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Archived questions from: 25 October, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Can you guide me towards better choices? Why does he not bother with me at all anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4447 days ago

25 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I (together for 2 and half years) are going through a really bad phase of our relationship and it doesn't seem to be letting up any time soon. Our relationship has hit rock bottom and I'm driving my self mad trying to figure out what the hell happened! W... (1237 words)

Why can't I ever orgasm? I have to fake it every time, even though I want to orgasm.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4448 days ago

25 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I don't know much about other women's experiences, but everyone knows that guys sometimes (out of nervousness or shyness etc) can't get it up, if you know what I mean. I know that women don't have 'ahem's' ...but can they get the same sort of thing when they're nervous ... (295 words)

Twelve years together. But now his porn addiction has taken a nasty turn for the worse. Should I dump him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4448 days ago

25 October 2012 (F)

age - My man friend (been together 12 years) has a porn addiction. In the last 6 months..he's given out his phone number so these nasty ladies can contact him by text. He say's it's just a game. The other day I looked at his history and discovered he's been searching some repulsiv... (91 words)

How do I learn to trust him? And how many second chances should I be giving out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4449 days ago

25 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - First off the last year and a bit I've been on and off with this guy (j). More off than on to be honest. We started seeing each other in September and it finished early November. But in that time I fell in love with him, and I've been through a huge amount of heart break be... (487 words)

After 5 years he's still putting off us moving in together. Is this relationship going anywhere?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4449 days ago

25 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years and we are both 24 years old. We get on well most of the time and love each other a lot. I have my own house but he still lives at home with his mum. I'm getting to a point in my life where i am starting to think about ... (382 words)

I've joined a marriage website but I'm terrified to know what to say to potential partners... Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4449 days ago

25 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello Aunties and Uncles, Well after the end of a 2-year relationship I'm ready to start dating and I've joined a marriage website! Being new to this, I would be very grateful if anyone could offer me tips on what to say, how much info should I give about myself? etc I... (62 words)

Will he EVER leave her for me...?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4448 days ago

25 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm starting to fall for someone I met though work but I'm not sure if I am being silly thinking he will leave his girlfriend for me. When we first started chatting as friends he told me he lives with his girlfriend and their young son but he only stays with her for the chil... (321 words)

How best can I find a partner that I can enjoy life with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4449 days ago

25 October 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I originally wrote http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-have-aspergers-and-im-bisexual-how-do.html Thank you for your advice. As for the positives, I'm good at computers and have a variety of interests - however, these tend to be very male-dominated or dominated by o... (434 words)

Do I keep hoping we will reconcile...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4449 days ago

25 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I split up with my boyfriend after a year together. He said we should just be friends and that he feels we rushed things as we both had marriage in our minds. He feels we have nothing in common and that we arent compatible. However, he says he does like me and is attracte... (175 words)

Attracted to another man who is married. Problem is I'm married too!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4448 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) age 41-50 - It has taken me guts to get my ideas in writing here as this is the first time I openly admit what I am feeling. I have recently struggled through a lot of issues with my husband. On the one hand, he is a good father, loyal, sensitive and devoted. On the other hand, he is ... (673 words)

Confusing Co-worker

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4449 days ago

25 October 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I need some advice. I have have this coworker that has been flirting for some time with me. He always winks and sometimes make sexual comments - not too strong. He had a girlfriend and he made it aware to me that they were broken up, stating that he was kind of treated bad. Aft... (218 words)

Torn by family loyalties...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4449 days ago

25 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I would like to get advice on something family and money related. I have a job working full time with a decent salary. My family has a small business which they are struggling with. They have asked me for money several times in the last 2 years. I want to help them because they ... (127 words)

I don't want to creep him out by telling him how I feel... what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4449 days ago

25 October 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 16 years old and passionately in love with someone who doesn't feel the same for me. He knows I like him but not that I love him. I can't seem to be able to tell him. I love him so much, physically and mentally. I cant imagine life without him. I love his personal... (257 words)

How do I heal the relationship? Do I love too deeply?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

25 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my bf for 21 months - nearly two years. We have a beautiful 1 year old son together. I have two kids at home with me so two toddlers. Last night though, out of nowhere he turned around and told me he fell out of love with me over the course of the last 15 m... (1086 words)

Do I choose to love the one I'm with? Or the exLDR who loves me but doesn't want an LDR again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4449 days ago

25 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. Any answers at all are so appreciated! I have been in an LDR for 2 years now. It's working fine. Before my current boyfriend I had a different LDR but with a guy who I had never met. I broke up with this guy before we got to meet up. I was young. Last we... (368 words)

Is my friend enabling her son? Should she talk to a professional?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4448 days ago

25 October 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I have a friend whose adult son is having a lot of issues. Basically he is living on the streets and has troubles with his family, etc. My friend is sending her son money to help him out. I think it sounds like she's enabling his bad behavior, so I asked if she's been talki... (106 words)

Should I Trust My Husband? Am I Wrong For FeelingThis Way?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4449 days ago

25 October 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have been married for almost 28 years. I have always trusted him because and have never suspected him cheating on me. Lately he has upset me because of some of the things he has done. One example occurred several years ago when several of his friends had ... (386 words)

How do I get my confidence back after all these years of harsh treatment from others?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4449 days ago

