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writes:Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and we still havent slept over at his house, He's stayed at mine atleast 30+ times, whenever ive even hinted at it i get stuff back. His parents werent comfy over it because im the first female to stay at his house, his parents really like me so i havnt taken it personal but its one of those things you sometimes cant help but take personally. He always says he's going to ask his parents soon and even though hes said his parents are okay with it now he still hasnt got around to asking. Am i just over thinking this? I don't think it's fair and his house is great, advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (9 October 2012):
 if he lives with his parents then that's why...
I would never want my bf to sleep over when I lived at home
besides if he did, he had to sleep in a different room what fun is that?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (9 October 2012):
 IF he is still living at his parents it's NOT his house.. IT is his parents house and that might be why he feels uncomfortable with it.
If he lives alone... BIG RED FLAG!
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (8 October 2012):
 So you have been to his home before though, and he lives with his parents? If that's the case then this isn't something to be worried over, he obviously just doesn't feel comfortable or his parents don't feel comfortable, with his girlfriend staying the night. When I lived at home my boyfriends would never ever be allowed to stay over, ever. My parent's house and their rules, and truthfully it makes a lot of sense. It may be old fashioned but it isn't appropriate for them.
As long as you are allowed over at any time that isn't staying the night, don't worry about it. Have him stay nights with you until you both live together. Now if he doesn't live with his parents and you are only allowed to come by at specific times... Then worry.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (8 October 2012):
 Okay first off is he still living at home with his parents? If that is the case then maybe he just does not feel comfortable having you over at his house because he is living with his parents. I can understand why you would feel that it is not fair but at the same time you need to respect his wishes as it is not his house but his parents.
If I have picked this post up wrong and he is living on his own then yes alarm bells would be ringing in my head and I would indeed question this.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (8 October 2012):
 Many guys don't prefer to have their girlfriends stay overnight at their (his) home because THEIR WIVES OBJECT TO IT!!!!
Good luck.....
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