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Archived questions from: 30 October, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I can't date him but don't want my friend to date him either!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4435 days ago

30 October 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I've recently joined a band and have feelings for member in it. He asked me if I liked him but I didn't want to make things awkward in our band so said know even though I really like him. Over the last few days a friend of mine has been talking to him and I think they both ... (118 words)

My boyfriend cheated on me. Has anyone taken their cheating boyfriend back?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

30 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - FIrst my question is, is there anyone out there who took their boyfriend back after cheating and is still happy today? With trust and no more cheating? My story: My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years now. He is my first and only boyfriend. At th... (351 words)

My fiance said her ex was a better lover.

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 2888 days ago

30 October 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone, sorry for the long post,this is the first time asking a question, although I have been reading many posts here trying to come to terms with something that happened to me recently. I have just recently come back from Europe where I asked my FI to marry me. I h... (1202 words)

What are your best survival tips to help you and your loved ones in a Super Storm like Sandy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

30 October 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - to all the wonderful people in Dear Cupid affected by Super Storm Sandy my Good Wishes to you. Such natural events can have repercussions on family life, relationships, friendships and cause personal pain. Wherever you are, if you've missed flights to meet up with family, att... (168 words)

After sex I feel like I have used my girlfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4433 days ago

30 October 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - everytime i make love to my girlfriend after i climax i feel really bad like i have used her a sense of failure and disgust, does every guy feel that ??... (31 words)

After 3 dates she broke up with me because she said I acted like I didin't like her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

30 October 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, this girl i have been seeing has just 'dumped' me, so i was wondering if you help me pleease cos im gutted! basicly i had 3 dates with her, they were all good, i enjoyed them, and she ses she enjoyed them too, and yesterday morning she just randomly dumped me saying... (358 words)

Timing seems to be my biggest enemy here so will waiting fix that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

30 October 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone, I had a general question to ask. A little backstory: I'm dating someone, but we're not bf/gf. Both 17 and seniors in high school. I asked her out and she said she needed to hang out with me a little more. Two months later as I yesterday she tells me she can... (324 words)

So much porn on boyfriend's computer has really grossed me out

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

30 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so I've had issues with my boyfriend and porn from the gate im insecure and hes bot very understanding of that but whatever just some history for ya .... Anyway I went to his pad to do some work for my college courses i'm in and ( we have been together her 7 years hes 41 i... (216 words)

Is my boyfriend stealing from me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4431 days ago

30 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont mean to accuse my boyfriend, but when I was out with him the other week when i did NOT spend a penny, and I went out with 10 pound, I came back with no money at all, not even for the bus. I thought nothing of it until the other day where I lost 15 pound, I only lose the ... (78 words)

Does he still love me? Or there is another girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

30 October 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Im a 15 year old girl and i've dating my bf for 2yrs. We met at school last yr that where we started dating,my problem is that this yr since we in different schools he doen't call or send me sms,when i try to call him he always says "i can't talk right now" then he will drop ... (94 words)

Did my alcoholic husband cheat on me, and was it to get back at me for cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

30 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband has a drinking problem and likes to stay out later than I think is right especially on weekday nights. Things haven't been going well for us and on Monday we decided that he should stay in the camper for a little while. On Thursday morning I had an emergenc... (318 words)

My partner is too close to his sister and confides in her about our relationship. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4434 days ago

30 October 2012 (F)

age - Started dating some time ago. Brief history of family. I am widowed. Happily married for thirty years. Have one son, daughter in law and three grandchildren. Relationship is good. Have good relationship with my two brothers and their wives. My Boyfriend has been married ... (634 words)

Girlfriend is pregnant and wants an abortion but I don't want her to.. How can I deal with this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4432 days ago

30 October 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have been dating my girlfriend for a year we just found out she is pregnant - at first she said she was getting an abortion then she changed her mind and was talking to our baby, now she says she is going to get rid of it. I am a very honest and caring guy, I don't think ... (122 words)

Boyfriend won't do the things I need to make me climax. What should I do?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

30 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - The only way I can cum is with penetration and breast stimulation at the same time. Time and time I've asked him to touch me and to suck on me, but my boyfriend of 9 years won't do it for more than ten seconds. He gets to cum, but I never can because I can't unless he gi... (89 words)

Boyfriend often visits Facebook of a sexy bikini girl as an entertainment. Is it okay for a serious relationship with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4433 days ago

30 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. The matter I'm going to talk about is: Faithfulness! (oh yeah old issue) *** Brief of the matter: I've just found out he often visits Facebook page of a sexy party clubbing young girl; and sometimes leaves comments, link of song, flirting her as a hobby or a kind o... (581 words)

