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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Help, do I like him? am I giving him the wrong impression? advice what to do on upcoming party?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4462 days ago

2 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive started liking this guy, i cant decide wheather its me actually likng him or the thought of being with him. The problem is i dont think ill ever be able to show him i like him, or if i even have a chance with him. Hes in the 'cool boy' clang at school. He isnt the best loo... (210 words)

20 girls and not one accepted his offer of a date

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

2 October 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - A sociable guy of age 23-24 for 3-6 months approached upto 20 girls fo date and not even one accep him! What might be the reasons and what is the posible solution? The guy is tall, handsome, sociable and humble. Ur a advice will be of help tanx ... (51 words)

Interested in a guy in class, but I'm getting mixed signals from him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

2 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everybody. So, I recently had a drunken hookup with a guy I met in one of my classes. Before this thing happened, I could tell by the way we interacted with each other, he was somewhat interested...which probably explains how we ended up hooking up last weekend.... (191 words)

Will I be taken seriously in a business professional environment or in interviews because of my less-than ultra-femme appearance?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4457 days ago

2 October 2012 (F) age 36-40 - okay, this isn't actually a specific relationship question, so much as it's just a general question i really need advice about. it's something that is really stressing me a great deal. i am a 28-year-old college grad with great interpersonal relationship skills, and am i... (292 words)

Is it normal to not say "Yes" straight away to a propasal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

2 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating a guy for some time, but we live on both parts of the world (Australia and America), I have plans to move up next year, get a job, place to live and work hard at it. I have asked him for marriage before, and he said yes but only for citizenship reasons,... (215 words)

What to do? My ex has a girlfriend yet he keeps texting me saying 'I miss having sex with you',

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4452 days ago

2 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I broke up with my ex nearly 6 months ago after a rocky 3 and a half years! We had been through a lot but it was constand arguing and sex, sometimes I was happy, but then our sex life turned really rubbish, and it was him basically saying 'I want sex give it to me now' and... (338 words)

I baby sit my niece and nephew. Can I please have some tips on how to ensure more harmony when I am with these children?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

2 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some tips and tricks on how to keep my niece, a highly intelligent, high-energy (probably ADHD) 26 month old toddler busy while I'm babysitting her. I am also watching her 8 month old brother who is already standing, crawls super fast, and fusses if I leave him in h... (712 words)

Long-term, recently long-distance relationship, but I have a bisexual crush with my teacher!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

2 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a girl, I am having a long-term relationship with this awesome guy, and after some years of being together he's recently moved to another country and we're having a long-distance relationship now. I'm not ready to break things off with him, but have recently developed a ... (285 words)

Now that myself and the guy I like are single, what can I do to make him want me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

2 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys. I'm a twenty year old girl and I really like this guy who is in his 30's (so much so that I think I love him). I've always liked older men; it's just who I am. Anyway, I have known this guy for three years now and when we first met we hit it off really well and saw ... (281 words)

Attracted to my fiancee's older brother.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

2 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiancee and I have been together for almost three years now, and we have a 1 1/2 year old daughter together. I'm about to be 20, and he just turned 19 in August. We're going to get married here in the next month or so. Now, my problem is, I've been having sexual dreams a... (193 words)

Need to tell him I've got feelings for some-one else, but how? What should I say? I feel terrible.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

2 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - How the hell do you tell a guy you've been on a few dates with that you have feelings for someone else? I've been out with this guy a few times and I do like him so much, but the problem is that this guy who I met much before the one i'm seeing now, my feelings for him are ... (332 words)

They say I am being selfish. I love my brother but giving everything up to care for him for the rest of his life seems too much.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4457 days ago

2 October 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Little bit about myself first. I am 46 years old and the youngest of 4 siblings also i am gay. The only one in my family and my family history. Unlike my brothers i was quick to get out of school and left at 16. Unlike my brothers i have never experience unemployment. 16 to 21 ... (537 words)

