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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Found a 'sext' on my wife's phone

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3608 days ago

11 October 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I have a wonderful relationship...but I do work a lot and she wishes she had more attention. Anyway a friend of mine recently friend requested her on facebook and I guess began chatting with her. I came home the other night and walked in on her masturbatin... (346 words)

Why do people talk badly about their ex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 October 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Why people actually talks bad thngs against thie ex-lover?... (9 words)

Should I leave him and start over? I don't know what to do or where to start

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is Italian and I'm from the UK. We have been together 4 years. I gave up everything and moved to Italy so we could be together. We are practically married and often talk about starting a family. Things were good for the first couple of years but for the last 10 ... (242 words)

I'm Taken. So How Can I Stop Liking This Guy and just stay as Friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 October 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Here's some background info: Both me and the new Guy, J are taken separately. We both knew each other about a year ago, and right now we're both in a serious relationship with our significant others. The first time we knew each other, I was single. There were some ... (308 words)

I am jealous and insecure of his female friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I'm in my first serious relationship. I've found some aspects of it hard, such as learning to trust my boyfriend, learning not to worry about things, learning to be confident and so on. I must stress that I have come a very long way in these last few months and I am ... (486 words)

Partner only wants hand jobs and anal sex. I'm confused!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4422 days ago

11 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner only seems to want handjobs (about 3 times a week) and no penetrative sex. On the other hand all he talks about wanting is anal sex. Im confused what to think. Anal sex is not for me and no matter how many times i say so he continues to ask/talk about it. I don't ... (69 words)

Guys: What do you wish your woman would do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4173 days ago

11 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm wanting to add a little change up with my ltr bf, tomorrow. Guy's what do you wish your chick would do, differently or in addition to your normal bedroom routine?... (31 words)

Does this girl fancy me now that she's single?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 October 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I have been friends with this girls for nearly 10 years and she's starting to act differently. She recently broke up with her boyfriend after he cheated on her. Ever since that happened she seems to be getting closer to me. She is always asking me for my help with her problems ... (98 words)

Would you date someone who you knew was going to move to another country?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 October 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Would you date someone if you knew he/she was leaving the country within the year and there could never be anything serious? I am coming out of a relationship and I want something very casual, but I will be moving away within the year. I feel bad asking someone out know... (119 words)

What was my ex thinking when he wrote this message?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4422 days ago

11 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Some background information about me: I'm 22. My ex-boyfriend broke up with me more than a year ago (yes, it's been a long time). There's a 17 year age difference between us and we were together for about 4 and a half years. We were happy together and even went overseas on... (475 words)

Is it wrong to want a proper blow-job from my girlfriend?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4422 days ago

11 October 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been with my girlfriend for 3 years, she's the only girl I've ever been with and I love her, everything is perfect but there is one thing she won't do for me. She won't finish me off with a blow-job ever. I'm not even asking her to swallow it, I just really would li... (144 words)

Does my college crush like me or was he just being a gentleman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid Aunties and Uncles, I have got a crush on a guy and I would like to know if you think I am correct to think he is not just being friendly. He is in all of my classes. If he sits next to me, we sit quite close together, almost touching. We also do the same ex... (595 words)

In an unhappy marriage and feel very sad and trapped. Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Help. My husband never allows me to get angry and express my self. He will threaten me with divorce and tells me i am inconveniencing him by causing problems. I bottle up my feelings for fear of his harsh words. I am always sacrificing for him and compromising but he never do... (150 words)

Why doesn't he make the first move or admit his feelings for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I need some assistance conquering an odd situation with my guy friend. Since meeting him over a year ago, we have become really close friends where we talk on the phone almost everyday religiously and hangout whenever we have time in our schedules for fun. I have t... (404 words)

Why can't I hold down a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Why can't I hold down a relationship? I'm 22 and I've never had a relationship that has lasted more than 2 months. I'm not seriously unhappy being single but I'm starting to worry that now all my friends have had at least one serious relationships there must be something wro... (183 words)

Boyfriends child calls me 'mom'. I feel awkward. Am I overreacting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4422 days ago

