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Archived questions from: 14 October, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Can a relationship work between 2 people like this? me - never used drugs. him - clean now, but used to use every drug imaginable!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

14 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some input from people who have understanding of drug addicts. I'm in a relationship with a man my age who used to be a drug addict. He started in his teen until his mid 20s and has done pot, acid, cocaine, ecstasy but heroin was his biggest addiction and he did it fo... (216 words)

Do I need help to get over my depression and my huge crush on a dead rock star?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

14 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So here's my problem... There is this guitarist who I absolutely adore, and I feel as though my love of him is starting to become an issue for me. My taste in music is somewhat bizarre, and he and his former band are the only people who have ever played exactly what I wa... (346 words)

Can I forgive my girlfriend for not supporting me when I was at the lowest point in my life?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4179 days ago

14 October 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I was bereaved 15 weeks ago. My son died in a fatal car crash. My girlfriend and i had a petty row and she walked out on me. I asked her not to go because i had shouted at her. I was bang out of order. My emotions were all over and i was dreading my birthday the following day ... (696 words)

Should I confront him about his ex situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4231 days ago

14 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - 6 months since their breakup and this morning seen an inbox from his ex saying 'we need to talk'. He minimised this to the corner of the screen after he noticed I was watching the screen. Also I've noticed before his history showed he'd visited her Facebook page. A week ago... (172 words)

Boyfriend never compliments me, says he finds this difficult?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4233 days ago

14 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly four years and we have a generally happy relationship. However, besides some initial efforts when we very first begun dating, he has never really complimented me. I'm sure he must like some things about me since we have been together ... (292 words)

How to understand your man !!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

14 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Why is it, that it seems men just dont get women. Dont get me wrong both sexes can be just as bad as each other but however men seem so thoughtless. I for instance will make sure that my man is looked after has what he needs and i never have him complaining. However this does ... (204 words)

How do I get girls to dance with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4190 days ago

14 October 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have got out of a 4 year relation ship about a year ago and trying to get back out in the dating field or at least the meeting women field but I seem to have the hardest time getting a girl to dance with me at a club or talk to one at a bar I was wondering if you... (96 words)

How do I tell my b/f of 1 week that I'd prefer he didn't take drugs?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

14 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, Me and my boyfriend (who have been together for just over a week now)have really fallen deeply for each other. We get on so well, have the same sense of humour, music tastes, etc..almost everything I've ever wanted in man I've found in him. And despite us being... (259 words)

Should I confront my ex's finance over her actions whenever my ex visits his son? Is she jealous or insecure?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

14 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello cupids! Some help here would be appreciated. I have an 8 week old son with my ex. I left him when i was 3 months pregnant because he cheated, and i was confronted by the "other woman". At the time he had been with her we were not serious, but within that week we bec... (726 words)

He went out of my life after he started dating a girl. Why does losing him bother me so much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4233 days ago

14 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - This guy at work and I became great friends. I think that he was slightly attracted to me but never said anything because I was dating. When he started dating a girl, he just disappeared. And it's been almost a year. It really bothers me that we're not close.... (50 words)

Still a virgin. Is this normal? It’s not sex that I’m looking for, just some companionship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

14 October 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, I have a question regarding virginity. I know is a question that’s probably asked a lot, but I wanna know if what I’m feeling is stupid or normal. I’ve just turned 20 and I’m still a virgin. I’ve never been kissed, never had any interest from women. In fact I’ve nev... (544 words)

Everything is going perfect, but can a womanizer really change?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

14 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy who's very famous in my country. He's not just famous for his work, he is also very famous as a womanizer. I'm a commitment-phobic myself, but I never felt attracted to womanizers. We me while ago, through a common friend (one of his closest friends), who la... (1137 words)

My new guy is awesome. So why do I still miss one aspect of my manipulative unkind ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

14 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i split with my ex in may and we had being together for 4 and a half years. He was a horrible manipulator who played a lot of games and wasn't physically violent but mentally exhausting. i finally freed myself from him after 4 long years and i wasnt interested in anyone a... (367 words)

What can I do about the crush I have had on this guy for ages and ages?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

14 October 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - i have had a crush on this guy in my year for about ages now and still dont know what to do. we used to be close friends and hang around all the time with a few other people, but i dont hang in that group anymore since i have been friends with another girl.please can someone ... (67 words)

Can I ever forgive her? How?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

14 October 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a young man aged 28 working in the government and my fiance is 24 and she does not work. My fiance loves telling lies most of the time and my friends always tells me that your fiance looks like crook. Two weeks ago on Saturday I bought a new simcard, put it in my phone a... (328 words)

How can I determine if my ex still has feelings for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4233 days ago

14 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - how do you know if your ex still has feelings and wants to get back with you? We were together 6 years on and off now and again sleep with each other now and again. I don't know whenever i should just cut ties completely its hard, as we have 2 kids and see each other often.... (73 words)

