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Archived questions from: 6 October, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I want to give my ex a second chance, but his hobby over-shadows our relationship. What can I do to make things work the second time around?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

6 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently started seeing my ex-boyfriend again. It has been a good few years since we were together AND I want to give him a second chance. The problem is he puts his job AND his hobby before me. I understand about the job, it's highly demanding AND I'm extremely bu... (266 words)

My guardian did not want my Bf to stay any longer. Was my Bf's reaction indicative of true love for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4427 days ago

6 October 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend just left my house, and before he left, he was crying because he said he didn't want to leave me, he wanted to stay longer but my guardian didn't want that. He made me cry too, both of us was crying and it hurts so much to him cry, I wiped his tears and he wipe... (94 words)

Can I trust him? I feel disrespected. He take advantage of me and that makes it worse

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

6 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have dated my boyfriend for 7 years Before I didn't mind him having every weekend to himself and his friends. My worry is that sometimes he take an advantage of me and that makes it worse. We were suppose to meet this friday as we've Planned but all of a sudden as I was ... (150 words)

What can I do? He will not tell his friends and family that we are dating, but we've been together for 5 months now.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

6 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm at a loss what to do or think.. my boyfriend tells all his friends and family that I'm not his girl just a friend and we've been together for five months now... last night we were supposed to hang out and I didn't hear from him till 6 am this morning when he was drun... (132 words)

I love my husband AND my lover!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

6 October 2012 (F) age 41-50 - I have a situation here, need your help please. To cut the long story short, am married for 9 years. My husband is a good man, but there’s no passion, no sex, no children in our marriage. I met someone at my work place, we started off as friends, liked each other and then we ... (319 words)

He will not stop telling lies. He says he did it so as not to hurt me. What am I supposed to do in this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4428 days ago

6 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I was in a relationship with a guy, we brokeup but gave it another shot and saw some changes in him, don't know if he was pretending or really changed his ways but I was happy and had hopes. His biggest issue was lying. I chased him to stop lying and start being honest for a... (325 words)

I don't know if I can wait and I want more!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

6 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - This is going to sound super stupid but please please bear with me,. I am in a relationship that isnt really a relationship. I love him and I know he loves me we were friends then lovers but never an "item" his life is messed up right now and he is confused and battling... (142 words)

Is she trying to bully me? This girl make my life a misery at school. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3424 days ago

6 October 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - ok, so there's this girl at school who hangs out with us in our group, she's shorter than me but she's a real ****h. she always makes fun of my name, she greets me with a really embarrasing and mean insult. She makes fun of my past (which i don't know how she knows). i have goo... (181 words)

Is my crush intimidated by me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

6 October 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a crush on a girl at work who's younger than me- I'm 29 and she's 20. Over the past few weeks we've gotten to know each other a little better, but wouldn't say we know one another that well. We don't work alongside one another, so it can be hard to get a chance to talk ... (236 words)

All aspects of my life are falling or getting crushed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4427 days ago

6 October 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I am in my early twenties and my life is real one big mess. My career, my relationships, my friendships. I wanna get my shit together. RELATIONSHIPS: i havent had a proper relationship with someone i really like/or love. I dont wanna settle for someone who i dont lik... (234 words)

My brother is interfering in my relationships with girls, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

6 October 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I would like to ask for an advice. I’m having a problem with my brother. He's two years older than me and he’s constantly interfering in my relationships with women. Actually it started already when I first started to date girls, but now this behavior of his is very ... (381 words)

Did I move on too quickly? Should I have tried to patch things up with my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4425 days ago

6 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - You know when they say Oh you will do or find some one else better, How come sometimes you feel you didnt do better? Ive been dating James for two months but its nothing compared to my last relationship..Im not saying that i want him to be the same person but..i feel like im ... (364 words)

How long does it take to find the right person?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

6 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been single for the past month, recently broke up with my cheating boyfriend. I get lonely from time to time, wanting to feel loved again, you know, all those cuddles, kisses, hugs, etc. I miss all that and sometimes I'm very grateful that I'm single because n... (191 words)

I want to go a tiny bit further than kissing w/boyfriend

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6 October 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 14 years old and recently I got a new boyfriend. This is my first real boyfriend. We're together 2 weeks now and all we done was kissing and holding hands. I want to go a tiny bit further now. Not too much further,just a little bit. What can you suggest? We're very private ... (83 words)

Why is my husband talking to his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4428 days ago

6 October 2012 (F)

age - My husband is talking to his ex girlfriend after he dumped her, said terrible things to me about her, said he wanted nothing to do with her, ever!! now i've checked his cell, and computer communicating with her. Why is he doing this against my wishes, that i made very clear.... (52 words)

My cousin's husband was shamelessly hitting on me and I told him to back off and yet somehow my cousin thinks I'M the desperate one who's flinging herself on a married man!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

6 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help! Last month, my cousin's hd hit on me. they've been married for almost six years now, and i recently moved back home and live close to them (about ten minutes on foot), so i see them every day. they had a little family get together and out of nowhere he corne... (338 words)