Since he was diagnosed with bipolar he's started flirting with other women online. How should I react to this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4457 days ago

2 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a 23 year-old woman in a steady relationship with my boyfriend of two years. I'd recently been in a vacation in the month of May and post the vacation am really petrified to observe certain discreet behavioural changes in him. He was diagnosed with bipolar disorder... (375 words)

How can I get my girlfriend to show anger like a normal person?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3183 days ago

2 October 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend never gets mad. She just never gets impatient or annoyed or frazzled or frustrated. It's come to the point when I just want to instigate fights to get a reaction out of her. I push her, and push and push, but she nevers gets angry. Whenever it LOOKS as though s... (152 words)

Please listen up! my crush ignores me. what could this mean . . . . . .

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

2 October 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - i love my crush, more than anything in the world and would be happy to marry him any day. me and my crush don't see each other anymore because we went to different secondary schools. im in year 9 and so is he. we only keep in contact (but rairly ever) on facebook. we used to ... (217 words)

Why would I want to pull out of the share?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

2 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in love with a casanova. He has a girlfriend and another female friend. And when I say friend, I mean a woman who invests her feelings on him too. What makes me think is how all three of us fall in love with him and care so much for him, it must create jealousy at some ... (215 words)

Because of an open relationship I may lose my gf

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

2 October 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - a year ago, i asked my gf for an open relationship. i really wanted to experience more sexually from different types of women. We had been together for three years before i asked her, and after five months she told me she would give a try, though she wasn't excited about it... (308 words)

Should I confront him about what he is looking at on the computer?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

2 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and I recently just got married a little over 2 months ago, but have been together for over 3 years now. We just moved into our first place together and are getting adjusted to living together. For about the past week now though, I have notice that when I walk into ... (229 words)

Afraid of commitment and really unsure of just about everything in my life right now

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

2 October 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - This is a long post but I really want to ask a lot of deep questions from the very wise agony aunts. For those that haven't followed my previous posts, I'll give a very quick intro to my situation. I met my wife three years ago. I had just finished my biotech degree and left ... (1388 words)

How can I control myself around this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

2 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help with my self-control. The thing is that I'm usually pretty calm girl. whenever I'm with friends and family and strangers I like to keep my wits about me and not go overboard, as in getting all hyper, chattering excessively. I can keep calm and summon energy when ... (235 words)

Does he want me to open up about my desires or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4463 days ago

2 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone.i hope i get this sorted out here!!i'm 20 yrs old and this is my 2nd relationship..and first sexual partner , i've been with him for 3 years now . when we started out i was too young to really care about sexual "pleasure" and was more lost in the emotional value of ... (626 words)

His ex has nothing to lose and won't go away

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

2 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - What do I do about a completely insane psychopathic ex girlfriend of my boyfriend? She is the type they make movies about. She is worse. He warned me when we first started dating of everything she would do and he was right. It seems like no matter how much time has gone by, ... (273 words)

Planning to try new things in our sex life, but how can I feel more confident?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

2 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I posted about really liking my FWB and we have had an open chat about what we both want and we're going to stick with each other which has made me really happy. But now he wants to take things a lot further, not relationship, but more erotic like handcuffs, and being tied ... (135 words)

I miss my little brother but can you understand why I felt I had to leave home? How can I get my health better? I feel my Mom expect too much of me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

2 October 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Well it’s kind of a weird question so I don’t know if I'll get much advice but I pray I do :) my mom recently adopted a baby boy over the summer. we brought him home from the hospital I even named him and have been raising him the past few months because my mom’s always been ... (762 words)

The school books I need cost more than my allowance

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

2 October 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone, This is not a relationship question, I just want to know if this is right. Ok my dad passed away like 6 months ago, and I don't have no parents with me, I live with a guardian. I receive social security every month, i get $400 a month, and my guardian gives m... (195 words)

