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Archived questions from: 5 October, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He blatantly stares at other women in front of me. How do I handle this situation?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

5 October 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - We've been around and around this issue of his staring. It's blatant, it's bad and I'm getting tired of it. We took a mini-vacation together. Just the other day he looked at the bum of a young woman as she turned to the cash register at a gas station. Then on a tou... (416 words)

Video chatted for a few months. Then he claims I got weird? Should I be patient, or is something else going on here?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

5 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - He found me online this June. We haven't met in real life. For the past 3 months, we video chatted with each other almost everyday.(Just chat.) Most of the time he initiated the conversation. He's divorced for 2 years and is looking for a serious relationship. ... (328 words)

Husband wasn't happy when I was heavier and now that I'm think he's STILL not happy!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

5 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm at my wits end right now. A few years ago, my husband teased me relentlessly about my weight. At first it was funny and cute and I thought that as long as he still wanted me ,there really wasn't a problem. Then his comments regarding my waistline became more and more se... (310 words)

I'm shy so how do I go up and start talking to a guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

5 October 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So I started college 4 weeks ago and I keep seeing this guy that's really attractive, i'm too shy to go up to him and i wouldn't know what to say anyway. How would I get talking to him? ... (39 words)

Love my crush, how can I get him by giving him signals that I like him???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4429 days ago

5 October 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - please read this sorry it's long :( im in year 9 and i'v likes this guy from my primary school since year 7. we used to have the greatest conection ever, though i was to young to understand what love was in primary school (he really liked me in year 5 but i never thought... (311 words)

I got rejected. Will I find someone better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4427 days ago

5 October 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey all, I got rejected by a guy I really like. Although I have dated in the past, I feel he is the first guy to understand me. He also has qualities that I all want in a person and shares many similarities to me. Unfortunately, we've known each other a really long time. ... (93 words)

How do you get approved for a sex change?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

5 October 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I never felt as if I was a woman born in a male body however I have always wanted to be female. Can one get approved for a sex change operation based solely on the fact that one would rather be the other sex? ... (44 words)

Is it bad that I get jelous if my boyfriend likes other girls pictures on facebook?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

5 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it bad that i get jelous if my boyfriend likes other girls pictures on facebook? and ive seen it a cuople times not often but when i do see it i get frustrated and a little hurt. I hate bieng the jelous type i cant help it... I mean i know for a fact that he isnt cheating on ... (121 words)

Does she like me? Is there attraction?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4429 days ago

5 October 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Im in my final year at university, and i have met this girl from vietnam. She is very nice, and friendly. Because of our cultural differences i found it harder to understand her signs of flirting if any. However since our first few days at uni, i have got along well with... (330 words)

Unprotected sex - how safe is it?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

5 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been having sex with my boyfriend for a while now. During this time I've been paying close attention to my monthly cycle and we avoided having sex during the danger-zone (even with protection, I didn't want to risk it). I feel now that I know my body well enough to know ... (238 words)

`Do you think he really did love me and regrets things?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

5 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I am 21 years old and my boyfriend of a year cheated on me with the girl that lives next door to him. And I moved away soon as I found out he was cheating and lying to me for a year, so I left. And people tell me he has been nothing but depressed and very unhap... (366 words)

How to deal with a guy who is unsure of how to move the relationship forward

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

5 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it ok for a guy you are trying to get back with to tell you things like "If we end back together, two months before the wedding he wants to be sure he impregnated you" of even use "If" in the context of serious conversation about our relationship. I have been broken up f... (547 words)

I need advice about a crush on a teacher.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

5 October 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I have a massive crush on my teacher and recently I have found myself completely enamored with her armpits. Whenever she raises her arms I can't help but stare at her underarms, and every single lesson, I get an erection. I also get turned on by the way she smells whether it's ... (94 words)

Lack of support and TLC - What the kind of behavior is this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

5 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone. I apologize for the lengthy post. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. Relationship is up and down, he does really stupid and hurtful things sometimes, and all the time I just give him chance, after chance, after chance. My last encounter with h... (752 words)