He's going back and forth between his ex and me. I should break it off but I can't!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4427 days ago

6 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone,I'm in a fix and I would really like some advise.. My boyfriend had this girlfriend who he dated all thru 7th grade till high school,when he joined college he broke up with her,cuz he moved to another city they fell apart,then he met me..we start dating and have... (246 words)

I have feelings for my male best friend! Do I let him know?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

6 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My best friend and I have known each other for years. i'm a woman, he's a guy. And we've known each other since we were ten years old. Our families are so close that people think we're all related. When I was in high school I developed a crush on him, but it was pretty super... (275 words)

I can't help but feel resentful for the way that my boyfriend treated me in the past

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4428 days ago

6 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 and a half years. During the first years of our relationship, I wasn't treated the best way. He would go out with his friend to bars every Friday, we were rarely together. Once I found on his phone a picture of his hands on another girls ... (352 words)

My ex is threatening that he would post naked pics of mine online

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

6 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi i'm 29 years old and just broke up with my 31 year old boyfriend . He was always putting me down telling me I wasen't good enough that all his ex girlfriends were smarter had good jobs and were prettier. He wouldn't even let me meet his kids said I wasent good enough. We ... (320 words)

Why would my boyfriend rather spend time with his friends than with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

6 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so me and my boyfriend have been together for one year now,I have known him for 4 years and things have been great until this point. We are both full time college students and we both have part time jobs so when the semester starts we probably only see each other 3 times a ... (407 words)

I'm tired of attracting emotionally unstable people. What am I doing wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

6 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 25 year old female with a recurring problem in relation to every single one of my romantic relationships. I'm a very emotionally stable, grounded, level-headed individual and I only seem to attract the exact opposite to this in all my relationships i.e. emotionally very ... (208 words)

How should we divide up living costs in our relationship? Is what I am doing so far, for her, fair?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

6 October 2012 (M)

age - I'm writing to see what you guys think of me and my partner's financial situation. My partner's house is paid for, with no debt. She works 2 days a week, on a lowish wage. I'm self-employed, so my income is varying, but works out about £40k a year. We don't actually live ... (136 words)

He said he LOVED me. Now he will not reply. Do I just take it for granted that he is ok and move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

6 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi My ex-boyfriend AND me were together for 6 years on AND off. He wasn't a great boyfriend, he made promises he didn't keep but mostly he's a good soul. We live in different countries but the flight was cheap AND only an hour long so it didn't bother us. We both hav... (390 words)

I want to ask her out. Should I? What would be the best way to do this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

6 October 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I've been talking to this girl online and we get on really well. I met her for the first time lat night with 3 of her guy friends. the guys seem nice and the girl i've spoke to is really nice too we got on instantly and she is very pretty too. when we first met she hugged... (238 words)

Ok, I REALLY fancy him! He does like me, right? What can I do to make this work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

6 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Tuesday: I met this guy in a party and we had a lot of eye contact and by the end of the party, we talked a lot. He walked me to a taxi station and before we said bye, he asked me for my number. I texted him my number when I got back and he replied - 'glad that you reached ... (162 words)

How can I safely cut my addiction to (well known brand) coffee and become healthier?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

6 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I attend university classes 4 days a week. On those days I wake up at about 8:30am. I always grab a tall cup of X Brand Coffee. I have always limited myself to the "tall" size and I only drink latte, mocha, frappuccino, or black tea latte, all of which are about 75-95mg ... (285 words)

I feel if he becomes a part of my life that I will also have to support him due to his large existing debts. How could this work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

6 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i want to have an opportunity to have a relationship with my friend. He is a good guy, but i try to tell him he needs to take care of himself and not depending on his family. He got a job and his boss (sister's husband) doesnt pay him on time. He owes him 1 full month o... (277 words)

Marriage problems. So should I look for my long lost friend or seek out my brother's friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

6 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - so im 22 years old and married for almost 5 years and with 2 kids(girls). Back when i was in the 8th grade i had a crush on this guy who was my best friend Everyone though that we were going out, but that never happened. The last time i saw him was in 10th grade and havent... (223 words)

I don't understand why I keep falling for girls who are already taken. Can anyone suggest why I do this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

6 October 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a history of falling for girls who were already taken, in relationships, married, or who were themselves in love with someone else. Any help as to why a person would always let this happen and what to do about it?... (42 words)

Is it really all my fault? I don't want to hurt him. But he's sure hurt me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

6 October 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey aunts and uncles i guess i just really need your guys support on that im doing the right thing this is the worst i ever felt in my life... Heres my story i was with my bf for over a year we just broke up tonight we were on break prior to the break up though and made it ... (579 words)

I'm not his Gf but I thought we were friends. Then he let me down. Should I bother to contact him again?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

6 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy about a mouth ago. We got close and when he'd see me, he'd carry my bags. Pick me up and hug me in front of all of our friends. He'd always give me good advice. He's everything I wanted in someone. He's smart, humble, outgoing, mature, funny. Etc. We would t... (416 words)