Where did I go wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

14 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been with my boyfriend for quite a while, I'd say 3 years now. I've never done anything wrong to him I do everything and anything. I've gone out of my way sometimes to do things for him because I love him so much. I just recently found out that he cheated on me with my ... (172 words)

I'm worried about my size ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

14 October 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - The same old question... I'm a 23 year old male, and I'm caught up in some worries about my penis size. It's 5.3 inches long, and about 5.5 inches in girth. Anyway, I know it's scientifically regarded as average, somewhat under for length, somewhat over for girth,... (394 words)

I'm a virgin but afraid because of sports that I don't have my hymen

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4230 days ago

14 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiii dear cupid..my question is that it is possible for a man to know that the girl is a virgin or non-virgin..i havent done sex ever in my life but i participated in many sports nd games..i belong to a muslim family nd it is very important for a girl to have hymen otherwise ... (86 words)

Is it a sin to masturbate?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

14 October 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So, i'm 16 years old and i'm basically wondering if you think msterbating is a sin or a bad thing. Even though i don't go to church i still want to be a really good person and not do anything that's considered a sin. Whenever i look this question up, theres always answers like ... (88 words)

My boyfriends depressed and acting very different towards me. is it his depression causing this or me?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4233 days ago

14 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been together happily for about 8 months. however the past couple months havent been so great. when my boyfriend and i first met we both had our own apartments. shortly after we started dating i moved out of my apartment and into a house that my ... (386 words)

If I marry her will I have to help out her family too?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4176 days ago

14 October 2012 (M)

age - i have a Filipino girlfriend who's about 13 years younger here in the US. very worried about if i marry her , will her family also expect me to help them out financially? I've read thing that Filipino love to "show off" material things and such. any help appreciated. thanks.... (51 words)

Is be making fun of me by calling me sexy? He's making me feel insecure

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

14 October 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I like this guy and we've known each other for two years, but we've only been friends for a month. Anyway, he keeps calling me sexy. And it makes me feel insecure since I know I'm not hot. Like, I'm not skinny and I don't have big boobs. I'm not even always pretty. And yet ... (87 words)

Don't want to break up with my depressed Gf. But her behaviour is putting stress on me. So what can I do?

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14 October 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been together for like 5 months now. But these days,I feel like i am starting to have mixed feelings for her. I start to get mad at her for no reason( she don't know ),I feel like i don't love her anymore but I know i can't lose her n i won't. She... (176 words)

When her ex needs someone to talk to she is the one he calls!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

14 October 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my girlfriend are doing great at the moment,except for one thing that has been really bothering me. She went out with this guy for a year and a half and broke up with him more than a year ago. However, this guy would contact her whenever he has problems with he... (223 words)

Will I be short forever? I'm 18 now.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

14 October 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - As a child I was always taller than normal. As a baby I was born taller than average. I was almost 2 feet long when i was born. At age 8,i was 5'3. But at age 12,I stopped growing and,I've been the same height ever since (5'7). At age 18,is it possible that I might still ... (63 words)

All my friends are now in relationships. What's the answer for me? I'm consumed with jealously and weekends are the worst for me now.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

14 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi aunts and uncles. Please can I have some advice as do what I should and how I can meet someone and stop feeling like this. Basically keep it short. I'm 32, female and single and I can't seem to meet anyone. I'm attractive, I have an ok job in public relations... In s... (493 words)

After his flirting, how can I keep him interested in talking to me ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4233 days ago

14 October 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - ok so here it goes, my friend started dating this guy and turns out he's friends with a guy I have seen around. His friend and I started talking but we went straight to flirting, he's really cute but sometimes I think I annoy him. We talk everyday on the phone and on a social ... (148 words)

Truly? Why would a girl get scared off if a guy has never had a girlfriend before?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

14 October 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - While dating and having much difficulty landing a real relationship, I've noticed that many women avoid getting into a serious relationship with a guy who never had a girlfriend before. Why is that? I don't want to lie because I am very honest, but I've found that women t... (165 words)

I love this guy, and I want it to work. So how do I handle him calling me "fat"(I'm not), and commenting on girls he thinks are hot?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

14 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Straight to the story, Been dating this guy for 2 months now. Everything was perfect, he is the sweetest person ever! Just one problem and i don't know if i should feel insecure or not! Or what i should even do, i feel like shit! He is very over possessive, he doesn... (309 words)

Is he wasting my time and stalling me? His actions so far are unreliable and inconsistent.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

14 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is he acting funny towards me? I don't know what to think. This guy offered me his phone number when I asked for help with a class. When we spoke he didn't remember me, but a few days later I get a text from him about a place. Some friends of mine said his text wasn't... (209 words)

Has any one else overcome this? I love him, but I think our relationship is on the rocks!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

