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Archived questions from: 13 October, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Divorced partner has asked me to move into ex marital home but its full of reminders of his ex wife. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

13 October 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I'm middle aged and have been dating a man for over two years. I have my own house, which is paid for. He also has a house that after his divorce he bought with a girlfriend. I recently found out, that when he was married they were friends with another married ... (212 words)

How do I stop my obsession with a celebrity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

13 October 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hy. Lol its kinda funny what s happening to me right now. Im so inlove with a male celebrity "Rob Evans". Gosh! Im so obsessed with the guy to such an extand that i cant date any guy because of my obssession..im like imagining what would happen if i was to meet him, u ... (76 words)

Did he lose interest in me? Relationship going downhill. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4421 days ago

13 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys soo I have a really good boyfriend he's respectful and sweet and caring but I still feel kind of unwanted and unimportant to him lately, he spends little time with me and more time with other girls and guy friends and he always seems to have more fun with them. He use... (223 words)

A guy randomly called me beautiful! Does he like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

13 October 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I went to the store today and a guy who works at the store just randomly came up to me and told me I am so beautiful. We chatted a little and then I left. I was surprised because guys barely hit on me and I have never had a boyfriend, been asked out, or been on a date. I ... (89 words)

There are decent guys like me who get no where. Why do some girls allow guys to treat them in disrespectful ways?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

13 October 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My friends are always giving me a hard time calling me nasty names because they say I treat girls "too nice". At first I use to brush it off but now it is getting really old hearing them go on and on about how I better check to see if I still ahve my balls. I was raised t... (358 words)

Do I stay or go? Our relationship is one sided and there is no sex. Even though sex isn't everything

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

13 October 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so been seeing this girl for 7 months first as a friend. I asked her out after 2 months. She said she needed to talk to her brother to ask if it was ok but she never did ask. After 3 months of hanging out we finally had sex Then one night where she was too drunk to drive h... (316 words)

Once people change do they ever change back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

13 October 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - When someone changes, do they ever change back? I ask because I was extremely good friends with a guy. He was a strict christain, he cared for and helped people, and he had strict value against no sex unless you're contemplating marriage. It was never something he really ... (770 words)

Relationship issues: why do I always allow girls to make me feel bad? It makes me feel ill.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

13 October 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My question is quite simple - why do i always let girls make me feel bad? what i mean is i fall for a girl really easily and then i get so disappointed when it doesnt work out. Its happened so many times now. The most recent - id started seeing a girl and we'd spent a few ... (197 words)

Is it too early to do this? Should I allow this boy to come into my tent while we are camping and share my sleeping bag?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

13 October 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 14 (girl) I have been talking to this guy that I met the other day, we have been sending hearts. He's coming camping with me and one of my friends and one of his. He wants to if he can sleep in the swag (sleeping bag) with me, is it to early for anything?... (57 words)

If I share some secrets with her will it be the right thing to do, or will it freak her out? And what should I do about my depression?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

13 October 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - So I have this thing where I feel like I need to completely share myself with my girlfriend. I want to so desperately, but there are some things deep down that I just can't bring myself to share, for fear of judgement or complications in the relationship. When I think a... (171 words)

Do you think this guy likes me? Or is just being nice?. I'm curious to know more about him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

13 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So, last week was my sister's birthday. She loves to collect CDs, so I went to buy her a few from this music store. When I walked in, it was a pretty classy place, actually. And I saw this really cute guy working there. He asked if he could help me with anything, and I told h... (280 words)

Do some people throw away their real relationship for the sake of online affairs?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

13 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am wondering after ending a relationship due to his compulsive cyber cheating, whether it can be seen as something addictive. I have noticed a lot of questions on here about it. Do some people throw away their real relationship for the sake of online affairs?... (46 words)

Is a four year age difference such a deal breaker? We broke up. I still love her. Will this work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

13 October 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a man 21 doing a Degree and in my second year. I have been dating a gal a four years older than me for four years. But last year we talked about our age difference and asked if I was going to work. After sometime, I felt intimidated n stopped giving her the attention sh... (179 words)

A year after my husband's death - should I start dating again? Even though I'm still grieving?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

13 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi agonyaunts, I was married for 4 years About a year ago I my husband died from a disease! my life has become a mess since,every day I decided I would do something productive but all I do is wear his shirt and cry myself to sleep.. everything reminds me of him in this ho... (214 words)

My boyfriend's mother is undermining my relationship with my Bf. I know she's ill,but why does she do this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4421 days ago

13 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everybody, My boyfriend of 4 years has been nothing but wonderful to me,but things went upside down since last 4 months.. My boyfriend's mother lives with us,the reason being she's really ill and needs supervision..but I think she doesn't like me. I try so hard but she just... (142 words)

Advice on how to stop worrying over someone's sexual past?

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

13 October 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Okay so for those of you who are going to say "get over it" or "the past is the past" please dont bother. For the rest of you here is the problem. I am a virgin, i have only ever kissed(by kissed i mean a peck that lasted 1 second) a girl before, ive never had a girlfriend ... (240 words)

Can someone please tell me what 'treating a girl like a Princess' is all about?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

13 October 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - what is all the stuff about boyfrinds treating their girlfriends like a princess about Sorry I am clueless about this. How is this done? What do I do? why is it required?... (32 words)

Am I really in love with this guy or does it sound like a physical attraction? How can I tell the difference betwen like, love and just physical attraction?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

13 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid How do we know whether we truely someone or its just physical attraction. I'm with this Guy for 2 years, I love him a lot. I never thought he is really handsome or anything, but its something in him I don't know want, makes me crazy about him. I wouldn't trade ... (122 words)

Why do guys do things like this? Did he change his mind? Do I just forget him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4422 days ago

13 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I like this guy and I asked him if he wanted to hang out and he said Sure! :) And after I asked if he could pick me up he said no problem and asked what time? He said Then he said I don't know. I'll have to see. BUT then he never texted back. Did he change his mind?... (67 words)

Lost my baby to SIDS in Feb. My husband is totally unsupportive to me and only wants sex. Is it time to leave and take my daughter with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

13 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hey guys i have been married since 2007 we have a 3 yr old girl. When i met him i was so in love but then came him being outside all day with the guys. We lost the relationship we had He never has interest in finding a job to support us. It's basically my daughter an... (237 words)

Four months absence. Some tips please on how to look amazing for him when he returns and we go on a date together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

13 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a boyfriend who has been to america and is home next week. I havent seen him for 4 months as thats how long he goes away for. On his first night back when i will be first seeing him we have arranged to go out for a meal and then onto the pubs/clubs. I am just look... (110 words)

Please help me. Should I confront my hypocritical and abusive father?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4421 days ago

13 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This is kind of long because it all relates I appreciate you reading and helping I'm in my mid twenties in grad school and I live with my parents. I am also a massage therapist. I work at a wellness center an hour away from home as well as have my own office in another city ... (1130 words)

I am confused by his actions. Can a man concurrently and happily live with his wife, make love to his wife, and care about his children while occasionally having sexual affairs with men?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

13 October 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband of 16 years of marriage has admitted to a gay affair and numerous indiscretions with men for the last 6 years. I was devastated and even though 8 weeks have passed I feel a little bit stronger. I have been receiving counselling to come to terms with my feelings... (207 words)

Pregnant but still having an affair - please help!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4422 days ago

13 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I know I will be judged for this but I don't have anyone or anywhere to go with this one. I'm 6 months pregnant with my husband. Just before I got pregnant, I left my husband. Things had been bad for a while and I was falling for another man. This other man is also married... (548 words)