How do I get over unrequited love without avoiding the person entirely?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

5 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So. I've had a thing for one of my friends for nearly a year. About six months ago I kinda told him, and his response was that he wasn't looking to date - which I realize is a nicer way of saying he's not interested in me. After that he just acted like nothing had happened, so ... (333 words)

Wife touched friend inappropriately while drunk. Should I be upset?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1107 days ago

5 October 2012 (M)

age - Should I be concerned? Two weeks ago we were at a friends house. My wife had been out boating and drinking during the day while I was working. That evening we went to our friend's house and joined 3 other couples for evening cocktails by the outdoor fire. My wife bega... (653 words)

My fiancé wants us to watch "barely legal" porn while having sex. He says we can learn something from it. Does this sound right to you?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

5 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance told me that we may "learn something" from watching porn together in bed before and during sex. The porn he has always watches though is Barely Legal porn tapes of very young women and men just out of high school. To me that is not "learning something" from ... (247 words)

I want another baby, but I suffer from anxiety and depression.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

5 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i just wanted to write I'm 20 with a 21month old girl and I've been talking to my partner for awhile that we want another one and i really want to have another baby but i suffer extreme anxiety and my pregnancy with my daughter wasn't the best i vomited all the time just got ... (176 words)

I'm bi curious and would like some advice on how to proceed with it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

5 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I have been bicurious for a very long time now,but I haven't come out in the open to anyone saying I would like to try it with a girl,cuz I want to first try it with a girl and know myself if its just a phase and curiosity or I'm bicurious.. But I really don't k... (106 words)

Am I stuck? Still in love with him, but not happy with him. What to do about my long term Bf ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

5 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been with each other since I was 16 and he was 17. We are now 20 and 21. Our whole relationship has been long distance. We've been flying back and forth to make things work. Since he has a fulltime job I hvae done most of the flying. In September I ... (346 words)

My man caught me hugging another man. Does anyone think my man will forgive me and come back to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

5 October 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in a relationship for 6 years with my man. The other night we were having a couple drinks and he went to bed and his friend came over. As i was talking with his friend he got all touchy feely and then got caught hugging up on me by my man. He left and wont tex... (171 words)

Could I have Vulvar Vestibulitis? Does anyone else know what this can be?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

5 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ever since I first had sex nearly four years ago, I have had a burning pain at the entrance of the vagina during sex and have sometimes had to ask my boyfriend to stop. I have even had pain inserting tampons sometimes. I was on the combined pill when I lost my virginity and... (273 words)

Breast feeding with breast implants?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

5 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - just wondering with women who have had breast implants did any of you have a child afterwards? and did it change your breast implant could you breast feed. i have a daughter already and gotten breast implants i want another child and just wondering if it will effect my breas... (104 words)

My ex cheated on me, I forgave him but we are not back together. Now some other woman says I'm an idiot for forgiving him, I don't understand why she thinks this!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

5 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, this is a general question to anyone, male or female. My ex boyfriend of a year cheated on me. And someone recently told me that I was an idiot and naive for having forgiven him. The thing is, he and I are not back together, neither do I want to get back together wi... (214 words)

I don't like his behaviour with his close female friends, is this normal or is he in the wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

5 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i am in a relationship with a guy for past 6 months. he is very sweet and understanding and loves me a lot. the problem is the way he talks with his 2 3 female friends (one of them is his ex but now friends with her).they call each other with pet names like how a gf ca... (173 words)

Married man left his wife for me, but then gave it another go with her without telling me! Was I used?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

5 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I became friendly with a married man i met on holiday, we started texting when we got back and ended up teting all day and speaking on the phone when we could. He said he has always been unhappy in his marriage and that he never was sure about marrying her. He said I was his ... (341 words)

Rejected during exclusive conversation? No hope?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

5 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing a guy for six weeks. We were hanging out every single day for a month. He took me on dates, etc. We slept together one month in and then we had a fight and it's been weird ever since. Tonight I asked him where we stood and he said its too soon to have the... (213 words)

