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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have started seeing this girl and its been going on for about a month. When we're together its really nice but thats the problem. She never wants to see me. shes always too busy going to parties which i never get invited to. We arranged to meet up on Saturday and spend the evening together but now shes said shes going out with her mates. should i just walk away from this? i really like her but i just get disappointed all the time.I know she flirts with guys when shes out but I don't think she would do anything. I don't know what to do.
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reader, Tom Obler  +, writes (11 October 2012):
 Hi, You ask if you should "walk away from this." Well yes you should. You are not getting anything from this. She is clearly not interested because all this "busy" business is just an excuse to not see you. Do not waste another moment, just don't bother anymore and if she contacts you, just say you are busy as well. Don't be sad and don't let this spoil future relationships.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (11 October 2012):
 If she wanted to spend time with you she would spend time with you, it's that simple. If she has time to be partying (without you) she has time to be spending with you and she could bring you to the parties. Unfortunately it doesn't sound like she's that into you.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (11 October 2012):
 she never wants to see you?
she goes to parties that you are not invited to and does not ask if she can bring you?
I'd walk away. she's not that into you.
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reader, Xearo  +, writes (11 October 2012):
You should find someone else who will make time for you.
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reader, kenny +, writes (11 October 2012):
 The relationship that you are in is quite new, its only been a month. Sounds like she has got added pressure form her mates which is why she cancelled Saturday. Maybe she feels like she's stuck between a rock and a hard place, she's in demand with you wanting to go out, and in demand with her mates too. You can only talk to her about this, express how you feel, but do it in a way that you don't come across as needy and risk pushing her away. Why don't you book a table at a nice resturant, tell her the date and time. If she says's she's coming, then blows you off again then really i think you should start looking at if this girl is for you or not.
Good luck
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