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writes:am i ugly? i really like my crush and i was just wondering if im too ugly for him. i have brown long, silky striaght hair. cute glasses. no spots, clear skin, normal nose, normal lips. kinda rosy cheeks. straight white teeth. Many people say i'm cute or once in a every once in a while im told im pretty but not that often. some people tell me im really ugly and im starting to belive the bad comments.i just want to know if im too ugly for my crush or is it people trying to put me down. Thanks xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2012): you're a fine girl. It does not matter what people say. Be careful choice of friends!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2012): Hello, cutie! Don't think you're ugly. I haven't seen you yet in person, but no one is allowed to belittle their self. Its you, who you should love yourself, first. Be proud of whoever or whatever you are. God made you special, you might not be perfect but i'm sure that you have qualities which no one else has. That's what makes you beautiful, all you need to do is to discover that for yourself.As for your crush, don't worry about him, He might not like you at this time, People have different types of likes. Doesn't mean that,just be'coz he don't like you, your ugly.Never ever think that way. By the way, about those people who told you, you're ugly, i experienced the same thing and when i look back, the person who told me im ugly, its an ugly guy, whose crush always says hi to me and pass by my work station just to talk to me.So, i'm sure this guy's workmate who told me im ugly is just so insecure coz his crush bluntly snubbed him coz of me.He was like, what the hell.. So those people who told you you're ugly, don't listen to them. Their bunch of insecure people. because you are better than them, HONEST..Destructive Opinions meant to be thrown away. Constructive Opinions, Listen and apply it to your everyday life, because that is what's helpful on your end. ok? Good luck...
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2012): I just love when people say don't think about it or you are looking for attention.How can you not think about something if it's in your head. fid anyone ever stoped thinking about something when someone told them to do so?!!Everyone is looking for attention, this is how just God created us. Little kids cry for mother's attention. Dogs comet you and push on your hand so you can pet them, that's attention seeking. To deny it is not saying the truth.When I was growing up I was called ugly so many times that I grew up believing that I m ugly. Looking at my pictures now I cant believe that someone actually thought that I was ugly. Then of course when I grew up and boys were all over me, I understood that imm quite beatifull.My daughter could be on a cover of magazine, she is very pretty. She told me recently that lots of people called her ugly and said she has a long nose. I laughed at that. You need to learn how to filter peoples feedbacks on your looks. Especially at your age girls get jealous, and can call you names just because of that. Your crush might have a specific taste. You might be his type or not. But it shouldn't change your self image. Not everyone is going to like you through out life. Many will, and many won't. Imagine if men in a whole universe liked you? You wouldn't be able to walk the streets.I was in one of the countries where women need to cover themselves because of religion, and I had my ussual clothes on. Men followed me on a streets, that's really not very pleasant at all.So, I would suggest you to start filtering those comments, and a good part is that the olde u get the less you hear these comments about how you look, because adults tend not to give offensive opinions about others. And as for you crush, don't take any actions, see what happens.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (8 October 2012):
Of course you're not ugly. You'll virtually always find that people who say you're ugly are jealous. That's why they have to say it - no confidence in themselves, so they have to hurt someone who's nice and minding her own business.
I think you'd do better to try speaking to this crush, rather than bothering about what losers have to say to you. Go and speak to him and get to know him instead.
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reader, lmao1989 +, writes (8 October 2012):
 It all depends on what your crush likes. You maybe his type and you may not be only he can tell you. Just have more confidence in yourself!
Try not too think on it too much.
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