Pushy jerk won't take no for an answer

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

2 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So, i'm in college, a junior, and a guy recently let me know that he was interested in me. i, on the other hand, am not. i don't like him very much, as a person and also physically. he's very arrogant and obnoxious and comes off very pretentious. i really don't like how push... (386 words)

She masturbates in a less usual way, crossing her legs. Which is better? Her way or sex with a partner?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4458 days ago

2 October 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey all I appreciate any advice. I have been with my gf for 10 months I'm 21. So this is why I'm posting: Basically she masturbates using the method of crossing her leg and squeezing. She never masturbates with fingers. When I ask what she prefers of cross leg or sex and ... (140 words)

I feel I'm losing my Best Friend, by breaking up. But how do I move on after being battered beaten and destroyed - not physically, but emotionally?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

2 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm battered beaten and destroyed - not physically but emotionally. How does one break up with someone they call their best friend of 16 years? We have a child together. How does one move on with ones life?... (40 words)

Should I treat the anniversary of the day his brother died the same as any other day? Or should I try to do something special for him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

2 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - this week marks the anniversary of my boyfriend's little brother's death. which happen a few years ago. We've talked about it very few times during the last year we've been together. he doesn't mention his brother much either. he didn't tell me the date of the death but i kn... (193 words)

Do people in work places always take sides like this? The woman who was disciplined (and unjustly) has been sacked and I don't think it's fair.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

2 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Aunts,this is a work relationship question. Recently two women where I work had a fall out, not major at all, but one reported the other to our manager. When the other came into work she got disciplined and she walked out as she didnt want to work the shift with the wom... (175 words)

In am in love with this girl. How can I win her heart? She has cheated on me so many times

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

2 October 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi My Name is E,so there is this girl. She's Beautiful and we met right after the day of my birthday and we got together. We was in an on and off relationship. So anyways we got back together and we stayed together but then we broke up. i wanted to be single but i didnt tell... (260 words)

My boyfriend has suggested I get a sex toy for when he is away. But I'm not sure. Are there any that are better than most that you would recommend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

2 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have quite a high sex drive, and my boyfriend has suggested that I think about buying a toy for when I'm 'in the mood' but he isn't around. I've never used toys before and although I've thought about it, I'm a bit hesitant. Sure it'd be nice to have something to use... (163 words)

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

2 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm newly wed of 2 months now and so I've been exploring many new things lately as new couples do. I was wondering what the best lube is that feels warm and maybe adds to your sensitivity? One other question... What works best for the painful morning after stomach aches an... (57 words)

I cheated and I think I like the new guy more. I am so confused about which man to choose. How do l choose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4459 days ago

2 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Heya, been with my boyfriend for five years. He's 25 years old and l am 22 years old. We didn't stay together. He's so irresponsible, he drinks a lot. He says he loves me, but he has cheated on me a couple of times, and he always swore never to do it again. I love him too. W... (194 words)

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

2 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend wants me to convince him to have sex to see how convincing I can be. He wants it to be a game. I know he does, because he told me he wants to see if i can convince him to as well. I need help I've tried different things, but no luck. I'm at a dead end. please ... (63 words)

What would you do in my place? He was my FWB but then he cheated on me. But then we had words and everything went downhill from then.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

2 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - There is something that happened some 5 months ago between a guy and me. We were very good and close friends, so close we ended up being FWB. It was very wrong I know and it turned out bad, as such, since I fell in love with him. While we were FWB he was subsequently dat... (247 words)

Does he want more? Sometimes I feel like this man doesn't have any plan to setle down

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

2 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in a long distance relationship for almost 5 yrs. now. But sometimes I feel like this man doesn't have any plan to setle down. I really don't know where I stand.I know he loves me but I'm begining to think that this is all he wants; and nothing more?... (51 words)

All these stresses make me wonder if we know what we are doing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4464 days ago

2 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my fiance have been engaged for 2 years, dating for 3. For the longest time, I thought we were quite literally made for each other. but since entering our LDR...certain issues have come up, that had never come up in our relationship before, and things have really ... (140 words)