11 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I have been dating a guy for about 6 years now. When he was in highschool he had a child with his then girlfriend who kept the child, and my boyfriend supports the kid, monetary wise and even spends time with this kid..about 2 years ago he introduced me to... (219 words)

Why do I shake when near climaxing? I'm embarrassed. Is it normal?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So when and my boyfriend are doing foreplay I obviously get turned up to the point of climaxing and when I know I'm nearing that I get him to stop. I do this because I tend to shake when I do. I'm worried that he'll find it weird which is why I stop but I don't think he reali... (96 words)

I really like this girl but hardly ever see her. Should I continue when I feel this disappointed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 October 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have started seeing this girl and its been going on for about a month. When we're together its really nice but thats the problem. She never wants to see me. shes always too busy going to parties which i never get invited to. We arranged to meet up on Saturday and spe... (115 words)

How to interpret these mixed messages?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4422 days ago

11 October 2012 (F) age 30-35 - dear agony aunts, Ever since I first met this guy I thought that he may actually like me. He'd walk me home, help me out with homework, always start a conversation with me, always want to be around me, smile or wave whenever he sees me, want to sit with me in class (we're bot... (574 words)

I love my boyfriend but how do we get the spark back? I felt that spark with another guy and was tempted.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I've not written anything here in a while - I've not needed to! I've been in a happy and stable relationship for two and a half years. However I've had something playing on my mind and I need to get it out. My other half went to Canada for work for 2 weeks and ... (508 words)

Fallen for the wrong type of woman

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 October 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I am old. Almost 35 and separated 6 months ago with a kid, in what was a loveless relation since years and maybe never. Anyway it did not work because I chosed for me a wrong kind of partner. A woman which was very self centered and not so much family oriented. After ending t... (221 words)

Should I quit work and return to Uni? In a LTR which may be affected by the decision.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This isn't really a relationship problem but I would be very grateful for any advice offered. Basically I suspended my uni studies last year due to personal problems and I'm torn between going back or not. I'm worried if I do go back the same thing is going to happen again, and ... (153 words)

It's our old home where we used to live together. What message is he sending me: he has clearly been visiting the place for sex with a new girl. Why leave evidence?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I split up with my boyfriend and he's been begging me back for months I recently started communicating with him again as I wanted to try and have a friendship and he agrees he wanted the same . We both have keys to our home which we shared and he has recently started... (145 words)

There's trouble in our relationship. Can it be fixed? Or is there too much to solve?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - WE are about a year together but last 3 month has changed everything with my boyfriend, before he was without job,last 4 month he start a new job but when that happened he became less active with me ,we talked everyday text every day, said to each other I love you and miss me, ... (516 words)

Why am I being overwhelmed with this empty feeling inside me? What can I do?

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11 October 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Right now im at this stage in my life where I dont know what to feel. I'm just over whelmed with this empty feeling. I dont know what to feel anymore. Plus,theres this girl whose my friend and im totally confused if I like her or just like her because,shes there for me.i don... (60 words)

Is it too late ? How do I apologise sincerely and convincely? I know I messed up and ruined our trip gether.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - i was seeing a very nice guy soon after ending a long term relationship of 13 years. Unfortunately it only lasted a few months because I was not ready for a relationship so soon and he was hurt by me. we planned a trip together and right before the trip i threw a big fit th... (305 words)

Is there any way to confirm when I'll be ready for sex? I'm feeling better about it but I am still unsure.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 October 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So I was talking to my friend yesterday about relationships and sex. She's done more stuff with her boyfriend than me, but like she totally understands how I feel. She told me to just have fun and if you trust the person you're with, that I've nothing to worry about. I do ... (157 words)

Should I pursue this girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 October 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - "Dear Cupid," I am a freshman in high school, and I need some advice. I am in band, and I really like this girl on dance line thats my age. Well, last friday was homecoming and she started dating this big guy, I like to refer to him as "Blonde Beard the plunderer of British ... (233 words)

I'm in love with my new neighbour, but I've been in a FWB with my other neighbour for 2 months. How should I play this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