14 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My relationship is on the rocks right now. :( I'm in a struggle where I sometimes wonder if I want to spend the rest of my life with my bf. I don't know if we can last together, and I don't know if I even truly love him. I feel like I'm starting to hold resentment for a... (155 words)

I love him, but is there something wrong in his head? Do I need to speak to a Doctor about him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

14 October 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I really need some help and advice about my boyfriend, we've been dating on and off for four years now and I'm not even eighteen yet. I love him ever so much and I couldn't live with out him! but over the past two years things have been really crazy. I'd been experiencing... (353 words)

How do I get through this? I'm a young Mom. BoyF left me. Despite medical assistance this situation is affecting my everyday routines.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

14 October 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi fellow Cupids, Bit of an issue on my hands. Recently (The past month or so) I have been feeling depressed like you wouldnt believe. Im currently on medication to no avail, so I'm attempting a different route and hoping you guys could offer some helpful advice on the s... (550 words)

I am starting to think that maybe it was obvious from the start But 'does this guy like me?

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14 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I've known him for a good 3 years now. He's from another country and is a friend of a friend who works for my family. When I met him I didn't think much , just aw yea another good looking, cocky fella. I didn't see him that often but he would always message me every cou... (206 words)

Any study tips please to allow me to study in a noisy environment?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

14 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I could really use some help.. I have an important exam to sit for in about 2 months time,let's just say its going to be a life changing exam,it either breaks me or makes me.. BUT the place I live I wouldn't say its too noisy but in the afternoon because of the traffic,the ... (126 words)

He's a widower in his 50s. Is there a chance for us? Should I be more patient with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

14 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I currently like a guy, (in his 50s...), we do enjoy spending time together whenever I'm visiting his city, and he writes pretty much every day, or whenever I reply him. We're not officially anything, just 2 good friends. We sometimes flirt through body contact, but not through ... (223 words)

He phones me then hangs up. What do you think? Do you think he's playing a game to see how much I care?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

14 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, My boyfriend broke up with me this past May. He is a Marine stationed across the country from where I'm attending college. Since January he had been begging me to give up my senior year in college, move to his base and marry him. I obviously said no to that ev... (448 words)

All these years later my husband refuses to believe he was my 'first'. What do I tell him? The truth is he was my first, but he will not believe me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4221 days ago

14 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - The day I lost my virginity I was 15 but on my period and now my husband thinks I was not a virgin because of that and I really never knew what losing my virginity was Now I am 32 years old and am still married to him now how do I tell him I was a virgin he's the only man that... (112 words)

I cant stand the fact that girls are always flirting with my attractive boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

14 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys , I'm having major jealously issues. Not to brag but my boyfriend is really attractive so there is always girls after him flirting with him and such. I find it hard to deal with, he is totally oblivious to the fact. He says their all just friends when he hangs out with ... (88 words)

I don't think my b/f should be the center of my life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4234 days ago

14 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I´m 19 and I´m a girl, i´ve always had a hard time making friends, to the point that I don´t have any friends. Somehow i managed to get a bf, he is a sweet guy, i love him and i know he loves me, we have been together for 2 and a half years, but he is the only person i hang out ... (200 words)

Man's point of view: Do men flirt with girls they aren't into?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

14 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I NEED HELP! I have had a huge crush on one of my coworkers for years, he is also one of my best guy friends (we are both in our late 20s) he is a bit of a flirt with some of the girls we work (less hands-on than he is with me and just little comments usually) but im the only ... (304 words)

Was he flirting with me? I can't tell. Should I go back and talk to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4234 days ago

14 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I did not recieve any help last time I posted, so I will post again. Hi, so, last week I met this guy, and he was really nice. But I can't get him out of my head. I'm really sorry if this is long, but I'm so confused. So last week I went to go buy a CD for my sister's birthda... (377 words)

Why are there people out there like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4234 days ago

14 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, lately, I’ve been feeling guilty, ashamed, and confused. I’ve never told my parents because I was afraid they would shame me or not believe me. It happened when I was 15. I was shy, quiet and innocent. At school, there was a math teacher I had a crush on. The teacher was ... (671 words)

Being in love with a married one is hard to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4234 days ago

14 October 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm a 41 year old female that is in love with this married women she has children. she said that her husband is good to her and the children. she tells me that she loves him but she is i love with me. My feels for her is very strong i love her more than life its self i just ... (98 words)

Overcoming friend-zone

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4234 days ago

14 October 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I suppose I'm what you call, 'Friendzoned'. I've known this girl for 3 years, originally we were set up and met up on dates a few times. Nothing ever came to pass, we drifted apart, occasionally we'd pick up contact but nothing ever happened. We were just friends, at one stage ... (284 words)

My first boyfriend has broke my heart, what do I do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

14 October 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - This is my first ever relationship and I have been hurt. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 4 months. I fell in love with him. He was exactly what I wanted down to the T. He said he loved me and we would be together. He never cheated nor did me wrong. He was perfect. The ... (276 words)