Does anyone else have this problem where you're really good friends with someone one day, and the next day you wish you weren't?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

30 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Like, I will be the first to admit that I love making online friends. It's so much easier to communicate, and there's no judgement in between. It's fun, right? But there's one guy I'm friends with. I've been online friends with him for about... 7 years. I met him when I was in ... (287 words)

What did I do? Did I scare him off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

30 October 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I meet a guy online.. I like him a lot...we exchanged numbers The conversation was great, he even said... He wants to take me out.. Then something happens to his phone we get disconnected , he calls back and said sorry..my phone is dying, then I said oh I thought it was anot... (144 words)

I don't know what's wrong with him. He's being a jerk out of nowhere. PLEASE, I need advice.

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

30 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry if this is a bit lengthy, but it's well worth the read. So, my boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months. We broke up in August because I had an attitude problem, but it was my birth control that made me have an "attitude problem". I am NOT mean, it was proven t... (481 words)

Has my ex really changed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

30 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Has he really changed? I broke up with my boyfriend a couple of months ago as I felt he was moving too fast with the relationship. He stayed persistently trying to get back together and said he has learnt so much about himself. Says he understands all my previous concern... (373 words)

Why do I still think about my old crush, especially when I'm upset

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

30 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My last flame/crush was a nice guy. He wasnt my usual bartender or rock-star with rip jean n tatts[it a style that most of them had]But we notice each other from cross the room at uni coffee shop, both us got caught checking the other out. . Kept smiling, stealing secret ... (519 words)

Our children are the only glue holding our marriage together!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4432 days ago

30 October 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - It seems to get harder and harder. my wife and I have been through alot a couple seperation a near divorce(10 days away from siging). when my kids were very little 2 and 6 months. I went back to school full time and worked full time and was only ever home on the weekends. which ... (798 words)

What are the signs if a man loves you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

30 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid i need help,i met a guy from Jamaica on a dating site 3 weeks ago.And im starting to fall in love with him and i told him,and he said he feels the same.And he said hes coming to my country in 7 months time.So i want to i dont know if he means it when he say he loves ... (69 words)

Long term boyfriend looking up ex girlfriend on facebook!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

30 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this may seem dumb but I need some advice on how to deal with this. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years planning our marriage now. he is my first. from the beginning I knew he had an ex. nothing special from what he told me. now after 5 years I foun... (328 words)

Why is it that he only really talks to me when he's horny?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

30 October 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey guys so my boyfriend and I and I have been going out for a little over 2 months. Something that I noticed in our relationship is that he only really talks to me when he's horny. I try to make conversation with him but he always runs that with a one word answers. I tol... (90 words)

Random girls? no problem. So why do I have semi-ED with girls I really like ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

30 October 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone, i have this lil problem thats driving me crazy :( here is the situation, its about premature ejaculation but the thing is , it never happens to me with random girls that i randomly pick up at clubs and bars. i can last as long as i want and have great sex w... (194 words)

Too many arguments. Where is our relationship going? Whats the best way to handle this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4430 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) age 41-50 - My boyfriend and i have had a few arguments recently. Each time, it comes back to 'where is this going' (our relationship). We have been together for 3+ years but on a few things we can't agree on, so each time, he always brings it back to where is it going, whats the point in... (326 words)

For Girls: First Impressions when you meet a guy - is 5 foot six inches tall enough for you? Or do you prefer taller?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

30 October 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello This question is mostly for girls Do you find attractive a guy who is 5.6 feet or maybe girls want a guy who is taller. Well I know some responses may be 'a guy must be loyal,caring etc' but my question is related with first impression. Thank you girls... (54 words)

What is the reason? I texted him for the first time, said my name in the text, and he has not replied?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

30 October 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - To keep it short, im 80% sure that my crush actually likes me back. So a week ago my friend Nick helped me ask for his number, he seemed to be a little bit happy about this and he knew i was the one who wanted his number. And he acutally said 'remember the number' to my frie... (154 words)

Why does he need to date one last girl before he can commit to me? Should I wait while he does this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

30 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Help me please ? I am devastated by the fact that the guy I am dating told me he needs meet one girl to be sure he really loves? The guy I date said he thinks he loves me and we have been seeing each other for 3 months now. We were making plans to move together we have a w... (782 words)

Still single and sick of it. How do I put the Zippity Do Dah into my life and Spice things up enough, to learn how to successfully date and become a partner to a nice girl?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

