from school

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4455 days ago

19 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I feel like if everything has been going wrong lately. It all started in April when i got expelled from school, it was my senior year, i was supposed to finish this December. What happened wasn't really my fault and hopefully the school may realise this... (352 words)

If he doesn't want to be with me then why is he flirting so much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4456 days ago

19 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I started a new college this year as a junior. Being new, I mainly started hanging out with freshmen because they understand what it's like being new. I met this guy, George, and we really hit it off. He's 19 and I'm 20, so I only thought of him as a friend at first. ... (313 words)

How can marriage be so special if people just move on and pretty much forget the past?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4450 days ago

19 October 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - OK, this is a little deep but I know some will understand where I'm coming from. My wife and I have been happily married for 14 years, but she said a couple things that have always stuck with me. She casually said one day " well if we hadn't married each other, we probably ... (137 words)