25 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Where to start...I'm 24-years-old, and have no friends. The reason is being I'm not confident enough in myself to talk to anyone other than basic small talk. My background: I was bullied very badly in high school. It started sophomore year (9 years ago). I was accused of som... (691 words)

It's beyond me. What kind of help does my wife need about her fetish? She seems to want to get sick. I'm at a loss. Does she need help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4449 days ago

25 October 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 31, my wife's 28, and recently she's developed a new fetish. She's become hooked on getting a stomach-ache having read webforums and sites about 'stomachache fetishes', and eats a lot of rich food in order to get it. She keeps going on at me about helping her get ... (312 words)

I'm at my wits end. Help! what should I do. The Laptop gets more attention than me in this relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4449 days ago

25 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everybody, well my problem is this.... For the last two years since ive been with my bf he has been constantly working on his laptop to make a computer game (not so much in the first few months) It's his dream to make it big and i support him in that. But he works fullt... (822 words)

Bad attirtude. Poor communication What should I do about him? Is he worth it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4449 days ago

25 October 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Heya, Actually the guy studies in my college...but different faculties... we found some mutual friends on fb... I knew little about him...he asked for my number... I gave him my numner because I thought we'll be friends ...he's really a nice guy ....has some attitude.... bu... (200 words)

I doubt myself. I never feel like I'm good enough What do I need to make things feel better for me?

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25 October 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I just recently got in to a relationship, at first I had a massive crush on him and he did too. We met at a party a few weeks ago. He was ever so sweet and adorable, but we didn't really "click" if that makes sense. At the end of the night we did end up getting each oth... (545 words)

Help! I'm scared. This girl in our group already took over one girl's Bf. Now what can I do? Because I think she's after my Bf.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4449 days ago

25 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello:) Thanks in advance for your time:) I'm in a relationship, which is going well, and we are both in the same friendship group. All his guy mates, and all my girl mates are all mates! haha, but there is one problem. One of my girl mates, who I love dearly has qu... (400 words)

He blocks me out. Yet I do everything for him and his children. Is it time to stop being so giving? or break up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4449 days ago

25 October 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I met him about 4 years ago. 2 years ago we finally got together after both being in love with each other for about a year. He is about 10 years older than me and has a few kids. At the start things were perfect. He was so in love with me and showed me and told me every d... (509 words)

Which woman understands me best? I feel more love for this second woman. What should I do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

25 October 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - i have a baby with someone and i stay with her, but the problem is i have beendating someone else, for more than a year now. The other woman and I love one another so so much. It is like my first relationship ever ,we talk ,we laugh and we understand one another so so much what... (88 words)

Would it seem desperate to visit a guy in another state that I have only met once?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4449 days ago

25 October 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - A few weeks ago, I took a weekend trip with some friends to a city a few hours away from where we live. They had a conference to attend so I mostly spent the weekend exploring the city on my own. The night before we returned home, I randomly ended up meeting a guy (whom ... (375 words)

Girls if a guy asks you out and you say no, then is it awkward for ever after between him and you?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4449 days ago

25 October 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have never dated very much. My one and only girlfriend, with her, things just happened as if I didn't have control. I said things I wouldn't normally have said, I was forward and thats why things worked out. I was assertive. Usually though, I am not good in asking ... (159 words)

I'm scared for my best friend. How can I stop her boy friend from pressuring her to have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4449 days ago

25 October 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - My best friend is being convinced by her boyfriend to have sex. I have cried every day trying to convince her the consequences. Her boyfriend says he knows what he is doing but he is only 13. I really need help to try to convince her boyfriend not to pressure her into it. Is ... (65 words)

Do I need to step back? Her new attitude worries me since she started getting counselling

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4449 days ago

25 October 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend and I have been together for a while now. She has never been in a healthy relationship until we got together. She has had to take counselling to help her deal with these past relationships. On top of all this she's dealing with the usual life has to offer: kids, ... (190 words)

Do I need professional help? I STILL can't get my ex brother-in-law out of my mind!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4450 days ago

25 October 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Can't get ex brother-in-law out of my mind! I'm going to try and make a long story short! I'm still attracted to and in love with my ex brother in law and I can't get him out of my mind! It's driving me crazy! We has sex one time, and use to spend a lot of time toget... (189 words)

Our first Kiss. What's the best time in a school setting to kiss her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4448 days ago

25 October 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi all. I've been dating my girlfriend for about two weeks now, we have told each other that if one or both of us is uncomfortable with the speed we are taking the relationship at, then we tell the other. So far, so good. We get along great, she's really sweet and I do my be... (229 words)

We want to settle down and have a baby. Getting our finances right to buy not rent is the aim. Have you achieved this goal successfully? How?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4449 days ago

25 October 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for just over 3 years and we really want to get our own place. We don't want to rent as we feel that we will be wasting money paying the rent each month and at the end of it we will have nothing of our own. We would much prefe... (334 words)

I'd really like to have a relationship with her -- how can I get her to notice me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4450 days ago

25 October 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I have liked this girl for around a year and she is amazing. She is smart pretty and Amazing at sports. We both go to the same school and are freshman. We also both do cross country and track, both of which she is amazing at. The only problem is i just dont know how ... (149 words)