30 October 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I posted here before 4 years ago. I imagine you probably receive hundreds of messages like this regularly. I thought long and hard about whether to actually send it. I actually wrote something sinilar to this at the beginning of the year just after Valentine’s Day but didn... (636 words)

Husband is away. I'm feeling horny. Should I give in and be unfaithful while my husband is away?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

30 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Am a girl of 26 married with two kids. My husband traveled out of the country a year and 5 months now I don't know when he will be coming back. The problem is that am feeling lonely and horny, many guys do comes around to have sex with me, which i never wanted because i wa... (110 words)

Guys please: Considering that I'm a 20 year old virgin, the question is, am I doing something wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

30 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 20 years old and still a virgin. I should also start by pointing out that I'm not fat or ugly, in fact I'm blonde with big boobs (both of which are real), a small waist and really good skin (I swear I'm not super up myself). I've dated (but not a lot), and have never h... (122 words)

Do my husband and I give in to my MIL's demands? What can I do about this pressure? Should I call my MIL?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

30 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I need your help. My mother in law complains that i dont call her enough. But i dont feel compelled to call her often because when i call she wll be finding fault with me all the time. Either i have not done this or that corectly. Recently i found out sh has been communi... (356 words)

Why is he so interested to see the inside of my home? Does this mean he wants to get serious?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

30 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello y'all , I have been dating a guy for a few months - close to 3, but I have known him for a while. We were friends before anything happend. Things seem to be going well, we don't text every day, more like every other and I see him once, sometimes twice a week. Which... (196 words)

My Gf will not give up on me and yet her loyalties are divided. She's cheating again. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

30 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My gf is torn between two. She left me in the past for this women and she is currently is doing it again. So I broke it off but we still live together and she sits and lies to my face about the situation but when I cough up everything she was saying I love you and everything. ... (111 words)

Does she really like me? Could she be afraid to tell the world that she is into girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

30 October 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone. I am a 17 year old female who is bisexual. Around the beginning of September my friend had started taking this girl to school with us in the morning. I had thought nothing of it until her and I actually began talking. We have gotten closer these past three... (283 words)

Is this normal that my persistent 45 year old Ex is chasing after me after a month of silence?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

30 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear all. Your thoughts please! In brief, My bf and i have had a rather hard work relationship. We were together for 16 months. Things got worse,and he kept ignoring me for up to 3 wks at a time. In the end he said it was ok. I was like,ok. Then he texted the next day.... (290 words)

The problem here is that we can't do certain positions when we make love. Would this problem be the result of the size of my penis? (4 inches)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

30 October 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok so me and my gf are living a pretty good sex life.. even though I am young we are sexually active.. Ok so the problem here is that we can't do certain positions and I was wondering if it had anything to do with my penis size.. I am only 4 inches in length and I'm not sure... (143 words)

How do I come out to my Mom and tell her that I'm a Lesbian?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

30 October 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Modnote: Your very long post was shortened as below is the crux of your question, which is clear,and is below. Your extensive account of prior events do demonstrate that you prefer girls and believe you are a Lesbian. But your question is the really important issue. And it is ... (188 words)

What are some of the things I could try to encourage my bi-sexual Significant Other to be more demonstrative and verbally expressive during love making?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4425 days ago

30 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So here is the situation my SO and I have a great relationship and he is bisexual and I'm ok with that we have a good time talking about different things and I'll admit it makes watching chick flicks and going clothes shopping a lot easier lol But here is the thing. My SO... (217 words)

Why does his Dad hate me so much? How should I deal with this, considering my Bf is in the middle of all this disagreement about me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4431 days ago

30 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I have just recently celebrated our one year anniversary. We get along great, hes my best friend. We've had some hardships, however. I have a daughter from a previous relationship. The father isnt in the picture, hasnt been since before she was born (he left me at th... (292 words)

My husband's parents refuse to accept the fact that my son is gay, they want us to send him for therapy to have him fixed and have gone as far as tell us that it must be our fault!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

30 October 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My 18 year old son reciently came out as gay. I was initially shocked but my husband and i are trying to be supportive because at the end of the day we love him regardless, the problem is trying to get his grandparents (my husbands folks) to see it the same way. I never ... (209 words)

My girlfriend and I are at a cross-roads and unsure where to do and both of us seem unwilling to budge.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

30 October 2012 (M) age 41-50 - My GF and I have been together for nearly 4 years. She lives in her own place (with a mortgage) and i live at home (due to other reasons but i can now afford to move out etc which i am looking to do so). I've talked with my GF about this and the options are to either, sell her ... (272 words)