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writes:I have been friends with this girls for nearly 10 years and she's starting to act differently. She recently broke up with her boyfriend after he cheated on her. Ever since that happened she seems to be getting closer to me. She is always asking me for my help with her problems and talks to me every chance she can. I often catch her looking at me whilst we are working. When i sit next to her in lessons she takes any opportunity to sit closer and closer to me. Is there a chance she likes me now?
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reader, katiebear84  +, writes (11 October 2012):
 i would have to agree with the other answers..it seems like shes into you, thats great, but do you want to be a rebound? she does need to heal, if she tries or wants to be more, i would be honest with her, tell her how you feel, that she should take time to get over her ex, that you guys should just be friends for awhile..im going through something similar..my ex and i broke up 2 and a half months ago..ive been getting involved with new activities keeping busy with work, getting my mind off the break up..a guy friend of mine and i,who have been friends for over a year have gotten pretty close these past few weeks, we like each other but im honestly not ready to get involved with anyone..im still hurting from my past relationship..it was a serious one, im not ready to jump into a new one..rite now were just remaining friends, hes being there for me..when im ready i will try and see if we can be more then friends..anyways, i hope this has helped some..
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reader, kenny +, writes (11 October 2012):
 She could very well fancy you, but i would keep it as a friends thing for a while. Sounds like she has not long been split up from her boyfriend, and the last thing you want is to be her rebound. Hang out, be a friend to her, have fun and see what comes of it further down the line, some of the best relationships stem from friendships.
Good luck
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (11 October 2012):
 there's always a chance but if she recently broke up with the boyfriend she needs to heal... do you want to be her rebound guy?
you guys have been friends for most of your lives... she may think of you as a brother...
the only way to know for sure is to ask her.
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