11 October 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I moved into my apartment building 2 months ago and met my neighbor shortly after the move in. We hit it off right away. We have been hooking up for about a month and a half. It is weird because its like we are in a relationship but we are not.. Meaning we sleep together a... (514 words)

Should I let the age difference bother me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 October 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a beautiful person and I'm so afraid to let myself go and fall harder for him. i guess im so worried about our age difference, I am 39 but get told that i look 25-28 and he is 23. We been sort of dating and talking for seven months, he recently introduced me to his ... (153 words)

My boyfriend got his roommate pregnant with twins. We have a child together. What should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

11 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help me I just found out about my boyfriend, who lives in another house, got his roommate pregnant 7 months ago. She now had twins but she's not out of the hospital yet. I found out about it today I have never liked her. the first time I met her she had a crush on m... (597 words)

Three really cute boys in my class. Good, yes? No! Because they are Bullying me. What can I do to stop them bullying me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 October 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so there are these three boys in my class and they are really cute and I have a big crush on one of them. And those three boys are always bullying me. I have to sit near two of them in class and they are so annoying. The one I have a crush on does it the most. He calls me... (96 words)

Boyfriend moving away - again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

11 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I need advice. I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years now and recently he got a job 2 hrs away from the city. He asked me to move with him and it was lucky enough that I could transfer offices. So I've been living in a new town for 2 months with him and everything is going ... (126 words)

Should I stick with this guy who gave me an STD and who has another girlfriend? I want a husband and family!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I started dating a guy I knew for a while after two years of losing my fiance' to cancer. I'm 35 years old and he died when I was 32 going on 33. I didn't become intimate with him until about 4 months into our dating. Anyway, this guy a lot has gone on between us, I helped him ... (524 words)

How do I cope with the insecurities? Help me please ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Well my boyfriend and i have been dating almost 2 months. On october 13... I love him so much, but for some reason we dont get along. We fight over the stupidest stuff. When we make love...everything is great. We get along when its just me and him, but when its over the phon... (220 words)

This is affecting my relationship. When I'm alone I've been feeling really guilty. Why does this happen considering I've never cheated on him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4424 days ago

11 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So lately I've been feeling really guilty and it's not all the time. It's just when I'm alone. Which is becoming much more frequent. I haven't cheated and I haven't even flirted with anyone. I'm not even sure if I would feel confident flirting anymore (I used to be real good... (422 words)

Did he act up towards me and watch lots of porn in the hope that I would break up with him first? I still love him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I need help with this. I almost broke up with my bf. because i know that there is something fishy about him, although when he says he will do something he sees to it that he will be able to keep his words. He's into porn, i've proven his lies and all.. Which lead me to ... (247 words)

Has watching porn warped my responses and reactions to sex? He told me I was 'theatrical' when I hooked up with him recently.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have only been in one relationship. It was fun but i was young, naive and a part of me felt like i was acting in it just to be like my friends ( i was 21) a part of me still really liked him. I dont know if i liked the 'idea' of having a boyfriend, if i liked his body, ... (814 words)

My guy's mother hates me. How can I get her to accept me and her grandson?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I met my bf three years ago just before he left to go over seas with the army. We didnt "offically" start dating until he came home because he didnt think it was fair to ask me to wait for him, We wrote each other almost daily and I waited for him not so patienly. When h... (519 words)

Should I take a chance with the new guy? But why do I stop liking a guy once he shows interest? It seems I always like guys who I can't have :(

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

11 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm sorry for the long question but I have to explain the whole situation, so please just bear with me! So, I think I have a problem but I'm not sure what it is... I'm twenty years old, I've never been in a relationship and I've only ever kissed a guy once, and I didn't eve... (751 words)

My boyfriend wrongfully accused me of lying to him. Is this a deal breaker for us?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

11 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and I have been together off and on for over a year now. Before we started dating, I was hanging out with him and an acquaintance of ours, after a night of drinking and partying with some friends. We decided to call it a night and this other guy gave me a ride back t... (611 words)