Why has he stopped "liking" and commenting on my FB? Does he like me a bit? or am I reading too much into it now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

5 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So last semester "X" knew me through my friend but we never hang out. Over the summer he would "like" and comment on my Face Book a lot AND I would comment back. It must have been quite frequent because my friend and my Ex bf noticed him. My Ex asked me who this guy was and... (568 words)

I'm a 27 year old lesbian and I'm a virgin. But what if I don't find that "special someone" I've been waiting for? Should I have sex with my guy friend ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

5 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I consider myself to be a lesbian, but I feel like I'm at a crossroads. I am still a virgin, and I was planning on saving my virginity until I am in a relationship with someone who I feel I am ready to give my virginity too. The thing is, I'm twenty seven, and I have this fear ... (162 words)

How do you know if a guy is playing you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4429 days ago

5 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you know if a guy is playing you? I think this guys toying with me, he did all these things and now he's acting funny. He basically: Touched my waist Fixed my glasses for me Hugged me(we're literally acquaintances) I asked for help for a class, so he offered me hi... (231 words)

Why do I ask questions knowing I will get hurt? Especially as she didn't cheat on me, it's all about before we met..

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

5 October 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend and I have been together for one year. She is 28 years old and she had an affair with a married man when she was still married few years back. Her then husband was a womanizer and that's when she got involved with this sweet talking guy who happens to be her ex h... (248 words)

What can I do to re-Ignite her passion and show her she is still sexy and hot?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

5 October 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - If wife is going through menapause and is affecting our sex life what do I do? I have been pro-active and suggested many things we can do, but she says sex is not that important to her anymore and that sucks. I love my wife, but when she had our kids her mojo went go go. wha... (96 words)

I cheated on my husband with his best friend (out of revenge for my husband cheating on me) and had a baby which my husband thinks is his. Should I tell him the truth?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

5 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I had an affair 2 years ago with my husbands best friend who is also married and got pregnant. I had the affair out of revenge for him cheating on me. Not that its an excuse I know it was still wrong. I know its his baby cause my husband had a vasectomy and thinks it failed ... (142 words)

Our current "stressful living situation " is driving my B/f crazy and he doesn't even want to touch me, let alone have sex. I feel attention deprived!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

5 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship with a guy for about 8 months. In the beginning of our relationship i was a little unsure if i liked him but was encouraged by friends and family to give it a try. He put in lots of effort in the beginning. We didnt have sex for about 3 months ... (264 words)

Is there any way to trust my boyfriend again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

5 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Is there any way to trust my boyfriend again? After a gut feeling that something wasn't right, I have found on two separate occasions that he has been messaging other girls inappropriately. the messages were SO hurtful. I confronted him and he wants to make things work, he ... (209 words)

It was so much better when study and boyfriend were separated! Now I spend all my study time with him and my weekends alone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

5 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year and everything was absolutely perfect until recently. We used to study in different places. Two or three times a week I would go see him after college to spend time together, to talk about fun things and distract ourselve... (367 words)

My twin brother hates me and has said that he hates that there's one more person with his face

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

5 October 2012 (?) age 30-35 - Well, I'm guy and I'm 25 years old. My problem is not very common, I guess. My own brother hates me and I don't understand why. We're identical twins, we're really like two drops of water. I know it should be that twins are best friends each to other, but unfortunately not in ... (214 words)

The lack of sex and affection in our relationship is driving me mad!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4430 days ago

5 October 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi people, thanks for your time, I am a 24 year old man in a relationship of 4 years with my 22 year old girlfriend. We've been living together for the past 2 years and have just moved into our new place. For the past year and a half my girlfriend has become less and less ... (390 words)

He's in love with me and his ex-girlfriend. Is it understandable that I am not feeling as comfortable as before? What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4429 days ago

5 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have, what we and everyone else call the perfect relationship. Both of our last two relationships were not good. We were always the calm, rational one being yelled at, griped at, fought with, argued with, exploded on etc. On top of that we have a complete ... (1162 words)