A
female
age
41-50,
*etaAri
writes:WE are about a year together but last 3 month has changed everything with my boyfriend, before he was without job,last 4 month he start a new job but when that happened he became less active with me ,we talked everyday text every day, said to each other I love you and miss me, we live about long distance from each other but we were in contact every hour in the day, I don’t know what happened to him, before 2 month he told me that he isn’t ok with his health, don’t sleep well, his life became bored, nothing satisfied him, he works 12 hours a day, we see each other once or twice in a month, he became angry in the phone ,sometimes cries, I am so sad because I love him, I beg him to come to me , he don’t have time really to come, I am trying to have contact with him I don’t like to lose him but I see this became him so angry ,only when I text him he reply to me ,he don’t let me as he do before, he became less interest on me, last night he came to me we stayed in the car talking ,but he all the time was in tears ,his eyes were in tears I wept those he told me that his life became bored and isn’t your fault. ,I don’t speak to no one ,not to my family, I work just to forget my thought, I lost my feeling I said to him do you have another girlfriend , no he told me he mentioned his mother spirit dead that he don’t have, but I am not feeling ok, please understand me he told me, he all the time cry and talk, also And I too, what to do my dear friend he need to be alone ,I told him that I love you I know he told me , but my feeling are bad situation, I told him can I touch you, he told me yes, and when I touch him I ask him do you feel my hand he said no really, I kissed on his cheek only, I don’t know what to do to love me or miss me more, or turn back his feeling toward me, what happened to him, we were good before, he don’t call me just when I call him he respond ,or when I txt him he text me, when he went home he told me that we are going to see again each other I will come to you and speak to you again, he held me and kissed my hand ,and seeing with his eyes in tears, I never saw a man crying like that, I became worried so much for him, I feel alone despairing, sad , what to do please help me , I love him, he didn’t told me that he want to break up, please help me.
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reader, SensitiveBloke  +, writes (11 October 2012):
 It sounds like he's really depressed. He should try to get some counselling.
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